My husband's erection is subsiding, I need advice

[Sunsh1ne]

Hello.
During sex with my husband, his erection declines (the penis becomes a little soft) and this can happen several times during sex. This causes me anxiety, when I ask, he answers in different ways, sometimes he’s tired, sometimes I don’t know, sometimes he was afraid to make noise, sometimes one testicle hurts...
We have been married for 15 years, we married for love and there is always sex and it has always been of high quality and often. With the exception of two pregnancies, those who have children will understand.
But about a year ago this problem appeared and I cannot understand what is happening. I start to imagine that my husband has stopped loving me, that he doesn’t want me anymore, or that he loves me but doesn’t want sex with me, or that he has problems with potency, but he won’t admit it (he doesn’t want to go to the doctor). As far as I know, there is no mistress. We have sex regularly 1-2 times a week. He is 42, I am 36. Tell me, what could it be? Why does this happen to a man?

[Mitry]

Now you/I will conclude that my husband doesn’t love me at all?

Don’t even dare think about that! It is very difficult for men to admit their failure in something. I think he also suffers from the fact that he cannot please the woman he loves. But on the other hand, what kind of guy is this if he can’t, I apologize, “fuck a woman,” who needs to be taught this like a little child? The ego suffers, it’s easier to think that it’s the wife’s problem.

[Sunsh1ne]

Few people are capable of a meaningful conversation during sex

Yes, in a fit of passion I say something... exciting. But don’t dictate instructions for use where and how to touch))

I had thoughts that he couldn’t, and maybe he didn’t want to, but I had nothing to show him, since I have I have no experience myself. We need an experienced man who apparently knows a lot about this matter. That’s why I wanted a threesome.

You are talking nonsense, initially they said one thing, now they say something else

Explain, oh what are you?

[Alexssss]

We have tried a lot of things over the past 15 years. Except for anal sex, I admit. Well, this doesn’t excite me at all and I’m afraid of the consequences (cracks, etc.).

But he doesn’t like toys

Can you tell me what toys men like?

I don’t have much experience, because my husband is my first man and I didn’t have anyone else. I offered him a threesome so that there would be another man. I also touched it

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I bought a vibrator myself, but he didn’t appreciate it. I understood, why else have a penis if I have his dick... but he didn’t say it directly
I bought it because I can’t cum with my husband, we just can’t. They did. But apparently this is my physiology. I love sex and really like it, but I don’t reach the peak easily with a vibrator and even with my hand when I’m very excited. another man, but I don’t want to cheat...

maybe talk to him frankly, if there is no sex, it’s no longer love -(

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And anal is just a variation, mine is also against it, enough other pleasures

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I had thoughts that he couldn’t, and maybe he didn’t want to, but I had nothing to show him, since I myself had no experience.

Do you feel his excitement, passion directed towards you? My wife claims that this is the first thing that gets her aroused.

[career]

Why does this happen to a man?

You don’t suck him enough!

[Mitry]

We need an experienced man who apparently knows a lot about this matter. That’s why I wanted a threesome.

You just need an experienced person, you can’t imagine what a seasoned lesbian can do to you if, of course, you allow sexual contact with women.
From swinger experience, I can say that finding a man for MFM is still a task, without experience it is not easy

[Sunsh1ne]

It is very difficult for men to admit their failure in something. I think he also suffers from the fact that he cannot please the woman he loves. But on the other hand, what kind of guy is this if he can’t, I apologize, “fuck a woman,” who needs to be taught this like a little child? The ego suffers, it’s easier to think that it’s the wife who has problems.

I think that he thinks that it’s me who has problems.
He didn’t say that he was suffering. He just said that he didn’t understand why, that he seemed to be trying. He asks whether I like it when he does this or that. I like everything, his touch and his fingers wherever they are.

Frankly, I don’t want to talk about this all the time.
But it upsets me that he didn’t want to bring a vibrator and call a third one. I don’t know what else to think of. Therefore, there will be no anal sex either, you need to set a condition, maybe he will agree)) what do you think? After threesome, there will be anal

[etc]

Sunsh1ne, you have two looming problems: weakening of your husband’s potency and your characteristics of getting pleasure from sex, plus your desires, which are not strongly shared by your husband.
Without his participation, it is difficult for you to solve them.

