Wife's past

Unread post by **Viktor** » 04 May 2021, 10:21

How does anyone react to their wife’s past? My wife lost her virginity at 16.5, her first love was 5 years older, he fucked her for half a year and left her, then she dated someone else 3 times, I think he’s not lying, and then at almost 18 she met me, already 10 years place, married for 4 years, a lot of things happened, bad and good, but because she fucked with someone I can’t forgive her, fuck with the first partner, but she fucked with the second, it seems to me to spite the first, like he doesn’t really want her, there will be others, no, no, I make scandals about this (often), I don’t know why, it just comes over me! Although I am a preoccupied person myself))) and I understand that it happened and passed, it was my choice! But my brain keeps thinking about it all and my blood boils! Even though a hundred years have passed! What about you?

Unread post by **niqk** » 04 May 2021, 10:34

And here we are - calm! What happened was what happened. It’s gone!
And I can advise you - don’t fool yourself or your wife! If you beat her, you will lead to trips to the left. So far she is clearly faithful to you, but with your idiocy
you will bring things to trouble! Do you need it?!

Unread post by **Hair shirt** » 16 Jun 2021, 06:13

Viktor: ↑04 May 2021, 10:21 Who reacts to his wife’s past? My wife lost her virginity at 16.5, her first love was 5 years older, he fucked her for half a year and left her, then she dated someone else 3 times, I think he’s not lying, and then at almost 18 she met me, already 10 years place, married for 4 years, a lot of things happened, bad and good, but because she fucked with someone I can’t forgive her, fuck with the first partner, but she fucked with the second, it seems to me to spite the first, like he doesn’t really want her, there will be others, no, no, I make scandals about this (often), I don’t know why, it just comes over me! Although I am a preoccupied person myself))) and I understand that it happened and passed, it was my choice! But my brain keeps thinking about it all and my blood boils! Even though a hundred years have passed! How are you?

Yes, in the end she will be completely fed up with all this and she will simply make a decision. Or someone at work (or relatives) will convince her that she is smart, that she is a young, pretty woman, that she is her own boss, and not you, her husband.
That she can change her life, become independent in her actions . Don’t look back at anyone. And that she generally deserves to be respected, loved and treated as a friend, and not as an au pair who can also be fucked for free.

And that’s when all this information Once she finally sorts it out in her head, then you can’t get it all out of her head. And she will eventually make a decision sooner or later. And it can no longer be canceled by anything. She just likes this idea of leaving you and she will do it in the end. That is, he will simply leave you. And you will be like a fool with your jealousy.
She will no longer be interested in you and she will no longer care whether you love her or not, whether you are jealous or not.
She will want only one thing - for you disappeared somewhere from her life. Forever and forever.

In general, it’s better not to bring a woman to this. As a rule, men themselves are to blame for the fact that women come to such decisions. Well, like, they really fuck with control, some kind of their desires or dominance.
And in the end some kind of fuse in a woman simply breaks and a self-defense mechanism against all this crap on the part of a man is triggered.
One fine day she just finally understands that she is not a slave, and that she was not bought on the market, and that she is not a thing.
And that, accordingly, she does not owe anything to this man of hers, who for some reason decided that he is her master.

My advice to you is this...
Stop treating your woman like a child or a subordinate. Try to start treating her as a friend, but only female.
For example, you have a friend. And this is your woman. And you and her have reached an agreement. But there should be few of them. Otherwise, a long list will devalue everything.
For example, an agreement that you both spend the night at home. This is important and fundamental.

Next...
That you cannot sleep with someone on the side. And if one of you really wants to fuck someone, then you need to negotiate about it.
I mean, why not!? But this should not be behind your back and your friend should agree with it. That you will fuck someone on the side.

