Wife's past

Unread post by **Viktor** » 04 May 2021, 10:21

How does anyone react to their wife’s past? My wife lost her virginity at 16.5, her first love was 5 years older, he fucked her for half a year and left her, then she dated someone else 3 times, I think he’s not lying, and then at almost 18 she met me, already 10 years place, married for 4 years, a lot of things happened, bad and good, but because she fucked with someone I can’t forgive her, fuck with the first partner, but she fucked with the second, it seems to me to spite the first, like he doesn’t really want her, there will be others, no, no, I make scandals about this (often), I don’t know why, it just comes over me! Although I am a preoccupied person myself))) and I understand that it happened and passed, it was my choice! But my brain keeps thinking about it all and my blood boils! Even though a hundred years have passed! What about you?

Unread post by **Tolkala** » 30 Jan 2022, 18:57

niqk, of course not. If thoughts about the wife’s past are appear in your head, then at some point, under certain circumstances, these thoughts are translated into words and actions. And this can happen often. If you think about this, then it’s definitely better to get a divorce and live alone. Because you can’t find a virgin, and tormenting yourself with thoughts about your wife’s past is more expensive for yourself.

Unread post by **Evgeniy-Spb** » 30 Jan 2022, 21:28

admiral911: ↑30 Jan 2022, 14:40 My girlfriend is actually a lesbian

Oh woe

Unread post by **niqk** » 31 Jan 2022, 09:47

Tolqala: ↑30 Jan 2022, 18:57 niqk, of course not. If thoughts about your wife’s past will appear in your head, then at some point, under certain circumstances, these thoughts are realized in words and actions. And this can happen often. If you think about this, then it’s definitely better to get a divorce and live alone. Because You can’t find a virgin, and tormenting yourself with thoughts about your wife’s past is more expensive for yourself.

To be honest, I don’t understand this obsession with virgins! They say that only a girl with an impeccable reputation should be taken as a wife! What for?!
Firstly, this does not give any guarantee that he will value you as his first man. Secondly, this does not guarantee
that she will not have a desire to try someone else besides you. Thirdly, with a virgin, especially one with
sensitive nature, you are tormented by breaking your virginity: she is scared, and unusual, and painful, and...
In short, there is more hassle with virgins than pleasure.
So, take your girl! And it doesn’t matter at all whether she had someone, or whether you were the first to be in the treasured place...

Unread post by **Evgeniy-Spb** » 31 Jan 2022, 09:59

But just imagine, I didn’t break a single piece. And not at all because we were unlucky with this or did not meet such people. We met, and not alone. I don’t know why, but from my youth it got into my head that I didn’t want to be remembered by a virgin for the rest of her life.
And I don’t regret it.

Unread post by **niqk** » 31 Jan 2022, 10:17

I think you haven’t lost anything. And at least he avoided unnecessary trouble...

Unread post by **Richard Sorge** » 31 Jan 2022, 10:20

Agree. I also don’t consider virginity any advantage. Although at a certain stage I thought that a virgin should be taken as a wife. Now I think it’s in vain.

Unread post by **Evgeniy-Spb** » 31 Jan 2022, 10:26

I agree with you, gentlemen. Yes, and it’s troublesome

Unread post by **Vladtsst** » 24 Feb 2022, 01:13

The wife’s past turns her on. She told me everything before the wedding. My wife is Filipino. She worked for many years at
O.A.E Abu Dhabi. At the age of 23, her hymen was broken by a 38-year-old Moroccan man. I fucked with him for 3 years. Then I found out that besides her, he fucked three more. I broke up with him. Then she found a Pakistani man 3 years younger than her. She said that she became the first woman for him. Before her, he was a virgin. I wanted to marry him. But there his relatives reared up because she was not a Muslim and was no longer a virgin. Well, after that I met her on one of the dating sites. By that time I had just divorced my first wife. I went to see her in Abu Dhabi. Then we went to the Philippines and met her family. I extended an invitation to her, she came to me in Moscow and we got married. I found on her friend’s page some racy photos of her hugging her ex-Pakistani fucker. I see these photos and my dick gets hard. He didn’t tell his wife that he found photos of her with a Pakistani man from her friend. There is no jealousy. I am not a young boy, and it is clear that she has not been virgin for a long time.