[Lost]

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nAnd it all started so seriously

[Sunsh1ne]

Do you feel his excitement, passion directed towards you? My wife claims that she gets excited first of all from this.

Of course, he gets goosebumps when he touches me and his penis is no longer erect, not always so passionately, but very often. I haven’t touched him yet, but he’s turned on and it really excites me.

You don’t suck him enough!

I suck him when I start to pester him first. But I don’t really like it, in the sense that he immediately gets very excited and then quickly cums. And I want it longer) sucking also excites me, but when he’s inside me it’s much cooler

It looks like the author is trolling everyone

More specific please, I really sincerely try to explain and answer the questions that are asked to me.

[etc]

Frankly, I don’t want to talk about this all the time.
But it upsets me that he didn’t want to bring a vibrator and call a third one. I don’t know what else to think of. Therefore, there will be no anal sex either, you need to set a condition, maybe he will agree)) what do you think?

No, it’s not necessary. Few people can share a wife.

[Mitry]

Frankly, I don’t want to talk about this all the time.
But it upsets me that he didn’t want to bring a vibrator and call a third one. I don’t know what else to think of. Therefore, there will be no anal sex either, you need to set a condition, maybe he will agree)) what do you think? After a threesome, there will be anal

as I understand it, he inclines you towards anal? You are harboring a bad idea, adding a third is another test for the family, and if everything works out with him, how will your husband feel? If it doesn’t work out, then it’s all in vain?

Why didn’t he want to play with you with a vibrator, you know better, it’s usually very exciting when your actions lead a woman to orgasm. Here you need to understand your husband’s attitude to the situation and his readiness to solve it.

[career]

he immediately gets very excited and then quickly cums

so learn to get excited as quickly as he does!

[Sunsh1ne]

As I understand it, he is inclining you towards anal? You are harboring a bad idea, adding a third is another test for the family, and if everything works out with him, how will your husband feel? If it doesn’t work out, then it’s all in vain?

He wanted to try, he says that he didn’t have such experience. I even bought a couple of toys, but it was unpleasant and I left it. Let there be something in me that is still unattainable for him. Someday this will happen too.
You are right, if I succeed with someone else, whatever it will be for him. And if I don’t like it, then there will also be another disappointment.
But he began to joke, in order to defuse the situation (and maybe this is not a joke) that he would agree to a trio if the third was a girl. Then jealousy woke up in me)

so learn to get excited as quickly as he does!

You can learn this ? It seemed to me that we are all different, apparently I need more time

[Mitry]

He wanted to try, he says that he did not have such experience. I even bought a couple of toys, but it was unpleasant and I left it. Let there be something in me that is still unattainable for him. Someday this will be

Sometimes a dream should remain a dream, not everyone practices this.

But he started joking to defuse the situation (or maybe it was and it’s no joke) that he will agree to a trio if the third is a girl. Then jealousy woke up in me)

in every joke there is only a fraction of a joke! In fact, the format of ZHM is more complex than MZHM. A man needs to satisfy two women already! But yours can’t handle even one, it will be an enchanting fiasco! You can, of course, find, as I wrote, a seasoned lesbian who will show her husband what to do with you, but will not give him And mutual jealousy, if you’re going to get into swing, then do it gently, without exchanging partners at first.

Can this be learned? It seemed to me that we are all different, apparently I need more time

if you really want to, you can fly into space. You can change the mechanisms of arousal, look at sadomaso, for example, how people enter the topic and develop in it In your case, it is better not to try . You are normal, your husband is incompetent. We need to teach and everything will be fine

[clng2]

I think the best thing would be to calmly talk and explain (once again) that you love him very much and want an orgasm from him. But for this you need to relax, on the one hand, and enjoy time with each other, and on the other, try something new. You may like to caress the front wall with your fingers from the inside; This is how my wife and I came to squirt. Believe me, when this happens, the woman’s orgasm is bright and obvious, and the man sees how good his woman is.
Unfortunately, at 40, a lot of things can change for a man, and lifestyle and stress don’t help. In general, a man needs to achieve something, and when this happens, the emotions from this go to his wife in the most pleasant way) So career successes also help here.

