Communication and friendship are great, but sex is not.

[romance book]

If I like a girl for communication, have many common interests, but her facial features are not to my taste and are not sexually attractive, then is it necessary to create a serious relationship with her, a family? Maybe over time I’ll fall in love as a girl?
Or, as they say, sex still lasts 1 year, and then you simply consider the person as your own.

[Hair shirt]

If I like a girl because of her communication skills, she has a lot of common interests, but her facial features are not to my taste, she is not sexually attractive, then is it necessary to create a serious relationship with her, a family? Maybe over time I’ll fall in love as a girl?
Or, as they say, sex still lasts 1 year, and then you simply consider the person as your own.

In general I think that appearance is secondary in the sense of finding a friend for life. But on the other hand, if you search purposefully, then, according to the law of meanness, you will always come across the wrong ones. And again, you yourself will delve into all this and in the end you will simply get confused and discover that you yourself, by and large, do not know what you want.

What can I advise on the matter... First of all, pay attention and focus on those girls who obviously liked you. Well, that is, those who willingly talk to you, who are not embarrassed to communicate with you in front of others, who smile at you. Keep in mind that these may be ugly girls or girls not to your type. But understand, if you need a friend for life, then you need exactly the kind of girl who really likes you.

For life together, it is very important that you and she like each other. Because more often than not, it happens that someone, a guy or a girl, rushes into some kind of fetishes of their own and, as a result, lives for some time essentially with a person whom they never liked. Well, for example, the girl is pretty and all of herself is what I call tits and pussies. She comes to a big city where everyone fucks her and no one asks her to marry. And in the end she marries not the one she likes, but the one who calls.

And the one who will call her is the one who likes her, but she doesn’t like him. From the word absolutely. But the girl still goes for it because she doesn’t want to go back home, but needs to live on somehow. Those she likes do not ask her to marry. And so, most of those girls who are usually called beautiful or pretty get married for convenience.

So don’t rush into appearances. You need a friend for life. So look for him. And it is very easy to recognize a friend - first of all, you must like him. That is, you talk to such a person and you don’t feel stupor, you don’t have embarrassment, you don’t have to painfully search for something else to talk about. On the contrary, there’s just a ton of topics to talk about and you don’t even know where to start.
Secondly, this person is happy to see you and he doesn’t want to part with you.

If you find someone like him person, then rent a house for two for at least a month and try to live together. Don’t take it home with you where you live. It may happen that if this is not your option, it will be difficult to kick her out.
Just rent a place for a month and agree with her to try to live together.
Life together is a good thing to understand whether this is the person you really need.

And the last thing - don’t rush at beauties, especially don’t do mine Look at doing what women here advise - they say a woman needs to be conquered, subdued, seduced. That you have to try and win a woman.
This is all complete bullshit. So you will spend your whole life begging for sex and a good human attitude towards yourself.

I think that this or that girl should initially like you and if it’s true so this is exactly the girl you need. Well, if it also happens that you like her, then don’t be stupid and don’t drag your feet.
Tell her everything as it is. That you really like her. That you have been looking for her for a long time and now you have found her. That you want to offer her to live together and that you are ready to rent housing for this. Don’t immediately talk about the deadline, otherwise this information can distract her from the main thing and ruin everything.

Tell me about the rental period later. They say they agreed for a month for now, but it wasn’t possible for more because the owner himself said that if everything was fine, then it would be possible for a longer period.
And in general, don’t think too far with this girl. It may even turn out that in a month you will quarrel and that there are some moments in your characters that will not allow you to get used to each other. Everyday life is actually such an insidious thing that you can’t make a guess. That’s why you need to do this so as not to do anything stupid later.

[Tamerlane]

There are a lot of cool girl friends.
And they are just friends and that’s all.

[Serg_A]

If I like a girl because of her communication skills, she has a lot of common interests, but her facial features are not to my taste, she is not sexually attractive, then is it necessary to create a serious relationship with her, a family? Maybe over time I’ll love you as a girl?
Or, as they say, sex still lasts 1 year, and then you simply consider the person as your own.

nOf course it is possible, even preferable, to start a family with her (if she is a good person and friend). But there is a nuance, if your sexual tastes do not coincide, then you will end up running around.