But there may be such a nuance that your friend may not mind you fucking someone, but he may still be offended. That is, he doesn’t seem to mind, but it’s certainly hard to sit at home and know that somewhere right now your woman is being fucked. In such cases, people then agree on a threesome. It’s easier. But the main thing is that on the one hand there are no lies to each other and everything is honest.
And there is no need to lie or hide something if you still want to fuck someone.

nAnd I think that you personally have gotten up on someone more than once or twice in transport or at work. And perhaps more than once or twice you have had such situations at work (or somewhere else) when you would like to stick it to someone.
And now the question is - if this occurred to you, then why can’t the same thing come to mind of your friend (wife)?
Is she rubber? Or is it made from some other dough? Or is she incapable of receiving pleasure and orgasm?
After all, when you have sex with her, you want her to be excited, so that she wants to fuck with you in bed like a cat. And so that she enjoys sex with you.

Why do you think that she might not want to be fucked by two people? So that it’s you and some other guy who your wife at least doesn’t dislike.
But you don’t even allow such things for your wife. Although you yourself think about it and I believe that if the opportunity arises, you will definitely stick it to someone.

That is, the result is some kind of hypocrisy and lies.
You are lying to your wife that love her and that you have never had and cannot have with anyone, but in fact, if necessary, you will definitely stick it to someone. But you won’t tell your wife about this.
And the wife, in the same way, probably also wants some kind of sexual variety, and perhaps she is also excited by someone. But she will never tell you about this because it’s not that you won’t allow her, but you are still jealous of some of the men she had before marriage.

So what What do we have as a result?
And what will you definitely put in if the opportunity arises, and apparently your wife also cannot resist someone she likes. If you are absolutely sure that no one will know about it. Well, a business trip or something. Or he can simply drink heavily somewhere and simply lose control of himself.

In general, I think that the solution to your problem has two developments...
Or agree with each other how I described above. That is, do not lie to each other and honestly share your desires with each other and, accordingly, together, then decide what to do and how to solve the problem.

Or the second option is to turn a blind eye to such things when you see that she probably slept with someone. Don’t make a scene and don’t try to figure out or catch her doing this.
Because once you catch her, you’ll have to make some kind of decision. And you may not like this decision. And it’s possible that you yourself will later regret this decision.
But in fact, it was all just about sex.

For example, you were visiting relatives somewhere at the dacha, let’s go to the bathhouse. And there some village girls came to their relatives and also went to take a steam bath. Well, you are such a city gentleman. Well, then we drank, took a steam bath, and then went through the dark to accompany them home. Well, they both fucked on the way in an abandoned garden. So what is this for you?
Are you going to run away tomorrow to get a divorce and move to live in the village?
And will this fuck make you reconsider your whole life?

Well of course not. This is just an episode from life. Well, it’s just that you and those girls had a good time and everything was by mutual agreement.
And you continue to love your wife, you are not going to change your family life.
And the same thing can happen to your woman ( wife). She may turn out to be that one, but not a village girl, but a city girl. And she might just as well like some handsome, courteous and pleasant summer resident in all respects.

And she might just as well, after warming up in the steam room in the dressing room, give herself to this summer resident. And she will feel good and pleased.
But the most important thing is that she can then be very, very grateful to you for the fact that you may have seen that something happened, but did not create scenes of jealousy and bring everyone to clean water. Climb someone’s face to clean...

Unread post by **Hair shirt** » 16 Jun 2021, 06:29

And one more thing....
Everything I wrote above does not quite fit into the framework of generally accepted morality.
Many people do not even dare to discuss all these things not only with friends or girlfriends, but also with each other. I mean husband and wife.
But all this does not change the essence.
Men desperately fuck their co-workers whenever the opportunity arises. Well, they, in turn, are also someone’s wives.

In general, according to my observations, I think a good half of married people live with each other simply out of habit. And I think that they are not friends at all.
Well, it just so happened that they got married. And then they just don’t want to change anything.
Because the apartment, because the children, because the money that the husband carries. Because a wife with two children who, if anything happens, will simply undress you after a divorce and leave you without pants, housing, money...

