Should you have an open conversation with your wife about intimate topics?

[STI]

Yeah
I told my wife the same thing while drunk about my exes and what happened
Now this bitch constantly reminds me of who he fucked with and go or that it’s better to do it, let her do it and leave me alone
And why did I say that
It would be better if I said that I’m a virgin and it would be much better

Someone is unlucky.

Loves the brain and cannot stand it to the point
It would be better if she took an extra nap and I would lick it than listen to this nonsense

[Ryzhik]

This is the only way I calm mine down.

[STI]

This is the only way I calm mine down.

I just want to be in silence and take a break from it.

[Ryzhik]

Sometimes waiting for her to return is such torture. And loneliness just kills

[STI]

Sometimes waiting for her to return is such torture. And loneliness just kills

You can be patient for a day
and not communicate at all and dedicate the day to something interesting

[Ryzhik]

It’s a problem for us

[STI]

For us it’s a problem

for mine I think the same problem

it’s sitting accumulating apparently what should I say

[Ryzhik]

I was talking about separation

[niqk]

Even before the wedding, they told each other everything. Well, after that I fantasized and pretended as much as possible. This is the only way you can get what you want and give it to your loved one

Yeah
I told my wife the same thing when I was drunk about my exes and what happened
Now this bitch constantly reminds me of who you fucked with, go to her and go or she does better, so let her do it and leave me alone
And why the hell did I say that
It would be better if I said it that I’m a virgin and it would be much better

Hmm, an incomprehensible situation. Does she happen to have a lover?

[artm. lecher]

Iban, I don’t know about anyone, but we have the ex-wife had no secrets from each other. They knew everything, even what happened before we met. We often fantasized together, remembered...

[niqk]

Iban, Not I know how it is, but my ex-wife and I had no secrets from each other. They knew everything, even what happened before we met.

So, this is normal! But when she starts to blow your mind on this basis!...

[Ssr40]

I wouldn’t hide anything. Communication and openness are the key to success!

[Ivankozhemikin]

Somewhere I read a very sensible idea about cheating and its nature, there are only two reasons for cheating, someone has stopped loving someone and this is clear and simple, here people just have to disagree, and the second is the partner’s inability to accept all the sexual energy of his other half, and Hiding and not telling your fantasies forces either a man or a woman to look for it elsewhere, or makes a person unhappy because the satisfaction of a basic instinct is very important for a person. I remember once working with a woman about 35 years old and her best friend got divorced then, and I see she seemed in shock, which was not typical for her, I thought, well, she got divorced and got divorced, I asked what happened to my friend, she was silent and spoke in general phrases, like my husband went crazy, so we parted ways, but since I’m a lawyer and our sense of tact disappears after about two years of working in my specialty, I continued to ask) And then after the next question, she yelled at the entire legal department, “he’s not giving a shit about himself.” I asked her, fuck your mother, just like that) they lived for 10 years, loved each other, and the man wanted... like this) Well, either he fell out of love and decided to come up with such an excuse, who knows. So speaking, discussing and practicing this is extremely important.

[Sweet pepper]

Everyone needs to talk about intimate topics and be themselves

[Vladhas]

Of course, he needs to talk about intimate topics. But here you step into a "minefield". You may find out that you won’t be able to live any longer.

[Tpoo]

Of course it’s worth talking about. We found out a lot of things and now we have already achieved what we wanted. But if my wife wants sex, then I won’t let a man into bed, but it’s easy for a tranny. Let the wife dominate her. Moreover, an extra living member in bed is not a hindrance. We have double strap-on and double vibrator, vibrator, prostate massage, butt plugs. Let’s go to visit a tranny, then the wife wants to try the sex machine. Trancy prepared several cock-nozzles.
Today I corresponded with my wife. The other day, my wife and I are planning to spend the night with a crossdresser trans and her wife over the weekend. I like active ones more with trannies. There are no such sensations from a liability as from an asset. But it won’t stand up to a man.
When you find out everything in advance, there will be no misunderstandings. My wife is all for everything related to sex. But all moments are only in the presence and consent of each other.

[Sibiryak89]

I talked with my wife but didn’t get to the personalities, but there were, I tried this, this happened, I would like to try this, it turns out more soulful with a glass of wine. I know that at 16 my virginity was knocked down and I know that it was my first love, but who didn’t ask, etc. I know that MFM doesn’t mind, and won’t tolerate an MFM woman in bed, being moderately jealous. Talk without bias

[shumsky]

even necessary. And suggest this: let’s talk about sex sometimes. Desires, fantasies, past experiences: I guarantee you will learn a lot of new things and life will become more diverse.

[12345]

Should I talk frankly with my wife about intimate topics? More precisely, discuss those things that excite her, as well as her some perverted fantasies, if she has any, her past sexual experiences?

I even think It is obligatory to talk in bed with your wife about sex, various methods of sex, and so on.
But if you are bisexual, I think that you should not tell your wife about this before you know her views on such sex, her opinion about such men , otherwise it could turn into a big scandal for you.