[Hair shirt]

And they are just friends and that’s all

Honestly, I can’t imagine a woman friend without sex. Not a friend, not a colleague, but a friend. For married people of both sexes, this is, of course, additional difficulties.
Well, okay. I’ll say it differently.
I can’t imagine unmarried opposite-sex friends who don’t have sex with each other.

Look...
nFor example, there are two men. They are good friends. And there is nothing unsaid between them, and there is nothing that they do not know about each other. And if someone hid something, then this is an insult to someone else. Once you didn’t tell your friend something, another time he learned something about you from other people, and the third time this friend no longer trusts you. And accordingly, this is no longer friendship, but so-so.

So, if friends are of different sexes, then the lack of sex is the very thing that prevents them from being good friends to the end. Because this becomes an obstacle to mutual understanding of each other. And all because they are different sexes. If your good female friend undresses, then your male friend will get an erection no matter what. If your friend is a man, and even if he takes off his clothes, you won’t get hard on him because you are both men and it doesn’t turn you on or bother you. And you can be good friends, and you are not sexual objects for each other.

But with a female friend, everything is completely different. You communicate with each other, you are interested in each other, you understand each other well, but one of you (and perhaps both) is worried about the presence of the other. A neckline on a blouse or dress, an accidentally lifted skirt and sparkling panties in the most interesting place. Again, any touching is unacceptable because it makes both of them embarrassed. Well, what other kind of friendship can we talk about here when these so-called opposite-sex friends still only communicate and think about one thing. One is thinking about how he won’t get it by accident. And she’s thinking about how it’s better for her to sit down so as not to flash her crotch, or how best to bend over for a fallen spoon so that her tit doesn’t fall out.

And finally, at some drunken party, this pair of so-called friends finally fucked each other with all their pleasure. And everything finally fell into place. And everyone calmed down and everyone finally really became friends.
And you can even ask this friend of yours to fuck you due to the lack of regular sex. And this initiative will not necessarily come from a man.

[Shy Baby]

......When you are attracted to a person, you have a lot in common, the person is interesting and close to you, but there is no sexual interest - then you have all the prerequisites for FRIENDSHIP!
When some people write/say that there is no friendship between a man and a woman, then they are lying to you. IT HAPPENS!......If there is no sexual interest. Yes, over time, some feelings and sexual passion may arise.......But until that moment it is just friendship. And the moment of sexual infatuation may never arise.

[Hair shirt]

you have a lot in common, the person is interesting and close to you, but there is no sexual interest

What do you mean no! ? She sat down opposite her and, forgetting herself, spread her legs, and there under her skirt there was a translucent thong and you could see her labia majora. A man won’t be able to handle this?
Again, don’t forget that if a woman doesn’t see a sexual partner in a man at all, then for the man this is the most insulting thing that is possible in this man. Well, it’s like for a woman when she undressed in front of someone and someone didn’t even get hard on her. So what should I say to this woman? Like, you didn’t get hard because we’re friends!?

Or maybe it really didn’t get hard because right now her best male friend didn’t perceive her as a woman?
So what!? She should be happy about this!? Like Vasya and I are such fucking friends that he doesn’t even give a damn about me.
And someone will say - that’s not the point, you’re just fat and scary. So he didn’t get hard.

It’s the same for a guy - when a woman friend doesn’t see him as a sexual partner, it just means that she doesn’t get hard for him. That is, he does not excite her. And what!? This guy should like this!? When his best friend essentially called him a sucker, which even his best female friend wouldn’t give.

[Serg_A]

And they are just friends and that’s all

Honestly, I can’t imagine a woman friend without sex. Not a friend, not a colleague, but a friend. For married people of both sexes, this is, of course, additional difficulties.
Well, okay. I’ll say it differently.
I can’t imagine unmarried opposite-sex friends who don’t have sex with each other.

Look...
nFor example, there are two men. They are good friends. And there is nothing unsaid between them, and there is nothing that they do not know about each other. And if someone hid something, then this is an insult to someone else. Once you didn’t tell your friend something, another time he learned something about you from other people, and the third time this friend no longer trusts you. And accordingly, this is no longer friendship, but so-so.

