Are you sure they aren’t cheating on you?

Unread post by **AlexTDV** » 20 Oct 2023, 02:26

or are you not interested?

Unread post by **Fargal94** » 20 Oct 2023, 02:30

It is always very difficult to be completely confident in anything, especially in such a matter. I would feel something was wrong.) Even if I slept with someone, for me it’s not cheating, but getting pleasure. Women have betrayal, something more.

Unread post by **Alexssss** » 20 Oct 2023, 02:30

I am personally sure that my wife is not cheating on me

Unread post by **Henson** » 20 Oct 2023, 02:32

It makes no sense for me to cheat simply because you can come to an agreement with me. If everything is formalized, then I will agree to both polyamorous and open relationships (these are different concepts). but the main thing is officially, almost with a signature under the contract and a wet seal, and not quietly and then turn on the fool/fool

Unread post by **Alexssss** » 20 Oct 2023, 02:34

Fargal94, As my friend said, "betrayal of the body - It’s not cheating, but if in your heart it is, then yes."

Unread post by **Fargal94** » 20 Oct 2023, 02:37

Also, when I just got married, an adult good friend of mine told me that if a woman wants it, you can at least hold her by the pussy, and she will fuck between your fingers

Unread post by **Henson** » 20 Oct 2023, 02:46

Alexssss: 20 Oct 2023, 02:34 As my friend said"cheating in the body is not cheating, but if in the soul it is

there is one opinion on this matter. not my opinion, but I’ll throw it in for discussion.
It’s worse for a woman if she fell in love and left, and it’s worse for a man if she went for a walk and came back
The point is the following. a man has sex or is having sex, but returns home, to his family, to his children, with money. and if he fell in love, then that’s it, he left with the ends and now it’s more difficult to live without him, before you just had to turn a blind eye to his adventures, but now he abandoned him and humiliated him even more, he went to someone who is better than his ex. And if a woman has sex and comes back, she can bring someone else’s child. and humiliates because the lover replaces the husband in the male field (not only sex, but also the financial plane). and if you fell in love and left, then it’s not so scary, the main thing is that you don’t take much property or don’t take anything at all, and you can earn money, so it’s not very scary.
to sum it up. women are more sentimental and about Feelings (about high, about LOVE, and not momentary sex) and the main thing is that the man is with her and her children. and men are more about wasting resources not on themselves and their loved ones, and it’s better for them to leave than to spend money on children who are not theirs.
I REPEAT not my opinion, I’m not at all sure that everything is even close to this thesis. but there seems to be a grain of truth there

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Fargal94: 20 Oct 2023, 02:37 if a woman wants, then at least you will hold her pussy, so she will fuck between your fingers

you can say the same about men. Even if you keep your dick in the nightstand at home, it will fuck you with your fingers. I see the problem is that many (not all, there are plenty of good ones too) are too smart. discuss and come to a common decision, find an appropriate partner, at least some kind of decency... well, fuck it. and so it will go, but it’s an adventure, but I feel awesome, why complicate everything

Unread post by **Makcumyc1984** » 20 Oct 2023, 02:50

I’m sure they won’t change, unlike me she doesn’t have time for that)))

Unread post by **Aspiring** » 20 Oct 2023, 03:00

He makes out with his girlfriends, keeps it a secret, but it doesn’t bother me. He actively doesn’t like men (I’m an exception for some reason).

Unread post by **Katerinka** » 20 Oct 2023, 05:33

And if your partner sits on similar forums, writes comments about how he would fuck, lick, etc. - would that bother you?

Unread post by **Sorcerer** » 20 Oct 2023, 05:37

Katerinka: 20 Oct 2023, 05:33 writes comments about how he would fuck, lick, etc. - it wouldn’t harm you to

dream. It’s harmful not to dream.

Unread post by **Geralt** » 20 Oct 2023, 05:43

I’m used to trusting. If there is cheating and I find out about it, then I will think, what to do next.

Unread post by **Katerinka** » 20 Oct 2023, 05:46

Ну тоже верно

Unread post by **padshiy** » 22 Oct 2023, 23:56

Is sex with a friend considered cheating?

23 Oct 2023, 00:59

I always liked it when husbands say - I’m sure. mine is not so. busy. at home. 100 reasons. and...... since they fuck his wife. it happens. even with 2 members there was one.
I I’m not gloating. Mine was also fucked, as it turned out. And I am other people’s wives too. Just look at the world realistically.
In general, this cycle of wives in nature is of course a filthy phenomenon. But this is life.