[career]

Can this be learned? It seemed to me that we are all different, apparently I need more time

Do you want to learn how to get excited quickly?

[Alexssss]

I think that the best thing would be to talk calmly and explain (once again) that you love him very much and want an orgasm from him. But for this you need to relax, on the one hand, and enjoy time with each other, and on the other, try something new. You may like to caress the front wall with your fingers from the inside; This is how my wife and I came to squirt. Believe me, when this happens, the woman’s orgasm is bright and obvious, and the man sees how good his woman is. Unfortunately, at 40, a lot of things can change for a man, and lifestyle and stress don’t help. In general, a man needs to achieve something, and when this happens, the wife gets the most pleasant emotions from this) So career success also helps here.

I think that the best thing would be to talk calmly and explain (once again) that you love him very much and want an orgasm from him. But for this you need to relax, on the one hand, and enjoy time with each other, and on the other, try something new. You may like to caress the front wall with your fingers from the inside; This is how my wife and I came to squirt. Believe me, when this happens, the woman’s orgasm is bright and obvious, and the man sees how good his woman is. Unfortunately, at 40, a lot of things can change for a man, and lifestyle and stress don’t help. In general, a man needs to achieve something, and when this happens, the wife gets the most pleasant emotions from this) So career success also helps here.

Great advice

[Mitry]

do you want to learn how to get excited quickly?

Don’t intrigue, use the

[Sunsh1ne]

every joke contains only a fraction of a joke! In fact, the format of ZHM is more complex than MZHM. A man needs to satisfy two women already! But yours can’t handle even one, it will be an enchanting fiasco! You can, of course, find, as I wrote, a seasoned lesbian who will show her husband what to do with you, but won’t let him And mutual jealousy, if you really get into swinging, then do it gently, without exchanging partners at first.

Thanks for the good advice! The third could be a lesbian, I didn’t even think about that. I don’t think he’ll agree, of course. But the idea is great!
I didn’t have such experience, of course, will I be able to get excited at the moment?

[clng2]

Yes, since I’ve opened up here, it might be worth trying vacuum suckers for the clitoris like the womanizer (there are similar ones that are much cheaper). It doesn’t look like another penis (and won’t upset the husband), and the effect is wonderful, both on its own and with the husband’s penis inside.

[Sunsh1ne]

I think that the best thing would be to talk calmly and explain (once again) that you love him very much and want an orgasm from him. But for this you need to relax, on the one hand, and enjoy time with each other, and on the other, try something new. You may like to caress the front wall with your fingers from the inside; This is how my wife and I came to squirt. Believe me, when this happens, the woman’s orgasm is bright and obvious, and the man sees how good his woman is. Unfortunately, at 40, a lot of things can change for a man, and lifestyle and stress don’t help. In general, a man needs to achieve something, and when this happens, the wife gets the most pleasant emotions from this) So career successes also help here.
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Thank you for the advice!

But here is the moment, we tried to do a lot each time during the first 5 years of marriage. again, again and again, and his efforts were not rewarded with results.
And it was unpleasant and emotionally difficult for me that he was trying, but I could not experience an orgasm, but I will never pretend. br/>

Yes, since I’m being frank here, it might be worth trying vacuum suckers for the clitoris like the womanizer (there are similar ones that are much cheaper). It doesn’t look like another penis (and won’t upset your husband), but the effect. wonderful, both on its own and with your husband’s penis inside.

Is it true that a vibrator can upset a man?

[clng2]

I am not; someone - maybe. It’s about general self-confidence. Therefore, the little thing that I wrote about does not look like a competitor to the penis, and stimulates the clitoris quite noticeably. Try it, even if just for yourself.