Unread post by **Evgeniy-Spb** » 24 Feb 2022, 06:19

Vlad6969, as they say, happiness, understanding and love to you in your family life!)

Unread post by **Vladtsst** » 24 Feb 2022, 06:33

Thank you! We have been married for 7 years now. In total, 8 years together

Unread post by **niqk** » 24 Feb 2022, 07:26

Vlad6969: ↑24 Feb 2022, 06:33 Thank you! We have been married for 7 years now. In total, 8 years together

Well done! Correct solution! The past is gone! And there’s no need for it!

Unread post by **For a day** » 25 Feb 2022, 11:21

There’s nothing wrong with that. We must treat the past calmly.

Unread post by **Vladtsst** » 25 Feb 2022, 17:10

On the contrary, it adds some spice to sex. As soon as you look at the photo where her ex is almost touching her tit, her dick immediately gets erect.

Unread post by **Shy Baby** » 26 Feb 2022, 06:59

I have a wonderful husband. We have been together for 11 years.....Once he asked me who I had before him. I answered that he himself knows him - this is my ex-fiancé, from whom he fought me off... But he will never know the real truth. Why does he need to know?

Unread post by **MaxMax** » 26 Feb 2022, 07:01

I wouldn’t mind if my wife had a very rich past

Unread post by **niqk** » 26 Feb 2022, 07:05

Shy Baby: ↑26 Feb 2022, 06:59 I have a wonderful husband. We have been together for 11 years.....Once he asked me who I had before him. I answered that he himself knows him - this is my ex-fiancé, from whom he fought me off... But he will never know the real truth. Why does he need to know?

I agree! Not all husbands can reveal their past. Dangerous...

Unread post by **Vladtsst** » 26 Feb 2022, 07:06

I like my wife’s past.

Unread post by **niqk** » 26 Feb 2022, 07:15

You are an obvious rarity! Many husbands are madly jealous of their wives for their exes! And they terribly suspect that their wives continue to fuck them! They are jealous - just as creepy!

Unread post by **Vladtsst** » 26 Feb 2022, 07:28

Fuck it, I’m a boy or something. But you know everything, and then you won’t be surprised when your wife is asked in front of you, where is your ex-so-and-so. That’s why I’m married to a foreigner. Their mentality is completely different. They are open. And this is your choice before the wedding, and not after with the feeling of being fucked.

Unread post by **niqk** » 26 Feb 2022, 07:37

To be honest, I personally don’t care who my wife fucked... And she doesn’t care about my past adventures either!

Unread post by **Vladtsst** » 26 Feb 2022, 07:42

Mine also asked everything about me. She was mainly interested in her ex-wife. This is about possible future problems.

Unread post by **niqk** » 26 Feb 2022, 07:50

Vlad6969: ↑26 Feb 2022, 07:42 Mine also asked everything about me. She was mainly interested in her ex-wife. This is about possible future problems.

Did she tell you any details about herself? What about you?

Unread post by **Vladtsst** » 26 Feb 2022, 07:56

Exactly. But all this happened before the wedding. That’s it after that. There were no more questions. Anyone who speaks English can read it. There it is completely normal that no one is jealous of anyone. They talk in bed about their former sex partners and get turned on. Only Indians, and those from Muslim countries, react inappropriately

Unread post by **niqk** » 26 Feb 2022, 08:21

Well, we have plenty of such pairs! Especially among those who love gangbangs...

Unread post by **Vladtsst** » 26 Feb 2022, 08:34

We didn’t do group activities. She is religious, although strange, of course, religiosity but oh well.

Unread post by **niqk** » 26 Feb 2022, 08:36

Vlad6969: ↑26 Feb 2022, 08:34 We didn’t do group work. She is religious, although strange, of course, religiosity, but oh well.

Well, there are different religions. I know religions where they worship sex as such...

Unread post by **Vladtsst** » 26 Feb 2022, 08:40

Adventists 7 days. Although before me she only fucked Muslims, although she worked in the United Arab Emirates. And there are no others there. She didn’t fuck with white people. With compatriots too. And there are practically no other Christians there.

Unread post by **niqk** » 26 Feb 2022, 08:43

They say that Filipinas have narrow pussies, like virgins. This is true?