So, if friends are of different sexes, then the lack of sex is the very thing that prevents them from being good friends to the end. Because this becomes an obstacle to mutual understanding of each other. And all because they are different sexes. If your good female friend undresses, then your male friend will get an erection no matter what. If your friend is a man, and even if he takes off his clothes, you won’t get hard on him because you are both men and it doesn’t turn you on or bother you. And you can be good friends, and you are not sexual objects for each other.

But with a female friend, everything is completely different. You communicate with each other, you are interested in each other, you understand each other well, but one of you (and perhaps both) is worried about the presence of the other. A neckline on a blouse or dress, an accidentally lifted skirt and sparkling panties in the most interesting place. Again, any touching is unacceptable because it makes both of them embarrassed. Well, what other kind of friendship can we talk about here when these so-called opposite-sex friends still only communicate and think about one thing. One is thinking about how he won’t get it by accident. And she’s thinking about how it’s better for her to sit down so as not to flash her crotch, or how best to bend over for a fallen spoon so that her tit doesn’t fall out.

And finally, at some drunken party, this pair of so-called friends finally fucked each other with all their pleasure. And everything finally fell into place. And everyone calmed down and everyone finally really became friends.
And you can even ask this friend of yours to fuck you due to the lack of regular sex. And this initiative will not necessarily come from a man.

For the most part, you are right. But you’re being too straightforward. You don’t take some points into account.

[Hair shirt]

For the most part, you’re right. But you’re being too straightforward. You don’t take into account some points.

I would say it differently...
Different-sex friends are just two former sexual partners. Or ex-husband and wife, or ex-lovers.
Life somehow took a turn, regular sex stopped, but good relationships remained. And people became good friends to each other. Someone you can sit with somewhere, chat without fear of publicity, you can go to the sauna together, maybe even just for fun, and maybe even without sex if it doesn’t come to that. Simply because it is not in the first place.

But on the other hand, if suddenly one of the parties needs it, then why not? And it’s true friendship between a man and a woman. But what you described above is not friendship, it’s just some kind of antics when both are puffed up and proud of each other that they are not like everyone else.

[Serg_A]

that’s what you described above, it’s not friendship, it’s just some kind of antics when both are puffed up and proud of each other that they are like that and not like everyone else.

Did I describe the antics!? Please provide my quote.

[etc]

If I like a girl because of her communication skills, she has a lot of common interests, but her facial features are not to my taste, she is not sexually attractive, then is it necessary to create a serious relationship with her, a family? Maybe over time I’ll love you as a girl?
Or, as they say, sex still lasts 1 year, and then you simply consider the person as your own.

Are your facial features completely repulsive? Scary looking?

[Hair shirt]

I was describing the antics!? Please, provide my quote.

I did not speak about you specifically. I said that what you are describing is an antics. Because I’ve seen something like this many times. When someone positions each other as good friends. And behind the scenes, he tells his friends that there’s no way I’m going to fuck this woman. I mean, there’s no way the opportunity will present itself.
Or someone’s wife tells her husband that this or that girlfriend says that our Vasya is already fucked up with this friendship of his. Everything is licked, climbs with revelations. Or he would have fucked me or something. Neither here nor there.
That’s all friendship for you. Meanwhile, the men amuse themselves with something that they like to think about.

Meanwhile, only former lovers or ex-husbands and wives really become real friends.

[Serg_A]

I didn’t talk about you specifically. I said that what you are describing is an antics

So, if you mean everyone, then you write "You" with a capital letter?
Oh well. Only then it turns out that you combined my opinion with the opinions of all other people. Not only is the opinion of all other people not uniform, but for some it may coincide with your opinion. But you write: "You are describing antics." In other words, you are saying that everyone is wrong. And why? Probably becausethey are not you. Are you too arrogant?

