At what age did you become attracted to the same sex?

[Sergei]

It is interesting to know at what age and how sexual attraction to people of the same sex appears in both men and women.
About myself I can say that as far back as I can remember I liked girls and women, very early I started masturbating, pampering with my cousins sisters, with a neighbor. There was no hint of such pampering with boys. The cousin brother seemed to be trying to seduce him - zero emotions. After the army, I already had my first and only experience with a man. A drunken workmate gave me a blow job. It seemed that I had finished, but again no emotions arose.
But already in my fifties, forbidden thoughts began to arise. While watching porn, I began to notice that I liked to see an erect penis, and there was a desire to touch it, touch it. No, the man doesn’t seem to evoke desire, but his penis...
Now the range of fantasies is expanding significantly and I want to try at least mutual caresses, masturbation, oral sex. Desires are increasingly manifested and we can already talk about readiness for such sex.
Married, everything is fine with his wife.

[Demchek 1976]

I never thought about this, either in childhood or in my youth. When I tried my wife in the ass, I wanted to find out for myself how it felt.

[1nfarct]

Both boys and girls started liking it in kindergarten

[Leon71]

When I was 6 years old I was playing with my friends, I think this is the norm.
Now I’m 40, I tried a strap-on a year ago, liked it, and continue to enjoy it. But, like most members of the forum, you already want to try a real penis. I haven’t decided yet, just fantasies.

[Ted_2023]

In the early...................

[Arianna]

since I started watching porn. Probably... Since it was mostly lesbian porn. But then I thought that I was looking solely because it was beautiful

[Bro]

Arianna, it’s really beautiful :oops :

[Vartislav]

If there is an early inclination towards the same sex, then this is apparently gay inclinations - in genes or in upbringing. And bisexuals are just depraved heterosexuals who, at the time of puberty, tried to satisfy themselves in any way and developed a habit for themselves. The most accessible way for teenagers was joint masturbation with peers. When you see someone else’s penis, curiosity involuntarily arises, a desire to touch and to be touched. This is how my classmate became gay. They played around, tried, and then had sex - purely as an experiment. Then the feeling of pleasure became entrenched - an addiction arose. Bisexuals love dicks and the process itself, but cannot fall in love with a man, and in general this side of life is, as a rule, not in the first place for them.

[German1]

attraction is not so far away

This also happens...

[anno1]

quite early...

[German1]

bisexuals are just depraved heterosexuals who, at the time of puberty, tried to be satisfied in any way

Probably this is the difference between gay and bi. But sometimes bi experiments come not during the period of maturation, but at the age of 45-50.

[Vartislav]

Yes, they come at this age. But I would say they decide to implement it, since adults are freer from complexes, have more opportunities, and during their youth Internet dating were not so accessible.

[aryamari]

I won’t say what it really entails. But I want to try

I agree, it’s not that attractive, but if the opportunity arises, I’ll try now

[Anastasia 2005]

I had meetings with friends at the age of 16-17, but it’s so-so)

[Alexey.Novikov]

with my best friend in school years, starting from watching porn together, then touched each other’s penises, after a while they jerked each other off
later they tasted it, and even later on a daily basis, several times a day, they lowered themselves into each other’s mouths

[Gourmet]

There was never any attraction. Curiosity killed me. Already in adulthood I wanted to know what women experience when sucking a penis. It was difficult to decide to suck for the first time, so I did the opposite - I let one suck, then the second, then myself. I didn’t experience any high. Swallowed sperm. Some kind of salty, incomprehensible liquid. I thought and thought, and decided to try again. I found another one, and the other one didn’t just let me suck, he just fucked me in the mouth. Further - more, I decided to try to give it to the ass. Developed a point and set it up. At first it hurt, but when the whole penis went into the ass, it felt good. The desire arose and he began to fuck in the ass. I never cum without my hands, but knowing that you’re getting fucked in the ass is somehow exhilarating. It’s nice to feel a dick in your ass and those claps when they hold you by the hips and jerk you with ever-increasing amplitude. I didn’t become gay... but the options are female or male, I prefer a strong dick in my ass

[Wicked]

As a teenager, it was interesting to try

[Swarm]

I had sex with my brother when I was 14. Then at 20 with 2 guys at sea.