But here is the other half who is still married somehow more sanely and who could fall apart because nothing prevents it. Because they both work, because the house is rented and there are no children yet...
And people live with each other because they like each other and because they are both happy with everything.
Well, in general, I think that these people treat each other more honestly. Because it won’t work out any other way.

Well, in general, I wouldn’t advise you to put pressure on your woman. You run a very high risk of being left alone.
One fine evening she simply won’t come home and her parents will call you and you won’t be able to change anything.
And this will be the right decision on her part.
Because she is not your thing and you are not her owner.
And you did not buy her in a store or as a dog from a breeder.

Unread post by **amount** » 26 Jul 2021, 10:06

You can’t change the past, it’s better not to focus and it will be forgotten gradually.

Unread post by **Vladimir.tomsky** » 26 Jul 2021, 11:59

Haven’t you fucked anyone before her? The angel showed up. Let’s punish yourself first then

found a defenseless one and pecked. Well man, what.

Unread post by **Igor29** » 28 Jul 2021, 04:56

What happened, happened! Each of us has a past and good moments and bad. I’ve been married for 10 years. Everything is fine with us. I know almost everything about my wife. She certainly didn’t get married as a girl). She had men before me. I’m okay with this. She even told how her drunk was fucked in a circle by three men when she was 19 years old. That it was very terrible. And I understand her.

Unread post by **dDem** » 28 Jul 2021, 05:58

I don’t agree, there’s no need to cling to the past, don’t live in the past. But it’s worth remembering and if you need to use this information for yourself. Don’t forget, but don’t go in cycles either.

Unread post by **niqk** » 28 Jul 2021, 06:48

dDem: ↑28 Jul 2021, 05:58 I don’t agree, don’t cling to the past, don’t live in the past. But it’s worth remembering and if you need to use this information for yourself. Don’t forget, but don’t go in cycles either.

Curious - how are you going to "use this information for yourself"?

Unread post by **Din71** » 28 Jul 2021, 08:36

I know about my friend’s past, her youth was quite turbulent, but I don’t care about that - what happened, happened.

Unread post by **Devil** » 14 Aug 2021, 10:57

I knew about mine that she took it in her mouth and gave it to her ass, and then I also found out that she was flogged with a belt

Unread post by **artm. lecher** » 14 Aug 2021, 11:02

Viktor, what happened before you is the past. There is nothing to worry about and this is not a reason to spoil the relationship. On the contrary, it turned me on and often asked my wife to tell me what and how it was with her before me.

Sent after 4 minutes 48 seconds:
dDem, Before you get married, you need to think. If this doesn’t suit you, you need to look for a virgin. Who can’t do anything and doesn’t know anything. This one is definitely not interesting. To each his own, as they say.

Unread post by **Victor** » 14 Aug 2021, 11:51

Viktor: ↑04 May 2021, 10:21 Who reacts to his wife’s past? My wife lost her virginity at 16.5, her first love was 5 years older, he fucked her for half a year and left her, then she dated someone else 3 times, I think he’s not lying, and then at almost 18 she met me, already 10 years place, married for 4 years, a lot of things happened, bad and good, but because she fucked with someone I can’t forgive her, fuck with the first partner, but she fucked with the second, it seems to me to spite the first, like he doesn’t really want her, there will be others, no, no, I make scandals about this (often), I don’t know why, it just comes over me! Although I am a preoccupied person myself))) and I understand that it happened and passed, it was my choice! But my brain keeps thinking about it all and my blood boils! Even though a hundred years have passed! How are you?

damn, it’s as if she got you without fucking... Well, everyone has their own adventures in their youth. Forget and appreciate what you have now....

Unread post by **Aleksma** » 14 Aug 2021, 11:59

I react normally. Previously, when I was young, I was angry that I was fucking left and right. But now it turns me on, and I look at it differently

Unread post by **Sergey_R** » 14 Aug 2021, 23:34

Everything will be forgotten. Give it time. And everything that will be forgotten before marriage, and everything that will be forgotten during marriage.

