A girl experiences pain during penetration

[with the world]

Strange advice, but still.
Discuss the poses first, this is what others have said, and all that. And one more piece of advice, if you trust each other and want to try a lot, try a little extreme sports, caressing through clothes in the forest, or in an elevator, in short, wherever you decide, it’s very exciting, I speak for myself. The situation is the same with a girl, but when we go through such foreplay, she becomes wildly excited.

[JackTheJack]

Lubricant and more. And more practice. If it doesn’t help and the pain doesn’t decrease over time, then see a gynecologist to rule out various sores

Thanks for the advice) Maybe more lubricant will really help
n
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Strange advice, but still.
Discuss the poses first, it’s like others have said and all that. And one more piece of advice, if you trust each other and want to try a lot, try a little extreme sports, caressing through clothes in the forest, or in an elevator, in short, wherever you decide, it’s very exciting, I speak for myself. The situation is the same with a girl, but when we go through such foreplay, she becomes wildly excited

Yes, there is nothing strange here, we recently discussed the positions, we want to try a couple. There was something similar about caresses in the forest a year ago, but I only touched breasts then. But I think that even if we get excited, by the time we get home, the excitement will have subsided

[Guest_15]

Nothing strange here, recently we were discussing poses, we want to try a couple. There was something similar about caresses in the forest a year ago, but I only touched breasts then. But I think that even if we get excited, by the time we get home, the excitement will have subsided

Actually, I remember the time when I just came from the army, or when I it was 25 or thirty...
And I remember the various layouts in this or that situation regarding women. And now I already understand that in almost all cases I did the wrong thing.
Now I’ll explain why this is a fundamentally wrong approach...

It’s all about this stupid, almost teenage honesty and decency. Unmarried guys communicate and make friends with each other in their environment and they form a certain code of decency. What is good and what is bad.
And then, out of stupidity, they also project this code onto relationships with their female peers. Like he promised not to do something and, accordingly, if he promised, then he must fulfill it.
And thus the young man falls into this self-created trap.

Public morality dictates that a girl is what there should be something to do or something not to do. Otherwise, she’s like a whore, skin, fuck, and so on. That is, she herself should not initiate any relationships with the opposite sex. And even more so sex. And she must demonstrate to everyone her decency, so to speak. Although maybe she really wants to fuck like a gun right now. And all day long she can only think about when she gets to her room and can finally get a dildo from a secluded place and finally insert it into herself, imagining that right now some Vasya or Petya from her group at the University entered her. Which she really likes.

And against this background, those same Vasya or Petya, for some reason, give this girl promises, say, not to pester her in some piquant situation. Well, for example, they went somewhere as a whole class and they were accommodated together in one room in a hotel. And Vasya or Petya generously promised that he would not pester this girl at night. And he made this promise because it was her condition when they were placed together. And she was simply forced to voice it publicly to everyone in order to confirm her status as a decent girl. And Vasya or Petya, of course, generously made this promise.

And then the most interesting thing happens. The girl waits all night for Vasya or Petya to finally enter her and is all flowing in anticipation. And Vasya or Petya, like a fool, lies with this girl in the same room on different beds and fulfills his promise - he promised!!! How can you break this promise!? After all, then the girl will be offended by him and he will lose all chances to have any relationship with her.
So he has already done this with his promise! Because he will continue to behave like a moron and try not to cast a shadow on the girl’s integrity. And in the end, someone else will fuck her, but not Vasya or Petya.
And the one who will fuck her is the one who does not keep his word, who makes promises and immediately breaks them. Who doesn’t sweat all this nonsense and all this teenage bullshit!

That is, the conclusion is that the concepts of decency and honor that exist among young people in their environment are completely inapplicable to relationships with women . Women themselves make promises and immediately break them ten times a day and do not consider this something bad. And accordingly, they always share someone’s promises too. Some are two, some are three, some are ten, and some don’t attach any importance to them at all.
And the male sex has two ways - either make promises and then not bother yourself too much about fulfilling them, or try not to make no promises and somehow let everything go on the brakes when they ask you with a knife to the throat to promise to do or not to do something.

