Where did this stereotype among men come from?

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Why do many men, even mature and experienced ones, believe that the hymen in women is located very deep, in the posterior fornix of the vagina? Where did this stereotype come from?
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In childhood and adolescence, we probably heard such a “yard legend” and believed in it. Well, or they simply didn’t have sexual experience with a virgin, so they came up with something for themselves. But to study the issue and find out everything as it is, this is not the king’s business; they apparently only know how to search for porn on the Internet.
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Did you go for the second time? Is Shkololo an amateur gynecologist?
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Lack of sex education, probably
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Lady Autumn, because when you enter a poorly extruded vagina, a penis , or rather, its head falls under the cervix and lower fornix, that’s why it feels like there’s a barrier there, that’s why such thoughts arise
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Why do men need this knowledge at all? Doesn’t change the essence
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Viar, Well, there are those who are so persistent that they are trying there too break the hymen.
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Komrad: 04 Dec 2022, 05:08 because when you enter a poorly extruded vagina, a penis, or rather its head gets under the cervix and lower fornix, that’s why it feels like there’s a barrier there, that’s why such thoughts arise
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Thank you, :clever:, I’m not only smart, I’m also well-mannered :oops:
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Komrad: 04 Dec 2022, 05:33 Thank you, I’m not only smart, I’m also well-mannered
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Don’t be so self-critical! Love yourself....
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Komrad: 04 Dec 2022, 05:39 You shouldn’t be so self-critical! Love yourself....
And smart men don’t get offended by stupid women.
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Katia, Women are not stupid, they just have their own logic , your approach to life.
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Apparently, they rarely look there) I know perfectly well where the hymen is and what it looks like.
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Zhanna K: 04 Dec 2022, 03:30 Why do many men, even mature and experienced ones, believe that the hymen in women is located very deep, in the posterior fornix of the vagina? Where did this stereotype come from?
So I need to ask you this. Because this is the first time I’ve heard this nonsense.
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Mishanja11: 04 Dec 2022, 05:49 Apparently, they rarely look there)
Lomat lovers most likely never look there, they just mindlessly poke their dicks at a woman...
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Lady Autumn, And women, at that time girls were not He especially tries to show everything there, that’s why there’s such a stereotype, what if there are bees there!?? :unknown:
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Lady Autumn: 04 Dec 2022, 05:56 Lomat lovers most likely never look there, they just mindlessly poke their dicks at a woman...
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And in vain! Such an interesting place! :)
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Komrad: 04 Dec 2022, 06:03 Yes, and women, at that time girls are not particularly keen to show everything there, that’s why there is such a stereotype, what if there are bees!??
Exactly. Only these are the wrong bees. They really make the right honey. :)
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Leopold-57, what a hollow, so are the bees, and like bees, like honey, everything is interconnected!
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Komrad, in the right hollow - the right bees :)
Mishanja11: 04 Dec 2022, 06:06 And in vain! Such an interesting place!:)
Some guys don’t enjoy exploring interesting places, they just want to break and destroy everything :)
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Lady Autumn, I don’t know, maybe because I’m very or knowledgeable, I was interested in everything :-)
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Komrad, curiosity directed in the "right direction" " - a big plus for a man :) And for a woman, too, of course.
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Lady Autumn: 04 Dec 2022, 07:36 explore interesting places not for fun, they just want to break and destroy everything
Yes. But men love with their eyes! How can you not explore such an interesting place? Don’t climb with your fingers in it)
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Zhanna K, this is the first time I’ve heard about this, I always thought that she is just a film at the very entrance (like an eardrum)
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Komrad: 04 Dec 2022, 05:46 Women are not stupid, they just have their own logic, their own approach to life.
Thank you, at least you left logic for us, low bow to you. *x) And without our approach to life, you would not enjoy this life. You’re my smart guy.
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You shouldn’t extol yourself so much, modesty adorns a person
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prometheus: 04 Dec 2022, 07:58 Zhanna K, this is the first time I’ve heard about like that, I always thought that it was just a film at the very entrance (like an eardrum)
There is no film there, a fold of skin like a fringe around a tiny hole.
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The man is not a gynecologist. The main thing for him is to be able to insert what needs to be there))
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Byutiful: 15 Dec 2022, 02:39 The man is not a gynecologist. The main thing for him is to be able to insert what needs to be there))
I think he should know the anatomy of the vagina and hymen of his virgin friend, how to feel her...
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Myths - they are like that, interconnected.
A long and thick penis (with which boys love to measure themselves) is exactly what is needed to get that very hymen, which (according to the conviction of the right boys) is hidden far, far away in the vagina.
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And in general... If all the rams and all the sheep in the herd know everything in advance, then how to rule this herd? And therefore - see above.
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This is due to illiteracy, they skipped anatomy)))))
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I’ve never had such a stereotype
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Zhanna K: 04 Dec 2022, 03:30 Why do many men, even mature and experienced ones, believe that the hymen in women is located very deep, in the posterior fornix of the vagina? Where did this stereotype come from?
There is no sex education, we learned about sex from porn or from friends, and people mostly giggle at the famous Biology lesson in the 9th grade. It is not surprising that people, on average, have no idea how the genital organs work, whether theirs or others.
And here “experience” and “maturity” are not a plus, because it is more The younger "Internet generation" tends to rummage around more because they are growing up in an era of accessible information.

You haven’t brought up the wildest myth yet. Here is my personal top.
4th place. The belief that the most sensitive nerve endings are located deep in the vagina at the entrance to the uterus. Therefore, you need to dig as deep as possible in order to touch them. Three men of different ages told me this, although all were over 30.
3rd place. Not knowing where the clitoris is. (I mean even the head).
2nd place. The belief that women pee from the vagina. (An adult (!) man told me this in all seriousness)
1st place. Belief in telegony. One guy over 30 and one of my girls at 18 rubbed this over me.
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