How to get married without being a virgin?
-
Anonymous
- Potential sex object
How to get married without being a virgin?
Good day) girls, a question for you: how are you going to get married if you are no longer virgins and even if you are virgins but with a bad past?
I’ll tell you a story: I came to a friend’s wedding, the wedding was in full swing, we were waiting for my dear one groom’s aunt) I went to pick her up from the airport and brought her to the wedding) everything seemed to be fine, but at one moment the groom’s aunt took the microphone and the following words were heard: excuse me, but I won’t allow my nephew to cheat, the bride says she came to see me in Moscow to get stitched up She told me that she had a lot of men and wanted to be a virgin for her fiance. So I burned myself. They lifted the bride from the table and led her out of the hall, she ran away in tears, she felt ashamed) Everything secret becomes clear!!! My personal opinion: even after 5 years of living together and having children, if I found out anything about my wife and her past, regardless of whether she got married as a girl or not), I would kick her out of the house and take the children.
I’ll tell you a story: I came to a friend’s wedding, the wedding was in full swing, we were waiting for my dear one groom’s aunt) I went to pick her up from the airport and brought her to the wedding) everything seemed to be fine, but at one moment the groom’s aunt took the microphone and the following words were heard: excuse me, but I won’t allow my nephew to cheat, the bride says she came to see me in Moscow to get stitched up She told me that she had a lot of men and wanted to be a virgin for her fiance. So I burned myself. They lifted the bride from the table and led her out of the hall, she ran away in tears, she felt ashamed) Everything secret becomes clear!!! My personal opinion: even after 5 years of living together and having children, if I found out anything about my wife and her past, regardless of whether she got married as a girl or not), I would kick her out of the house and take the children.
-
Guest_219
- Potential sex object
Re: Good day) girls, I have a question for you: how are you going to...
Draw your conclusions.
Next...
I think it’s the closest to You need to treat a person, namely your wife, with the same standards as you treat yourself. So you admit that you personally can have sex with someone before marriage? If you admit it, then you must admit the same thing in relation to the one who will be your wife. She is the same person with arms and legs just like you. And she has the same desires, fears, prejudices, dreams.
And she also wants to fuck (pardon my French) just like you.
And there is no need to be a hypocrite about this account. When you fuck someone at work or at some party before getting married, then you don’t need to say something pretentious about decency and innocence.
You just want to fuck. And the one you fuck somewhere at someone’s house also really wants to fuck. But morality has nothing to do with it.
And morality is usually remembered by those who are not given it or who cannot for one reason or another. Or who doesn’t succeed over and over again.
I think you just need to respect women, respect your future wives and mothers. And don’t deny them the fact that they just want to fuck just like you. And they, just like you, after two weeks or a month of abstinence, only think about one thing - how to have sex. And morality comes last here.
Another question is if someone cheats while already married. But in this regard, I have the opinion that in fact it is not the woman who is to blame, but the man. More precisely, her husband.
Because in most cases it happens that a woman simply does not have enough sex with her husband. That is, he either rarely fucks her, or doesn’t fuck her at all, or fucks her very badly.
Why?
Well, that’s another question. Maybe it’s about potency, maybe it’s about the size of the penis, maybe you need to do this more often.
It’s like in football - if you don’t score, then they score on you
I think the same thing here - if you don’t fuck, then someone else will.
And don’t say that women are whores. If your wife constantly refuses you sex and does it with you very rarely or without pleasure, then you will absolutely sooner or later climb on someone. Or at work or somewhere else.
Well, in general, I think we need to get out of our heads all this nonsense about virgins, innocence and in general all this crap about decency, chastity and other such crap.
But I think I should just treat a woman exactly the same as myself and judge her by myself. And everything will be fine. What you consider to be the norm in relation to yourself is also considered the norm in relation to a woman.
And in conclusion, I would like to note one fact in relation to women that cannot be discounted.
The fact is that women, just like you, often have such a mess in their heads about family, marriage, the place of a woman in the family and a man that sometimes you are amazed.
What I mean is that women sometimes think poorly when they are doing something. I mean the prudence and commercialism of women in relation to men.
Very many women, as soon as they see a promising man, immediately strive to get him as a husband, little thinking about the consequences.
I to because they marry men with whom they are unlikely to ever be friends. And as a result, it turns out that the husband and wife are essentially different people and strangers to each other.
And they sometimes want incompatible things from each other and on this basis constantly have some kind of exorbitant claims and expectations towards each other.
Including this fucking female innocence of yours.
"Yes, if I had found out, I would have taken the children and..."
Just think about it for yourself what kind of nonsense are you talking about and what kind of nonsense are you broadcasting here that is incompatible with real life.