This is one aspect of teenage mistakes...
Yes and one more...
But it is related to the topic that I would call "...what will people say?"
Well, like you are afraid to do something or, more simply, you are embarrassed because you are afraid of public condemnation or talking behind your back.

Well, for example, I was talking with a group of girls and we, including some other young people, spent our free time in one place or another. And in this company there were two girls. Both were very fat. But one was ugly and small, and the other was cute but quite big, almost a head taller than me. These girls had problems with relationships because young people apparently somehow avoided them. That is, they communicated in the company, but they were apparently afraid to start closer relationships.

Because that big girl was really huge and apparently people were simply scared of the prospects of a relationship with her in every sense. What to just go somewhere together, what to fuck her. Well, for example, how to kiss her if necessary!? After all, you can’t get it! What to do with sex if it comes to that? After all, everything is very likely there. And tits, and pussy...
Well, probably such a pussy needs a significant dick. And an ordinary one, even if he is 17 or 18 cm, is unlikely to suit such a lady.
This is about this big girl. Well, as for the second one, she was simply ugly and, in addition, fat, and everyone seemed to communicate with her, but no one wanted to start a relationship with her.

So the piquancy of the situation was that both of these girls treated me very well and both grabbed my ass. And we often laughed jokingly and fantasized about how we would have a threesome and discussed where it would be better to do it - well, in nature, or in a bathhouse, or in a sauna. Or go home to one of the three, get some beer, condoms...
And that’s what had to be done finally. Get some beer, condoms, rent a sauna for the night and go there as a threesome.

And there seemed to be money and desire.
But there was that same fear that scared off potential suitors. Fear, how can you not fuck them both? What a disgrace it will be!?
And by the way, the relationship among the three of us was very friendly, without this stupid love and any expectations. They both just apparently wanted someone to finally fuck them.
And I was the best person for this because I was pleasant, understandable and sympathetic to both of them.

And no I wish I could just get myself two girlfriends for friendly, mutually beneficial sex and closer and closer communication, but no!!!
So I didn’t dare. But in vain. I think I have lost a lot because every new experience in something moves you somewhere and what was previously a barrier or obstacle for you becomes just a curb - you stepped over it and moved on. And before it was not a curb, but red flags in which you rushed about, unable to jump over them.

What I mean is that in order to finally learn to understand women, you need to learn to behave naturally with them, without embarrassment or embarrassment. And for this you need only one thing - you need practice. That is, you need to communicate with women more often. But just communicating at work, say, is not enough. Women, as a rule, from childhood are taught to wear a mask of indifference and indifference. And to get to the very essence of women there is only one way - through sex. After sex, most women become themselves in communication with you.

And here it is very important, when moving on to the relationship with this or that woman in the plane of sex, what kind of views this woman has on you.
It is desirable, of course, while you are young, that it be a woman, or married, or who is experiencing the world just like you. And just like you, she’s trying to figure out all this diversity of men. And understand which ones are suitable for her and why.

And all because we don’t actually live for 500 years. And some early or spontaneous marriage can devour your life. And while you’re raising your children, saving for an apartment, a dacha, a car, you won’t even notice how you’ll turn fifty. And all this time you were catching up with something, catching up with something, trying to improve something and still pushing something aside - like, now I’ll do it and finally....
And then bang and say Covid...
nOr something even worse.

Well, in general, it is very important for a young man not to rush with his honesty and decency at the first one who opens her legs in front of you. And don’t be tormented by your conscience that how could it be that they allowed you to break your virginity, they trusted you. And you, like the last asshole, are already looking to the other side. And you’re already thinking about who else to fuck from those you know.
Once, due to my serious passion for photography, I had to photograph several weddings. So, the groom is usually the saddest character at these weddings. Because they apparently understand what kind of crap he got himself into and from his sad face you can see what desires are fighting in him right now - to get up and leave this other people’s holiday of life.

