The most important thing in sex

[sensitive]

vvm, It seems that the girl was unable to completely relax or , which is less likely, some kind of disorder. In order for a girl to experience an orgasm, she needs a calm, safe atmosphere when the two of you are in bed and no one bothers you. With quick spontaneous sex without foreplay, the girls’ chances of cumming are not very good

[Mechanic]

I have several good friends who complain that it is difficult for them to cum. For them, the opportunity to experience an orgasm is the most important thing.
There was a case when I was thirty. I was visiting with my classmates. And now we were getting home and one of them, the owner of the apartment, grabbed my hand on the way out and didn’t let go. It was nice to pull it on, we were sitting at the same desk. No matter what I did with her, the marathon dragged on, but she didn’t finish. And this way and that - she finished somehow. I lost a couple of kilos. Then I tried it a couple more times - it didn’t cum. I began to avoid her.
And how should I have done it? What’s the main thing here? She wanted me to warm her up for a long time - it didn’t really help. Yes, and I was tired.

If it’s difficult for someone you know to end up, then they need to take care of their health, what else? And I agree about your case, no one canceled sex for once, here and now, and I think that’s normal. Well, don’t you hang out with each other, is that a reason to stay away? Stay "friends", maybe later? The world is small!

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vvm: ↑What kind of affection? Vodka and snacks are missing from my life
Don’t understand??? What does the soul enjoy? ...soul, women, vodka, meat...and again soul....

Just wanted to clarify.
Someone needs care, for some affection, for others to just be there - to each his own.
What does the soul enjoy? Wife, children, and many interesting things in life. The Internet allows you to learn, study and apply a lot of interesting things without leaving your home. I never liked alcohol - it’s a dubious pleasure, a waste of time and health.

[Mechanic]

vvm, if you think like that, then I’ll say that everything good in moderation. And there is no need to deny vodka. Only the sick, coded and suspicious do not drink it. Russians have always drunk and will continue to drink, otherwise we will no longer be Russians. Bathhouse, vodka, accordion and salmon... Remember? Plus beer with fish and friends, and the MAIN THING is your family, for which you... I was raised that way. And the rest - well, pranks...

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If it’s difficult for people you know to come, then they need to take care of their health, what else?

Do you know how to increase the sensitivity of the penis? They are in their sixth decade.

vvm It appears that the girl was unable to fully relax or, less likely, had some kind of disorder. In order for a girl to experience an orgasm, she needs a calm, safe atmosphere when the two of you are in bed and no one bothers you. With quick spontaneous sex without foreplay, the girls’ chances of cumming are not very good

Are you sure everyone is like that? My wife is the opposite. What do you mean, you couldn’t relax? Did you clench your fists and think about problems? If she herself pestered me, does this mean that she was not ready yet?)
There are women/girls who find it very difficult to experience an orgasm, their physiology is like that, and there are others, like my first wife, who came five times per act, she came from anal without using her hands and could fuck all day and night at the same time.

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vvm, if you think like that, then I’ll say that everything is good in moderation. And there is no need to deny vodka. Only the sick, coded and suspicious do not drink it. Russians have always drunk and will continue to drink, otherwise we will no longer be Russians. Bathhouse, vodka, accordion and salmon... Remember? Plus beer with fish and friends, and the MAIN THING is your family, for which you... I was raised that way. And the rest - well, pranks...

Normally, you justified your addictions).
If I drink a couple of glasses a year, that’s suspicious, I’m not Russian)?
My wife doesn’t get drunk from alcohol, it just makes her sleepy. Doesn’t drink. The maiden name was Ivanova. Her brother doesn’t drink, her first husband didn’t drink... I have a lot of friends who don’t drink - non-Russians?)
I remember, comrade, he’s 55, he suffers from hemorrhoids and somehow got confused in his reasoning and let me down - everyone has hemorrhoids).

[Mechanic]

vvm, so why are you quoting others? Neither I nor you will answer FOR and FOR everyone. You said yours, I said mine. And in general I agree with you. You’re not one of the locals... how should I put it? Well, you understand. There should be more people like you here, who talk about the topic and don’t dream about how their own wife is in front of them... Do you agree?

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vvm, so why are you quoting others ? Neither I nor you will answer FOR and FOR everyone. You said yours, I said mine. And in general I agree with you. You’re not one of the locals... how should I put it? Well, you understand. I wish there were more people like you here, who talk about the topic, and don’t dream about how their wife is in front of them... Do you agree?

I disagree) . Man is made that way. If a husband, fantasizing, imagines his wife with someone else, he aggravates his emotional feelings through the addition of jealousy. Adrenaline greatly spurs passion.
Pushkin also wrote: he will revive the jealous with fire...)

[sensitive]

Are you sure everyone is like this? My wife is the opposite. What do you mean, you couldn’t relax? I clenched my fists, thought about problems

I just wrote what I thought about this topic, I didn’t want to offend anyone. Everyone’s physiology is different, for example, one friend’s pussy began to leak when you ran your fingers over her lips and clitoris several times. The other one, who loved to fuck, had to jerk her pussy with her finger to get wet, and she came harder than the first. The second, whose pussy did not flow, was much sexier and more sensitive than the first.

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Are you sure everyone is like this? My wife is the opposite. What do you mean, you couldn’t relax? I clenched my fists, thought about problems

I just wrote what I thought about this topic, I didn’t want to offend anyone. Everyone’s physiology is different, for example, one friend’s pussy began to leak when you ran your fingers over her lips and clitoris several times. The other one, who loved to fuck, had to jerk her pussy with her finger to get wet, and she came harder than the first. The second, whose pussy did not flow, was much sexier and more sensitive than the first.