That is, let’s say, when you marry a girl who is 25 years old, you deny her first school love, masturbation at school age, in some kind of relationship while studying at Uni...
On trips to the south where, of course, she will have sex with someone. Either with whom she will go there, or with whom she will meet there.
That is, in her entire life until the age of 25, she cannot go anywhere, neither for her birthday nor for visiting relatives or friends, she also cannot get a job because her colleagues are there. And because for you personally it’s normal to fuck some girl you work with at work. Either by going on a business trip with her, or during a corporate event. That’s why it’s a corporate party, so that everyone can get laid.
And what happens?
That your chosen one should be nothing less than a nun from a monastery. And even then...
You know their nuns...
You say. I suppose there is nowhere to test them...
So what!?
Nevermind!
Just throw this nonsense out of your head and treat a woman Fine. How to treat yourself.
And it’s even better if your wife is your very best and closest friend.
Because male friends, they usually fall off immediately and irrevocably like only you either lost your job or suddenly became unable to work. That’s all! And you only saw your friends.
And if your wife is not your friend, but married you because you are promising, then she will also make her mark.
Well, if your wife is a true friend, and you couldn’t stand her because she didn’t have a virginity and didn’t want something impossible from her...
Then perhaps this will be the very person who will carry parcels for you...
Although, of course, it is better to avoid such a scenario.
You are wrong because, first of all, for you, your wife is the person closest to you. Over the past few years, I have been hospitalized three times. So you know, I didn’t see any friends or acquaintances among the visitors who came to see the sick. Basically, these are primarily wives. Secondly, parents. Less often - children. Well, I never saw friends, acquaintances, and even more so colleagues there.
Draw your conclusions.
Next...
I think it’s the closest to You need to treat a person, namely your wife, with the same standards as you treat yourself. So you admit that you personally can have sex with someone before marriage? If you admit it, then you must admit the same thing in relation to the one who will be your wife. She is the same person with arms and legs just like you. And she has the same desires, fears, prejudices, dreams.
And she also wants to fuck (pardon my French) just like you.
And there is no need to be a hypocrite about this account. When you fuck someone at work or at some party before getting married, then you don’t need to say something pretentious about decency and innocence.
You just want to fuck. And the one you fuck somewhere at someone’s house also really wants to fuck. But morality has nothing to do with it.
And morality is usually remembered by those who are not given it or who cannot for one reason or another. Or who doesn’t succeed over and over again.
I think you just need to respect women, respect your future wives and mothers. And don’t deny them the fact that they just want to fuck just like you. And they, just like you, after two weeks or a month of abstinence, only think about one thing - how to have sex. And morality comes last here.
Another question is if someone cheats while already married. But in this regard, I have the opinion that in fact it is not the woman who is to blame, but the man. More precisely, her husband.
Because in most cases it happens that a woman simply does not have enough sex with her husband. That is, he either rarely fucks her, or doesn’t fuck her at all, or fucks her very badly.
Why?
Well, that’s another question. Maybe it’s about potency, maybe it’s about the size of the penis, maybe you need to do this more often.
It’s like in football - if you don’t score, then they score on you
I think the same thing here - if you don’t fuck, then someone else will.
And don’t say that women are whores. If your wife constantly refuses you sex and does it with you very rarely or without pleasure, then you will absolutely sooner or later climb on someone. Or at work or somewhere else.
Well, in general, I think we need to get out of our heads all this nonsense about virgins, innocence and in general all this crap about decency, chastity and other such crap.
But I think I should just treat a woman exactly the same as myself and judge her by myself. And everything will be fine. What you consider to be the norm in relation to yourself is also considered the norm in relation to a woman.
And in conclusion, I would like to note one fact in relation to women that cannot be discounted.
The fact is that women, just like you, often have such a mess in their heads about family, marriage, the place of a woman in the family and a man that sometimes you are amazed.
What I mean is that women sometimes think poorly when they are doing something. I mean the prudence and commercialism of women in relation to men.
Very many women, as soon as they see a promising man, immediately strive to get him as a husband, little thinking about the consequences.
I to because they marry men with whom they are unlikely to ever be friends. And as a result, it turns out that the husband and wife are essentially different people and strangers to each other.
And they sometimes want incompatible things from each other and on this basis constantly have some kind of exorbitant claims and expectations towards each other.
Including this fucking female innocence of yours.
"Yes, if I had found out, I would have taken the children and..."
Just think about it for yourself what kind of nonsense are you talking about and what kind of nonsense are you broadcasting here that is incompatible with real life.
That is, let’s say, when you marry a girl who is 25 years old, you deny her first school love, masturbation at school age, in some kind of relationship while studying at Uni...
On trips to the south where, of course, she will have sex with someone. Either with whom she will go there, or with whom she will meet there.
