The most important thing in sex

[Bully Carrie]

..... for me personally - safety. When deciding whether I will have sex with this man, I watch and listen to what and how he says, does and looks.
And it doesn’t matter whether I want romance (spoiler: I always want it) or suddenly hard sex (well, suddenly) - the main thing is to know that, left alone with him, I will be safe.
And everything else - I will regret / I will not regret, fire / boredom, this is secondary.
Therefore, it turns out that it is better for both women and men to be themselves and not stand out. Honestly, this is the best turn on. Verified.
What about you?

[Mitry]

Hooligan Carrie, I of course agree 100%, but this is dishonest.
A reasonable person always and in everything first of all cares about safety.
So the answer is not secure
It’s about sex.
As for me, the priorities are: intelligence, pleasure from communication and that the person arouses my sympathy.

[Lust From Beyond]

It seems to me that a sense of security should be taken for granted if you have already decided to have sex) Even if a girl wants to “be a thing” within the framework of some kind of gang bang, she will want to give herself to someone/those in whom she has some kind of trust . If we talk about sex, then for me emotions come first (and rather girls, not my own). But in no case at the expense of safety

[Wicked]

for me personally it is safety.

If this sex is part of a serious relationship, you have feelings for this man, then of course safety comes first. Safety is physical, psychological, emotional and... material too.
If sex is for the sake of sex, and this also happens to me, then there must definitely be chemistry between us. I must want him. Well, if there is also passion, then it’s a jackpot.

[etc]

for me personally - safety

Safety from violence? Zaletov? Infections? I have never heard from girls/women about the priority of safety. Probably, if a woman has had a negative experience, she will think about it first. And the main thing in sex is to have fun.

[Couple 33]

Pleasure, pleasure, pleasure)

[Mechanic]

Harmony with your partner... Sex helps build trusting relationships... And, of course, satisfaction.

[Bully Carrie]

And the main thing in sex is to get pleasure.

receive or deliver?

[Mitry]

Safety from violence? Zaletov? Infections?
I have never heard from girls/women about the priority of safety

first of all from public censure
No wonder single ladies, once at the resort, have a blast like the last time.
When it comes to getting pleasure, not everything goes smoothly for them, but they don’t give up trying

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receive or deliver?

whoever what I didn’t say, a person is selfish, even giving pleasure, he either gets high from it, or works for the future

[Watchman]

The most important thing in sex is its presence!
And the safest thing is its absence!

[Bully Carrie]

I have never heard from girls/women about the priority of safety.

if you haven’t heard it, then it doesn’t exist?)

[Bully Carrie]

A reasonable person always and in everything first of all cares about safety.

I meant personal, physical, psychological, emotional safety.
I don’t know, for me this is the main thing.
Well, ok, you can also add financial, let’s go for a walk))))

[career]

Unhappy women! They have sex and don’t think about sex!

[Mitry]

I meant personal, physical, psychological, emotional safety.
I don’t know, for me this is the main thing.
Well, ok, you can also add financial , walk like that ))))

What kind of security do you think I wrote about? From an alien invasion? everything you listed are different aspects of security.
Will you answer your own question?

[Serg_A]

For me personally, it’s security

Well, yes, security. For example, she looks at me, I look at her, she’s an awesome woman, but you can’t tell from her appearance whether she’s already 18 or not, so it’s better to find someone a little older, although some guys fall for those... But here security is a necessary condition, but not sufficient. What is a sufficient condition? Hooligan Carrie, what else is important to you? For example, I need that she was beautiful, positive, and I’ll also say (although I’ve already been reproached for this here several times) I just need my friend to enjoy me))). Oh, and I almost forgot that she loved cunnilingus))).

[Wicked]

although I have already been reproached for this here several times) I just need my friend to get pleasure from me))). Oh, and I almost forgot that she loved cunnilingus))).

Can they really blame her for this?

[Serg_A]

although I have already been reproached for this here several times) I just need my friend to get pleasure from me))). Oh, and I almost forgot that she loved cunnilingus))).

Can anyone blame her for this?

Yes, they accused me here of saying that I just like to be praised . Well, I once said that they thanked me after sex. I won’t argue, but who doesn’t like it when they are praised? But somehow I don’t remember that praise caused sexual arousal in anyone. I personally don’t have this. I caress a woman because it excites me very much, and I really love satisfying a girl with cunnilingus. I really like it, and when she has an orgasm, I experience similar feelings with her.)))

