Love and sex

Unread post by **The passage** » 29 Jan 2023, 03:37

My question is very short, but I would like to read detailed answers.
Does sex for love and without love differ for you in any way, and if so, what are they?

Unread post by **stserge60** » 29 Jan 2023, 03:45

And what is love? There is a desire, a passion, a need to satisfy the libido. Sex will be a pleasure in any case.
Love is different - it is friendship and care. Sex is not required there either.

Unread post by **The passage** » 29 Jan 2023, 03:46

stserge60: 29 Jan 2023, 03:45 A what is love? There is a desire, passion, need to satisfy the libido. Sex will be a pleasure in any case.
Love is different - it is friendship and care. There, sex is not required either.

So, it’s no different? Did I understand you correctly?

Unread post by **Alex366** » 29 Jan 2023, 03:54

It’s a thrill for love, but just to finish quickly)

Unread post by **Zoo.sax** » 29 Jan 2023, 03:55

It’s a very big difference, at least for me, when there are feelings, there is passion, there is great living, and when there are no feelings, it’s just pleasant sensations and a release of tension, for example, when my wife and I had MFM, I understood that with him she was just having sex without feelings, but with me she was having she has sex with feelings, who knows how to separate these moments, sex for health and sex when there is love and feelings, the easier it is to experiment in marriage

Unread post by **stserge60** » 29 Jan 2023, 03:56

Well maybe. The main thing is mutual desire. And without this, sex is just physical. exercise))

Unread post by **Hammer** » 29 Jan 2023, 03:57

I only have sex when I’m in love (infatuation)
Love is a personal topic. True love is selfless, not demanding anything in return. It may be unrequited. It’s just that you feel good when someone else feels good.
Marinka instead of a verification photo opened a typically female topic. We believe that she is a woman. It’s curious what she is like.

Unread post by **Alex366** » 29 Jan 2023, 04:01

She wants to be a porn star, even here)) Among various rabble and debauchery)) Something is connected with the psyche, this is no longer a pastime, but something more.

Unread post by **The passage** » 29 Jan 2023, 04:07

Aleks366: 29 Jan 2023, 04:01 She wants to be a porn star, even here)) Among various rabble and debauchery)) Something is connected with the psyche, this is no longer a pastime, but something more.

I want to make you an honest person, for your own good.

Unread post by **Sweden125** » 29 Jan 2023, 05:29

"love and death are good and evil, but we are given one to choose" (Vika Tsiganova)

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I want love, affection and tenderness and passion!

Unread post by **Solomon** » 29 Jan 2023, 05:51

Marinka: 29 Jan 2023, 03:37 My question is very short, but I would like to read detailed answers.
Does sex for love and without love make any differences for you and, if so, what are they?

A man is simpler in this matter, of course, but a woman is created from feelings, emotions, you pass almost everything that happens through yourself, so it is more difficult for you to simply have sex with someone. There are of course different people on each side. For example, I can live without love, but I need to talk with a girl for some time, understand who she is, what she is, what she does, what kind of life she leads, then maybe it will come to sex. I don’t get into a girl’s panties on the first or second meeting. Still, we still need to think about health.

And what is important to me is what a girl is like. If she is stupid, superficial, then, as they say, there is nothing to fuck with her about.

Unread post by **niqk** » 29 Jan 2023, 05:53

A very normal desire! How is your passion now?

Unread post by **Victor Peter** » 29 Jan 2023, 06:00

Marinka,
I have always been interested . Everyone says love is a carrot... What is this, explain? Since you ask, it means you know what love is. How is it different from passion, sympathy, habit in the end?!

Unread post by **Couple 33** » 29 Jan 2023, 06:11

Only with my husband for love, the rest is just a pleasant addition to our feelings)

Unread post by **Sweden125** » 29 Jan 2023, 06:22

ViktorPiter: 29 Jan 2023, 06:00 Marinka,
nI’ve always been interested. Everyone says love is a carrot... What is this, explain? Since you ask, it means you know what love is. How is it different from passion, sympathy, habit in the end?!

You will honestly love! You’ll understand

Unread post by **Victor Peter** » 29 Jan 2023, 06:23

svetik125: 29 Jan 2023, 06:22 Honestly you will love it! You’ll understand

Blah, blah, blah...