That is, in her entire life until the age of 25, she cannot go anywhere, neither for her birthday nor for visiting relatives or friends, she also cannot get a job because her colleagues are there. And because for you personally it’s normal to fuck some girl you work with at work. Either by going on a business trip with her, or during a corporate event. That’s why it’s a corporate party, so that everyone can get laid.
And what happens?
That your chosen one should be nothing less than a nun from a monastery. And even then...
You know their nuns...
You say. I suppose there is nowhere to test them...
So what!?
Nevermind!
Just throw this nonsense out of your head and treat a woman Fine. How to treat yourself.
And it’s even better if your wife is your very best and closest friend.
Because male friends, they usually fall off immediately and irrevocably like only you either lost your job or suddenly became unable to work. That’s all! And you only saw your friends.
And if your wife is not your friend, but married you because you are promising, then she will also make her mark.
Well, if your wife is a true friend, and you couldn’t stand her because she didn’t have a virginity and didn’t want something impossible from her...
Then perhaps this will be the very person who will carry parcels for you...
Although, of course, it is better to avoid such a scenario.
-
niqk
- I'm in nirvana

- Total posts: 13963
- Joined: 5 years 6 months
- Gender: Male
- Orientation: heterosexual
- Age: 40+
Re: Good day) girls, I have a question for you: how are you going to...
Such an aunt should have been fucked with the whole wedding! I’m sure there was no place to put a mark on this aunt, but she pretended to be a guardian of morality!
And to everyone who makes complaints about girls, my advice is to look in the mirror! Are you 100% sure that he reflects the most highly moral person?!!
And to everyone who makes complaints about girls, my advice is to look in the mirror! Are you 100% sure that he reflects the most highly moral person?!!
- These users thanked the author niqk for the post (total 11):
- Tanushka, in the, mom made a man, Sibiryak89, seriously, Tanya, Polk, ◊_NeBo[_Na_]LaDoNi_◊, Mongoose, Big boy, alex56
-
a nymph
- Penetration

- Total posts: 257
- Joined: 5 years 7 months
- Gender: Female
- Orientation: bisexual
- Age: 21
Re: Good day) girls, I have a question for you: how are you going to...
For a long time now men have been looking for whores as wives. The sooner you started and let yourself through more, the better.
-
Tolkala
- The strongest orgasm!

- Total posts: 1356
- Joined: 4 years 5 months
- Gender: Male
- Orientation: heterosexual
- Age: 40+
Re: How to get married without being a virgin?
Guest_219: ↑27 Aug 2020, 02:24You are wrong because, first of all, for you, your wife is your closest person Human. Over the past few years, I have been hospitalized three times. So you know, I didn’t see any friends or acquaintances among the visitors who came to see the sick. Basically, these are primarily wives. Secondly, parents. Less often - children. Well, I never saw friends, acquaintances, and even more so colleagues there.
Draw your conclusions.
Next...
I think it’s the closest to You need to treat a person, namely your wife, with the same standards as you treat yourself. So you admit that you personally can have sex with someone before marriage? If you admit it, then you must admit the same thing in relation to the one who will be your wife. She is the same person with arms and legs just like you. And she has the same desires, fears, prejudices, dreams.
And she also wants to fuck (pardon my French) just like you.
And there is no need to be a hypocrite about this account. When you fuck someone at work or at some party before getting married, then you don’t need to say something pretentious about decency and innocence.
You just want to fuck. And the one you fuck somewhere at someone’s house also really wants to fuck. But morality has nothing to do with it.
And morality is usually remembered by those who are not given it or who cannot for one reason or another. Or who doesn’t succeed over and over again.
I think you just need to respect women, respect your future wives and mothers. And don’t deny them the fact that they just want to fuck just like you. And they, just like you, after two weeks or a month of abstinence, only think about one thing - how to have sex. And morality comes last here.
Another question is if someone cheats while already married. But in this regard, I have the opinion that in fact it is not the woman who is to blame, but the man. More precisely, her husband.
Because in most cases it happens that a woman simply does not have enough sex with her husband. That is, he either rarely fucks her, or doesn’t fuck her at all, or fucks her very badly.
Why?
Well, that’s another question. Maybe it’s about potency, maybe it’s about the size of the penis, maybe you need to do this more often.
It’s like in football - if you don’t score, then they score on you
I think the same thing here - if you don’t fuck, then someone else will.
And don’t say that women are whores. If your wife constantly refuses you sex and does it with you very rarely or without pleasure, then you will absolutely sooner or later climb on someone. Or at work or somewhere else.
Well, in general, I think we need to get out of our heads all this nonsense about virgins, innocence and in general all this crap about decency, chastity and other such crap.