[Let’s]

Maybe at 44 I haven’t realized it yet or haven’t matured, but so far I’m not attracted to men at all. Here are women, yes. Today I walked around the city, in the center, sunny, hot, the girls were naked. Full of girls in tight white T-shirts without a bra... Twice I saw panties flashing, when one sat down for a photo shoot and the second, on the contrary, stood up. I walked with my wife, with my son and, bitch, I would like to fuck 90% of them... The temptation is fucking awesome. This is what hunger means))

[A0000]

It’s always been there, I tried it a couple of times and it hurt

[Cuckold!!!]

It’s hard to say exactly at what age you became attracted to someone else’s penis, it all arose gradually... from school years he began to jerk off, engage in anal masturbation, sometimes the boys had pornographic cards and, looking at them, of course admired beautiful women and more and more often his gaze stopped at strong , big dicks, then first of all I looked closely at the dicks and only then at the women... and thoughts arose about what it’s like when you’re fucked by a strong dick, what all women feel like at the same time... and so in the end I decided to check it out .

[Mikha77]

During my school years, my friend and I moved from analism to mutual analism, and then to blowjob. He didn’t like sucking, but I got great pleasure from his dick in my mouth and a large portion of sperm. I swallowed it and realized that it was mine. I started sucking him off very often.

[Alex would]

Mikha77,

In school years with a friend from ananism moved on to mutual ananism, and then to blowjob.

Unfortunately, I did not progress beyond joint masturbation during my school years. Somehow he didn’t dare to touch someone else’s penis, although the very sight of him was very exciting and alluring. I jerked off in company more than once, they weren’t shy about it, but mutual masturbation was somehow not accepted among us. Although, I tasted someone else’s sperm from a classmate, but he didn’t know about it..

[Cuckold!!!]

I swallowed it and realized that it was mine. I started sucking him off very often.

Did I just suck him off or did I also play the role of a girl in sex?

[Cuckold!!!]

I tasted someone else’s sperm from a classmate, but he didn’t know about it..

How did it happen, that he doesn’t know that you sucked him off and swallowed his nectar?

[Mikha77]

Cuckold!!!, Only sucked, but often. There were anal attempts in a passive role, but apart from terrible pain, they brought nothing.

[Cuckold!!!]

There were anal attempts in a passive role, but apart from terrible pain, they brought nothing.

Apparently the active was inexperienced or tried only for his own pleasure, and not I respected the woman in you.

[Ignatius]

I wasn’t attracted or attracted to it, but my wife admitted that she’d wanted to be with women since she was 15 years old, but only tried it when she was 26, and right away in the MFMZ group, now we’re already 54, and we’re still practicing swinging

[Mikha77]

Cuckold!!!, Both were inexperienced and he had Already at the age of 15 I had a fairly large penis with a large head. I tolerated it as best I could so that my friend could enjoy my ass, but I jumped off the penis at the first penetration. And only many years later I became anally PASSIVE for real.

[Cuckold!!!]

I endured as best I could so that my friend could enjoy my ass, but I jumped off the penis at the first penetration. And only many years later I became anally PASSIVE for real.

And apparently your ass was not developed with toys.
I have been since I was 13- At 14 I started working on the ass and only after 30 years did I accept a real penis and felt like a woman at the same time.
And that’s why I never felt pain during sex.

[Alex would]

Cuckold!!!,

I tasted someone else’s sperm from a classmate, but he didn’t know about it..

How is it that he doesn’t know that you sucked him off and swallowed his nectar?

I don’t tell him sucked They masturbated for a couple at my house after school. Once we tried it with condoms. After my friend left, I couldn’t resist trying to taste his condom. It may sound naive now, but then I was shaking from the fact that I imagined him cumming in my mouth.