[Let’s]

Good day. It started out that my husband had problems with potency, but it ended in a threesome. Throughout the entire thread, I saw that you are more worried not about his erection, but about your own satisfaction (this is normal, we all want an orgasm). You bought a vibrator, you offer threesome with a man.. That is, all these things are for yourself, but not for his persistent erection. And I didn’t see in your messages that you asked him at least once, but what does he want? What does he want, what excites him so much, so that his penis becomes stone? Maybe, of course, you had such conversations, you just didn’t write about it, but so far from all the correspondence it seems that you, in general, want MFM.. Well, maybe it’s okay with a lesbian, but again this is for yourself, not for him .
This is not a complaint, I just wrote the prevailing opinion from what I read above.
And if you really haven’t asked yourself what your husband would like, then you need to do it. If he doesn’t watch porn (which is doubtful for men), then watch it together, different genres, maybe you’ll get an interesting idea for the two of you.
And there may be problems with erections, as a 45-year-old man I’m writing - One of the reasons is loss of interest in sex - monotony. Or not as we would like... From my family life as an example. My wife likes the position on her side with her back to me. And for the last few years it has always been this pose. There are others, but this is the predominant one. And it seems that it doesn’t matter to me - but I’m tired of it and don’t want it at all anymore. Hence the drop to half past six.

[Mitry]

The third could be a lesbian, I didn’t even think about it. I don’t think he will agree, of course.

Pure lesbians are rare, bisexuals are more common, but the main focus should be on the woman. Many women are bisexual, there are definitely many more of them than men Why do you think he won’t agree?

But here is such a moment, for the first 5 years of marriage we tried to do a lot every time, again and again, and his efforts were not rewarded with results.
And it was unpleasant and emotionally difficult for me that he was trying, but I couldn’t experience orgasm. But I will never pretend. I don’t like to lie

And you gave up on this? The problem is quite painful, it must be solved, otherwise it will burst. Your wording is wrong, you can easily experience an orgasm, but your husband cannot bring you to it. Simulation is evil, the right solution!

It’s true that a vibrator can upset a man

No one is smart. It’s just a tool. God knows what complexes your husband has

[Womanslave]

Men, do you really need new women all the time?

Yes. All men always want other women besides their wife. Even the most faithful and loving ones. And it’s not a matter of dislike for his wife. This is nature. It’s the same with women, but maybe not as pronounced. Admit it to yourself, you, too, at least once in your life wanted to try it with someone other than your husband. At least in thoughts.
And there are really a lot of reasons for problems with potency, and you can’t do it without contacting a specialist. The earlier the better. In general, age takes its toll. So get used to it and get yourself a lover.

[Sunsh1ne]

It started out that my husband had problems with potency, but it ended in a threesome. Throughout the entire thread, I saw that you are more worried not about his erection, but about your own satisfaction (this is normal, we all want an orgasm). You bought a vibrator, you offer threesome with a man.. That is, all these things are for yourself, but not for his persistent erection. And I didn’t see in your messages that you asked him at least once, but what does he want? What does he want, what excites him so much, so that his penis becomes stone? Maybe, of course, you had such conversations, you just didn’t write about it, but so far from all the correspondence it seems that you, in general, want MFM.. Well, maybe it’s okay with a lesbian, but again this is for yourself, not for him .
This is not a complaint, I just wrote the prevailing opinion from what I read above.
And if you really haven’t asked yourself what your husband would like, then you need to do it. If he doesn’t watch porn (which is doubtful for men), then watch it together, different genres, maybe you’ll get an interesting idea for the two of you.
And there may be problems with erections, as a 45-year-old man I’m writing - One of the reasons is loss of interest in sex - monotony. Or not as we would like... From my family life as an example. My wife likes the position on her side with her back to me. And for the last few years it has always been this pose. There are others, but this is the predominant one. And it seems that it doesn’t matter to me - but I’m tired of it and don’t want it at all anymore. Hence the drop to half past five.

Here I wrote about my experiences and then answered questions and came to MFM and orgasms.
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My husband, as far as he tells me, is happy with everything. And he has sex with me and he cums and wants sex and we have it regularly.
I asked him, the answer was that he likes everything.

We have different positions, we change them during the act. We start on the side, we like it that way. Then they face each other, then he is on top or I am on top, and we like the end when he is behind.

