Get pleasure or give it to your partner?

[Informal]

For me, it’s more important to give pleasure in sex.
I also noticed that girls sometimes don’t really know how to give a blowjob (with a dick on you), we are used to just having fun. I asked why. They answer that they are embarrassed to take the initiative themselves.

[niqk]

niqk, Well, you answered question? What do you mean he’s incomprehensible? If you haven’t encountered the fact that girls don’t get the pleasure they want, then what is there to talk about? Then understand the issue and there will be no problems with them)

So I don’t have such problems. Maybe that’s why I don’t understand: what is it like to have sex without pleasure?!!!

[12345]

What is more important for you in sex, to have pleasure or to give it to your partner?

First of all, I strive to please my wife or another woman, and I get pleasure from this myself.

[d4d]

First of all, I strive to please my wife or another woman, and I get pleasure from this myself.

Similarly. I myself get a kick out of the fact that my woman enjoys what I do to her.

[ben764]

when a girl cums, I get even more excited, especially if during cunnilingus so that I can enjoy the taste of her pussy and I really like it.
I caress her until she cums several times or she asks to quickly enter her and then I am ready to cum and have fun)))
it happens that I lick her pussy even after sex but only if you didn’t cum in her

[alex503311]

I won’t be able to get true pleasure if my partner doesn’t get hers

That’s why prostitutes don’t bother me.

I wanted to somehow, but now a schoolgirl is good enough for me as a daughter, I wouldn’t mind an 18-year-old, I can give her wine to drink, she’ll be in good condition, plus for me even a prostitute is a sexual partner, it’s just that then there are options, from a vibrator and cunnilingus, etc.
to bring her to a high, it’s easier for money, well, you paid and okay, then you want the one you chose.
I would like a Japanese woman, as well as a Russian one, who has for example, a father from Africa, that is, a black woman, but Russian, can also come up with, for example, a girl and a woman, get him drunk and make them bi.

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Now, if a woman cums from a vibrator, I probably won’t be happy, just like blowjob and anal are not enough, but filling the pussy ,
that will suit you.
But if the choice is either you give me cunnilingus, or I go home, then cunnilingus, since it’s better for her to cum from cunnilingus than nothing at all.
If in bed, then often the partners came, then they were surprised, but I didn’t finish, and sometimes you finish and you’ll fall asleep,
or it won’t matter anymore, so I could endure it for 1-2 hours.
Yes, and then, when you’ve already finished, you say, let me do it too, and many people also came when they were used to make a guy come, maybe somewhere morally, like they were used and many people like them, and as I remember, someone came when they were filled with sperm.
And about the buzz, it’s nice when a woman pushes you or pushes you, especially if you’re a guy and she’s an adult woman and she moans and then starts screaming from the buzz, at this time you’re the master, she’s a slut.

[psycheleh]

Informal, Shyness means they easily found the place where you should be ashamed))))

[Tae]

For me, it’s more important to give pleasure in sex

The untimely deceased Bashorg had this joke:
- When I’m with a girl, neither I don’t think about anything anymore, only about rogasm!
- Well, with this approach, rogasm won’t keep you waiting.

[Vas & Katya]

No, the pleasure should be mutual!

[Ridik]

Naturally, think about your partner first.

[Marshmallow]

I get a thrill from the fact that I can give pleasure to my partner, how much you give is how much you get???

[Vas & Katya]

how much you give, is how much you receive???

And even if it’s 69? I get stuck a little, then I have to catch up

[racer]

How much you give is how much you get???

And even if it’s 69? I get stuck a little, then I have to catch up

It’s hard to get stuck at 69 when in front of you is the most wonderful flower in the world!

[Vas & Katya]

It’s hard to get stuck at 69 when in front of you is the most wonderful flower in the world!

Well, there are probably those that are absolutely not distracting

[racer]

It’s hard to get stuck at 69 when in front of you is the most wonderful flower in the world!

Well, there is probably those that do not distract at all

And I mean the same thing! The subtle smell drives you crazy, your lips ooze with spicy nectar... mmm

[Vas & Katya]

I’m in a different sense, don’t distract

[racer]

I in another sense, do not distract

What do you mean?

[Kite]

Ideally, when two people want each other, both give pleasure to each other, only with reciprocity and it will be an unforgettable sex.

[Vas & Katya]

What do you mean?

When mine starts, I forget about everything!

[racer]

What do you mean?

When mine starts, I forget about everything!

Same story)

[niqk]

And a good story, dammit!!!

[Tanya]

In theory, everyone should strive for reciprocity, but in life it doesn’t work that way. Well, as an example, I came home from work, I can barely move my legs and my husband puts me to bed?? Or I’ve already had my fill and don’t want any more, but he or they still want it. What is it like.....

[Mister_X]

In theory, everyone should strive for reciprocity, but in life it doesn’t work out that way. Well, as an example, I came home from work, I can barely move my legs and my husband puts me to bed?? Or I’ve already had my fill and don’t want any more, but he or they still want it. What can we say...

Basically, a man is fixated on giving pleasure to his partner. A woman is by nature passive and focused only on receiving pleasure. Various complexes may also interfere with her.
I was very lucky in this regard, because my first sexual
partner is my aunt was already quite experienced in both sex and relationships, so she understood that she too pleasure depends on my arousal. But on the other hand, she set a very high bar and I have never had anything like this in my life, and this is reflected in my personal life.
In general, a woman for a man, and especially for a young man, should be like a mother and good to him feel, and also be quite liberated and a little depraved.