[Alexssss]

If I like a girl because of her communication skills, she has a lot of common interests, but her facial features are not to my taste, she is not sexually attractive, then is it necessary to create a serious relationship with her, a family? Maybe over time I’ll love you as a girl?
Or, as they say, sex still lasts 1 year, and then you simply consider the person as your own.

no sex, there will be no life, and fuck the common interests. Love rules in relationships, not interests

[Hammer]

The question was simple: should you marry a girl who is not attractive based on external appearance? The answer is even simpler - no, it’s not necessary! Stay friends, that’s great. Respect, attention, care, gifts for holidays, shared hobbies. And find a wife who is attractive, but not jealous.

[◊_NeBo[_Na_]LaDoNi_◊]

But with a female friend everything is completely different. You communicate with each other, you are interested in each other, you understand each other well, but one of you (and perhaps both) is worried about the presence of the other. A neckline on a blouse or dress, an accidentally lifted skirt and sparkling panties in the most interesting place. Again, any touching is unacceptable because it makes both of them embarrassed. Well, what other kind of friendship can we talk about here when these so-called opposite-sex friends still only communicate and think about one thing. One is thinking about how he won’t get it by accident. And she’s thinking about how it’s better for her to sit down so as not to flash her crotch, or how best to bend over for a fallen spoon so that her tit doesn’t fall out.

And finally, at some drunken party, this pair of so-called friends finally fucked each other with all their pleasure. And everything finally fell into place. And everyone calmed down and everyone finally really became friends.
And you can even ask this friend of yours to fuck you due to the lack of regular sex. And this initiative will not necessarily come from a man.

I imagined a woman whose everything is so huge and keeps falling out, she fixes it, but it still stubbornly falls out and the panties always sparkle treacherously, and the skirt is always lifted somewhere up to the head... oh my God... how awkward it must be to be female...

[Hair shirt]

I imagined a woman whose everything is so huge and keeps falling out, she straightens it, but it still stubbornly falls out and her panties always sparkle treacherously, and the skirt is always pulled up somewhere up to your head.. oh my God.. you can’t imagine it must be awkward to be female..

Well, actually, on the subway, women wear skirts and dresses are extremely uncomfortable. Especially in the summer, you have to somehow manage to sit sideways. I pay attention to this all the time in the subway, how they spin this way and that. Well, boobs too, if God has rewarded anyone with them even a little beyond measure.

[attentive1]

Honestly, I can’t imagine a woman friend without sex. Not a friend, not a colleague, but namely

And I can’t imagine sex with a woman I don’t like! And no Viagra with Cialis will help when does not excite. The topic is about this. He writes whether to start a family or not with such a person. Because arousal occurs in the brain, not in the pants

[Serg_A]

But with a female friend everything is completely different. You communicate with each other, you are interested in each other, you understand each other well, but one of you (and perhaps both) is worried about the presence of the other. A neckline on a blouse or dress, an accidentally lifted skirt and sparkling panties in the most interesting place. Again, any touching is unacceptable because it makes both of them embarrassed. Well, what other kind of friendship can we talk about here when these so-called opposite-sex friends still only communicate and think about one thing. One is thinking about how he won’t get it by accident. And she’s thinking about how it’s better for her to sit down so as not to flash her crotch, or how best to bend over for a fallen spoon so that her tit doesn’t fall out.

And finally, at some drunken party, this pair of so-called friends finally fucked each other with all their pleasure. And everything finally fell into place. And everyone calmed down and everyone finally really became friends.
And you can even ask this friend of yours to fuck you due to the lack of regular sex. And this initiative will not necessarily come from a man.

I imagined a woman whose everything is so huge and keeps falling out, she fixes it, but it still stubbornly falls out and the panties always sparkle treacherously, and the skirt is always hiked up somewhere up to the head.. oh my God.. how awkward it must be to be female..

Listen to Him! He knows!