I will ask him in the near future what else he would like, he can voice it without asking is not it so? I voice it if I want. Vibrator and MFM are not for me, but for US, it seemed to me that this was diversity.
He may watch porn, but we don’t watch it together. Sometimes he films our videos with him in the back, it turns me on.

Thank you for your opinion and for your outside perspective. I didn’t sleep at all all night, I couldn’t sleep, maybe that’s why my words are a mess.

Thank you all!

[Mitry]

I’ll ask him in the near future what else he would like, he can say it without asking, can’t he

Oh, not everyone can say this! The main thing here is to react correctly and not question why he was silent before and how it came to his mind.

My husband, as far as he tells me, is happy with everything. And he has sex with me and he cums and wants sex and we have it regularly.
I asked him, the answer was that he likes everything.

Well Of course he likes everything, he finished and is satisfied Wife’s orgasm, well, I couldn’t, I couldn’t you, as I understand it, were pretty fucked up trying to achieve it and scored. But the situation has not been resolved and is now slowly creeping out.

[Sunsh1ne]

Well, of course he likes everything, he finished and is satisfied with his wife’s orgasm, well, I couldn’t, I couldn’t, you, as I understand it, were pretty fucked up trying to achieve it and scored. But the situation has not been resolved and is now slowly creeping out.

Is orgasm with a man much better than with a vibrator?

I am of course interested in the difference, I still don’t understand it. But with a vibrator it’s very cool and even many orgasms at one time.
And sex with a man is very pleasant and brings a lot of pleasure.
Do you think our problem is that we can’t work together?

[Let’s]

The vibrator and MFM are not for me, but for US, it seemed to me that this is diversity.

Yes, this is diversity. I won’t tell you about the vibrator, because I like it when we use them. But mzhm this variety is not for everyone. Yes, many people like this format, but many don’t, and precisely because of jealousy, because of thoughts that you will like it with someone else more than with your husband and you will always want this other... Because of such thoughts, the husband may not stand up. After all, even in the same porn segment, there are a lot of videos (private, not staged) when mfm with a husband and someone else, the husband is not worth it.. She is him this way and that, and he is lethargic.. This format is good when the husband himself he says and asks for this.
After all, you yourself wrote that when your husband talked about sex with another girl, you became jealous. Now imagine his reaction. Moreover, your age difference, although not big, is 6 years, but you are younger. And then other thoughts may creep in, that you are bored with him and you are looking for an official way to sleep with someone else. I’m just telling you from the male side. Can you imagine? He cannot satisfy you. And he knows about it because you tell him about it. You offer another living member. What thoughts arise in this regard? There can be a lot of complexes here.

[Mitry]

Is orgasm with a man much better than with a vibrator?

I am of course interested in the difference, I still don’t understand it. But with a vibrator it’s very cool and even many orgasms at one time.
And sex with a man is very pleasant and gives a lot of pleasure.
Do you think our problem is that we can’t work together?

Of course, with a living person it is better than with a masturbator! Oh, yes, you are multi-orgasmic! Better! The problem you have is that you want to be desired, the sex you have is satisfying you less and less. But my husband is happy with everything and generally doesn’t want to change anything. At the same time, in the eyes of your husband, you look like a preoccupied female who wants something strange

[in Peru]

Age. You need to take care of your health. Sleep and rest schedule (sleep at least 8 hours), do not abuse alcohol, quit smoking, eat less fatty foods, fried foods, and sugar. Let him eat more walnuts, honey, fish. It happens more in the fresh air.
Well, add some variety to bed (role-playing games, erotic costumes).
If, despite all this, the problem gets worse, then see a doctor

[Xenophon]

You need to go to the doctor, that’s the first thing. If a man doesn’t excite me, then he either doesn’t get hard or doesn’t get hard. During the act itself, it may fall either from discomfort or due to illness.
You have been married for 15 years, but your husband has not studied your body and has not understood how you can be satisfied in other ways. Or you have some kind of stupor to cum from his tongue. This is all the more strange since you satisfy yourself.
There is a strap-on for cases of a flaccid penis. A man puts him on and inserts his organ inside the hollow dildo. This is a good solution, because it stimulates both you and yourself.
But you still need to see a doctor urgently. It is unknown how this may end.

