romanbon: 16 Sep 2023, 03:29
every person wants to satisfy their instincts. and there are many of them. If I’m not mistaken, (it’s better to double-check in scientific articles) one of the instincts for men is dominance over other men, and at work in a team, men often compare their “pussies” - who is cooler (especially those who do not know how to control themselves, are not conscious , they do not know psychology and are led by natural instincts, when emotions prevail over reason)
Another instinct is that a man needs to look for women and impregnate as many different women as possible. So, if this is so, then it turns out to live with one girl and forbid ourselves to meet others, then we are going against nature and do not enjoy life
Actually, we We don’t fully know what our human nature is. And apparently, we still do not stand on the same level of development as the animal world around us. The scientific people have long been preoccupied with this, not finding a place for man in the harmonious system of the animal world of our Earth. It’s as if there’s something alien and illogical on earth. Please note that no other animal on earth has such a developed communication system as language.
Therefore, about instinct there may be a wrong message here.
romanbon: 16 Sep 2023, 03:29
She may not want to leave, but I I’m an introvert and there hasn’t been a time yet that I didn’t want to leave. Correspondence on the Internet will do just fine for me.
So look for an introvert like yourself. It’s just that, according to your words, you lived alone for a long time and simply got used to it. In fact, living together is better than living alone. You just perceive a woman as something like some kind of pet. May women forgive me.
Like, no. I can’t afford to have a shepherd. You have to walk her twice a day, morning and evening, she eats like that calf, she needs to be trained, they go into heat, they get sick, and most importantly, they don’t live long and are very smart. And in ten years she will die in your arms and it will be like losing a child.
So with a woman this is not the case.
Imagine imagine that you might like this or that woman solely because of her character. She is the same as you, she can be just as cynical, just as lazy, just as introverted, just like you, she doesn’t know how to cook and just like you, she lives alone and treats the opposite sex in exactly the same way.
romanbon: 16 Sep 2023, 03:29
This will not be the truth, but the truth is to continue the search and look for another one, and keep this one on the bench.
Initially the wrong message. Will you connect your life with a person who fucks you? I wrote it this way on purpose. He doesn’t deceive, he doesn’t cheat, he doesn’t leave things out, he doesn’t lie, but he just fucks. In my opinion this is terrible. And if this is so, then why the fuck should you live with someone like that!?
That’s the whole point, my idea is to find a friend for life whom you don’t fuck with. And he you too. The only trick is that this friend of yours is of the opposite sex. If you really are fucking friends, then all this crap that usually accompanies family life simply doesn’t exist. There is no brain fucking, no constant reproaches. Many women, for example, manipulate men with all their might. It’s really not difficult.
It’s enough just to ask you to do something that you probably won’t do and will forget in five minutes. And then take a couple of promises. Well, for example, glue up wallpaper in the kitchen, fix the drain in the bathroom, wash the windows on the glass balcony, and finally paint the radiators. And then follow you and remind you of all this. But don’t demand to do it finally, but simply remind. And after some time you will guiltily make excuses like damn I forgot again. Well, next week for sure. And again they didn’t. And she reminds you again and you again make excuses guiltily.
And after a while you are to blame everywhere, and you can always be reminded of this and there is nothing to object to - yes, everything is so!
This technique is usually used by bosses at work to control their subordinates and put them in their place. Because as soon as you made a promise, you became a slave to this promise. And accordingly, the slave of the one who took this promise from you. This means you should never make any promises to anyone. It’s really difficult. Especially if you have no one to delegate what you are being asked to do right now.
Oh well. Let’s return to our sheep...
Believe me, together with a friend with whom you have mutual understanding and trust in each other, it is easier to live in this world. The problem is that most women are materialistic by nature. Well, that’s how they are designed, so what can you do! And they simply hunt for men who are promising from their point of view. As bait - appearance, tits and pussies, sex. Men fall for all this. They don’t have time to look back and she immediately tells him - kinder boom! Bang on the second! And fucked up!
Well, how can you get a divorce in this situation? no matter what you earn. You have essentially been made someone’s slave. And so it turns out that when you got married, you sold yourself into slavery. In any case, for the next decade and a half, you became someone’s slave. It makes no difference whether you later divorced or continue to live in this family. All the same, you are only required to go to work and carry money regularly.
If you stop going to work, they will divorce you and the money will be deducted from you in court. Hence the attitude towards marriage and family life in general that it is a burden, that it is a constant brain fuck, that a wife is something harmful, stupid, quarrelsome and scandalous.
But all this is not so in reality if don’t chase after tits and pussies and don’t fall for beautiful, stupid pussies.
Look at yourself in the mirror. You are probably not handsome, and not Apollo in body, and not rich like Elon Musk. But you have everything that you like about yourself. Why can’t there be exactly the same person very similar to you, but only female?
Why is it necessary that this woman that you should like must be of unearthly beauty and with an ideal figure?
That’s exactly the same somewhere a person like you, but just a woman looking for her male soul mate. And so she looked at you - and walked past. Like - oh well! So-so! No fit figure, beer belly, sloppy unshaven hair, neglected hair, dressed anyhow. The face is somehow puffy and swollen. Either he is prone to obesity, or has a hangover, or has kidney problems. THEN he smells from his sweater, which probably hasn’t been washed since the beginning of the season. The height is small. I don’t have my own home, I don’t even have a car. He probably earns very little. It means lazy. Fuck it!!!!
But you have to catch up with such a woman, shake her hand, thank her and also give her money. That she was not interested in you and, as a result, did not then steal ten years of life from you.
So you are looking for a woman in the same way and then throw yourself in a big way at what glitters and thereby take away years of life both from yourself and from this beauty.
romanbon: 16 Sep 2023, 03:29
I have uncertainty in my brain. Some moments will certainly excite me, for example, if she walks naked with her back and I look at her from behind. But we didn’t get to that point. There is also a second point, that she believes that a man should earn money and provide for his family, and this thought makes my dick sink)) I understand if a beauty says that, but when an ugly one says that, it’s strange.
Look...
You have found a female friend. You are interesting to each other and you feel good with each other. At this stage, everything that happens next is entirely by your mutual agreement. As you agree, so it will be. And finally, you don’t divide women into beautiful and ugly.
By analogy, certain women divide all men into rich and poor. So for such women you are a beggar. And they are not interested in you.
And so it turns out that you, too, divide all women into beautiful and scary. And like, scary ones don’t interest you.
And then a question for you - right now you’re a beggar and you’re not interested in any beauties. But if you suddenly receive a million-dollar inheritance tomorrow and such beauties hang themselves on you, will you choose one of them, knowing full well that they need not you, but your loot?
romanbon: 16 Sep 2023, 03:29
And if they don’t want to fuck her but you became friends with her and won’t there be a moment when she turns naked with her bottom and bends over and you won’t get hard?
If you haven’t had sex for a while with whom and you haven’t jerked off in the morning, you should stand on anyone. This is physiology. It doesn’t depend on you. In the military registration and enlistment offices, it’s not for nothing that the medical admissions committee sends a special nurse to parade in a short skirt in front of a line of recruits in shorts - everyone, without exception, gets up.