[Evgeniy-Spb]

Nothing strange here, recently we were discussing poses, we want to try a couple. There was something similar about caresses in the forest a year ago, but I only touched breasts then. But I think that even if we get excited, by the time we get home, the excitement will have subsided

Actually, I remember the time when I just came from the army, or when I it was 25 or thirty...
And I remember the various layouts in this or that situation regarding women. And now I already understand that in almost all cases I did the wrong thing.
Now I’ll explain why this is a fundamentally wrong approach...

It’s all about this stupid, almost teenage honesty and decency. Unmarried guys communicate and make friends with each other in their environment and they form a certain code of decency. What is good and what is bad.
And then, out of stupidity, they also project this code onto relationships with their female peers. Like he promised not to do something and, accordingly, if he promised, then he must fulfill it.
And thus the young man falls into this self-created trap.

Public morality dictates that a girl is what there should be something to do or something not to do. Otherwise, she’s like a whore, skin, fuck, and so on. That is, she herself should not initiate any relationships with the opposite sex. And even more so sex. And she must demonstrate to everyone her decency, so to speak. Although maybe she really wants to fuck like a gun right now. And all day long she can only think about when she gets to her room and can finally get a dildo from a secluded place and finally insert it into herself, imagining that right now some Vasya or Petya from her group at the University entered her. Which she really likes.

And against this background, those same Vasya or Petya, for some reason, give this girl promises, say, not to pester her in some piquant situation. Well, for example, they went somewhere as a whole class and they were accommodated together in one room in a hotel. And Vasya or Petya generously promised that he would not pester this girl at night. And he made this promise because it was her condition when they were placed together. And she was simply forced to voice it publicly to everyone in order to confirm her status as a decent girl. And Vasya or Petya, of course, generously made this promise.

And then the most interesting thing happens. The girl waits all night for Vasya or Petya to finally enter her and is all flowing in anticipation. And Vasya or Petya, like a fool, lies with this girl in the same room on different beds and fulfills his promise - he promised!!! How can you break this promise!? After all, then the girl will be offended by him and he will lose all chances to have any relationship with her.
So he has already done this with his promise! Because he will continue to behave like a moron and try not to cast a shadow on the girl’s integrity. And in the end, someone else will fuck her, but not Vasya or Petya.
And the one who will fuck her is the one who does not keep his word, who makes promises and immediately breaks them. Who doesn’t sweat all this nonsense and all this teenage bullshit!

That is, the conclusion is that the concepts of decency and honor that exist among young people in their environment are completely inapplicable to relationships with women . Women themselves make promises and immediately break them ten times a day and do not consider this something bad. And accordingly, they always share someone’s promises too. Some are two, some are three, some are ten, and some don’t attach any importance to them at all.
And the male sex has two ways - either make promises and then not bother yourself too much about fulfilling them, or try not to make no promises and somehow let everything go on the brakes when they ask you with a knife to the throat to promise to do or not to do something.

This is one aspect of teenage mistakes...
Yes and one more...
But it is related to the topic that I would call "...what will people say?"
Well, like you are afraid to do something or, more simply, you are embarrassed because you are afraid of public condemnation or talking behind your back.

Well, for example, I was talking with a group of girls and we, including some other young people, spent our free time in one place or another. And in this company there were two girls. Both were very fat. But one was ugly and small, and the other was cute but quite big, almost a head taller than me. These girls had problems with relationships because young people apparently somehow avoided them. That is, they communicated in the company, but they were apparently afraid to start closer relationships.

Because that big girl was really huge and apparently people were simply scared of the prospects of a relationship with her in every sense. What to just go somewhere together, what to fuck her. Well, for example, how to kiss her if necessary!? After all, you can’t get it! What to do with sex if it comes to that? After all, everything is very likely there. And tits, and pussy...
Well, probably such a pussy needs a significant dick. And an ordinary one, even if he is 17 or 18 cm, is unlikely to suit such a lady.
This is about this big girl. Well, as for the second one, she was simply ugly and, in addition, fat, and everyone seemed to communicate with her, but no one wanted to start a relationship with her.

