Wrote by an ex asking for a meeting - what are your actions?

[Watchman]

I met and even slept with exes. I have no principles, I am unprincipled in this and in many other matters.

Yes, you are generally unprincipled, like a folding bed, only you have time to fold out.

[yah]

It’s so good that I don’t have an ex! No one will call, write, or spoil...

You don’t have an ex, but what if your ex calls?

[Watchman]

There are only future ones

[Hair shirt]

I have only one ex who can write to me, if he writes, then I will send him on an erotic journey.

We all already realized that you are still that little thing!
I never liked nervous girls. They are constantly irritated by something, they don’t like everything, everything is wrong, everything is wrong. You sit wrong, you whistle wrong.
And in general, then comes the understanding that this is a normal, comfortable state for them. It seems to everyone that these girls are nervous, but in fact they feel good right now and this is a completely comfortable state for them.

I have often noticed such behavior among our Caucasians. They are constantly irritated by something and constantly demonstrate some kind of dissatisfaction. I even once asked a Caucasian friend about this and he laughed and shared. He said that it was just very convenient. You show discontent and people are afraid of you. That is, they see that you are kind of angry and dissatisfied with something and are afraid to touch you again because they are afraid of a conflict for which they are not ready right now for one reason or another.

And so it turns out that in a normal situation, you would have been rude or rude, or if you were an employee, maybe they would have forced you to do something better or more responsibly. But people see an evil person and are afraid to touch him again.
So there are women and girls who behave exactly the same.
They demonstrate constant dissatisfaction on their face and as a result they are bullied less or in general then they offend you in some way.

Well, this is kind of a defensive reaction. These are like very bright poisonous frogs. They are specially so bright so that everyone can see that it is better not to touch this bright thing, otherwise there will be problems later.
And everything would be fine. But this eventually becomes a problem for the girls themselves. They get used to this state of theirs and begin to behave everywhere exactly according to this model.

That is, everything seems fine, everything is just OK, let’s say you’re on vacation with her - the sea, the beach, snacks. But she doesn’t like anything - the sea is too cold or too hot, or too muddy. Either the sand is hot or dirty. Either there are pieces of paper lying around everywhere, or there are a lot of people. Or everyone around is talking too loudly, and there are simply an endless number of such dissatisfaction. And she is unhappy with everything. Whatever you take, everything is crap and everything is wrong!

And that’s why when I see such a girl or woman, I have only one desire - to try not to touch her and not have anything to do with her.
Recently, it has become fashionable to call such people toxic. This may even be a very accurate description. But for some reason I don’t like it.
I still think that if such a girl or woman comes across some normal guy with whom she really falls in love, then it seems to me that all this crap in her will go away over time. But I feel a little sorry for the guy in advance because he will have to somehow fight this and somehow dig all this crap out of her and in the end convince her that everything is fine. That everything around is just awesome. That you need to enjoy life and not look for reasons to constantly whine. That there is simply no need for this because, in principle, there is no reason for this and that in fact everything is fine.

[Watchman]

I have only one ex who can write to me, if he writes, then I will send him on an erotic journey.

We all already realized that you are still that little thing!
I never liked nervous girls. They are constantly irritated by something, they don’t like everything, everything is wrong, everything is wrong. You sit wrong, you whistle wrong.
And in general, then comes the understanding that this is a normal, comfortable state for them. It seems to everyone that these girls are nervous, but in fact they feel good right now and this is a completely comfortable state for them.

I have often noticed such behavior among our Caucasians. They are constantly irritated by something and constantly demonstrate some kind of dissatisfaction. I even once asked a Caucasian friend about this and he laughed and shared. He said that it was just very convenient. You show discontent and people are afraid of you. That is, they see that you are kind of angry and dissatisfied with something and are afraid to touch you again because they are afraid of a conflict for which they are not ready right now for one reason or another.

And so it turns out that in a normal situation, you would have been rude or rude, or if you were an employee, maybe they would have forced you to do something better or more responsibly. But people see an evil person and are afraid to touch him again.
So there are women and girls who behave exactly the same.
They demonstrate constant dissatisfaction on their face and as a result they are bullied less or in general then they offend you in some way.

Well, this is kind of a defensive reaction. These are like very bright poisonous frogs. They are specially so bright so that everyone can see that it is better not to touch this bright thing, otherwise there will be problems later.
And everything would be fine. But this eventually becomes a problem for the girls themselves. They get used to this state of theirs and begin to behave everywhere exactly according to this model.

That is, everything seems fine, everything is just OK, let’s say you’re on vacation with her - the sea, the beach, snacks. But she doesn’t like anything - the sea is too cold or too hot, or too muddy. Either the sand is hot or dirty. Either there are pieces of paper lying around everywhere, or there are a lot of people. Or everyone around is talking too loudly, and there are simply an endless number of such dissatisfaction. And she is unhappy with everything. Whatever you take, everything is crap and everything is wrong!