Unread post by **Din71** » 15 Aug 2021, 02:10

I know a lot about her past. But I don’t care about all this - it’s the past. I never gave a damn about this.

Unread post by **niqk** » 15 Aug 2021, 07:14

Din71: ↑15 Aug 2021, 02:10 I know a lot about her past. But I don’t care about all this - it’s the past. I never worried about this.

A healthy approach from a healthy person!

Unread post by **Vitalism** » 17 Aug 2021, 13:29

Do not worry! Think positive. If she doesn’t cheat in marriage, that means she’s a good wife, faithful.

Unread post by **MikeMik** » 21 Aug 2021, 20:17

What should happen? Or he lived and loved her. until I found out that she (took men’s pussies in her mouth or in her ass?) What can happen to a woman? You married her, and while you didn’t know the past, everything was fine

And then I found out. And that she smelled like peeps or something. My question is: are there really such men? Nonsense, complete nonsense.

Unread post by **Metatropism** » 21 Aug 2021, 20:45

That’s right, that was it.
I also married an 18-year-old. She seemed so quiet. Modest. But it turned out she tried everything. And everything. And with two or three husbands. She confessed somehow after drinking. In general, I hyped her up for a confession.
I even told you in all the details.
So I live with it.

Unread post by **Metatropism** » 21 Aug 2021, 21:50

There was a mistress with her husband fucking in all the cracks and with me... and why in the morning he sucks me an hour later

Unread post by **Andrey I** » 21 Aug 2021, 22:30

And I got it untouched (I took my virginity myself)
(I could be wrong, of course, but it’s unlikely)
But that’s the point. On the contrary, I somehow feel sorry for her. Why won’t he try this with anyone else for the rest of his life? He hinted - he suggested - he was offended. Most likely, diversity finds, but on the sly, deceiving me. Moreover, there are opportunities - due to work I am not at home for half a year, she has male friends who sometimes spend the night with us (not alone, though in the apartment - her son also lives) And of course she is not a freak, everything is with her. You will say - 100 percent fucked, and I am more than sure. At least, if I were her friends, I would do so. But in response - stubborn as a tank - how can you think such a thing about me???? Moreover, I don’t arrest her, interrogating her with passion - I make fun of her, tease her - in response, mortal insults...

Unread post by **Evgeniy-Spb** » 21 Aug 2021, 22:35

Andrey I: ↑21 Aug 2021, 22:30 And I got it untouched (I took my virginity myself)
(I could be wrong, of course, but it’s unlikely)
But that’s the point. On the contrary, I somehow feel sorry for her. Why won’t he try this with anyone else for the rest of his life? He hinted - he suggested - he was offended. Most likely, diversity finds, but on the sly, deceiving me. Moreover, there are opportunities - due to work I am not at home for half a year, she has male friends who sometimes spend the night with us (not alone, though in the apartment - her son also lives) And of course she is not a freak, everything is with her. You will say - 100 percent fucked, and I am more than sure. At least, if I were her friends, I would do so. But in response - stubborn as a tank - how can you think such a thing about me???? Moreover, I don’t arrest her, interrogating her with passion - I make fun of her, tease her - in response, mortal insults...

Everything has its time. You can’t hide an awl in a bag. If he opens up, he will definitely let it slip. You can give him something to drink to make him talkative. But the fact that she is pure cannot be ruled out.

Unread post by **onanist1982** » 21 Aug 2021, 23:12

All married women walk to the left and if you are men, husbands either don’t suspect or don’t know then I feel sorry for you

Unread post by **Romannnn** » 22 Aug 2021, 00:41

I also took mine in my mouth, and nothing happened.