[VNK]

It is necessary to discuss fantasies, but past experience is doubtful.

[Benzmaster]

My wife and I constantly discuss our desires and preferences in sex, she is normal about this. She said a long time ago that she was interested in the topic of swingers, but it never came to fruition. Now I’m hinting, but not yet.

[12345]

Now I’m hinting, but not yet.

Perseverance and work will grind everything down.
Water does not flow under a lying stone.
You need to convince your wife that you really want this, not only for your own sake, but also for her sake, and that later you will love her even more deeply.
When you convince your wife of this, then things will move...

[VNK]

My wife and I constantly discuss our desires and preferences in sex, she is normal about this. She said a long time ago that she was interested in the topic of swingers, but it never came to fruition. Now I’m hinting, but not yet.

If the topic interests you, gently and slowly return to this topic. Just don’t rush! And you yourself need to be prepared to meet someone else’s penis; for some, this saddens them to the point of complete inability to stand.

[Coffee]

Of course we need to talk. Only with a rested and satisfied wife

[12345]

Only with a rested and satisfied wife

And I think that you need to talk at the time of your sexual games, at the time of foreplay, when the wife is excited, but not yet satisfied and at such moments wives more often agree with their husbands’ fantasies, but then you need to remind them of this more often.

[Sweep]

Of course we need to talk!

[shumsky]

Now this bitch

do you need a family with such an attitude?

[Gudgeon]

My opinion is this: it is necessary to talk about desires. But go in gradually, look at the reactions, what scares you, etc. If until yesterday you had the maximum - missionary position and blowjob on holidays, you shouldn’t dump everything at once. A request like "I want you to dress me up as a Japanese schoolgirl and fuck me in the ass with a strap-on while I suck a stranger" - well, it will definitely lead to a stampede
And don’t discuss past experience , this is always a minus. Even if he doesn’t say it, he will think that you are comparing, and this will sharpen... again, jealousy. Let him know what came before her, you can say how many, but that’s all. Who, how, in what position did you like it or not - topics that should be suppressed. Well, the exceptions are relationships like sexwife/cuckold... For these, everything is complicated. There’s a different story there.

[Curious divorcee]

I think you need to be frank...

[Kurtis]

My wife and I often talk about these topics. She tells me about her desires, and I tell her. The same goes for past partners.

[Mihaaa 4]

You should always talk about any topic with your spouse. But knowing the reaction, you need to understand whether you should be frank and to what extent, because you don’t know what the reaction will be. You can also talk about disgust, contempt and divorce.

[Leopold-57]

Should I talk frankly with my wife about intimate topics? More precisely, discuss those things that excite her, as well as some kind of perverted fantasies, if she has any, her past sexual experiences?

Sexual fantasies And of course, it is possible and necessary to find out the preferences of a married couple. Only without clarifying the past. Imagine everything as your erotic dreams. Don’t connect your partner’s sexual fantasies with his past and everything will be OK.

[N@TyPaL]

double edged sword. When, for example, I had a woman for whom I had no serious long-term plans, we easily discussed all the passions and all past adventures. This really helped me understand that I definitely don’t want to have anything with her in the long term, adding her past to all those shortcomings that lie on the surface. I told her all sorts of trash without hesitation, although I later regretted it because later, during quarrels, she repeatedly used this information. In principle, I didn’t care, because I knew that the relationship was not for the long term. Previously, I always believed that you need to know everything about your chosen one if you want to try to build something serious. But in the end I came to the conclusion that I wanted to know only general information without details, just to complete the picture. There is a high probability that the details you hear will only do harm, but why bother yourself if you know in advance that some details will probably be unpleasant and can stick around for a long time, even if it was a long time ago, due to youth and stupidity. And it’s best to learn sexual preferences in a playful way, come up with a pseudo-game or quiz where any question can be reduced to a joke. For the first reaction there will be an excellent marker to outline the boundaries of what is permitted, and then further into the abyss of depravity it will be easier to plunge

[Ortega]

Of course, you need to communicate with your wife about intimate topics, what kind of fantasies she wants and, accordingly, the same with you, otherwise she will always want to try something and don’t dare, but the wife might also want to try it

[Sharp]

Iban, there is a fine line between what you want to know and what you don’t need to know. It’s better not to ask anything about your exes if you are not ready to understand and forgive. If you are jealous, if you are possessive, then knowledge about your ex will bring you pain and disappointment. It doesn’t matter what it is, the difference in penis size, the power of orgasms, your or her fantasies fulfilled with someone else. All this will poison the soul. If you are ready to find out something that she liked in a past relationship and develop it into something beautiful, then go for it.
But you should have figured out your fantasies a long time ago! This is something that she can entrust, at this stage of your life, only to you! And unfulfilled fantasies lead to bad consequences!
P. S. A couple should always have a dialogue with each other, then the sex will be awesome!!!