Unread post by **Vladtsst** » 26 Feb 2022, 09:05

Yes, it’s hard to insert. Cooney for sure. The first time I broke the bridle with her. With our menstruation, we could easily be killed for our virginity. Look at the photo of her hole

Unread post by **niqk** » 26 Feb 2022, 09:11

I love plump pussies! It’s so nice to caress them! Mmmm!!!

Unread post by **Richard Sorge** » 31 Mar 2022, 10:14

Vlad6969: ↑26 Feb 2022, 09:05 So, it’s hard to insert. Cooney for sure. The first time I broke the bridle with her. With our menstruation, we could easily be killed for our virginity. Look at the photo of her hole

How is she in sex, compared to our girls? Noticed the differences?

Unread post by **Vartislav** » 31 Mar 2022, 13:33

In a relationship, only one thing matters: how your significant other treats you now and how you treat her. If you are both loved and desired, nothing will stop you.
I used to be jealous and worried. And now I also get excited by my wife’s stories (and I had four of them). She doesn’t want to listen to my stories, she gets upset. I’m not telling you.

Unread post by xx » 31 Mar 2022, 13:40

on the contrary, I suggest to my wife, let’s have a change, let’s go together

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me too excites and I suggest to my wife let’s find variety together

Unread post by **Lao** » 01 Apr 2022, 02:56

Vasyanitsa: ↑16 Jun 2021, 06:13
Viktor: ↑04 May 2021, 10:21 Who reacts to his wife’s past? My wife lost her virginity at 16.5, her first love was 5 years older, he fucked her for half a year and left her, then she dated someone else 3 times, I think he’s not lying, and then at almost 18 she met me, already 10 years place, married for 4 years, a lot of things happened, bad and good, but because she fucked with someone I can’t forgive her, fuck with the first partner, but she fucked with the second, it seems to me to spite the first, like he doesn’t really want her, there will be others, no, no, I make scandals about this (often), I don’t know why, it just comes over me! Although I am a preoccupied person myself))) and I understand that it happened and passed, it was my choice! But my brain keeps thinking about it all and my blood boils! Even though a hundred years have passed! How are you?
Yes, in the end she will be completely fed up with all this and she will simply make a decision. Or someone at work (or relatives) will convince her that she is smart, that she is a young, pretty woman, that she is her own boss, and not you, her husband.
That she can change her life, become independent in her actions . Don’t look back at anyone. And that she generally deserves to be respected, loved and treated as a friend, and not as an au pair who can also be fucked for free.

And that’s when all this information Once she finally sorts it out in her head, then you can’t get it all out of her head. And she will eventually make a decision sooner or later. And it can no longer be canceled by anything. She just likes this idea of leaving you and she will do it in the end. That is, he will simply leave you. And you will be like a fool with your jealousy.
She will no longer be interested in you and she will no longer care whether you love her or not, whether you are jealous or not.
She will want only one thing - for you disappeared somewhere from her life. Forever and forever.

In general, it’s better not to bring a woman to this. As a rule, men themselves are to blame for the fact that women come to such decisions. Well, like, they really fuck with control, some kind of their desires or dominance.
And in the end some kind of fuse in a woman simply breaks and a self-defense mechanism against all this crap on the part of a man is triggered.
One fine day she just finally understands that she is not a slave, and that she was not bought on the market, and that she is not a thing.
And that, accordingly, she does not owe anything to this man of hers, who for some reason decided that he is her master.

My advice to you is this...
Stop treating your woman like a child or a subordinate. Try to start treating her as a friend, but only female.
For example, you have a friend. And this is your woman. And you and her have reached an agreement. But there should be few of them. Otherwise, a long list will devalue everything.
For example, an agreement that you both spend the night at home. This is important and fundamental.

Next...
That you cannot sleep with someone on the side. And if one of you really wants to fuck someone, then you need to negotiate about it.
I mean, why not!? But this should not be behind your back and your friend should agree with it. That you will fuck someone on the side.