So the piquancy of the situation was that both of these girls treated me very well and both grabbed my ass. And we often laughed jokingly and fantasized about how we would have a threesome and discussed where it would be better to do it - well, in nature, or in a bathhouse, or in a sauna. Or go home to one of the three, get some beer, condoms...
And that’s what had to be done finally. Get some beer, condoms, rent a sauna for the night and go there as a threesome.

And there seemed to be money and desire.
But there was that same fear that scared off potential suitors. Fear, how can you not fuck them both? What a disgrace it will be!?
And by the way, the relationship among the three of us was very friendly, without this stupid love and any expectations. They both just apparently wanted someone to finally fuck them.
And I was the best person for this because I was pleasant, understandable and sympathetic to both of them.

And no I wish I could just get myself two girlfriends for friendly, mutually beneficial sex and closer and closer communication, but no!!!
So I didn’t dare. But in vain. I think I have lost a lot because every new experience in something moves you somewhere and what was previously a barrier or obstacle for you becomes just a curb - you stepped over it and moved on. And before it was not a curb, but red flags in which you rushed about, unable to jump over them.

What I mean is that in order to finally learn to understand women, you need to learn to behave naturally with them, without embarrassment or embarrassment. And for this you need only one thing - you need practice. That is, you need to communicate with women more often. But just communicating at work, say, is not enough. Women, as a rule, from childhood are taught to wear a mask of indifference and indifference. And to get to the very essence of women there is only one way - through sex. After sex, most women become themselves in communication with you.

And here it is very important, when moving on to the relationship with this or that woman in the plane of sex, what kind of views this woman has on you.
It is desirable, of course, while you are young, that it be a woman, or married, or who is experiencing the world just like you. And just like you, she’s trying to figure out all this diversity of men. And understand which ones are suitable for her and why.

And all because we don’t actually live for 500 years. And some early or spontaneous marriage can devour your life. And while you’re raising your children, saving for an apartment, a dacha, a car, you won’t even notice how you’ll turn fifty. And all this time you were catching up with something, catching up with something, trying to improve something and still pushing something aside - like, now I’ll do it and finally....
And then bang and say Covid...
nOr something even worse.

Well, in general, it is very important for a young man not to rush with his honesty and decency at the first one who opens her legs in front of you. And don’t be tormented by your conscience that how could it be that they allowed you to break your virginity, they trusted you. And you, like the last asshole, are already looking to the other side. And you’re already thinking about who else to fuck from those you know.
Once, due to my serious passion for photography, I had to photograph several weddings. So, the groom is usually the saddest character at these weddings. Because they apparently understand what kind of crap he got himself into and from his sad face you can see what desires are fighting in him right now - to get up and leave this other people’s holiday of life.

[Guest_15]

I sometimes come across young people who lead quite active lives. And sexually as well. However, at the same time, any hint of marriage is perceived very negatively, even to the point of ending the relationship if that’s what it’s all about. And I still never cease to wonder where these young people get so much wisdom! That once you get married you will immediately flush your life down the toilet. And instead of looking for yourself, your place in this life, think about how to make you rich. And then do something for this...

And instead of all this, if you get married, you will have to go somewhere and get a job as a corrupt manager. Stick your head into a mortgage for twenty years. And this means that you will hold on to your job until the last. That is, receive a mediocre but guaranteed salary. This means not taking risks, not going somewhere for the future. I’m not talking about my own business, my own business. And that means you will never become Steve Jobs, Durov, Bezos. And all because you once stuck your neck into this collar. And all because you fell for this cow look, for this silent reproach in her eyes.

But in general, I am writing all this not to you specifically, but to those visitors who come here to this forum .
I believe that there are people who know how to listen. Of course, there are few of them compared to the bulk. And especially among young people. But still there are those who are able to learn from the mistakes of others. They are also able to avoid repeating someone else’s mistakes. Because there are even more of those who see and understand something, but in practice still act as their environment wants them to do.