Unread post by **Sweden125** » 29 Jan 2023, 06:28

Well, for some it’s just blah, blah! That is, only a little hand can save

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Well, for some it’s just blah, blah! That is, only a little hand can save

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Well, for some it’s just blah, blah! That is, only a little hand saves

Unread post by **The passage** » 29 Jan 2023, 06:30

svetik125: 29 Jan 2023, 06:22
ViktorPiter: 29 Jan 2023, 06:00 Marinka,
I have always been interested. Everyone says love is a carrot... What is this, explain? Since you ask, it means you know what love is. How is it different from passion, sympathy, habit in the end?!
You will honestly love! You will understand

This topic in the subforum "Questions for men" is interesting in their views on different things. When I came here, they mostly wrote nonsense, but now it turns out that many of them are very serious. It’s very interesting to read their thoughts.

Unread post by **Sweden125** » 29 Jan 2023, 06:36

Marinka, yes, I agree! But there are few of them! Many are simply trying to humiliate you and trample you! They like that a girl loves sex and they take advantage of it, and then brag about it!

Unread post by **The passage** » 29 Jan 2023, 06:39

svetik125: 29 Jan 2023, 06:36 Marinka, yes I agree! But there are few of them! Many are simply trying to humiliate you and trample you! They like that a girl loves sex and they take advantage of it, and then brag!

There are some, but it turns out there are not many of them at all, and even of those few , a very decent part simply play the role of rude and ill-mannered, but in fact, most of them are sweet, tactful, caring and gentle.

Unread post by **Sweden125** » 29 Jan 2023, 06:48

Marinka, yes, I agree! But let’s say why expose yourself to Alpochino? Get to know each other, find out your wishes, priorities, dreams!
Otherwise, let’s go straight away and give me a blowjob in the car!
I don’t argue that there are girls like that, and they like it, for God’s sake! Why does everyone have to be like this? Yes, I also have quirks

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Today I’ll try my best with my husband, now I’ll get drunk

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Damn, I can’t go to work tomorrow((((

Unread post by **The passage** » 29 Jan 2023, 06:57

svetik125: 29 Jan 2023, 06:52 Marinka, yes I agree! But let’s say why expose yourself to Alpochino? Get to know each other, find out your wishes, priorities, dreams!
Otherwise, let’s go straight away and give me a blowjob in the car!
I don’t argue that there are girls like that, and they like it, for God’s sake! Why does everyone have to be like this? Yes, I also have quirks

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Today I’ll try my best with my husband, now I’ll get drunk

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Damn, you can’t go to work tomorrow((((

You shouldn’t drink before sex, if only a little.
Well, men are apparently so impatient by nature)

Unread post by **Dinozzz** » 29 Jan 2023, 07:01

Do you remember there were such chewing gums love is.., by the way, very interesting definitions of love are described there, for example: "love is - sometimes wondering what you would do without each other", "knowing that your heart is in good hands ".
In general, I’ll dilute the seriousness of your conversation a little)

Unread post by **Sweden125** » 29 Jan 2023, 07:03

Well, you can have a delicious dinner, a couple of glasses of good wine, music or Wilm, communication!

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Unread post by **niqk** » 29 Jan 2023, 09:04

Sex for love is real sex! Everything else is simply satisfying natural needs. Sometimes it’s
just jerking off the genitals with the genitals...

Unread post by **JackTheJack** » 29 Jan 2023, 12:58

Marinka: 29 Jan 2023, 03:37 My question is very short, but I would like to read detailed answers.
Does sex for love and without love make any differences for you and, if so, what are they?

Personally, for me, sex with and without love is like heaven and earth. For this reason, I didn’t approach anyone without love, although I think there were opportunities, and I only lost my virginity at the age of 20. For me, sex without love is something like jerking off, of course, it’s understandable, it will be more pleasant + perhaps passion, and then, in my opinion, without feelings, passion will not be the same, only from the very desire for sex, in general, it’s like that

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svetik125:29 Jan 2023, 06:52 Today I will try through force with my husband, now I’ll get drunk

Why through force?

Unread post by **archery** » 29 Jan 2023, 14:04

So it’s simple. Love is a spiritual connection between two people. Sex, accordingly, is a carnal relationship. Another thing is that in our age of complete materialism, everything immaterial is stigmatized in various perverted ways. And about the fact that people come in different personality orientations, it would probably be redundant to talk about here. Wrong place)

Unread post by **Ampland** » 02 Feb 2023, 02:42

As for me, you can love a person’s personality, but want the body.

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Unread post by **SeRg !$!** » 02 Feb 2023, 03:06

difference: There is no love without sex, but there is sex without love)

As for me personally, when feelings develop into love, you subconsciously begin to protect the person for fear of causing pain. Of course, now they will start saying that no, we fuck, we ram, we ram, and so on), but still, for me, sex develops into a more tender passion than banal fucking

Unread post by **Serge12345** » 02 Feb 2023, 07:01

Sex without love is physical exercise. And when you love a person, you try to make him feel good.