[Hammer]

Honestly, I can’t imagine a woman friend without sex. Not a friend, not a colleague, but namely

And I can’t imagine sex with a woman I don’t like! And no Viagra with Cialis will help when does not excite. The topic is about this. He writes whether to start a family or not with such a person. Because arousal occurs in the brain, not in the pants

Men divide women into two types.
1. Who they want to fuck
2. Who don’t want to fuck
Consequently, for family life the first point is necessary. For friendship, the second is enough.
To decide which point a given woman belongs to, 5 seconds are enough for me

[Hair shirt]

And I can’t imagine sex with a woman I don’t like! And no amount of Viagra with Cialis will help when it doesn’t excite

Come on!!!
They will fuck someone next to you and you won’t get hard?
A random woman will undress, spread her legs and start masturbating and you won’t get hard for all this if Will you be in the same room with her?
If this is so, then I think you need to see a doctor. Marinka, as a doctor, will confirm that this is exactly how it works.
Because it’s not normal. Because that’s not how it works. You must, I would even say simply must, stand up. This is another question whether you will climb it or refuse it based on some ethical considerations.

Men divide women into two types.
1. Who they want to fuck
2. Who don’t want to fuck
Consequently, the first point is necessary for family life. For friendship, the second is sufficient

Not entirely true based on my life observations. I would say differently...
That men divide women into two types.
Whom they will marry and those who will not be married.
But as for fucking, that’s not for men he has to decide whether he will fuck someone there or not.

It is so arranged under this sky that the question of marriage is decided by a man, and the question of sex is decided by a woman. And a man can console himself with the fact that he won’t fuck anyone there as much as he wants because no one will give it to him anyway. Regardless of what he thinks about it.
That’s why men don’t have to choose. They just fuck those who they can fuck without going overboard.
Because you can not want someone as much as you like, but it doesn’t make sense because this woman won’t give it to you anyway if she decides so.
Although I don’t like this term in relation to sex - it will, it won’t...

[Mitry]

Strange topic. Are you being urgently forced to get married? If you like communicating with this girl, communicate well.
It seems that you have difficulty starting a relationship in principle.
Why are you getting into marriage? I tell everyone, you don’t have to get married, don’t get married.

[attentive1]

A random woman will undress, spread her legs and start masturbating, and you won’t be able to stand for all this

If this random woman is elderly, fat, short-legged, unattractive in face, etc. d, I’m picky and even very , then of course it won’t stand up, I’ll be disgusted. I sympathize with omnivorous, hungry men...))) and yes, I am no longer at the age of youthful hypersexuality.

[Hair shirt]

If this random person is elderly, fat, short-legged, unattractive in face

Then describe yourself or attach a photo in the following. Otherwise, maybe no one will give a damn about you.
To make such statements you need to be beautiful like God and have the figure of Apollo. Well, everything else that comes with the figure should work as it should.

[Mitry]

Then describe yourself or attach a photo in the niche. Otherwise, maybe no one will give a damn about you.
To make such statements you need to be beautiful like God and have the figure of Apollo. Well, everything else that is attached to the figure should work as it should

You write nonsense. What difference does it make whether someone gets it or not?
He can be as scary as mortal sin, but he can only be aroused by fashion models. These are his personal problems; it will be difficult for him to find a partner for sex.

[attentive1]

Then describe yourself or attach a photo in the niche. Otherwise, maybe no one will give you a hard time.

So I’m not a fagot, it doesn’t suit me what. I will describe myself within the following range: 30 - 40 years old, 170 - 180 cm. 65 - 70 kg brown-haired. married for a long time.

[Hair shirt]

So I’m not a fagot, I don’t need it. I’ll describe myself within the following range: 30 - 40 years old, 170 - 180 cm. 65 - 70 kg brown-haired. married for a long time.

When I wrote "won’t get hard" I meant women won’t get hard on you.
Well, just numbers don’t what they don’t talk about. Attach a photo of yourself, at least in shorts, so that everyone can at least understand what’s so awesome about you that you can afford to say about someone that she’s “elderly, fat, short-legged, unattractive in face, etc..” "

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nHe can be as scary as mortal sin, but he can only be aroused by fashion models. These are his personal problems, it will be difficult for him to find a partner for sex.

Just don’t tell this to the doctors. They will simply laugh at you.
Sex and everything connected with it is physiology. You want to eat, you see food and you salivate, and if you are hungry, your stomach begins to suck.
If you haven’t had sex for a long time, then at the sight of a naked woman you SHOULD get hard.
If you don’t have neurological problems, if you’re not hungry and if you’re not sick at the moment.
If it didn’t work like that, I think people would simply die out. Like those pandas who are simply too lazy to fuck.