[Bully Carrie]

My advice is the same: see a doctor. Scare, put pressure, but be sure to get a doctor’s consultation. Men don’t like to go to doctors, this is a given.
And one more thing, I can’t help but note. You have a clear lack of sexual experience: to your 36 there is only one man. That’s why it’s difficult for you: you don’t know what you want and what your body likes, and you’re thrown from a vibrator to a threesome. It’s not your fault, of course, but you need to do something about it too.

[Skf]

Sunsh1ne, at 36 years old you should have juicy curves bodies. Maybe you can show them to us?

[Mitry]

At 36 years old, you should have a juicy body shape. Maybe you can show them to us?

it is necessary to oblige all women to present their charms for inspection upon request. Then there will be universal peace and prosperity!

[Sunsh1ne]

After all, you yourself wrote that when your husband talked about sex with another girl, you became jealous. Now imagine his reaction. Moreover, your age difference, although not big, is 6 years, but you are younger. And then other thoughts may creep in, that you are bored with him and you are looking for an official way to sleep with someone else. I’m just telling you from the male side. Can you imagine? He cannot satisfy you. And he knows about it because you tell him about it. You offer another living member. What thoughts arise in this regard? There could be a lot of complexes creeping up here.

I’ll understand if that’s the case, but he doesn’t tell me what’s wrong (I’ll raise this topic again, let’s see what changes. Now I have a fear of hearing something that I don’t like at all

There is a strap-on for cases of flaccid penis. The man puts it on and puts his organ inside the hollow dildo. This is a good one. way out, because it stimulates both you and itself.
But you still need to see a doctor urgently.

Strap-on and toys he doesn’t want it and he doesn’t need it in his ass, but in mine only if he does it himself, without a strap-on

My advice is the same: see a doctor. Scare, press, but Be sure to consult a doctor. Men don’t like to go to doctors, this is a given.
And one more thing, I can’t help but note. You have a clear lack of sexual experience: to your 36 there is only one man. That’s why it’s difficult for you: you don’t know what you want and what your body likes, and you’re thrown from a vibrator to a threesome. It’s not your fault, of course, but you need to do something about it too.

I need to see a doctor, I understand. I will continue to persuade you. Maybe I’ll go with him and record it myself, although I don’t think that I should lead him by the hand (I’m not a mother, but his wife)

I agree about sexual experience, there is none. The first 5 years were love, passion and everything was great for me. Then you have children and you don’t want to cheat on your loved one, I’m afraid I’ll get carried away, and if I like it, I’ll end up loving one and sleeping with the other? I will hate myself... and destroy my family... he is an excellent husband, father, provides for the family... his lover is apparently not the best, as it turns out... everything cannot be good. I can only cheat on him if I find out that he is cheating on me, then my conscience will be calm. He got a faithful wife, betrayal is betrayal for me. What could be worse than betrayal?

You are now going to teach me cheating..

[Mitry]

You are now going to teach me treason

Well, I don’t think so, who needs it? And as an option, yes, either let him satisfy his wife, or look for a substitute
Why cheat? No way to come to an agreement?

[Xenophon]

You are now going to teach me treason..

You will come to this yourself. You have already decided everything for yourself by trying to invite a third man to bed. But there is nothing bad in this even for your husband. An unsatisfied woman is not a gift.

[Skf]

Sunsh1ne, of course you will leave the site the most depraved girl.

[Mechanic]

During sex with my husband, his erection declines (the penis becomes a little soft) and this can happen several times during sex. This makes me anxious, when I ask he answers differently, sometimes he’s tired, sometimes I don’t know, sometimes he was afraid to make noise, sometimes one testicle hurts...

MUST quit smoking, before sex, do not drink coffee or strong tea (they contain caffeine, which shrinks capillaries), beer.
Watch your diet: more proteins, meat, sour cream... + vitamins.
The emotional state matters, cheer him up!
Gramchikov 100 cognac won’t hurt, it invigorates him well.
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And if nothing helps... I won’t say anything, but it can’t be cured .

