I liked a very shy guy 🥹

[Izumi]

girls, what would you do if you were me? I like the guy, we communicate as friends, but he is very shy, he has never had a girlfriend.

It would be interesting to read if you had such a situation. what were your actions, taking into account that you are madly attracted to the guy. What would you do if you were in my place?

the most important problem is that suddenly it will not be mutual, then even simple communication will no longer exist.
and I want him to take the initiative himself, never take the first step.

[Serg_A]

Serg_A,
n
hahaha you are tough

There is no need to stand on ceremony with such people. The girl asks for help, good advice, and then this would-be psychologist appears and starts being clever. There are a lot of pretty creepy topics here, about incest for example, but I didn’t see it there.

[|_rarely_|]

There are a lot of pretty creepy topics here, about incest for example, but I didn’t see him there.

because he is a psychologist. And those topics are already from the field of psychiatry)

[puma]

All the best stories happened to me when I took the first step! I myself was a little shy for a long time and had to gain determination, but it was worth it.

Call for a walk, casually touch - and everything will be clear, even the most modest person will give a response signal if he likes you.

Well, you always need to keep There is an option in my head that a person may not be interested. Don’t build unnecessary expectations. Refusal hurts, but it saves you time: you will survive this situation and move on.

[Serg_A]

Izumi, it seems to me that it would be an ideal option, if you invited him to visit and fed him something so that he knew what you had prepared for him, you could even cook it in front of his eyes. This will greatly impress the guy when he knows that the girl did something just for him, there is no need for something complicated, something simple, some soup.
And the best thing is if you leave him overnight ( if possible). For example, under the pretext that you are alone in the house, you are scared. My future wife did just that, and also put me in the same bed with her. But then she told me not to pester her, but I was also her friend, and I took it seriously (especially since I was very tired, and it’s early to get up in the morning for college), and slept peacefully all night. My wife now remembers all her life how she didn’t sleep a wink all night because she wanted me so much, and I was calmly sleeping next to her . Only on the second day I realized that I had to act, well, on the second night, I gave her everything she wanted.
And also, with a shy guy, you can easily take the initiative in sex, guide him, he will do whatever you want)))

[Cake747]

talking about the friend zone.
at the beginning of the conversation, when the topic of relationships was raised, I always fumed about it, that I didn’t want to, I couldn’t forget my ex, I complained about how hard it was for me (not much time had passed since the breakup). he always supported, distracted, was there in general. I also often said that I was lucky to have such a friend. Then I had no feelings at all and I really treated him exclusively as a friend. Perhaps this also somehow influenced the situation between us now? I can’t understand everything with a cool head, haha, don’t hit me)

I think that these actions led to the fact that you are friends and he does not talk about relationships, perhaps he has even resigned himself and cooled down, although on the other hand he may be waiting for action on your part

[Epidemic]

It may begin to meet more often, glances, touches, etc.
In any case, you need to take the initiative into your own hands.

[Mud hammer]

Here we are talking about me. I’m very shy, especially because I can’t see well. But sometimes it’s possible to get acquainted, I study at university, there are girls like that, also shy. But then I noticed people like me. you often keep people in the friend zone. Moreover, first you even take the first step yourself, and then. There was even a girl, we had already had sex, and then she suddenly began to keep me at a great distance. but it’s not like she quit completely. I’m just busy or my phone is locked. They tell me exactly like Izumi that then there is no simple communication will. That is, they want to be friends, but they are afraid that later the friendship will disappear and there will be no sex. Something like that.

[Serg_A]

Well, you always need to keep in mind the possibility that a person may not be interested. Don’t build unnecessary expectations. Refusal hurts, but it saves your time: you will survive this situation and move on

How can a guy with a young girl not be interested?

[Serg_A]

Here we are talking about me. I’m very shy, especially because I can’t see well

Isn’t it an option to buy contact lenses?

[Mud hammer]

Isn’t it an option to buy contact lenses?

It’s not possible. Doctors say there are problems with the cornea. And it still wasn’t much better with them.