[loving]

My same-sex attraction all started in kindergarten, where I touched and stroked a boy’s pussy during quiet time, our beds were together. He really liked how I caressed him. And when I was 12 years old, I jerked off with my cousin.

[Cuckold!!!]

After my friend left, I couldn’t resist trying to taste his condom. It may sound naive now, but then I was shaking from the fact that I imagined him cumming in my mouth.

I got it.
Yes, that’s it such a perverted action that it hurts the whole body.

[Stas99rus]

At the age of 13, I was seduced by my mother’s brother, he was 23, I vacationed every summer in the village with my grandmother, he caught me jerking off in the attic, and then we jerked off together, he showed me all sorts of magazines with naked women sucking dick, then we went to all sorts of caresses of members.
One day he suggested that I take his penis in my mouth like those girls from the magazine, I took it, first a soft penis, then he stood up in the process, he told me how to suck better, I I learned quickly and I really liked it
Then he said that he wanted me to be like a girl for him, we found a bag of women’s clothes in the attic, it was the teenage clothes of my mother and her sister.
He he put me on polka dot panties and a bra, stuffed cotton wool in there, put on a short dress and called me Vika, and decided to play husband and wife, we laid out a sweatshirt in the attic, he put me on my back and started kissing me.
nHe sat on top of me and stuck his dick between my legs and fucked me between my thighs until he came, but practically he always pumped into my mouth, and after that he kissed me, I really liked this fun.
Then I I tried to suck his dick only dressed in women’s clothes in the attic, and he always fucked me with his dick between my legs in different positions, I remember we made a cozy place for ourselves in the attic, we brought a mattress, a bedspread and two pillows, and it was every summer that I rested like that with him in the village, he didn’t fuck me in the ass, he was afraid that I was still a child.
I remember once I was having breakfast on the veranda, he came up to me and said in my ear, Vikusya, I want to give it to you in your mouth, so I I didn’t finish my breakfast, ran quickly to the attic, out of habit, I quickly dressed in women’s clothes and waited for him on my knees.
All these pleasures ended when I was taken into the army.
I remember coming after the army and arriving in the village for the weekend, he lit a bathhouse, took a steam bath, drank and remembered our adventures, I asked him a question myself, do you remember Vika from the attic, he got an electric shock, he said that he was thinking about me all the time, but was afraid to admit, I’m already an adult , I also admitted that I, too, constantly thought about him, here everything started as adults, but I told him that if you find clothes, I can be your Vika again.
Within a week he bought everything, and I took some things from my wife.
He already lived with his wife on the edge of the village.
I came alone to the village for the weekend; my parents didn’t go for some reason.
I was I’m glad that I’ll be alone, everything was ready for me, he texted me that he had prepared things for me in the attic, I got up and looked and I was shaking with excitement.
In the hidden package there were a couple of dresses, a short red skirt, a beautiful set of underwear, a bra and panties, and stockings with a belt, sandals and a wig with lipstick.
I wrote him a text saying that if he can escape from his wife, take something to drink and come, Vika will be glad to see you.
I locked myself in the house in the evening, in the house I closed all the curtains on the windows, changed my clothes, put on lipstick and waited for him, walked around the house and admired myself in the mirror, by the time he came I had already come a couple of times.
He told his wife something that he was going to a neighboring village for a friend then help, and come to me all night until the morning.
So, now in ordinary life I am a man, but in my soul there lives a girl Vika, about whom only my uncle knows about whom I am still his virtual wife .

[OwDrin]

When I was 7 years old, I started having sex with my older brother, I liked it, and then it started with my friends and classmates, I became a little older, I was 14 years old, I had already had sex with guys from 18 to 30.
But I’m not gay, a bi. But I like guys more.

[Coock Old***]

Yes, in general, the interest in both girls and boys was approximately the same, they were just maturing and, as a result, increased libido. As I grew older, my interest became more and more towards men. But as a child, I still masturbated more to the female sex.

