19 years old, virgin, everything is sad...

[kirill.volk]

Good afternoon, forum members. I’m 19 years old
It all started when I was 15, when my first girl appeared, after a month of dating, we got drunk at a party, and she took me to another room. Then we tossed and turned, both already naked, and after 30 minutes I didn’t get hard (I was very drunk, and probably nervous). Then, of course, we ran away. I found another one, almost everything follows the same pattern... I’m not a freak at all, I have an athletic build, the girls are sticky and I can purr at anything. There are no problems with communication. Now I’m 19 years old, and somehow I’ve become bored alone, and I’ve never had meaningful sex.
What to do in such a situation? As soon as it comes to sex - that’s it, it’s as if I’m stuck in the ground and I can’t do anything. Only if I’m drunk, of course, it’s lego, but only when I’m drunk, my device is not furychit (Maybe it’s for the better).
P.S The option with a doctor is out of the question, because in my city there is no ophthalmologist, not to mention other shrinks.

[BackAgain]

What to do? - drink less.
Yes, and stop doing a lot of things to correct the situation.

[kirill.volk]

I haven’t drunk for a long time, only on holidays

[SR0]

It’s you who “caught the sluggish one”, this happens, you think the hell out of it. If it doesn’t work out, put it in your mouth the first time, then everything will work out

[Gudgeon]

everything is sad...

Don’t be sad - boobs won’t grow!
In short, your problem is your nerves, you’re really worried that you won’t get hard, that’s why he doesn’t get hard.
There is stupid advice - relax and don’t think about it. Unfortunately, it’s like telling a depressed person - don’t be sad.
There are some useful tips: 1) don’t drink, it won’t help. 2) it’s better to buy some Novopassit and drink it in the morning, antidepressants also work, but it’s better to start with a mild one. Believe me, the same novopassit will relax you normally, or rather, you will become a little less concerned about everything. Even better - take a little Cialis (tadalafil). Available in pharmacies. You are young, don’t get addicted, buy 2-4 tablets, take no more than 10 mg (everything is physically bad for you, this is only to strengthen the result). After the 2nd or 3rd successful fuck, you will exhale and you won’t need all these “crutches.”
And the best advice is to do this with a good girl, tactful, who knows how to support. Maybe she won’t get up the first time, well, lie down, you will calm down, come in again or a third time... when you understand that your partner accepts you and there is no danger from her, you will relax and everything will work. You’ll laugh later because you scored it.
Z.Y. According to the subject of the first sex: did not get up from excitement or came barely after inserting - the two most common outcomes of this very first sex. You are not the first nor the last and there really is no problem there. Relax is the main thing.

[kirill.volk]

Gudgeon, Thank you, this is the most sensible and extended answer to I wrote this topic on many forums, but I received funny answers

advice - relax and don’t think about it

. like these. And I don’t drink anymore, only on holidays. Thanks again +rep

[Sibiryak89]

Good afternoon, forum members. I’m 19 years old
It all started when I was 15, when my first girl appeared, after a month of dating, we got drunk at a party, and she took me to another room. Then we tossed and turned, both already naked, and after 30 minutes I didn’t get hard (I was very drunk, and probably nervous). Then, of course, we ran away. I found another one, almost everything follows the same pattern... I’m not a freak at all, I have an athletic build, the girls are sticky and I can purr at anything. There are no problems with communication. Now I’m 19 years old, and somehow I’ve become bored alone, and I’ve never had meaningful sex.
What to do in such a situation? As soon as it comes to sex - that’s it, it’s as if I’m stuck in the ground and I can’t do anything. Only if I’m drunk, of course, it’s lego, but only when I’m drunk, my device is not furychit (Maybe it’s for the better).
P.S The option with a doctor is out of the question, because in my city there is no ophthalmologist, not to mention other shrinks.

And after, When you fail, you jerk off... You should find pleasure in sex, not in jerking off. They are masturbators, aliens, and they fuck and jerk off at the same time, not everyone can do both

[Gudgeon]

Thank you

You’re welcome! If only it would help. I think everything will be fine. Well, I got nervous, it happens.