Unread post by **understand** » 08 Feb 2023, 03:58

Marinka, and who are you fucking with? or should there still be sympathy? I didn’t find my dick in a trash heap, for example, to poke it into every hole... for example, to fuck a woman in a crowd...

Unread post by **electronics** » 08 Feb 2023, 04:31

I don’t even know, I only have 1 partner, in fact. At the beginning, I probably didn’t even realize that I was having sex (I probably didn’t fully believe it), so somehow everything happened automatically. But now, the more and more often this happens to us, the more love, or I don’t know what to call this feeling, in general, with more desire and trepidation this happens to me. When the process itself, I have only positive emotions, thinking that this is my happiness. Again, I can’t say absolutely for sure. I just feel very good with her, not only physically, but also morally, spiritually, psychologically.

Unread post by **niqk** » 08 Feb 2023, 04:53

So this is true love! You don’t just feel good with your loved one. You simply cannot imagine
anyone else in his place!!! And foreign connections are felt by you as something uninteresting. There is no bright
light!!!

Unread post by **Let’s** » 09 Feb 2023, 11:12

Of course there is a difference between love and without. You always try to please, satisfy, make it as pleasant as possible, and satisfy all his desires. And you like to see what makes her happy. Sometimes it’s not even necessary to cum yourself, the main thing is that your beloved cums, and preferably more than once. And sex without love is more designed for your own satisfaction in the first place. Yes, you also try (and not always), but you don’t really think about how many times your partner came.. After all, this question can be attributed not only to sex, but simply to communication, to relationships with people for love and without? What does every lover try for his beloved? To please.. Not to notice wrongdoings, to forgive.. A banal example - breaking a favorite cup - for good luck.. A passing person broke a cup work colleague - why is he crooked or something? It’s good if they don’t call you a goat, etc.))) it’s the same in sex.. It’s the same in sex..

Unread post by **Leon king** » 09 Feb 2023, 13:44

Love and doves look

Unread post by **Mihaaa 4** » 10 Feb 2023, 00:37

Definitely better in love, more passion, emotions and stronger orgasms for both.

Unread post by **Fernando** » 27 Mar 2023, 09:02

I can answer for sure.
For love and without love there is a huge difference)
I know this from my own experience.
I used to sleep with girls - women, without obligations. Purely for once, they ran away - that was enough to kick off, to let off steam, so to speak. But the funny thing is that in this way I cared more about myself, the main thing was to satisfy myself and I didn’t care about my partner (although I brought them to orgasm). The realization that now I’m just going to hook up with someone and go about my business apparently somehow affects the process itself. At this moment you just feel that it’s pleasant for you, it’s pleasant for her, and then you just finished (or finished) and that’s all.
But when I met my future wife, the feelings became completely different.
I really liked her wanted but was in no hurry to drag her into bed. I dated her for 4 months and only then slept with her.
And then the difference was felt.
Firstly, those familiar feelings in sex became sharper and more pleasant
Secondly, the emotions themselves from consciousness the fact that it finally happened added advantages
Thirdly, I began to think more about how it would be pleasant first of all for her and not for me, and seeing how good she felt, it felt good for me too)
Now only I sleep with her
I have more than enough and have no desire to go to the left.

Unread post by **in the** » 27 Mar 2023, 10:06

Marinka: 29 Jan 2023, 03:37 Does sex for love and without love have any differences for you, and if so, what are they?

The fact is that love is also different! And sex is different in this very different kind of love, for example -
-love, there hasn’t been sex yet, you love and are in the process of finishing off your girlfriend, and when she agrees to have sex, this sex will be so special , tender and courteous
-love, sex is already in full swing, on every date, but the enthusiasm for the female body has not yet passed, passion is over the edge of emotions over the edge, but tenderness and courtesy, and there may no longer be caution
-love, you are married..
-love you are married, you have children..
... etc.

Unread post by **The passage** » 27 Mar 2023, 10:09

rynda: 27 Mar 2023, 10:06
Marinka: 29 Jan 2023, 03:37 Does sex for love and without love have any differences for you, and if so, what are they?
The fact is that love she is different too! And sex is different in this very different kind of love, for example -
-love, there hasn’t been sex yet, you love and are in the process of finishing off your girlfriend, and when she agrees to have sex, this sex will be so special , tender and courteous
-love, sex is already in full swing, on every date, but the enthusiasm for the female body has not yet passed, passion is over the edge of emotions over the edge, but tenderness and courtesy, and there may no longer be caution
-love, you are married..
-love you are married, you have children..
... etc.

