What to do

Unread post by **dunno** » 12 Dec 2022, 14:20

Hi all.
The topic was not created to excite or to clog the forum. Just need an explanation about the problem.
Such a problem with my wife. Married for 20 years. At the beginning, the intimate relationship was not very good, but it was more or less. But in recent years there has been no sex. Once every 2 months or once a month. It’s been like this for 3 years now. For the last ten years it has been once twice a month. Never happened regularly. It so happened that after orgasm, my balls immediately began to ache and my wife had no reaction. How many times have you asked why this is so? It’s like I’m not in the mood, my head hurts, I’m tired, you finish but I won’t, and so on.. I don’t understand what the problem is? If this continues, I think I will have serious problems with prostatitis. What would you say or advise? I don’t seem to have a problem. What should I do, continue to live the same way?
Just please don’t throw tomatoes.

Unread post by **The passage** » 13 Dec 2022, 14:15

neznayka: 12 Dec 2022, 14:20 Hello everyone.
The topic was not created to excite or to clog the forum. Just need an explanation about the problem.
Such a problem with my wife. Married for 20 years. At the beginning, the intimate relationship was not very good, but it was more or less. But in recent years there has been no sex. Once every 2 months or once a month. It’s been like this for 3 years now. For the last ten years it has been once twice a month. Never happened regularly. It so happened that after orgasm, my balls immediately began to ache and my wife had no reaction. How many times have you asked why this is so? It’s like I’m not in the mood, my head hurts, I’m tired, you finish but I won’t, and so on.. I don’t understand what the problem is? If this continues, I think I will have serious problems with prostatitis. What would you say or advise? I don’t seem to have a problem. What should I do, continue to live the same way?
Just please don’t throw tomatoes.

If you’ve been like this for three years, then why are you doing this? Are you just now concerned?

Unread post by **dunno** » 14 Dec 2022, 09:29

I am patient and very. I thought time would fix it over time. And he never offended her and for 20 years we didn’t have any big problems. Everything turned out to be normal. I don’t want to raise a scandal about this either. The children are already adults. There was no way out of this.

Unread post by **The passage** » 14 Dec 2022, 09:36

neznayka: 14 Dec 2022, 09:29 I am patient and very. I thought time would fix it over time. And he never offended her and for 20 years we didn’t have any big problems. Everything turned out to be normal. I don’t want to raise a scandal about this either. The children are already adults. There was no way out of this.

And what was the reason for the changes that occurred? In your opinion.

Unread post by **dunno** » 14 Dec 2022, 09:37

It turns out that she is frigid. Nothing else comes to mind.

Unread post by **The passage** » 14 Dec 2022, 09:40

neznayka: 14 Dec 2022, 09:37 It turns out that she is frigid. Nothing else comes to mind.

What will you do next? Do you have plans for the future? How do you see your future in a year, three years, five years?