[Go ahead]

From the cradle, I grew up almost side by side with my cousin, as if with my own family - we spent sooo much time together. He is two years older than me. As a child, before going to bed, I was about 6 years old, he was 8, he began to tell me his sexual fantasies about girls, girls. I was very captivated by his stories and at the age of 6-7 I was already composing similar ones myself (about girls) and telling them to my brother.
Then he found porn tapes from his father, cards with naked girls, chips where you rub her and a clothed girl becomes undressed. I absolutely loved it all. In porn I only looked at girls. The sight of a naked man was disgusting. In short, at the age of 6, I realized that I liked girls. Then for about 10 years I was wildly shy and afraid of the fact that I was attracted to girls. Sometimes I was horrified by this. I was so depressed because of this - it’s terrible.
The boys were friends for me. They played football, volleyball, basketball, computer games, climbed abandoned buildings, trees, garages, and hung around. There were girlfriends too, of course. But somehow I didn’t consider them in a role other than just girlfriends. I was just friends with everyone, in short. In my fantasies, I imagined only girls, and for me men/boys were - ugh, beee.
It was like this until I was 12 years old, only somewhere at this age did the first and very weak interest in boys begin to appear. Then a couple of times I had unrequited crushes on boys. From the age of 11 to 15 I had severe acne, I just didn’t have a living place on my skin, my figure was not formed and not particularly feminine, I also often dressed like a boy, or just wore all sorts of crap)) and in general was a bit strange) and me no one considered me an attractive object.
At the age of 15-16, huge changes suddenly occurred in my figure and face, and within a year I turned from an ugly duckling into a pretty girl.
At the age of 16, I fell madly in love with a classmate when I got to a new school. At first sight, from the first conversation. She was a very beautiful, unique and lively girl. Boys and men ran after her in herds. Carried in their arms. We were friends for several years, all this time I was wildly in love with her, but never admitted it. Then there was another fleeting love for a boy, and again unrequited, since he had been in love with this same classmate of mine since childhood)). Then I dated guys a couple of times, not a single relationship lasted more than 3-4 months, I didn’t feel much towards them. Outwardly handsome, but somehow not particularly attractive.
At the age of 16, I met a very beautiful and unusual girl, and became friends. A very feminine girl, but there’s just fire inside) After a year of friendship, they drunkenly started kissing each other. Both apparently wanted it for a long time, but were shy. It completely blew my mind, I wanted her like I had never wanted any boy. I took it home and just enjoyed it. This was actually my first time.
Then in the morning I was so embarrassed, but we continued to drink together and play pranks. At first, being sober was very embarrassing, wrong, etc.
At the age of 18 I met my husband. Everything was always cool with him, but at the same time I continued to see my friend occasionally until she left with her husband for another country. By the way, they hinted at FFM, and I, a fool, because of my husband, could not imagine myself with another man))
Then I met girls on dating sites several times. I liked one girl, but it didn’t go far with her, she was lesbian and began to fall in love with me, sighing that I had a husband. I myself did not develop the relationship further, since she wanted a very serious relationship with the girl, and I had no intention of leaving my husband.
I am drawn to girls with terrible force. Now I would really like to meet a cool girl, but it doesn’t go further than communication. Sometimes the type is not mine, sometimes it doesn’t suit my character, sometimes it’s outwardly repulsive, sometimes my goals don’t suit me - I’m very selective. It happens that I don’t fit either).
Well, something like this. In short, all my life, as long as I can remember, I liked girls.
I recently started communicating with my paternal sister, since we began to live in neighboring cities, who left when I was 4 years old and we never communicated. She also turned out to be a boy inside and also bisexual. And this happens. I never knew my father; he and my mother separated immediately after my birth. Is it really true that they inherited something from our folder at the genetic level?

[I just]

At 23 years old. At first I kissed and touched that girl, she didn’t resist, but she didn’t reciprocate either. And one day we had a good drink, and she herself undressed me and licked me. It started from then on for us. :bel_flag:

[Sibiryak89]

Stas99rus,
And I printed out the ass or just a blowjob?

