Are you sure they aren’t cheating on you?

[Henson]

says be patient, tired, headaches. I understand myself... but I don’t fully understand... when I get home I turn my head off from work) and a vibrator is not the same, I want something alive))) a lover is also an extra headache, and why should I waste my energy

I agree with the arguments. but the examples were just examples. I don’t know your couple enough to even think in the right direction.
regarding the smut. Well, I can understand my husband too. when there are more problems than my head can bear, I don’t even want to have any sex, I just physically can’t
Personally, what could bring me back is not passionate, but gentle sex. I want to relax at home, and not also steam in bed. bath, wine, light massage, and then a gentle blowjob, just like that, without a hint of continuation

[Finish]

Henson, yes, you put it perfectly - agreements.

[Ded]

She cheats, but hides her relationship very carefully!

[Tanya]

Any marketable woman by the age of 40 has or had a lover, if physically possible, .....

Well, maybe it would be more correct to say had a relationship on the side, or had sex.... Because a Lover is something more permanent and with certain feelings. It seems so to me....

[Hair shirt]

A lover came to someone’s wife and fucked her thoroughly. Let’s go to the kitchen to have a snack. The wife is whittling sandwiches and says to her lover - sharpen the knife, otherwise I ask my husband, but he can’t get around to it.
The lover sharpens the knife and thinks - who sharpens knives in MY house!?

[RazzBoynik]

I told my wife a long time ago, if the opportunity suddenly presents itself, to enjoy sex on the side without any boundaries or decency, the main thing is to keep me informed and not get infections. Therefore, I know about all the cases when someone flirts with her, she herself talks about it and I listen with interest))

[Greek10]

Any marketable woman by the age of 40 has or had a lover, if physically possible, .....

Well, maybe It would be more correct to say that she had an affair, or had sex.... Because a Lover is something more permanent and with certain feelings. It seems to me so....

MAYBE this is more correct. Communication on the side, a good phrase))))) Resolves a lot of questions.

[maxim.zuev]

I never bothered with this issue. I think that if she needs it, but I can’t satisfy her in some way, then my opinion doesn’t solve anything. The only thing is, if I found out that she fucks on the side, I would offer MM+F.

[Willy]

I don’t know if my wife is cheating...or not cheating. It seems that no.
Yes, even if she cheated, but at home everything is peaceful...

With my wife, when we were not yet married, but just started dating, there was a man at her work
with whom she “cheated”... but she didn’t talk about this openly directly, but in a smoothed form...
For example, I found out that she had a man at work - from the corporate photos she showed: he hugs her.
And about sex... for example, when she was about to give me a blowjob for the first time, she said:
“Don’t cum in my mouth, otherwise I’ll I’m choking.”
Well, it’s clear what this means in translation:
this workmate of hers came in her mouth, so much so that she choked, and now she doesn’t want to take risks, she’s afraid of drowning in sperm .

[rim11]

Doesn’t change. She’s simply not interested in secretly meeting a third-party member somewhere. She will never tell anyone about her sexual fantasies and interests, not even me. What is said ceases to be real and turns into a game; and what is discussed in advance ceases to be unexpected.
And she knows that I know all her fantasies and desires; and that this is interesting to me myself. And as a result, everything is simple - she doesn’t have to say anything, and I don’t have to explain anything.
And if someone offers her sex, she always tells me indirectly.