[Mitry]

If you haven’t had sex for a long time, then at the sight of a naked woman you SHOULD get hard.

You don’t owe anyone anything. If a mega-freak only gets it on fashion models, it doesn’t mean that he doesn’t have sex, even if it’s sex with himself.
And yes, he won’t get it on “just anyone,” but you get it very much -a very well-fed woman, an old woman, a child? And here there are many characters dreaming about them don’t judge by yourself and don’t judge at all

[gerz13]

Maybe over time I’ll love you like a girl?

and how does the girl herself treat you? Maybe she doesn’t know that you are thinking about marrying her!) And she doesn’t like you either!) So it’s better to talk honestly first, then try, as they already advised, to live together, and then you’ll understand what’s what.

[attentive1]

In some topic there is a photo of me with maximum protection from deanon you will find it, admire it, dear Vlasyanitsa. I am writing about what kind of women do not excite me. You don’t like this truth, your problems.
The author asked for advice. I replied that he should not even consider the possibility of intimacy with a woman who does not excite him. It will end in predictable embarrassment. That’s all.

[Hair shirt]

I replied that I should not even consider the possibility of sex with a woman who does not excite him

I just wanted to say that in principle this should not happen so that a man would not aroused by a naked woman. Should excite. This is physiology.
And if it doesn’t excite you, then you should go to the doctor and not look for a woman who excites you.

[Andrey Lukashov]

That means there is no love. And love is like a fire - if you don’t throw a stick, it goes out

[Vert]

Honestly, I can’t imagine a woman friend without sex.

I’ve come across such a thing as friendship sex. Apparently this is it.

[Mitry]

I just wanted to say that in principle this should not happen so that a man would not be aroused by a naked woman. Should excite. This is physiology.
And if it doesn’t excite you, then you should go to the doctor and not look for a woman who excites you.

How masterfully you ignore me
You are probably a standard man for whom it absolutely does not matter what is attached to the vagina? Old, young, beautiful, ugly, stupid? Your life credo is that pussy is already a beauty?
And by the way, yes, you are absolutely right. From a scientific point of view, for sexual desire to arise, the presence of a vagina, everything else, appearance, personality, etc. is enough. Completely unnecessary fetishism.
But! Normality in society is determined by the majority of individuals, therefore, it is normal when appearance and so on matter. But what you describe and prove is not the norm at all. What are you like?

[Hair shirt]

Normality in society is determined by the majority of individuals, therefore, it is normal when appearance and so on matter. But what you describe and prove is not at all the norm

In a person’s life, physiology always comes first. That is, everything in the body should work normally as it should. You should drool, your eyes should water, your armpits should sweat, your feet should stink if you don’t wash them for a long time, your hair should grow, boogers should appear in your nose, and your penis should stand up at the sight of a naked woman. Regardless of whether this woman can read and write, and whether she has read Dovlatov or Nabokov.
If this does not happen, then something is wrong with you. Either you are hungry, or exhausted, or you are sick with something, or you have some kind of damage to your body.

What I mean is that love for someone and sexual attraction are completely different things. And I think there is no need to put them on the same level and try to equate love and sex. If it gets up, it means it’s love. If you fall in love, it means you must get up. And if you don’t fall in love, then that means you shouldn’t get up.

Aren’t you tired of making faces and contradicting yourself yet?
You want to say that if anywhere on any If on a drunken party some tipsy accountant hangs on you, and begins to breathe hotly in your ear and press her tits against you, and begins to grab your penis, then you will remain impregnable as a rock!?
And that you won’t get hard at the same time, and that you won’t try to fuck her somewhere where no one will bother you?

[niqk]

If I like a girl because of her communication skills, she has a lot of common interests, but her facial features are not to my taste, she is not sexually attractive, then is it necessary to create a serious relationship with her, a family? Maybe over time I’ll love you as a girl?
Or, as they say, sex still lasts 1 year, and then you simply consider the person as your own.

n Smart men choose just such women as their spouses. This is a guarantee of a good family and a quiet life...
And finding a mistress for a good man is not so difficult...