[career]

receive or deliver?

Of course you get it!
Inexperienced men who are trying to prove to themselves are trying to give pleasure that they are real men, through the female orgasm, and a real accomplished man has sex for his own pleasure, and pleasure is delivered to a woman, as they say by default - without looking.

[Bully Carrie]

Inexperienced men are trying to give pleasure,

I strongly disagree! It is an experienced man who feels a woman, knows his capabilities and his strengths. Moreover, a woman at the peak of bliss is pleasure. For true sophisticated gourmets.

[rasaroam]

..... for me personally - security. When deciding whether I will have sex with this man, I watch and listen to what and how he says, does and looks.
And it doesn’t matter whether I want romance (spoiler: I always want it) or suddenly hard sex (well, suddenly) - the main thing is to know that, left alone with him, I will be safe.
And everything else - I will regret / I will not regret, fire / boredom, this is secondary.
Therefore, it turns out that it is better for both women and men to be themselves and not stand out. Honestly, this is the best turn on. Verified.
What about you?

I met people who said that, on the contrary, they were very turned on by danger ;)
And these were both men and women.

[career]

Moreover, a woman at the peak of bliss is pleasure.

have you forgotten about male bliss?

[Bully Carrie]

have you forgotten about male bliss?

you did not understand
For a true gourmet - a man - this is bliss

[Fargal94]

have you forgotten about male bliss?

you didn’t understand
For a true gourmet - a man - this is bliss

And the rest is just relaxation)

[Alice]

The art of love in the language of dance...there is nothing more beautiful than wanting a beloved woman.....a woman in the hands of such a man dissolves in him without a trace....trusting him with every cell of her body and every string of her soul... .in skillful male hands, the feminine nature is easily revealed - to love and be loved, and then at the peak of this physical love, two become one, uniting with their souls there, somewhere far in the Universe...
Look like a dancer skillfully leads the girl... timid at the beginning of the dance, she gains strength and confidence in the hands of a man, and at the end of the dance their bodies merge into one, speaking the same language - the language of love. If you make love, then only as in this dance... trusting and dissolving in a man without a trace...

[career]

For a true gourmet - a man - this is bliss

no, a man should give a woman pleasure without straining, just by by default, simply because he is a man, and when a "man" .. what is called puffing, trying, delaying his orgasm, and a woman sees and feels all this, then what kind of sex is this?
And so when a man realizes that the female orgasm is not his main goal! Then he will be an accomplished man.

[Bully Carrie]

And the rest is just relaxation)

No, of course not. Male pleasure in sex is the highest reward for a woman. Well, again, an experienced gourmet woman.

[Fargal94]

For a true gourmet - a man - this is bliss

no, a man should give a woman pleasure not tensing up, just by default, simply because he is a man, and when a “man”... what is called puffing, trying, delaying his orgasm, and a woman sees and feels all this, then what kind of sex is this?
And that’s when a man realizes that the female orgasm is not his main goal! Then he will be an accomplished man.

So Kerry writes that a man should get a kick out of this, and not obvious pushing and puffing)

[Bully Carrie]

just by default, just because he is a man

Is it Sirius? I don’t think it works that way.
Experience! Then everything works out by itself, no?)

[Fargal94]

And the rest is just discharge)

No, of course not. Male pleasure in sex is the highest reward for a woman. Well, again, an experienced gourmet woman.

I enjoy my partner’s high and vice versa. This is aerobatics!

[career]

I get pleasure from my partner’s high

is this pleasure stronger than the pleasure from my own orgasm?

[Bully Carrie]

Alenka, Technical rumba! The partner leads well, the girl is also great.

[Dracula]

The most important thing in sex is to have someone to have sex with. You can jerk off alone, but it’s not fun.

[niqk]

I think anyone should always think before doing something! And when undertaking any undertaking, he must
think through all the details and circumstances. What? With whom? For what? How?.. Moreover, it is necessary to estimate not only possible
acquisitions, but also various risks, and ways to avoid or neutralize them... Of course, it is not always possible
to think through everything in detail, but strive this is necessary...

[career]

I think any person should always think before doing something!

sex is an animal instinct, try to think about it

[niqk]

I think any person should always think before doing something!

sex is an animal instinct, try to think about it n

Instinct is an instinct, only its implementation occurs under the control of consciousness, if a person does not want to receive
an unexpected surprise, and sometimes irreparable! And if you do everything like a fool, then there will definitely be adventures on his ass...