Some distant relatives of mine had such a case...
Someone’s daughter got pregnant from a peer of yesterday’s schoolboy. He hasn’t even managed to enroll anywhere yet. I mean some kind of university. And then such a thing - he got pregnant!
The whole world put pressure on him - both the girl, and the girl’s parents, and his own parents. Everyone wanted them to get married. Even with the apartment, two families somehow figured out something. But the guy insisted - no, that’s all!!!

And he never got married. The girl then had a very stormy life after all this. Well, Peren disappeared somewhere into the fog and apparently forgot to think about all this. Or you could flush your life down the toilet.
And that’s where the intelligence, wisdom and courage come from to still resist all this and not fall into this comfort zone and thus not waste your only life given to you by God!!!

[rmt]

And only 9 months have passed since the first time,

Is this just called??
Yeah. There is something very wrong in your approach. And from your speeches it is clear that it is not only your girlfriend who is complex and fixed. And you have some kind of engineering approach. All this needs to be felt basically, and not read with a slide rule. (
Although, as for the calendar method of contraception, an exact calculation is needed. If I were you, on a safe day, I would just take it and finish without taking it out and don’t hold back. Yes, I would have to listen a lot and often reassure her until her next period. But but then everything would be much simpler. And it’s just a mess, not sex.
And another piece of advice: don’t rush into it abruptly if you have problems with pain. Slowly insert the tip and gradually insert it in and out with small movements. more and more deeply. You watch her reaction and your feelings to understand why she reacts this way. Maybe it’s stupid at the wrong angle, no matter how you enter it.

[Guest_15]

Is this just called??
M-yes. There is something very wrong in your approach. And from your speeches it is clear that it is not only your girlfriend who is complex and fixed. And you have some kind of engineering approach. All this needs to be felt basically, and not read with a slide rule. (
Although, as for the calendar method of contraception, an exact calculation is needed. If I were you, on a safe day, I would just take it and finish without taking it out and don’t hold back. Yes, I would have to listen a lot and often reassure her until her next period. But but then everything would be much simpler. And it’s just a mess, not sex.
And another piece of advice: don’t rush into it abruptly if you have problems with pain. Slowly insert the tip and gradually insert it in and out with small movements. You watch her reaction and your feelings to understand why she reacts this way. Maybe it’s stupid at the wrong angle, no matter how you enter it. /QUOTE> In fact, it’s all because of his lack of experience and his girlfriend’s. The girl is definitely terribly afraid of getting pregnant. But on the other hand, she apparently understands that she won’t be able to keep the guy without sex. That’s why she gives. gives, and not something else. Like you really want it? Well, if you need it so much! That is, she probably didn’t get it all in vain. All this sex. But now the young man apparently trumpets like that elk during the rut and she has no choice but to make some kind of concessions.

But at the same time she is terribly afraid of all this action. And accordingly, for her, this sex is nothing more than a source of potential trouble. Again, we must remember that almost all women, with the rare exception of some particularly temperamental ethnic individuals, do not initially enjoy sex. And the body needs to be taught sexuality. This is roughly how we all do it in this life - we first learn to sit, then walk, then talk, then read and write. And sexuality must also be learned. You just don’t need to let me learn - I spread my legs and let you.

But in order for it to bring pleasure and for you to want it, you have to learn again and again. And like everything in this life, learning goes better if there is a teacher. It is, of course, self-taught in the world. But as a rule, we all learn something from teachers. That is, from those who know and can. That is, we are taught to walk by those who know how to do it. And also language, the ability to read and write.
Well, what kind of teacher is this young man who has this girl first. He himself needs to be taught about sex. He himself needs to learn to understand what exactly is required of him in bed with a woman. And right now he’s in about the same situation if we tell you right now to send you to school to teach a lesson in physics, or chemistry, or biology. Well, what can you teach someone there!?

I think this young man himself needs a teacher. Right now he would be given into the capable hands of some forty-year-old aunt who, for some reason, has not had a husband for a long time but has an adult child. And who is currently single. And I think within another week she would have somehow taught the young man what to do and how to do it. And what is generally required of him in bed.
Again, with this lady he would gain confidence that he is doing something absolutely right. And in some situation, a normal woman should react this way and that and in no other way.