Unread post by **onanist1982** » 22 Aug 2021, 00:49

I feel sorry for you guys, you write here, saying that your wives are faithful to you, but in reality, most likely, many of you have been shaking the clouds with their horns for a long time, no, of course I understand you, it’s easier, of course, to turn a blind eye to your wife’s infidelity, but until the moment she will not get pregnant from her lover and will not start registering the child with you

Unread post by **Affectionate** » 22 Aug 2021, 01:21

Metatropism, Well, tell me - why the hell do you need it was? You lived in peace, now you’ll be soul-searching for the rest of your life! "Spun it into confession" and got hit on the lips with the clitoris! How primitive and stupid you guys are!

Unread post by **Motogame** » 31 Aug 2021, 14:45

My wife was fucked by a rich boyfriend before me. Her friend told me, she broke up shortly before we met. While she was fucking with him, her friend constantly loved to suck me, but spread her legs for some Georgian.
I know that the ex loved to buy for her stockings, and then tear at her by fucking her from above.

Unread post by **vit123** » 31 Aug 2021, 17:04

Viktor, Don’t be complex! Live the present. What your wife had before you should not concern you. You, too, could have fucked the women’s battalion before getting married, who was stopping you????

Unread post by **Volk88** » 28 Sep 2021, 09:12

Well...?
What she had before you was her personal life, and that’s how it turned out.

Unread post by **Affectionate** » 28 Sep 2021, 12:19

Viktor, Who lives in the past has no future!

Unread post by **Shuher190** » 22 Nov 2021, 08:34

I knew about both wives in detail. I think that we need to be calm - this is the past, it Was. If you are jealous of the past, then you need to initially look for a virgin. And it’s not a fact that she didn’t give in anally or orally.
I noticed that I don’t know too much about the second one and it’s more annoying. I would like to know in detail, it’s easier than guessing

Unread post by **Creative** » 22 Nov 2021, 08:47

Everything is individual here. Everyone has their own idea of a suitable partner.

Unread post by **Anderson** » 22 Nov 2021, 08:51

The past is in the past, how else to react to it)

Unread post by **Guest_15** » 22 Nov 2021, 10:25

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Unread post by **Den4ik** » 23 Dec 2021, 00:08

Yes, I knew her past from the very beginning, she initially told maybe not everything, but I didn’t give a damn then, I was 17-18, I hung out as I wanted and I didn’t seem to be interested in her that life, I was busy with my own, I was hanging out in my own way and didn’t devote much time to her, you could say I used her to fuck her, and she waited for me and so for 5-6 years and then I realized that I’d stop hanging out and my girl was the sweetest and most beautiful, and that those former morons that they threw something like that and I was a moron for not appreciating it. And everything seemed to be fine with my wife and children, but as soon as I changed jobs and had a lot of time to think, I began to obsess over it, but I’m trying to improve. And I understand that I was the same as her former current ones! Right now there is a family of two girls and again delusional thoughts that someday they too may have the same traitors in their lives, and even worse, a husband like me, who will then nag about it and God forbid raise his hand

Unread post by **Frodo** » 23 Dec 2021, 01:02

Do you consider yourself God’s chosen one? Why should your wife have to sit and wait for you with her pussy untouched until she was 18? Whatever happened, accept it as it is and love your wife. After all, you also had girls before your wife, maybe you want to get a claim from your wife for this?

Unread post by **alex503311** » 10 Jan 2022, 02:23

There were two girls and an acquaintance, about the first one, I regret it, maybe she had more than one boyfriend.
It’s possible, but if it weren’t for her, maybe she would have married me, but otherwise, she didn’t forget him and it was difficult, in the end I decided to run away.
With the second girl, well, it was, so it was, now I don’t even mind that they took her, I would have looked at it.
And my friend, only a plus, she I was an inexperienced student, first my husband and then others taught me,
so it was easier that we met when I already understood sex and had children.