[Mitry]

Aren’t you tired of making faces and contradicting yourself yet?
You want to say that if somewhere, at some kind of drinking party, some tipsy accountant hangs on you, and starts breathing hotly in you ear and presses its tits to you, and starts grabbing you by the penis, then you will remain impregnable like a rock!?
And that you won’t get hard at the same time, and that you won’t try to fuck her somewhere where no one will bother you?

I’m here and I come to make faces.
Where did I contradict?
We have a couple of pretty accountants for my taste. The rest don’t excite me at all. And yes, I’ll be like a rock, I’ll try to redirect it in the other direction without upsetting me, it happened.
You don’t answer the questions, it looks like you were brought up badly.

[A meow]

If I like a girl because of her communication skills, she has a lot of common interests, but her facial features are not to my taste, she is not sexually attractive, then is it necessary to create a serious relationship with her, a family? Maybe over time I’ll love you as a girl?
Or, as they say, sex still lasts 1 year, and then you simply consider the person as your own.

nI read it here... Everything is logical, and let’s say you started a family. But friendship and sex are completely different types of relationships, if sex satisfies both! You begin to become attached on a physical level, the need for a partner arises!
And so, you live, you live, you are bored with your wife, aaand...7?? Visiting mistresses, etc.? And this is family? No, there must be harmony in everything, only then does it make sense to create a family. Otherwise, there will be no joy from such a marriage, there will only be responsibilities... And even if there is no betrayal, there will be no real happiness either!
:angel :

[niqk]

Meow, and so that there is harmony in everything in the family - Everyone needs to try hard!!!

[A meow]

and for there to be harmony in everything in the family, everyone needs to try hard!!!

Am I arguing??? For example, a man may have some unpleasant habits, such as watching football and drinking beer. You just have to come to terms with this and take it for granted. and a man must understand and respect our wishes. Then...

[Xenophon]

Am I arguing??? For example, a man may have some unpleasant habits, such as watching football and drinking beer. You just have to come to terms with this and take it for granted. and a man must understand and respect our wishes. Then...

Now I understand everything. And I agree that we need to respect each other. But why, for God’s sake, explain that watching football and drinking beer is an unpleasant habit?
Why is she unpleasant? It’s the same if I say that watching figure skating and eating chocolate is an unpleasant female habit. Why is it that what I don’t do for another person is unpleasant and something that must be put up with through force? Strange worldview.

[Mitry]

But why, for God’s sake, explain, watching football and drinking beer is an unpleasant habit?

This is a person’s personal opinion, that’s how she sees it. Decent people don’t argue about tastes. Unpleasant to the point, now live with it

[Xenophon]

a person’s personal opinion, that’s how she sees it. Decent people don’t argue about tastes. It’s completely unpleasant, now live with it

I wasn’t going to argue. Asked a question. Please note that this is not for you. By the way, decent people do not have the habit of answering questions that are not asked of them. But I live normally and, unlike you, not with this, but with that. Well, it’s whatever you like.

[Hammer]

Opinions are divided. You know Roman, after a year of marriage, many beautiful couples and couples where the wife is beautiful and the husband is so-so have fled. You ask two questions:
1. Is it possible to marry an ugly woman? The answer is a quote from Ilf and Petrov - Whose bride is the mare.
2. Will I have harmonious sex with an ugly woman? The answer is, if you don’t try, you won’t know.
Go for it.

[romance book]

Yes, and again, you yourself will dig yourself into all this and in the end you will simply get confused and discover that you yourself, by and large, do not know what you want.

Every person wants to satisfy his instincts. and there are many of them. If I’m not mistaken, (it’s better to double-check in scientific articles) one of the instincts for men is dominance over other men, and at work in a team, men often compare their “pussies” - who is cooler (especially those who do not know how to control themselves, are not conscious , they do not know psychology and are led by natural instincts, when emotions prevail over reason)
Another instinct is that a man needs to look for women and impregnate as many different women as possible. So, if this is so, then it turns out to live with one girl and forbid ourselves to meet others, then we are going against nature and do not get pleasure from life.