Unread post by **Henson** » 23 Oct 2023, 01:28

Katerinka: 20 Oct 2023, 05:33 And if your partner sits on similar forums, writes comments about how he would fuck, lick, etc. - would that bother you?

this is about fantasies, but in fantasies anything is possible. the question is what is really happening

Unread post by **Ebitemoyuzhenu** » 23 Oct 2023, 01:41

I’m sure he won’t change. But I would really like the opposite

Unread post by **Pirate** » 23 Oct 2023, 22:16

There was a mistress. She would blow me in the car. And when she came to her husband, he always met her at the store.. I saw her kissing.. and so on for three years.

Unread post by **Evgenii7519** » 23 Oct 2023, 22:26

Alexssss: 20 Oct 2023, 02:30 I am personally sure that my wife is not cheating on me

Ahhaha))) is not cheating...

Unread post by **Alena26** » 23 Oct 2023, 23:13

AlexTDV, the main thing is not to get hung up.

Unread post by **Omut46** » 23 Oct 2023, 23:19

Hi all. Married for 15 years, two children. When we met, my wife was a virgin. The wife always really likes sex and often takes the initiative herself. In general, everything is fine in bed and in relationships. I was always sure that she was true. Trust 100%. It was a shock for me to find out that our friend had been fucking her for a very long time. She has known him practically since childhood. His wife is her friend. They live in another city, but sometimes the whole family comes to visit us. And Sergei often comes to our city because he needs to work. Always stops with us. We communicate well... and then I accidentally found out this.

Unread post by **Evgenii7519** » 23 Oct 2023, 23:24

Omut46: 23 Oct 2023, 23:19 Hello everyone. Married for 15 years, two children. When we met, my wife was a virgin. The wife always really likes sex and often takes the initiative herself. In general, everything is fine in bed and in relationships. I was always sure that she was true. Trust 100%. It was a shock for me to find out that our friend had been fucking her for a very long time. She has known him practically since childhood. His wife is her friend. They live in another city, but sometimes the whole family comes to visit us. And Sergei often comes to our city because he needs to work. Always stops with us. We communicate well... and then I accidentally found out this.

This is bullshit... We have a young lady at work, she has been married for 7-10 years... Sometimes her husband comes meet you from work. And she just sucked it, swallowed it, didn’t even drink it with water. I collected the sperm from my lips with my finger, touched it up with lipstick, and here I am again, the faithful keeper of the hearth. I made inquiries - my husband doesn’t know that only the lazy don’t fuck her. And he says about the conversations, these are rumors, they are jealous and angry that she is faithful to me and spread rumors

Unread post by **Omut46** » 23 Oct 2023, 23:34

I can’t believe she has many lovers. I think that one is permanent, but I’m not sure anymore. They don’t know that I’m already in the know and even have a video... I got it corny. I always wanted to watch our sex with her from the outside, but Lena was against video recording. In short, I bought a watch with a hidden camera. Cool stuff. If you don’t know, you won’t guess. You can watch online remotely, or you can write. I installed it in the bedroom and found out... From their conversation I realized that it started almost immediately after our wedding.

Unread post by **Alexssss** » 23 Oct 2023, 23:41

Evgenii7519, There is no need to judge all wives by your own

Unread post by **Sergei** » 23 Oct 2023, 23:45

I am sure that my wife is not cheating on me. And at the same time, I fully admit that under the current favorable circumstances, I may not be able to resist temptation.

Unread post by **Greek10** » 23 Oct 2023, 23:55

By the age of 40, any liquid woman has or has had a lover, if she has the physical ability; if she doesn’t, she virtually has a partner (correspondence).
There are a huge number of reasons for this. A huge number of circumstances contribute to this.
Until I was 35, I also thought it was anyone, but not mine....Yeah. Instead of jealousy and anger, I began to analyze how, why, what contributed. As a conclusion, this is an inevitable process and I gave the main impetus, but if I hadn’t given it, it would still happen, just a little later.
If a woman just fucks on the side without forming an alternate airfield, she’s not a whore - nothing special or terrible will happen. Women are much more careful than men.
By the way, men for some reason have usurped their right to fuck on the side - we are allowed to do so. On what grounds is not clear. If the family has equal rights, why do you fuck an employee at a corporate party without feeling remorse, while she should feel condemnation and guilt for doing the same thing.