[Tanya]

In general, a woman for a man, and especially for a young man, should be like a mother and feel him well, and also be quite liberated and a little depraved.

nBut here it is also important not to go too far, otherwise she will think that she is too depraved, will consider that she is like a “sharp” and it is unlikely that such a partnership has a future.

[Mister_X]

But here it is also important not to go too far, otherwise she will accept that she is too depraved, will consider that she is like a “sharp” and it is unlikely that such a partnership has a future.

It was difficult for her to bend anything, since I didn’t have any standards in sex and she set all the standards. I loved her as a sexual partner, and I respected her as a woman. She was always, one might say, a Lady of the World: she was friendly and sociable with her many admirers, but she never stooped to coquetry and flirtation, she knew how to keep her distance.
She probably wanted a young partner because she herself had good energy and she would have been in little harmony with a man more suitable to her age, but who was fading energetically, so she married her former student, 13.5 years younger than her, who fell in love with her in college, but things didn’t work out between them. And the difference between me and her is still twice as large as with her young husband, but she was happy with everything about me. She said that from my photos, where I was on the beach, she could determine that I had a rather large penis, and the strength of my excitement, which she felt while dancing with me, once again convinced her of this. In addition, she could completely trust me, and therefore be completely relaxed in bed with me. I won’t say that she is too depraved. The most depraved thing she did was a blowjob, but it was not deep, she only lightly caressed my head, and then mostly in the 69 position.
Well, the sexual positions themselves are quite natural in nature and although doggy style positions are somewhat depraved, they are again natural, which is why she loves them.

[12345]

he or they still want

You live happily when not only he, but also they are at home.

[Mister_X]

But here it is also important not to go too far, otherwise she will accept that she is too depraved, will consider that she is like a “sharp” and it is unlikely that such a partnership has a future.

The future depends more on feelings. The main thing is that they are mutual.

[King Bird]

Giving a woman pleasure is great. Besides, it will come back to you too. There is, however, a risk of getting too carried away, and this is fraught with consequences if a man does not want to get married. And his partner can easily mistake such tenderness, consideration and care for love and a desire to start a family. And when she realizes that this is not so, a conflict is possible.

But it’s still important not to go too far, otherwise she will accept that she is too depraved, consider that she is like a “slice” and it is unlikely that such a partnership has a future.

Interesting point. In my youth, on the contrary, I was very much into female depravity; I almost even married a divorced woman. Moreover, she knew very well that their divorce was her fault. Later I heard about such things as a “demo version” of sexual behavior, I learned what “RSP” is, so it was probably for the best that we ran away. Although I’m still sure that she herself enjoyed all the crazy tricks.

[Mister_X]

An interesting point. In my youth, on the contrary, I was very much into female depravity; I almost even married a divorced woman. Moreover, she knew very well that their divorce was her fault. Later I heard about such things as a “demo version” of sexual behavior, I learned what “RSP” is, so it was probably for the best that we ran away. Although I’m still sure that she herself enjoyed all the crazy tricks.

My aunt was also a RSP and her daughter is 4 years older than me, and a divorce was also on her initiative, and not alone. And the "demo version" was always there. But she did not marry again, although her friends and relatives insistently imposed various suitors on her. She probably didn’t want to lose me as a sexual partner, knowing that I would be very worried.

[Herurg]

I have a strange body. For some reason I only get pleasure from my partner’s emotions. The stronger her pleasure, the stronger mine. And considering that I’m used to not striving for my own orgasm, but rather delaying it, I’m comfortable focusing solely on bringing pleasure to my friend.

[Harsizis]

For some reason, it is more important for me to give pleasure than to receive.

[Hunter999]

Of course, I will have an unpopular opinion, but that’s how it is.
I am an absolute egoist, I am only interested in my pleasure, I use my wife to get a good ending. But we coincided amazingly, she loves to be submissive, loves for me to use her. She says sometimes she cums from vaginal sex, but she doesn’t really need it, if she needs an orgasm, she’ll do it all for herself in the bathroom.

[Alyosha]

It seems to me that if a partner doesn’t get high, it’s masturbation

[racer]

I have a strange body. For some reason I only get pleasure from my partner’s emotions. The stronger her pleasure, the stronger mine. And considering that I’m used to not striving for my own orgasm, but rather delaying it, I feel comfortable focusing solely on giving pleasure to my friend.

A completely normal reaction, as it should be be

[babybaby787]

I think that you need to first give pleasure to a woman and then receive it yourself

[Ivp1967]

First of all, please your partner. It’s so nice to hear her "More....more".

[Akteya]

I get aesthetic pleasure when my partner reacts emotionally to caresses and watching him cum turns me on even more

[Polly]

Ideally, both receive and give pleasure. But if we talk about what is important, then the partner himself plays a role. If this is a person with whom you are head over heels in love, then definitely deliver. And if it’s sex for sex’s sake, then get it)

[Shalun70]

I have a strange body. For some reason I only get pleasure from my partner’s emotions. The stronger her pleasure, the stronger mine. And considering that I’m used to not striving for my own orgasm, but rather delaying it, I’m comfortable focusing solely on giving pleasure to my friend.

That’s exactly the case with me.. .

[Leopold-57]

First, of course, please your partner (wife). I have her multi-orgasmic (up to 5 times in my youth), and only then myself with her last one in this approach. Now the main thing is to achieve orgasm for both at the same time. Otherwise, you have to modify it later with the help of cunnilingus.

[Veronica]

That’s why I give joy to my Partner’s ass. I’m not particularly pleased.