But there may be such a nuance that your friend may not mind you fucking someone, but he may still be offended. That is, he doesn’t seem to mind, but it’s certainly hard to sit at home and know that somewhere right now your woman is being fucked. In such cases, people then agree on a threesome. It’s easier. But the main thing is that on the one hand there are no lies to each other and everything is honest.
And there is no need to lie or hide something if you still want to fuck someone.

nAnd I think that you personally have gotten up on someone more than once or twice in transport or at work. And perhaps more than once or twice you have had such situations at work (or somewhere else) when you would like to stick it to someone.
And now the question is - if this occurred to you, then why can’t the same thing come to mind of your friend (wife)?
Is she rubber? Or is it made from some other dough? Or is she incapable of receiving pleasure and orgasm?
After all, when you have sex with her, you want her to be excited, so that she wants to fuck with you in bed like a cat. And so that she enjoys sex with you.

Why do you think that she might not want to be fucked by two people? So that it’s you and some other guy who your wife at least doesn’t dislike.
But you don’t even allow such things for your wife. Although you yourself think about it and I believe that if the opportunity arises, you will definitely stick it to someone.

That is, the result is some kind of hypocrisy and lies.
You are lying to your wife that love her and that you have never had and cannot have with anyone, but in fact, if necessary, you will definitely stick it to someone. But you won’t tell your wife about this.
And the wife, in the same way, probably also wants some kind of sexual variety, and perhaps she is also excited by someone. But she will never tell you about this because it’s not that you won’t allow her, but you are still jealous of some of the men she had before marriage.

So what What do we have as a result?
And what will you definitely put in if the opportunity arises, and apparently your wife also cannot resist someone she likes. If you are absolutely sure that no one will know about it. Well, a business trip or something. Or he can simply drink heavily somewhere and simply lose control of himself.

In general, I think that the solution to your problem has two developments...
Or agree with each other how I described above. That is, do not lie to each other and honestly share your desires with each other and, accordingly, together, then decide what to do and how to solve the problem.

Or the second option is to turn a blind eye to such things when you see that she probably slept with someone. Don’t make a scene and don’t try to figure out or catch her doing this.
Because once you catch her, you’ll have to make some kind of decision. And you may not like this decision. And it’s possible that you yourself will later regret this decision.
But in fact, it was all just about sex.

For example, you were visiting relatives somewhere at the dacha, let’s go to the bathhouse. And there some village girls came to their relatives and also went to take a steam bath. Well, you are such a city gentleman. Well, then we drank, took a steam bath, and then went through the dark to accompany them home. Well, they both fucked on the way in an abandoned garden. So what is this for you?
Are you going to run away tomorrow to get a divorce and move to live in the village?
And will this fuck make you reconsider your whole life?

Well of course not. This is just an episode from life. Well, it’s just that you and those girls had a good time and everything was by mutual agreement.
And you continue to love your wife, you are not going to change your family life.
And the same thing can happen to your woman ( wife). She may turn out to be that one, but not a village girl, but a city girl. And she might just as well like some handsome, courteous and pleasant summer resident in all respects.

And she might just as well, after warming up in the steam room in the dressing room, give herself to this summer resident. And she will feel good and pleased.
But the most important thing is that she can then be very, very grateful to you for the fact that you may have seen that something happened, but did not create scenes of jealousy and bring everyone to clean water. Climb up to clean someone’s face...

Beautiful, well painted, I would have worn my fingers down to calluses, otherwise everything is in my mind
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Viktor: ↑04 May 2021, 10:21 Who reacts to his wife’s past? My wife lost her virginity at 16.5, her first love was 5 years older, he fucked her for half a year and left her, then she dated someone else 3 times, I think he’s not lying, and then at almost 18 she met me, already 10 years place, married for 4 years, a lot of things happened, bad and good, but because she fucked with someone I can’t forgive her, fuck with the first partner, but she fucked with the second, it seems to me to spite the first, like he doesn’t really want her, there will be others, no, no, I make scandals about this (often), I don’t know why, it just comes over me! Although I am a preoccupied person myself))) and I understand that it happened and passed, it was my choice! But my brain keeps thinking about it all and my blood boils! Even though a hundred years have passed! How are you?

You yourself didn’t meet her as a virgin. If she is honest with you in a relationship, then this should be respected and appreciated.
If she were a scoundrel who had sex in half the city, and you are her last chance to start a family and in words, you are her second, and her cap is like after a nuclear war, you need to run away from this)

Unread post by **Vladtsst** » 01 Apr 2022, 21:06

Richard Sorge, And of our women I only had ex-wife. All my other sex partners were Asian. So, this is probably not a very correct sample for an answer.