[Wot_ja]

I don’t think it’s necessary, maybe I won’t understand

[Mishanja11]

Is it worth talking to your wife frankly about intimate topics

Of course it is! It’s not for nothing that the wife is the other half. With your wife, the more trust you have in each other, the better. And such conversations can also help build trust. Also gradually add new, generally interesting things to your intimate life. You should always communicate as much as possible.

[Bravo61]

my wife and I have no secrets from each other for a long time

[Lerunchik]

No! Under no circumstances discuss your and her wishes with your significant other! Otherwise, then you won’t be able to run around sex forums, type your sticky fantasies with your left hand and cry: what a cold bitch she is!
But seriously... I think what to do this is not possible, but necessary! Sit down straight and discuss your desires and fantasies. Even if you don’t like everything from each other’s fantasies, you can find some option that will suit both of you. Or vice versa, give up something if you value your soul mate and want to stay with her. And if it’s really cynical, then decide: how much you need each other) It seems to me that this will still be better than when a girl is virtuous with someone in the bathroom, while a man jerks off to his fantasies in the toilet, and then they have a friendly fight , due to lack of sex and dissatisfaction))

[nick023]

Greetings. The author of this column asked the question: is it worth discussing intimacy with the person with whom you are copulating, and even in marriage... By the way: at one time I missed this moment of discussion and, as a result, divorce. The family broke up. A year passed, I ran around with women, my ex gave a couple of times to others, but decided that the old dick (mine) was better and appeared on the horizon. Now we meet and... we started talking about intimacy - fantasies and desires, it turns out that the lady, from her youth, wanted to fuck in three: she, a man and a woman. I went crazy from the good news and now I’m looking for a girlfriend. He started talking about vibrators, anal sex (I already gave it to the ass - I was a virgin). Conclusion - go for it, gentlemen and ladies! talk and discuss. But... without going too far, preferably your own.

[Keep the change for yourself]

Yes, it’s worth it, it’s better for both drunken heads))
You will learn a lot of interesting things, although maybe not right away, but don’t immediately dump your super-fantasies.

[5nica]

sitting accumulating apparently what should I say

A bearded joke. A friend complains to a friend:
- When I, tired during the day and having spent as many as 20,000 words at work, finally get home,
then my wife meets me and holds all her 20,000 at the ready! ...

Personally, I’m a bit taciturn on Telegram, if that’s the case.

[Xavier]

Of course, why else do people get into relationships?

[pervert]

Within reasonable limits, you need to be frank with your wife. But, if fantasies and desires come into conflict with its foundations or laws, then this is a sensitive issue. And most likely in such cases it is better to keep your forbidden fantasies to yourself.

[niqk]

Lerunchik, I agree with you on some points. It all depends on specific people and specific circumstances.
Therefore, you can be completely frank with someone, with someone - partially, and with someone - not at all! The matter is further complicated by the fact that you can be frank with someone, but only in some matters, you can be frank with someone, but you just need to be able to show your frankness... In short, hemorrhoids are still the same !

[Lerunchik]

Lerunchik, I agree with you on some points. It all depends on specific people and specific circumstances.
Therefore, you can be completely frank with someone, with someone - partially, and with someone - not at all! The matter is further complicated by the fact that you can be frank with someone, but only in some matters, you can be frank with someone, but you just need to be able to show your frankness... In short, hemorrhoids are still the same !

Well, agree anyway: it’s better and more honest. And it’s better to look for some kind of solution together, rather than lurking, doing bullshit and all that) You remember: we’ve already talked about this, that a problem in sex is often solved if you just voice it)

[niqk]

Lerunchik, you’re right, but... Everything is much more difficult. You need to know your partner well: his character, temperament, his tastes... You need to feel your partner’s mood well during the conversation. You also need to know yourself well! In a word, this is a whole art...

[Lerunchik]

Lerunchik, you are right, but... Everything is much more complicated. You need to know your partner well: his character, temperament, his tastes... You need to feel your partner’s mood well during the conversation. You also need to know yourself well! In a word, this is a whole art..

Liuuushay, well, the topic is about talking not with an aunt from the street, but with your own soul mate! What the hell kind of husband is this who doesn’t know the character, taste, temperament, and character of his own wife? " tseq="1f923">🤣 And besides, from my own short family life, I know that at least for the first year or two we fuck like rabbits, the difference in temperament doesn’t matter, but friend you have time to study your friend. And the problems start later. And what kind of husband is this who has learned nothing about his wife for several years? Why is he needed like that? Agree?))))

[niqk]

Lerunchik, again - almost... Yes There are a lot of sex cockroaches in your head that are scary to show
to others. Even my wife! And it is unknown how she will react to them: maybe she will agree with delight, or maybe... For example,
my husband really likes his mother-in-law and he would gladly drag her into bed third. What will his wife say to him?

[Amateur123]

Lerunchik, You are wrong in this situation. Yes, a wife, yes, a loved one, but not everything can be told to her, she is not ready to hear everything, and there is still hope that she herself will understand, she will come to her own mind.