[Serg_A]

Here we are talking about me. I’m very shy, especially because I can’t see well. But sometimes it’s possible to get acquainted, I study at university, there are girls like that, also shy. But then I noticed people like me. you often keep people in the friend zone. Moreover, first you even take the first step yourself, and then. There was even a girl, we had already had sex, and then she suddenly began to keep me at a great distance. but it’s not like she quit completely. I’m just busy or my phone is locked. They tell me exactly like Izumi that then there is no simple communication will. That is, they want to be friends, but they are afraid that later the friendship will disappear and there will be no sex. Something like this.

If you are good at subjects, then there is an option to study them so that you know them better than the teacher, and the girls themselves will be drawn to you for help, well, you can take advantage of this situation.

[puma]

How is it that a guy with a young girl may not be interested

for example, if she is not his type.

[Izumi]

|_retko_|, vhvhvhahha

Sent after 5 minutes 8 seconds:
puma, can a person not be interested in me if we can sit and talk for hours We write to each other every day about everything. Well, I’m really sure that he’s interested and comfortable, I even like just being silent with him

[Bully Carrie]

I study at university, there are girls like that, also shy. But then I noticed people like me. you often keep in the friend zone.

You should have gone to pedagogical school: all the girls would have been yours

[Izumi]

Serg_A, oh, this is so cute 🥹 🥹🥹 modest guys are the best hahaha

[The passage]

I study at university, there are girls like that, also shy. But then I noticed people like me. you often keep in the friend zone.

You should have gone to pedagogical school: all the girls would have been yours

For philologists, there are no men there, literally at all. As if it were in raspberries)))

[Izumi]

Marinka,

Don’t tell me, I studied foreign languages ​​myself. There’s a shortage of guys. so our teachers were more loyal to them, sometimes they inflated the scores, our boys really pissed me off)

[Bully Carrie]

philologist, there are no men there,

Hahah, about the philology department this is for me)) We had two or three guys even at the philology department! My friend immediately married one, I slept with the other one myself)) The third one came a little later, my other friend hooked up with him. Everyone is sorted out instantly, yeah!

[Bully Carrie]

our teachers were more loyal

This was definitely not the case with us. Although the one who was with me liked to tease me: they say, the head of the department calls him to the department for absenteeism and arranges a femdom))

[The passage]

philologist, there are no men there,

Hahah, about the philology department this is for me)) We had two or three guys are even in the philology department! My friend immediately married one, I slept with the other one myself)) The third one came a little later, my other friend hooked up with him. Everyone is sorted out instantly, yeah!

We had the same thing in the medical department. Very few guys studied. True, at that time I was already married and still married, and they did not interest me in terms of relationships, although of course there was sex

[|_rarely_|]

Like it would be in Raspberry)))

and perhaps in Marina))

[The passage]

Like it would be in raspberries)))

possibly in Marin) )

))) Ahah, if you’re talking about me, then I’m not a philologist. For me it’s too complicated and not interesting. But I think that if a man is a philologist, then he can be the most modest on this planet; in any case, he will not be deprived of women’s attention))) There are too few of them)))

[Touch-a-Love]

vvm, This only once again proves the classic is right and his excellent knowledge of relationships between people. He was 23 or 24 years old at the time, a genius... Thank you. I love Pushkin.

[government38]

men, as the classics said, are divided into several types: knights, romantic poets, robbers, thieves, ladies’ men..
in general, it would be enough to go to the shopping center with him for clothes and ask him to go to the fitting room to evaluate a new dress, change clothes at him, well, then his reaction will become clear, or he will ask him to try on trousers and accidentally, when he is in shorts, his ass will touch his groin, if he shows activity, then our man

[Touch-a-Love]

If you are good at subjects, then there is an option to learn them so that you know them better than the teacher, and the girls themselves will reach out to you for help

nPlease advise now... This is the surest way to stay in the friend zone forever, and for all girls at once. In this way, you can become the smartest and most popular boy on the stream, who is treated to apples and cookies, and like a cat is stroked on the head for reliability, but you can forget about sex.

[etc]

vvm, This only once again proves the classic’s correctness and his excellent knowledge of relationships between people. He was 23 or 24 years old at the time, a genius... Thank you. I love Pushkin.