And that’s why when I see such a girl or woman, I have only one desire - to try not to touch her and not have anything to do with her.
Recently, it has become fashionable to call such people toxic. This may even be a very accurate description. But for some reason I don’t like it.
I still think that if such a girl or woman comes across some normal guy with whom she really falls in love, then it seems to me that all this crap in her will go away over time. But I feel a little sorry for the guy in advance because he will have to somehow fight this and somehow dig all this crap out of her and in the end convince her that everything is fine. That everything around is just awesome. That you need to enjoy life and not look for reasons to constantly whine. That there is simply no need for this because, in principle, there is no reason for this and that in fact everything is fine.

there may very well be a thought about girls for whom everything is not so good

[stsgrdv]

We met with all our exes sometimes, sometimes we slept, it was normal

[Christmas_Christmas]

If we talk about relationships, more precisely about their renewal... And it doesn’t even depend on who was to blame for the breakup, me or the guy\girl with whom\I had a relationship, then start "dating" again I will never be. And it doesn’t matter that I’m married now. Even before marriage, I never started a relationship again. But if my\my ex needs help, I will always meet and help in any way I can. Sometimes even a simple word of support can, if not save, then change the situation for the better... And sometimes it can even save)))

[Hair shirt]

We met with all our exes sometimes, sometimes we slept, it’s normal

Yes, as practice shows, it’s a common thing - to meet briefly and have sex for old times’ sake.
By the way, a note for young people.
If you have met some girl or woman who just recently broke up with her boyfriend or husband, then be prepared for the fact that she can fuck both you and her ex at the same time. And this doesn’t mean anything. And for her brain it’s not even cheating.

Well, what the hell can cheating be for a woman who has been fucking someone regularly for the last two years! For her, it’s more like betrayal that she’s fucking a new boyfriend right now.
It is clear that for a man or a young man it is betrayal on her part if she continues to fuck with her ex. But for the woman herself, this is not the case.

In her brain, in fact, the situation is as follows - with a new man, nothing is clear yet, and it’s unusual.
As for the ex, then Everything is complicated here - the relationship has reached a dead end, yes. But let’s say everything is fine with sex. Everything is familiar, I like everything.
I read somewhere, also on some forum, - one woman shared her thoughts on this matter. That when I was married I didn’t really value my husband in terms of sex. Well, in her opinion, he didn’t live up to the usual normal norm in sex.
And then she got divorced and some men began to appear on the horizon. Well, and sex with them, of course.

So she complained that it turns out her husband was just great! He always had a erection in any situation and at any time! And he had no problem with it at all. And then she tried this woman with some other men, but one didn’t get it. The other one came immediately. The third one needs time and environment to become aroused. The fourth has something else.

And against all this background, sex with an ex is usually guaranteed to be a foursome. And then there’s this woman after she left her ex and accordingly left her comfort zone. Now there is no one to blame for everything. There is also no one to yell at or lash out at if you are in a bad mood. There are always some problems with sex. And in general, it is very difficult for a person who is used to living together to suddenly find himself alone and solve all problems alone.

And of course, for a woman to cross paths with her ex somewhere, but in a new capacity, it’s like temporarily return to childhood. Or at least to the place where you spent it.
Therefore, guys, be reasonable and close your eyes if you suspect that the girl or woman you just met is fucking someone else besides you. Most likely it’s her ex.
Don’t scold her for this. It’s just hard for her right now.
Forgive her this sin!


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But if my\my ex needs help

I never liked lesbians. They’re kind of masculine as a rule. And in addition, with male brains. As a rule, they are preventively aggressive, practically men. But ordinary men, unlike them, are self-sufficient. They don’t need to prove to anyone that they are men, but lesbians constantly prove something to someone. And it stresses everyone around.

[niqk]

You don’t have an ex, what if your ex calls?

I’ll disappoint you, but neither my ex nor my ex, there is no other former face in my life...

[Christmas_Christmas]

I won’t argue with you, especially since I haven’t come across “pure” lesbians. Neither Butch(s) nor Fem(s). I am a Bishka and I had a relationship with Bishkas. And fem(s), for example, never prove anything to anyone. Maybe you just had experience communicating with Butch(s) and that’s why you think so...
If I allowed myself too much, I ask for forgiveness. Nothing personal. Just thinking out loud

[Hair shirt]

If I allowed myself too much, I ask for your forgiveness. Nothing personal. Just thinking out loud

What are you talking about! You have never offended anyone. And especially me. I rather allowed myself to speak out of the agenda, so to speak. After all, right now it’s accepted everywhere that it’s unconventional to kiss the ass.

[niqk]

After all, right now it’s accepted everywhere that it’s unconventional to kiss the ass.

And you kiss too?

[Beluga]

It all depends on whether I’m free or the cash register is already busy
if I’m free, then we can talk, and if I’m busy, then don’t understand

[Andrey Lukashov]

He and his first wife lived together for less than two years. 24 years have passed since then. I’m married for the second time. He and his second wife have been together for 23 years.
Maybe someone won’t believe it, but I still communicate and meet with my first wife. The relationship is better than it was when she and I were husband and wife.