Unread post by **Omut46** » 23 Oct 2023, 23:55

I decided not to tell my friend anything. I listened to their conversations on video and realized that it was just great sex. This video even turned me on. My Helen looks so sexy there. I love her.

Unread post by **Greek10** » 23 Oct 2023, 23:57

Alexssss: 23 Oct 2023, 23:41 Evgenii7519, You don’t need all the wives judge for yourself

Holy simplicity.... If people don’t press you against you in the metro, it doesn’t mean that the metro doesn’t exist in Paris.

Unread post by **Evgenii7519** » 24 Oct 2023, 01:43

Alexssss: 23 Oct 2023, 23:41 Evgenii7519, You don’t need all the wives judge your own

How naive you are

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Omut46: 23 Oct 2023, 23:55 I decided not to tell my friend anything. I listened to their conversations on video and realized that it was just great sex. This video even turned me on. My Helen looks so sexy there. I love her.

Just be careful at home, don’t break the ceilings with your horns

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Serguei: 23 Oct 2023, 23:45 I am sure that my wife is not cheating on me. And at the same time, I fully admit that under the current favorable circumstances, I may not be able to resist temptation.

Only the absence of a spouse can give confidence.

Unread post by **Alexssss** » 24 Oct 2023, 01:49

Evgenii7519, You are already fucked (sorry for my bad French )Look after yourself!!!

Unread post by **Evgenii7519** » 24 Oct 2023, 01:50

Alexssss: 24 Oct 2023, 01:49 Evgenii7519, You are already fucked (sorry for my bad French) Look after yourself!!!

...also epileptic...))

Unread post by **Alexssss** » 24 Oct 2023, 01:52

Mark Twain: “Never argue with idiots. You will sink to their level, where they will crush you with their experience."

Unread post by **Vik.ruba80** » 24 Oct 2023, 01:56

Every woman needs a lover. Especially if the husband is traveling or on business trips. But when you arrive, you can prove who loves you more.

24 Oct 2023, 05:47

Look how confident they were. But it’s okay. Let them think so. Who then do men fuck? If the wives are faithful, it’s not a fact that all husbands will know. But the majority will definitely. And there will be fewer such confident ones. The rest will still kiss their lips in someone else’s sperm. Well, maybe you’ll sleep better, as they say.

Unread post by **Tapkin** » 24 Oct 2023, 06:25

ivan1971: 24 Oct 2023, 05:47 Look how confident they were. But it’s okay. Let them think so. Who then do men fuck? If the wives are faithful, it’s not a fact that all husbands will know, of course. But the majority will know for sure. And there will be fewer such confident ones. The rest will still kiss their lips in someone else’s sperm. Well, maybe it’s better that you sleep better, as they say.

..my friend, life has decimated you!(((
You seem to be the same age, but your flask whistles loudly, you should stay away from the perverts, there is no place for you among "sick" people.))))

Unread post by **Alexssss** » 24 Oct 2023, 06:30

Tapkin, If people have no concept of something sacred , honor of fidelity, something to talk about. I was never a saint until I met that one, besides whom you don’t want anyone else,

24 Oct 2023, 06:39

ivan1971: 24 Oct 2023, 05:47 Eco, my friend, life has decimated you!(((
You seem to be the same age, but your flask whistles loudly, you should stay away from perverts, there is no place for you among "sick" people.))))

What’s wrong???

24 Oct 2023, 06:50

Alexssss: 24 Oct 2023, 01:49 Evgenii7519, You are already fucked (sorry for my bad French) Look after yourself!!!

yes, there’s no point in arguing... you still can’t out-argue if a person is stubborn about something, and you don’t try to convince. You still know your wife better than they do.