Sent after 11 minutes 9 seconds:
There was and is no attraction to the same sex, but during my school years, somewhere from 12-13 to 15, they relieved the stress of boners they fucked each other alternately and it was like blowing your nose, it seemed, what’s wrong with this? At the age of 15, the attraction to girls took over and seemed to end, although in my student years I also helped each other with a guy in the dorm to relieve the stress of a hard-on, and once I was drunk in adulthood, I didn’t feel the buzz, but there was and remains an interest I don’t feel like it, I think if the drunken interlocutor is interesting, maybe it will work out

[Bully Carrie]

From the cradle, I grew up almost side by side with my cousin, as with my own - we spent sooo much time together. He is two years older than me. As a child, before going to bed, I was about 6 years old, he was 8, he began to tell me his sexual fantasies about girls, girls. I was very captivated by his stories and at the age of 6-7 I was already composing similar ones myself (about girls) and telling them to my brother.
Then he found porn tapes from his father, cards with naked girls, chips where you rub her and a clothed girl becomes undressed. I absolutely loved it all. In porn I only looked at girls. The sight of a naked man was disgusting. In short, at the age of 6, I realized that I liked girls. Then for about 10 years I was wildly shy and afraid of the fact that I was attracted to girls. Sometimes I was horrified by this. I was so depressed because of this - it’s terrible.
The boys were friends for me. They played football, volleyball, basketball, computer games, climbed abandoned buildings, trees, garages, and hung around. There were girlfriends too, of course. But somehow I didn’t consider them in a role other than just girlfriends. I was just friends with everyone, in short. In my fantasies, I imagined only girls, and for me men/boys were - ugh, beee.
It was like this until I was 12 years old, only somewhere at this age did the first and very weak interest in boys begin to appear. Then a couple of times I had unrequited crushes on boys. From the age of 11 to 15 I had severe acne, I just didn’t have a living place on my skin, my figure was not formed and not particularly feminine, I also often dressed like a boy, or just wore all sorts of crap)) and in general was a bit strange) and me no one considered me an attractive object.
At the age of 15-16, huge changes suddenly occurred in my figure and face, and within a year I turned from an ugly duckling into a pretty girl.
At the age of 16, I fell madly in love with a classmate when I got to a new school. At first sight, from the first conversation. She was a very beautiful, unique and lively girl. Boys and men ran after her in herds. Carried in their arms. We were friends for several years, all this time I was wildly in love with her, but never admitted it. Then there was another fleeting love for a boy, and again unrequited, since he had been in love with this same classmate of mine since childhood)). Then I dated guys a couple of times, not a single relationship lasted more than 3-4 months, I didn’t feel much towards them. Outwardly handsome, but somehow not particularly attractive.
At the age of 16, I met a very beautiful and unusual girl, and became friends. A very feminine girl, but there’s just fire inside) After a year of friendship, they drunkenly started kissing each other. Both apparently wanted it for a long time, but were shy. It completely blew my mind, I wanted her like I had never wanted any boy. I took it home and just enjoyed it. This was actually my first time.
Then in the morning I was so embarrassed, but we continued to drink together and play pranks. At first, being sober was very embarrassing, wrong, etc.
At the age of 18 I met my husband. Everything was always cool with him, but at the same time I continued to see my friend occasionally until she left with her husband for another country. By the way, they hinted at FFM, and I, a fool, because of my husband, could not imagine myself with another man))
Then I met girls on dating sites several times. I liked one girl, but it didn’t go far with her, she was lesbian and began to fall in love with me, sighing that I had a husband. I myself did not develop the relationship further, since she wanted a very serious relationship with the girl, and I had no intention of leaving my husband.
I am drawn to girls with terrible force. Now I would really like to meet a cool girl, but it doesn’t go further than communication. Sometimes the type is not mine, sometimes it doesn’t suit my character, sometimes it’s outwardly repulsive, sometimes my goals don’t suit me - I’m very selective. It happens that I don’t fit either).
Well, something like this. In short, all my life, as long as I can remember, I liked girls.
I recently started communicating with my paternal sister, since we began to live in neighboring cities, who left when I was 4 years old and we never communicated. She also turned out to be a boy inside and also bisexual. And this happens. I never knew my father; he and my mother separated immediately after my birth. Is it really true that they inherited something from our folder at the genetic level