Unread post by **Anbel** » 01 Apr 2022, 22:56

I’m generally afraid of virgins. For a long time I tried to persuade my then girlfriend, she was already 19 and I was 16, to fuck her, but every time she found a reason, one fine evening we were at a disco, we both drank and she herself offered me to fuck her. Well, of course, it didn’t take long to persuade me. In short, I fuck her, she screams, struggles, moans, I think “what a macho I am,” but as it turned out later, she was a virgin and I broke her virginity. She also received several stitches. In my defense, I can say I didn’t know. Then we had sex with her, she was not offended by me, and her pussy was narrow, it was very nice. After her there was another one, when we got into bed and I began to settle in, I felt it wasn’t going well, I thought maybe I didn’t hit it, I looked like I got it, I asked, “Are you a virgin?” She answered, “Yes!” I slapped her on the ass , I said, “Get dressed and go home, that’s enough, it’s already been a bitter experience,” and kicked her out. And I’ve already written a lot about my wife, about what she had before me, what kind of sex we have now. No, well, if I were 20-30 years old, I would be a 100% owner, but I have already outgrown this and understand that there is only one life and it must be lived in such a way that it would not be offensive in old age about missed moments.

Unread post by **Mega** » 04 Apr 2022, 03:13

It was, it was, forget it

Unread post by **niqk** » 04 Apr 2022, 09:53

Mega: ↑04 Apr 2022, 03:13 It was, it was, forget

And if it’s nice to remember?..

Unread post by **Lion 123540** » 04 Apr 2022, 20:48

Yes, everything is fine! I didn’t get my wife as a girl either. Yes, and I had a very depraved life before her.

Unread post by **Andrey57115** » 07 Apr 2022, 07:46

What difference does her past make? The main thing is the present.

Unread post by **niqk** » 07 Apr 2022, 08:27

Andrey57115: ↑07 Apr 2022, 07:46 What difference does her past make? The main thing is the present.

... and the future!

Unread post by **Devil** » 25 Apr 2022, 01:58

A friend was telling a story in a group of friends about how he had one girl, but she wouldn’t let her in the ass, he pressed her face against the wall in the corridor and put his dick against her ass, and began to enter, and she screamed, he went completely into her ass and froze. She stopped squealing and said let’s get on the bed. She stood up doggy style and squealed, her asshole was well stretched. As it turned out, he was talking about my future wife. She tells me that she didn’t have it before me. And I can imagine how she screamed

Unread post by **DON** » 25 Apr 2022, 02:24

And yet when you see her first man. His dick...feelings of jealousy overwhelm me.

Unread post by **Evgenii7519** » 25 Apr 2022, 02:31

DON: ↑25 Apr 2022, 02:24
And yet when you see her first man. His dick...feelings of jealousy overwhelm me

And if she confesses to you about incest, group sex or zoo sex, will you go crazy?)) )

Unread post by **DON** » 25 Apr 2022, 02:33

I know that they were in her group... Of course it was a shock for me when I found out.

Unread post by **nz_alex** » 25 Apr 2022, 04:54

With the first wife I was the first, with the second I was not the first. I prefer not to delve further

Unread post by **Lina** » 25 Apr 2022, 05:09

My husband and I have never discussed my ex, it is stressful for him, he knows that he was there and was periodically jealous of him. But as time passed, I stopped remembering it. It’s stupid, somehow adults all have their own past, I think it’s cool when you can talk with your partner about everything, about desires, about fears and be understood by them.

Unread post by **Say** » 25 Apr 2022, 05:47

I take my wife’s past life calmly. I want her to be comfortable and feel normal. When a person feels comfortable, he will give a lot. If mine gets fucked somewhere, I don’t want to know. If only everything was fine with her.

Unread post by **Devil** » 15 May 2022, 03:07

DON: ↑25 Apr 2022, 02:24 And yet when you see her first man. His dick....feelings of jealousy overwhelm me.

and I, too, I’m friends with her ex, constantly think about how he saw her naked, stuck her in her ass , she saw him naked, touched his penis

Unread post by **Tightrope walker** » 15 May 2022, 03:25

It will pass with time. I had this happen too. The main thing is to control yourself, even if you really want to. You still won’t hear from her what you want.

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