Unread post by **Esdk** » 24 Oct 2023, 08:31

No one can be sure of this. Now I’m thinking about it and I can say that I cheated. After we got married, she went wild. Day and night she wanted sex. At first I liked it, we made love several times a day, and in the morning she even woke me up with a blowjob. But over time I started to get bored and wanted to go for a walk with the guys or play football. It’s my own fault for telling her that’s enough, let’s do less of this. A year after the wedding, she got a job as a secretary at the ministry. There, in addition to her salary, she also got money. She said that the boss gives it to her when they bring him a bribe. And once the boss invited her to go with him to Turkey, she said so herself, but didn’t go. That’s when she started pestering me less about sex, and that suited me. I can’t now firmly say that she cheated on me then. So if they want, they will definitely do it and no one will know about it
Something like this

Unread post by **Watchman** » 24 Oct 2023, 10:04

I’m sure I have no one, so there’s no one

Unread post by **Katerinka** » 24 Oct 2023, 19:41

Henson, hmm, finally a logical vision of the situation)) ))

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nEsdk, we have a similar situation. At first there was sex every day, over time less and less. He started saying that there were problems at work and this, but I was thinking something else, and I needed more sex. But I don’t cheat, I silently freak out, because when I ask, he calls me preoccupied

I don’t know what to do and what think

Unread post by **Serg_A** » 24 Oct 2023, 20:18

Katerinka: 24 Oct 2023, 19:46 At first there was sex every day, over time less and less. He began to say that there were problems at work and this, but I thought something else

If sex became over time less, then it is quite possible that it does not change. If the amount of sex sharply decreased, then yes, you need to think about it.

Unread post by **Serg_A** » 24 Oct 2023, 20:22

Katerinka: 24 Oct 2023, 19:46 I need more sex. But I don’t cheat, I silently freak out, because when I ask, he calls me preoccupied

Let him satisfy you with cunnilingus, without anything else, and the rest will come he already wants it himself.

Unread post by **Katerinka** » 24 Oct 2023, 20:22

Serg_A, do you know how to increase it again?) )

Unread post by **Alexssss** » 24 Oct 2023, 20:25

Katerinka, Try to diversify your life with toys

Unread post by **Serg_A** » 24 Oct 2023, 20:27

Katerinka: 24 Oct 2023, 20:22 Serg_A, but you don’t know his name increase again?))

Increase testosterone in a man’s body.
And for this, get more rest and a balanced diet. Work out at the gym regularly. Less stress.
Well, it’s possible, if nothing helps, then visit an andrologist, only a good one.)))

Unread post by **Henson** » 25 Oct 2023, 08:09

Katerinka: 24 Oct 2023, 19:46 hmm, finally a logical vision of the situation))))

glad to try)

Katerinka: 24 Oct 2023, 19:46 we have a similar situation. At first there was sex every day, over time less and less. He started saying that there were problems at work and this, but I was thinking something else, and I needed more sex. But I’m not cheating, I’m silently freaking out, because when I ask, he calls me preoccupied, I don’t know what to do and what to think

as if it’s a sin to teach, but just I’ll throw it on. But what if you sit down straight and no less directly declare "I need sex! I undoubtedly love you and want to fuck with you, but you don’t give in

so what are we going to do, dear beloved?" and for two to figure out a way out of the situation. lover, mistress, vibrator, kinks for two or for you alone. in short, the point is to jointly search for a solution to the problem that is acceptable to both

Unread post by **Finish** » 25 Oct 2023, 08:17

My wife and I ended up having a rather strange relationship. At first, out of boredom while on maternity leave, she looked for various acquaintances, which eventually turned into falling in love. There was a lot of swearing and scandals. In the end, I somehow came to terms with this; things didn’t go further than falling in love.
And then one day she went to another city to meet one of these loves. And upon arrival, I was drunk, after gatherings with my brother, she admitted that there had been sex.

I was stunned, very much. But because our relationship has completely become nonexistent and sex has disappeared from our lives. I decided - live as you want. As a result, we live as friends and raise a child.
In fact, even if we take away the fact that our relationship disappeared, I changed my mind about cheating. I would fully admit that besides me, someone else is fucking my wife.
The main thing here is not to bring STDs home. And everything else is trivial.

Unread post by **Henson** » 25 Oct 2023, 08:24

Finush, here I am approximately your position. For me, loyalty is following agreements. If you agree to have sex only together, then it’s just the two of you. Maybe we’ll agree otherwise over time, but no “secretly”

Unread post by **Katerinka** » 25 Oct 2023, 08:42

Henson, says be patient, tired, headaches. I understand myself... but I don’t fully understand... when I get home, I turn my head off from work) and a vibrator is not the same, I want something alive))) a lover is also an extra headache, and why should I waste my energy

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