Yes, I started writing at 24)). Women inspire us to create))

I remember a wonderful moment:
You appeared before me,
Like a fleeting vision,
Like a pure genius beauty...

On the same day when this poem was composed, Alexander Sergeevich, in a letter to Prince Vyazemsky, boasted: “Yesterday Annushka Kern came to see me, and with God’s help I fucked her "

[Serg_A]

If you are good at subjects, then there is an option to learn them so that you know them better than the teacher, and the girls themselves will reach out to you for help

Please advise now... This is the surest way to stay in the friend zone forever, and for all girls at once. In this way, you can become the smartest and most popular boy on the stream, who is treated to apples and cookies, and like a cat is stroked on the head for reliability, but you can forget about sex.

Yes, of course you can stay in the friend zone. He needs to learn to know his own worth. And if anyone needs help, then simply make a sly face and ask: “What will happen to me for this?”

[Izumi]

A whole plan, a strategy of exhaustion)).

hahahaha you can read the answers here at least to cheer yourself up

[etc]

hahahaha you can read the answers here at least to cheer yourself up

Was there a boy?))

[Izumi]

vvm,

yes, I was in a relationship. but they sucked 🫠

[etc]

vvm,
n
yes, I was in a relationship. but they sucked 🫠

not mature enough for a relationship or the character is not ice?)

[niqk]

Izumi, no big deal! What kind of relationship was this?

[Izumi]

vvm, niqk,

yes, he raised his hand against me, offended, etc. so yes, first experience[/url] the relationship was very unsuccessful... I left for a long time and didn’t want to meet anyone else after that.

[niqk]

vvm, niqk,

yes he hand picked on me, insulted me, etc. so yes, first experience the relationship was very unsuccessful... I moved away for a long time and didn’t want to meet anyone else after that.

And you put up with him for a long time ? And why?

[Izumi]

niqk, of course not) sent immediately : wink:

[niqk]

niqk, net final) sent

Well done!!!

[etc]

vvm, niqk,

yes he hand picked on me, insulted me, etc. so yes, first experiencethe relationship was very unsuccessful... I moved away for a long time and didn’t want to meet anyone else after that.

This, of course, is too much.. Was he your age? Now, with hindsight, do you remember any signs of such inclinations that you initially did not pay attention to due to lack of experience?

[Izumi]

vvm, a little older than me) but in the beginning everything is perfect there was nothing to complain about, he blew away specks of dust from me. I had trust problems after this watermelon

[etc]

vvm, a little older than me) yes at the beginning everything was perfect, there was nothing to complain about, it blew away specks of dust from me. After this watermelon, I had problems with trust.

Yes, it’s not easy to figure it out right away. You need to talk on various topics, observe, listen, be interested in his views, his past, family.
It is necessary to determine his value system, character, responsibility, consistency. The job is secret)))
I met my wife in Ace, we corresponded for two months, called back, fell in love without seeing.
When we met, I knew her like myself)).

[Izumi]

vvm, you know, some guys are really good at encryption )

glad for you and your wife

[etc]

vvm, you know, some guys and they really are skillfully encrypted)

Well...)) What qualities do you like in a man? At a minimum.

[Izumi]

vvm so that the dick stands and there is money. purely to the minimum hahaha

[etc]

vvm so that the dick stands and the money were. purely at the minimum xhahaha

So..) Does the guy you like have money?)

[alex503311]

What is there to suffer there. She’s sitting at the computer that she asked you to find, or you’re looking for something together, you sat next to him, your hand on your shoulder, you didn’t throw it back, so you don’t mind, or you sit and watch a movie and hug him and watch it too.
I went home, or for example, he fixed your laptop, you go home, say thank you and kiss him on the lungs, on the lips.
If the kiss is early, then hug him first, if he says don’t touch me, then you will apologize, like I thought you were my friend and decided to hug.
And other options are possible.

[Touch-a-Love]

Yes, of course you can stay in the friend zone. He needs to learn to know his own worth. And if anyone needs help, then simply make a sly face and ask: “What will happen to me for this?”

Promising does not mean marry give.

[Slogger]

So what’s going on with the guy, I still don’t understand you had sex