And if this doesn’t happen, then it means something is wrong with the girl. And we need to do something with it. Or give her alcohol so that she gets drunk and finally relaxes and stops being tense and losing control of herself. And then see how everything will be in this situation. Or somehow advise her during the process, what she should do, or vice versa, what she should not do.
I once had the experience of a bed relationship with yesterday’s adult virgin. And I had to tell her directly and specifically what exactly she should do. And the main thing is that she should trust me.

Well, or just take the girl to the gynecologist. Although it might be worth starting with this. That is, take her to a gynecologist and if everything is normal with her physiology, then deal with the cockroaches in her head.
Although, in my opinion, there is nothing worse than swarming around in someone’s cockroaches. And especially when you’re twenty-something years old.
Well, that wasn’t enough yet!!!!

[JackTheJack]

But on the other hand, he apparently understands that it won’t be possible to keep a guy without sex. That’s why he gives. It gives, and not something else. Like, do you really want it? Well, if you need it that way! That is, she probably didn’t get away with all this for nothing.

A new portion of nonsense))) I hate this imbecility "here’s a guy who needs this, so I give him I’ll give you, "she knows this very well from the beginning of our relationship and I did everything to ensure that sex would only happen when she really wants it. And apparently you don’t read very well. Because I mentioned that sex isn’t always that painful

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Is this called only??

"Only" compared to what experience a person already has, how I guessed. Such an experience that there is no longer any fear at all

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And you have some kind of engineering approach. All this needs to be felt basically, and not read with a slide rule. (

What exactly are you talking about?

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Do not rush into it sharply if you have problems with pain.

It goes without saying, I do everything as gently as possible

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Actually, we have already agreed to try at least just inserting without a condom. And the other day I met a girl. While we were talking today, we touched on an intimate topic a little, it turned out that she is allergic to condoms, they cause irritation

[Guest_15]

And the other day I met a girl. While we were talking today, we touched on an intimate topic a little, it turned out that she is allergic to condoms, they cause irritation

I think this is a more correct approach in your situation. Get these stupid thoughts about fidelity out of your head. Like to the coffin lid and all that. This is such bullshit! And by the way, no one really needs it.
Talk to this girl you met and persuade her to help you in this matter. So tell it like it is, just like on this forum. What do you know what to think. That this is your girl’s first experience and so is yours.

And you actually don’t even know how it should really be. And then ask her if she enjoys sex like in the porn videos on the internet. And then ask whether this is the case with each partner or not. And then say that you really want to go through this with her and feel it all yourself.
You can write to me again right now saying you’re fucked and all that. But I’m writing all this to you right now in all seriousness. All these intimate things are resolved that way. Just in this way.

If you want something from a woman, ask her about it!
Because that’s how it happens. And the men just lie to their friends about how cool they are and how everyone immediately falls for them. In fact, everything usually happens by mutual consent. Well, again, you need to be able to be pleasant for a woman. And in communication and in everything else. That is, she should have a desire to do something good for you in return.

There is one more aspect in all this that you are faced with...
Just imagine that Something constantly hurts in your body. And you constantly feel this and constantly talk about it to your woman with whom, say, you live or are going to live. I think that after a short time this woman will become very seriously burdened with this issue and will ask you to somehow solve this problem. If you start to let everything go, then most likely she will leave you. And he will do the right thing and be right. Because there is nothing worse than living with a sick person who is in pain.

Look at these unfortunate people who have to care for sick relatives or sick children. This is just some kind of fucked up!!! Poor people who are faced with this.
And here you voluntarily do this. The fact that there is some kind of problem, and you don’t know what it really is. And you don’t know its solution, and you don’t know what to do to solve it.
It’s one thing if it’s your child or your mother or sister. It’s another matter if it’s some kind of stranger whom you just met somewhere out there and you just hit it off with each other.