Secondly, this person is glad to see you and he doesn’t want to part with you.

She may not want to part with you, but I’m an introvert and it hasn’t happened yet that I don’t want to part with. Correspondence on the Internet will do just fine for me.

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Tell her everything as it is. That you really like her. That you have been looking for her for a long time and now you have found her.

This will not be true, but the truth is that continue the search and look for another one, and keep this one on the bench spare parts.

So, if friends are of different sexes, then the lack of sex is the very thing that prevents them from being good friends to the end.

As an option, agree with the girl (wife) with whom we have friendly relations that we can have sex on the side and tell each other about our adventures) and honestly say that you don’t particularly excite me sexually. But if you both want sex, then you can have sex, but perhaps rarely. Or she will have a strong arousal and I will have a weak one, like my penis got up and after a short time went down.

Are your facial features completely repulsive? Scary looking?

Not to say scary, but not my type at all. Have sex with her in the dark

Because excitement occurs in the brain, not in the pants

I have uncertainty in my brain. Some moments will certainly excite me, for example, if she walks naked with her back and I look at her from behind. But we didn’t get to that point. There is also a second point, that she believes that a man should earn money and provide for his family, and this thought makes my dick sink)) I understand if a beauty says that, but when an ugly one says that, it’s strange.

Men divide women into two types.
1. Who they want to fuck
2. Who don’t want to fuck
To decide which point a given woman belongs to, 5 seconds are enough for me

And if they don’t want to fuck her but have become friends with her and won’t there be a moment when she turns naked with her backside and bends over and you won’t get hard?

Are you being urgently forced to get married? If you like communicating with this girl, communicate well.

Already a decent age, but there are no children, I live alone, there is no affection and love. It seems that children are needed, and maybe even this will give positive emotions and life will become more positive, but maybe children are not needed. It seems that you want to live together with a woman, but it seems that you don’t.

I’m picky and even very , then of course I won’t get up, I’ll be disgusted

I agree, I’m not an omnivore either. but here we are not talking about such a short-legged, ugly woman, but better, but the facial features are not to my taste.

That means there is no love. And love is like a fire - if you didn’t throw a stick - it went out

but in a year or two the fire will go out, even if love arises with someone? many people say so.

And so, you live, you are bored with your spouse, aaand...7?? Visiting mistresses, etc.?

it’s nice to realize freedom, but this results in marriage, children, and being locked up for life. Moreover, there may not even be any mistresses, but when you are locked in a family, it is sad to realize that you are locked in.

[etc]

I wouldn’t say it’s scary, but it’s not my type at all. Have sex with her in the dark

Why have sex with her if you don’t like her? I had a case when I had a good relationship with a girl, she was interesting to me. Well educated, erudite, she suggested a book to me that greatly influenced my worldview, but, unfortunately, she lost her outward appeal, even though she was quite young.
I respected and appreciated her very much. There was no desire to enter into a relationship with her, but he understood that if she wanted, asked, he would provide her with a sexual service, regardless of his repulsive appearance.

[romance book]

Why bother with sexual intercourse with her if you don’t like her?

In the dark, maybe you would have liked it)

[Hammer]

Well, here’s an option if the figure is normal and attractive from the back. Cocking in the romantic twilight in doggy style. So does a girl excite you? An hour before intimacy, take a tablet from the tadalafil group of drugs. You want to be a cool macho? Live like this for a month, then you will decide about getting married. We are waiting for positive news. Come on.

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In the dark, maybe I would have liked it

It’s even surprising that the author is not trolled in this thread, but they want to help

[Mitry]

TS, you live there alone, and move on. Don’t ruin the lives of strangers. Understand yourself, it seems to me that you have problems with sexual relationships and not only sexual ones.
Have you had any long-term relationships?
How old are you?
If there is no sex, does that mean you will fornicate?

[romance book]

Have you had any kind of long-term relationship?
How old are you?
If you don’t have sex, does that mean you’re fornicating?

years - group 30+
there were no long periods, I didn’t live with girls.
YES handjob)