I had one girl, she wanted it every hour. Her labia were the size of a man’s balls. And I never rubbed it, never warmed it up, and didn’t even know whether it was wet or dry). She fucked me).

[Mechanic]

If a husband, fantasizing, imagines his wife with someone else,

And I don’t imagine MY wife with someone else, literally AT ALL. And if I get to this point, it means there’s nothing for me to do here (in this world). And if I do, then this other person will DEFINITELY have a terrible time. That’s how life works. The only option is if she herself says that this is how it is, but not cheating.

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sensitive[/ref], well, you said it all yourself. The second one is more experienced and does not get excited like a girl, and vice versa. This is natural.

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I had one girl, she wanted it every hour. Her labia were the size of a man’s balls. And I never rubbed it, never warmed it up, and didn’t even know whether it was wet or dry). She fucked me).

So...? I had one too, they rented it for money... It’s like a pencil in a glass, but how she pretends!!! She needs money! So what, is this sex?

[sensitive]

Mechanic, The second was even more excited than the first, for example , loved to cum when I rubbed her pussy with a soapy finger while bathing, the first one was less sensitive, she was 18 years old and she had to try hard to make her cum, although it was worth it

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Well...?

To the question that everyone is different. Some people need a warm-up, some don’t.

[Mechanic]

If a husband, fantasizing, imagines his wife with someone else,

Exactly noted: FANTASYING!!! But not in practice.

To the question that everyone is different. Some people need a warm-up, some don’t.

And I agree with this, but the "warm-up" is strange.

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And I agree with this, only the "warming up" is strange

There are some that are not self-heating))).

[Seeker]

Hooligan Carrie, How do you enjoy sex when you care about safety? And I said this softly for foreplay, to be more precise, it is anxiety, fear...
Sex is a rather spontaneous thing that does not require analysis, right? As soon as you turn on analysis, it kills passion. Well, for example, thinking about being blown hot is still a so-so thought, but when you lie under a man and think about reliability, safety, well, it’s complete nonsense, you must agree.
Or maybe I didn’t express the thought correctly.. .

[Bully Carrie]

Well, it’s complete nonsense, you must agree.
Or maybe I didn’t express the thought correctly...

I would be grateful to you if you They refrained from using the wording "nonsense" towards me and talking down to me. Thank you.

[Seeker]

I would be grateful to you,

Sorry, I didn’t mean to offend you in any way.

[natalya.harita]

The most important thing is trust between partners, and then the sex will be cool.

[Big with small]

It’s important to me that both of you enjoyed it, there’s no thrill in fucking with prostitutes who are only with you for the money, when you know perfectly well that you’re disgusted by them.

[Xenophon]

Everything is important in sex. Well, how can you highlight something? Wish. It seems like yes, like not having the desire to have sex. Well, if there is no desire, but you really need it. The man will do it anyway and even cum. A woman fakes an orgasm. There is a desire, there is no possibility. But we’ve all had it at least once that such a desire is dismantled, and to hell with conventions. Foreplay is needed. Needed. But sometimes, even without any foreplay, things get so bad that mom don’t worry.
Trust? But it happens that it occurs just after sex.
Philosophy, however!

[career]

The most important thing is to get an orgasm!

[Igor1989]

The most important thing in sex

For me personally, the most important thing in sex is to bring my partner to orgasm. This is the most thrill - to see and feel when your partner cums.

[career]

This is the most high

is this high stronger than your own orgasm?

[Igor1989]

When I see that a girl is having an orgasm, my orgasm becomes brighter...

[ilia1988]

Mutual pleasure and passion/tenderness

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Of course you will get it!
Inexperienced men are trying to give pleasure, who are trying to prove to themselves that they are real men through female orgasm, and a real accomplished man has sex for his own pleasure, and pleasure is given to a woman by called by default - without looking

I strongly disagree, because the pleasure from strong arousal of a partner is unreal but of course this is my personal opinion)

[◊_NeBo[_Na_]LaDoNi_◊]

Mutual pleasure and passion/tenderness

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Of course you will get it!
Inexperienced men are trying to give pleasure, who are trying to prove to themselves that they are real men through female orgasm, and a real accomplished man has sex for his own pleasure, and the pleasure is for the woman delivered, as they say, by default - without looking

I strongly disagree, because the pleasure from strong arousal of a partner is unrealbut of course this is my personal opinion)

it’s so nice that there are many more men here who pay there is a lot of attention to a woman’s pleasure in bed..

[niqk]

◊_NeBo[_Na_]LaDoNi_◊, a real man understands perfectly how much his personal
pleasure depends on the pleasure of a woman!!!

[Mechanic]

it’s so nice that there are many more men here who pay a lot of attention to a woman’s pleasure in bed..

But I doubt this... There are mostly schmucks here, sexually preoccupied imbeciles, and other crap that you just want to stick to, but you ladies don’t give it to them. But personally, what gives me great pleasure is not the process itself, but when you drive her deeper, and to see how she drags from it... This excites me even more! Understand? I like to do well for HER, something like this... Sorry, I’m not a poet, I don’t know how to write in beautiful words... I think the meaning is clear. And I just hate schmucks that I just want to stick with... These are not men, this is a fucking genetic mistake.

[career]

This excites me even more! Understand? I like to do HER good,

ready to exchange my orgasm for hers forever?

[Beluga]

Take it with you so as not to fall when walking - the same goes for sex

and remember in porn films they use stuntmen and combined shooting!