I already wrote above that at your age you don’t need to immediately run to the registry office. And in general, you don’t have to take everything too seriously. You are still a child by the standards of modern civilization. The fact is that our modern society (understand the state) has arranged the lives of children a little incorrectly. And all for your own benefit. The state made school a kind of shelter for children in order to solve the problem of crime. Special children are kept in school for ten years. They blow their minds with logarithms and tangents and cotangents that they don’t need later in life. And all so that instead of wandering the streets every day, they go to school and spend all their time there.

But because of this, children are delayed in their development and at the age of 18 they are still remain children. Although if they had not been brainwashed by school, then most likely they would have matured faster and at the age of 18 they would already be full-fledged men. But this does not happen because the state does not need it. There are a lot of children and nowhere to put them. One hundred workers are not really needed. And they still won’t go where they need to go because at 18 years old they have too much show-off to go to a construction site or to a car manufacturer. So tell me, will a school graduate become a janitor? The answer is no!

Well, in general, in your 20s, the whole world is in front of you and if you are healthy, then you have a lot of opportunities to realize yourself. But the most important thing that you definitely need to do right now is to learn to understand women. Stop being shy about them, stop idealizing them, learn to communicate with them the same way as with your same-sex peers. Also learn to have sex with women in order to be confident in bed with her and not doubt anything that you are doing something wrong. Your actions in bed should be correct and there should be no doubts. Like no one will give it to me, or I won’t succeed.

That is, a woman should get an orgasm from you in bed one hundred percent. And she absolutely should like sex with you. And you must do everything for this and know how to do it for this or that woman. And to do this, you must understand them and understand which woman needs what exactly from you in bed. And you can navigate all this very quickly. And all this is not needed for show, and not for some kind of competition, or to show off to someone, but simply you should be able to do this on the basis that you are a man.

And by the way, there is one more aspect...
NEVER talk about sex with this or that woman to your friends. Well, the maximum you can tell is to one person, and even then to someone to whom you might want to offer to fuck someone in a threesome. And even then with the consent of the lady herself, who, of course, is aware of this and, of course, gave her consent. And don’t talk too much about the fact that you slept with someone there. And this does not apply to married women. Don’t talk about ALL the women you’ve slept with. And they will be doubly grateful to you for this.

[JackTheJack]

I think this is a more correct approach in your situation. Get these stupid thoughts about fidelity out of your head

First of all, I met her by chance. Secondly, I don’t have any plans for her, we just talk about everything. "I’m not going to get these stupid thoughts about fidelity out of my head, I was, am and will be faithful to my girlfriend, it’s good to really rave

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This is such bullshit! And by the way, no one really needs it.

And there is no need to speak for everyone. How correctly the person above posted the photo - fucked up

[Guest_15]

And there is no need to speak for everyone. How correctly the person above threw off the photo - fucked up

))
Well, I can only do this cite very true words that were previously invented by someone.
Namely...
If youth knew!!!
If old age could!!!

I already wrote above that I sometimes wonder where some twenty-year-olds get so much wisdom. But it’s very sad that there are actually very, very few of them.
The bulk of them see nothing, hear nothing. And most importantly, he doesn’t want to see or hear. I don’t know why this happens, and I would think that probably at twenty years old we were all like this.
But this is not so because there are a number of young people who are able to learn from other people’s mistakes, are able to add two plus two and do correct conclusions. And the most important thing is to then make the right decisions no matter what.

And from time to time I come across such people. That is, they really exist.
And then I conclude that the rest of the masses are simply stupid people who have yet to run into everything they are told about on their own. And be sure to step on all the mistakes without exception. That’s how many of them will be on his way - he will definitely step on them all. And he won’t miss a single one!

Well then! Good luck to you rake lovers!
I won’t interfere...

[JackTheJack]

And then I conclude that the rest of the masses are just stupid people

Of course, we are stupid, but everything is the same for everyone, like in a flock of sheep, yes ? Can’t anyone have it as bad as you did? It’s a pity for people who believe that if they had some bad experience, then everyone must have the same thing and no other way

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And it’s even more pity for people who hear enough about bad experiences - and then are afraid of everything.