So, the most pleasant sex is once, and the rest is out of habit, and the more habitual the habit, the less and less emotions there are?

Unread post by **niqk** » 27 Mar 2023, 10:16

Not certainly in that way. Although a habitual habit can greatly spoil the impressions of sex...

Unread post by **in the** » 27 Mar 2023, 10:17

Marinka: 27 Mar 2023, 10:09 So, the most pleasant sex is once, and the rest is out of habit, and the more habitual the habit, the less and less emotions there are?

I didn’t say , that this is the most pleasant, every sex has its own pleasure, for example, it is very pleasant to fuck your wife, with whom you have lived for a very long time, and at the same time do not try to please her at all and realize that she understands this and allows me to have such sex

Unread post by **Ulof** » 27 Mar 2023, 10:30

First you need to define the understanding of "love".
Sex for once without mutual sympathy is simply uninteresting and I have never had that. It could be, but what for?

Unread post by **in the** » 27 Mar 2023, 10:31

Ulof: 27 Mar 2023, 10:30 Sex for once without mutual sympathy is simply uninteresting and I haven’t had that. Could be, but what for?

size 3 boobs are already attractive

Unread post by **Slavaregy** » 27 Mar 2023, 10:45

Sex and love different concepts. That’s why people have sex and make love. Making love brings pleasure and psychological pleasure. Afterwards, there is still time to pamper yourself. Hug, kiss, caress. Talk about feelings, emotions and sensations. And sex is an act for orgasm. Most often, go straight to the shower and go home.

Unread post by **Mr.hamsterrr** » 27 Mar 2023, 10:49

Sex for love gets better with each repetition. And without love, it gets boring.

Unread post by **Andrey Lukashov** » 27 Mar 2023, 11:00

Ulof: 27 Mar 2023, 10:30 First you need to define the understanding of "love".
Sex for once without mutual sympathy is simply uninteresting and I have never had that. Could be, but what for

The key word here is "sympathy". Love is not that. When there is love, people create families and give birth to children. In order to engage in sexual intercourse, at least sympathy is required. Love is not required. Without love or sympathy, sex can still be either for money or as a result of strong abstinence, and even then not always

Unread post by **Ulof** » 28 Mar 2023, 07:38

rynda: 27 Mar 2023, 10:31 size 3 boobs already evoke sympathy

Except for women’s

But on boobs I don’t really care, to be honest. It’s like a nice bonus

Unread post by **Wolffr** » 28 Mar 2023, 08:24

Love and sex mean a lot to me, it’s pleasant for both,
but just sex, to devastate and reduce pressure.., it’s not serious.
that’s how the poet described what Love and Sex are, call poet Peter Davydov

Hot Sex and Tender Love
We met one day, bored.
And in the evening into a divine ball
nThey intertwined freely and accidentally.

Ah, this Sex, he was a little rough,
Impatient and a little depraved.
He touched the secret lips with his tongue,
When Lyubov sat down on the bed.

She started dancing in the night.
First in amazing outfits,
Then she twirled almost naked,
Barely touching, flying nearby.

Sex wanted tenderness, love.
Love wanted sex and orgasm.
Before this, their desires
They never happened to be fulfilled even once.

And, suddenly finding myself alone
Love is easy, without any embarrassment
Spread out, lying on my back,
nThen she openly knelt down.

And Sex loved her so carefully,
So loudly, deeply, tirelessly...
Light underwear fell to the floor,
The fire of the candle rocked the space of the world.

And you and I were under the windows, then
Caught sounds, reflections, shadows.
The fabric of your dress was thin ,
I stroked your hands and knees.

Then they called us to their place
And there were unusual sensations -
Bathing together in lunar silver
And they blew out the candles out of embarrassment...

... Only the two of us woke up in the house
Love and Sex disappeared completely in the morning.
Since then We wait for them to visit every day...
And every day they come to visit!

Unread post by **in Peru** » 28 Mar 2023, 08:53

In love, of course, he is much nicer. The sensations are more vivid when you have feelings for your partner than just getting laid

Unread post by **Wolffr** » 23 Jul 2023, 09:40

I already had a case in Germany, it was only upon arrival, while the language courses were not working, I actually wanted to, I didn’t really know the language and I went to the pouf with the girls... I spent a long time choosing, and only settled down with one and sailed, I didn’t have sex for 4 months, I pumped a couple of times and came, but give me 50 marks, there were still marks back then. and after that I never went to a pouf again))
Puff in Russian is a brothel...