[Sunsh1ne]

Well, I don’t think so, who needs it? And as an option, yes, either let him satisfy his wife, or look for a substitute
Why cheat? No way to come to an agreement?

Our conversations here are heating up and this gives me the courage to return to the old conversation)

nIn general, I’m glad that I came to this forum and thank you for your support, if it weren’t for you, maybe I was still tormented in guessing what and how

You will come to this yourself. You have already decided everything for yourself by trying to invite a third man to bed. But there is nothing bad in this even for your husband. A dissatisfied woman is not a gift.

You dug up my dissatisfaction here, I had already forgotten about it and came with another problem of a flaccid penis. Now we have to decide this too

of course in

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MUST quit smoking, do not drink coffee or strong tea before sex (they contain caffeine, which contracts capillaries), beer.
Watch your diet: more proteins, meat, sour cream... + vitamins.
The emotional state matters, cheer him up!

I was surprised about the beer. I didn’t know that it ruins male potency. He loves beer very much and drinks 1 bottle of beer every other day.

We have a friend who drinks three bottles daily and is well served and has no problems. I think he will tell me about it right away.

[Xenophon]

Sunsh1ne,
A real woman, and I have no doubt that you are one. Capable of solving any problem.

[Mitry]

We have a friend who drinks three bottles daily and it works well for him and there are no problems. I think he will tell me about it right away.

All people are different, everyone is individual

[Let’s]

maybe I was still tormented in guessing what and how

Well, guesses they remained guesses. After all, only the husband knows the truth, what is in his head. Yes, we outlined possible options. But I think there is nothing better than dialogue with your husband. All problems must be solved with him, together. Another question is if he doesn’t want to discuss anything. And the most convenient moment, by the way, is to find out from him what and how he wants at the moment of strong excitement. While "sober" the head can hide its desires, but when excited, the tongue usually loosens))

[Alice]

I agree with all the advice above...
But I suggest you fake an orgasm...look at his reaction...maybe the problem is in his head...instill confidence in him....It will work... Let’s teach him how to bring you to a real orgasm.

[Mechanic]

Sunsh1ne, I’m talking about beer. No, beer itself does not harm potency, I drink it too, and quite a lot. But this is not advisable before sex, especially a lot! It relaxes, and the man has no time for sex, he should relax, but he has to...

[Sunsh1ne]

A real woman, and I have no doubt that you are one. Capable of solving any problem.

Thank you, I will try. All the tips that are voiced here will go into action)

While a “sober head” can hide his desires, and when excited, his tongue usually loosens))

By the way, when he is very excited, his tongue loosens. And then the question arises: is he saying this sincerely? Or is it at the moment of ecstasy to say whatever you want, purely because it is in the process?

quote=Alenka post_id=250696 time=1693747725 user_id=19239]
I agree with with all the advice above...
But I suggest you simulate an orgasm...look at his reaction...maybe the problem is in his head...instill confidence in him....It will work...we’ll teach him bring you to a real orgasm.
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Dear men, do you agree about emission?
I don’t really agree with this, I’m always for the truth, even the bitter one..

[Let’s]

And here the question is, does he say this sincerely?

It is at such moments that he speaks more sincerely. Because then, after sex and satisfaction, the brain and the defensive reaction turn on. And accordingly, he begins to filter.. What will his other half think about his desires.. And so on.
About imitation. A difficult question, but I would prefer the truth. But that’s me. Some people don’t tolerate this very well and for self-esteem he needs to know that the woman has finished.

[Sunsh1ne]

It is at such moments that he speaks more sincerely. Because then, after sex and satisfaction, the brain and the defensive reaction turn on. And accordingly he begins to filter.. What will his other half think about his desires.. And so on

How nice it is to read this, otherwise he might say something cool in the process, and I thought it was just for the sake of warming up, but in a sober mind he doesn’t spoil me with beautiful phrases! But I don’t like it when men pour into my ears, the main thing is that what you say is true! And a man still proves his loyalty not with words, but with actions!
thank you for opening the veil of secrecy)