Unread post by **vlad.galtskiy** » 10 Jan 2022, 05:06

Don’t bother your head with the past of your wives or girlfriends or mistresses) Firstly, it’s not a fact and I’m more sure that even if she tells you something from the past, it doesn’t mean that’s all and that it’s true)) Think about the present and your the future, and what happened before you, don’t rack your brains with this, do you really think that women will honestly tell you everything in spirit, how bad and unfaithful they were in their past relationships with men)) they will tell you, that the men were assholes, and they were faithful and loving and in general they had sex three, four times with men and in general she didn’t like it with them, but with you it’s a completely different matter :shamp:

keep your head on shoulders...

Unread post by **Orpheus** » 15 Jan 2022, 07:20

I am always very excited by my wife’s stories (confessions) about her sex before me. Moreover, we both already had quite a bit of experience. Everyone has a second marriage. When we met she was 32. I was 42. So we exchanged stories and memories. (Shared experience))))))). I was interested in everything. And I learned a lot. Although at first there was distrust and fear of misunderstanding and condemnation. But trust also appeared, not immediately, of course. And it was interesting to diversify our sex just as we did it separately before (before we met)))

Unread post by **niqk** » 15 Jan 2022, 07:38

Well, you’re both just lucky. that you were on the same wavelength! And you have no resentment, no jealousy, no...
Unfortunately, often, having satisfied the initial curiosity, the person begins to suspect everything and everyone and begins to monitor the behavior of his wife, trying to catch her cheating. Which is not even close! As a result, the matter may lead to divorce...

Unread post by **Richard Sorge** » 19 Jan 2022, 12:25

My little girl didn’t give it to me before the wedding. But she worked very skillfully with her hands. I suspect that I also jerked off the guys I dated. Doesn’t confess, says nothing to anyone. Well, they just kissed at the disco. Of course I can’t believe it, although I’m not jealous. What was it was

Unread post by **DON** » 21 Jan 2022, 04:43

My wife just doesn’t know that I know. About one sex story that she got into about a couple of months before our wedding. I can’t even imagine her reaction if I said that I know? I would burn with shame!

Unread post by **niqk** » 21 Jan 2022, 06:24

Do you need it?! :question:

Unread post by **A bracelet** » 21 Jan 2022, 11:11

Almost everyone has a wardrobe with skeletons.

Unread post by **Alexb** » 22 Jan 2022, 00:35

When I met my future wife, I realized that neither she nor I were saints. I found out about her past almost before the wedding, when I found her with her stepfather. When I saw them together, I even envied them, such animal passion. Even now she goes to see him.

Unread post by **NFF477** » 29 Jan 2022, 21:31

I used to worry about this too, but over time everything changed. Now, on the contrary, it excites me that she was fucked before me and given it in her mouth. Gradually she told me a lot in detail. Sometimes, during sex, I’ll remind you of someone who fucked her and ask her to tell her, she cums instantly. We even came up with a quest for ourselves, if possible we visit the places where she was fucked and repeat. P.S. One place is definitely missing, college days, road to the south, bus, night, went to sleep in a sleeping bag in the aisle between the seats, really liked it, only he says his whole ass was sticky.

Unread post by **Tolkala** » 29 Jan 2022, 22:52

Before starting our life together, I asked mine to tell me everything about my past sex life. So that my friends and her girlfriends wouldn’t whisper to me later. So that I could answer that I know about it. She told me everything in detail. Where, when, with whom. During the time that we were together, I did not return to this topic.

Unread post by **niqk** » 30 Jan 2022, 05:34

Have you ever thought about returning?

Unread post by **SergeiKa** » 30 Jan 2022, 13:34

Having met my passion, we also had humorous scribbles about who, when and where. And most importantly, did you like it??.. The funny thing is that we both adore sex, in all its epic forms. But, there is a reservation... While we are together, not a step to the left!!!... And no matter what you, dear forum Anya, think, but, frankly speaking... I don’t want to, to the left "!... We, each other, are fully satisfied.

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