[Fargal94]

I get pleasure from my partner’s high

is this pleasure stronger than the pleasure from my own orgasm?

just different, but no less)

[Alexssss]

And the main thing in sex is to have fun.

receive or deliver?

both receive and deliver)

[A meow]

Hooligan Carrie, safety is the main thing??? No... If so, why is he needed at all... No! End of a hard day - bliss - relaxation - sleep until morning (+ variations). But safety... I would say, but... (indecent)

[Alexssss]

Respect for a partner, enjoyment of him (the girl)

[etc]

And the main thing in sex is to have fun.

receive or deliver?

What if you have sex with your left hand?)

[Alexssss]

And the main thing in sex is to have fun.

receive or deliver? n

And if you have sex with your left hand?)

Then you need to pump your hands so that you don’t tired)

[Seeker]

So it turns out that both women and men are better off being themselves and not showing off.

This is what happens when you show off, there is no time left to get high)

[Mechanic]

Alenka, you, as always, have too much romance... God grant that milestones be like this...

[etc]

Alenka, as always, you have too much romance... God grant that milestones will be like this...

I don’t necessary). My wife and I don’t like this, the natural passion and madness are lost.

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Respect for a partner, enjoying him (the girl)

Do you really think about respect during friction?

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Instinct is instinct, only its implementation occurs under the control of consciousness

And the lower the control, the more acute the feeling of passion.

[Mechanic]

I don’t need it). My wife and I don’t like this, the natural passion and madness are lost.

And that’s what I’m talking about. But they want a little affection, but otherwise... Fist on the table, vodka, a snack, a kiss for life , and then to your own? I am "FOR"!

[etc]

And the main thing in sex is to have fun.

receive or deliver?

Why should I think about giving a woman pleasure in the first place?
To gain her favor? What if I don’t like this kind of sex? I don’t want her anymore. I had this happen. I think you need to be natural in your passion, and if she doesn’t like it, then it’s not destiny. It’s difficult, of course, to argue here, maybe she would like to have her doggy style and by the hair, or vice versa, to have candles, rose petals, oil, music... I don’t like the second option and I don’t care about torturing each other. And if it works out, it’s a blast).

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I don’t need it). My wife and I don’t like this, the natural passion and madness are lost.

And that’s what I’m talking about. But they want a little affection, but otherwise... Fist on the table, vodka, a snack, a kiss for life , and then to your own? I am "FOR"!

And what kind of affection? Vodka and snacks are missing from my life, just like "my own").

[sensitive]

I think the most important thing is mutual interest in each other. It can be spontaneous, for a short time, or maybe for several years. In this question, everything depends so much on mutual perception that it is impossible to answer unambiguously.

[etc]

I think the most important thing is mutual interest in each other. It can be spontaneous, for a short time, or maybe for several years. In this question, everything depends so much on mutual perception that it is impossible to answer unambiguously.

Then we must conclude - to each his own).

[Mechanic]

Why should I think about giving a woman pleasure in the first place?
To gain her favor? What if I don’t like this kind of sex? I don’t want her anymore.

I don’t know about you, I don’t have a “consumer” attitude towards women, I’m not interested in just “sticking it in” ". For me it’s a thrill to see her dragging...

What kind of affection? Vodka and snacks are missing from my life

Don’t understand??? What does the soul enjoy? ...soul, women, vodka, meat...and again soul....

[etc]

I have several good friends who complain that it is difficult for them to cum. For them, the opportunity to experience an orgasm is the most important thing.
There was a case when I was thirty. I was visiting with my classmates. And now we were getting home and one of them, the owner of the apartment, grabbed my hand on the way out and didn’t let go. It was nice to pull it on, we were sitting at the same desk. No matter what I did with her, the marathon dragged on, but she didn’t finish. And this way and that - she finished somehow. I lost a couple of kilos. Then I tried it a couple more times - it didn’t cum. I began to avoid her.
And how should I have done it? What’s the main thing here? She wanted me to warm her up for a long time - it didn’t really help. Yes, and it tired me.

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I don’t know about you, I don’t have a “consumerist” attitude towards women, I’m not interested in just ”sticking”. For me, it’s a thrill to see her dragging along...

It’s not about consumerism. Everyone loves to see feedback through her passion. But what if it’s not given?
I described above the case with a classmate.