Thank you for sharing... It turns out that you can’t throw genes out the window)))

[March]

"Attraction" to members was, in my opinion, always there. Like a projection of attraction to one’s own penis. This... specific narcissism, as I understand it.
To the opposite sex... As a factor - no. But handsome boys excite me. This is more likely a projection of a craving for the female sex - boys with a feminine figure... teenage.
Well, in my youth I had an episodic "excess" with a friend. He just had a figure - like a girl. That’s what turned me on then.
So, rather, it’s feminine trannies that turn me on.

[Go ahead]

shared...It turns out that you can’t throw genes out the window)))

Yes. What’s most interesting is that she and I never knew each other (she only nursed me when I was little in diapers) and didn’t communicate at all for more than 20 years. And when we met as adults, it turned out that both were serious about girls.
Before I got married (I finally got a man whom I fell in love with) I assumed that I would most likely be in a serious relationship with a girl. Moreover, I am childfree by nature and don’t care about the opinions of others, it wouldn’t be difficult for me.
My sister has been living with a woman for many years and they don’t really hide it, and before that she had a serious relationship with a girl (I had one with a guy too, but it ended sadly). So, from my own example, I believe that there is definitely something genetic in attraction to the same sex.

[Sibiryak89]

AmberaMaze,
And the relationship with her were, how and where was it?

[RedFox]

I started masturbating at the age of 12, in the summer I liked to masturbate in the entrance, on the street in the bushes. And once again I’m sitting in the park in the bushes jerking off and hearing voices, I quieted down, I see a guy about 20 years old and a man about 40 years old. The guy gets down on his knees, the man takes out his dick and the guy starts sucking it. Seeing this took my breath away, I sat in the bushes, froze and did not move. The guy sucked, stood up, pulled down his pants and underpants and stuck his ass out, the man began to fuck him. All this lasted about 10-15 minutes, and it made such a strong impression on me. I was simply dumbfounded by what I saw. In the evening when I went to bed and started jerking off, I imagined myself in that guy’s place. I started visiting that park in the hope of seeing something else similar, and a few days later I spied another couple, then another. In general, from then on, when I jerked off, I imagined that I was sucking and being fucked. Well, at the age of 14, I was already actually capitalized, both in the mouth and in the ass.

[Wednesday]

I was about 10 years old and had a neighbor who was 8+-. We ran around the apartment with naked pussies with him. Then it became interesting why and how. A friend was just as repulsed, and through shame and disgrace they admitted that we were jerking off. Well, off we go, off we go. We agreed to jerk off together to cards with naked women, so we jerk off and jerk off, but I can’t take my eyes off his dick, it’s damn interesting. And his dick was much bigger than mine, it drove me crazy. Well, at that moment we decided to touch each other’s penis, I was in 7th heaven with happiness, Finally, I was holding a friend’s real penis in my hand. We began to practice our handjob every day, I really liked that I was doing him well. I saw how much he liked it, and he saw how much I liked it, so we decided to go further and try to take turns sucking. It was something special, I had never experienced such a wild thrill before. We studied and trained day after day, as soon as there was a moment we ran to the landing and sucked each other off duty, I remember my jaw hurt a lot all the time. I was looking forward to the meeting, because I wanted to suck him 24/7. He knew this very well and he himself loved to suck me. If it were up to me, I would still suck him, we communicate but rarely and live far from each other. Now several times a year I try to give someone a blow job.

[Alexb]

Probably there is no attraction as such, and still, in adolescence, you want to cum, then cum again and cum again, and it doesn’t matter who it is. And now there is no craving either, but when you see a cool male dickthen you really want to suck it or jerk it off or feel it in the butt.

[Nikolaych]

If it’s attraction, then probably from 13-14, although the process itself began a little earlier