[Evgeniy-Spb]

And then I conclude that the rest of the masses are simply stupid people

Of course, we are stupid, but everything is the same for everyone, as in a flock of sheep, right? Can’t anyone have it as bad as you did? It’s a pity for people who believe that if they had some bad experience, then everyone must have the same thing and no other way

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And it’s even more pity for people who hear enough about bad experiences - and then are afraid of everything

Don’t pay attention to him.

[JackTheJack]

Don’t pay attention to him.

Hahahaha yeah, he’s not worth it

[Guest_15]

And it’s even more pity for people who hear enough about bad experiences - and then they are afraid of everything

It’s not a matter of fear, but what you want from your life. If you don’t have any goal in life, if you just do what everyone else does. If you are graduating from some kind of fence-building university. Then you go to work as some kind of manager in some kind of retail chain, then there are no problems. Everything that I wrote above has nothing to do with you.
Work, get married, be fruitful and multiply. Buy a mortgage, save for a car, get a dacha. Some time will pass and then you will dream about grandchildren and everything in your life will be normal.

Well, on occasion you will fuck someone secretly from your wife at work or on a business trip.
Well, your wife there, too, somewhere secret from you at work, will also not be able to resist some handsome young man.
Well, in general, everything will be fine in your life.
And all my writings are not for you.

They say that someone is missing stars from the sky. So I’m writing for those who have enough of them.
For those who are able to graduate from school with a gold medal, who are able to graduate from a university or, say, a medical school with honors.
Who at the age of twenty are already a fucking programmer and who has already been invited to several prestigious places for work or part-time work.
I am writing for those who do not want to stop there and are already seriously learning English or some other European language. And he teaches not for tourism, but in order to enter their higher educational institution where teaching, of course, is not in Russian.

And this means that a foreign language must be at a very high level, which is impossible to acquire at school or university. And we need tutors. You need to devote at least an hour and a half to the language every day.
And all this is needed in order to expand your horizons. To eventually go to work in one or another profession abroad. Where there are completely different requirements for professional suitability and, accordingly, where there are completely different money and different working conditions.

And all this in order to ultimately earn good money and, accordingly, after some time have a decent amount in the account money that will expand your opportunities. You can finally live where you want, and you can afford the hobbies you want. And also good living conditions, safety and generally everything that comes with it.

And the most ordinary harmless girl, with a naive, trusting look and with the best intentions, can put an end to all this.
She will crawl into your life, climb in there with her feet, and you will have to do all your actions with an eye on her.
If you are offered a job tomorrow, say, outside your city, then the first thing you will think about is what to do with this girl of yours. And she, too, will not be very happy about this job offer.
I am already silent about some kind of internship abroad, about studying at a foreign educational institution.

Well, in general, you can safely give up on all your daring plans if you have a girlfriend and if you have some kind of long-term relationship with her.
Well, what if you suddenly why? then they got married, well, what else can you say - that’s it, kirdyk! Roll up all your dreams and plans into a tube and put them in one place.
I personally know several of my friends and several of my relatives who, for this reason, essentially flushed their lives and their capabilities into the toilet called family.

No. I’m not against family. This is a necessary and good thing, and she, your soul mate, is walking somewhere. But firstly, you still need to be able to recognize this soul mate. That she is yours, and not pretending to be so because you are promising.
And you need to start a family not when you have a bare ass, but when you are already quite confident on your feet and when even the family can no longer do anything to interfere with you.
Tell me, if you are already a deputy minister, does your wife have a chance to somehow interfere with you if, say, tomorrow you are appointed as some kind of leader anywhere from Moscow to Chukotka or Novosibirsk?
I think so whatever it is, for everyone, reason will still prevail over emotions and it is unlikely that you will refuse because at this level they do not refuse offers.

That’s actually what I wanted to say. ..
I don’t know if I was able to convey to your consciousness everything that I wanted to say. But I hope...

[JackTheJack]

Well, on occasion, you will fuck someone secretly from your wife at work or on a business trip.
Well, your wife there, too, somewhere secret from you at work, will also not be able to resist some handsome young man.

Yeah, everyone only dreams about this))
(Spoiler) No