But I think I should just treat a woman exactly the same as myself and judge her by myself. And everything will be fine. What you consider to be the norm in relation to yourself is also considered the norm in relation to a woman.
And in conclusion, I would like to note one fact in relation to women that cannot be discounted.
The fact is that women, just like you, often have such a mess in their heads about family, marriage, the place of a woman in the family and a man that sometimes you are amazed.
What I mean is that women sometimes think poorly when they are doing something. I mean the prudence and commercialism of women in relation to men.
Very many women, as soon as they see a promising man, immediately strive to get him as a husband, little thinking about the consequences.
I to because they marry men with whom they are unlikely to ever be friends. And as a result, it turns out that the husband and wife are essentially different people and strangers to each other.
And they sometimes want incompatible things from each other and on this basis constantly have some kind of exorbitant claims and expectations towards each other.
Including this fucking female innocence of yours.
"Yes, if I had found out, I would have taken the children and..."
Just think about it for yourself what kind of nonsense are you talking about and what kind of nonsense are you broadcasting here that is incompatible with real life.
That is, let’s say, when you marry a girl who is 25 years old, you deny her first school love, masturbation at school age, in some kind of relationship while studying at Uni...
On trips to the south where, of course, she will have sex with someone. Either with whom she will go there, or with whom she will meet there.
That is, in her entire life until the age of 25, she cannot go anywhere, neither for her birthday nor for visiting relatives or friends, she also cannot get a job because her colleagues are there. And because for you personally it’s normal to fuck some girl you work with at work. Either by going on a business trip with her, or during a corporate event. That’s why it’s a corporate party, so that everyone can get laid.
And what happens?
That your chosen one should be nothing less than a nun from a monastery. And even then...
You know their nuns...
You say. I suppose there is nowhere to test them...
So what!?
Nevermind!
Just throw this nonsense out of your head and treat a woman Fine. How to treat yourself.
And it’s even better if your wife is your very best and closest friend.
Because male friends, they usually fall off immediately and irrevocably like only you either lost your job or suddenly became unable to work. That’s all! And you only saw your friends.
And if your wife is not your friend, but married you because you are promising, then she will also make her mark.
Well, if your wife is a true friend, and you couldn’t stand her because she didn’t have a virginity and didn’t want something impossible from her...
Then perhaps this will be the very person who will carry parcels for you...
Although, of course, it is better to avoid such a scenario.
And there is nothing to add. Everything is correct
-
growth
- Showing interest
- Total posts: 9
- Joined: 4 years 3 months
- Age: 37
Re: How to get married without being a virgin?
so they did the right thing.... Better the bitter truth than a sweet lie!Anonymous: ↑20 Nov 2019, 08:02 but at one point the groom’s aunt took the microphone and the following words were said: excuse me, but I won’t allow my nephew to cheat, the bride says she came to Moscow to get stitched up. She told me that she had a lot of men, and for the groom wants to be intact. So I burned myself. They lifted the bride from the table and led her out of the hall, she ran away in tears, she felt ashamed) Everything secret becomes clear!!!
-
Evgeniy (hooligan)
- Potential sex object
Re: How to get married without being a virgin?
A virgin is somewhere up to 14 years old, she can be such, and then...... So when you get married, the perineum begins to itch (sex is required like daily bread). Something like this!
-
Hon
- Potential sex object
Re: How to get married without being a virgin?
Don’t pay attention to this, sometimes the most hardened girls become ideal wives who are virgins and are not suitable for visiting
-
Tanushka
- The strongest orgasm!

- Total posts: 1092
- Joined: 5 years 4 months
- Gender: Female
- Orientation: bisexual
- Age: 18+
Re: How to get married without being a virgin?
Excuse me, but are you planning to marry her virginity? Everyone has falls and mistakes in life, and to judge a person only by some kind of film in her pussy, well, this is some kind of kindergarten.
If there is no trust in each other, then why are these shows off for guests at all - a wedding?
If there is no trust in each other, then why are these shows off for guests at all - a wedding?
- These users thanked the author Tanushka for the post (total 12):
- niqk, nikolay.andreev, Frankish, Field, mom made a man, Piero, Issa_Incubus, Tolyan, low, Sibiryak89, Alexssss, alex56
-
Vitalism
- Potential sex object
Re: How to get married without being a virgin?
At what point do people realize that it’s time to get married?
-
a nymph
- Penetration

- Total posts: 257
- Joined: 5 years 7 months
- Gender: Female
- Orientation: bisexual
- Age: 21
Re: How to get married without being a virgin?
Now men have long realized that a whore is the best wife. Many specifically want girls with an abundant past and an exciting future.
A whore has a lot of advantages over a virgin.
But even if she doesn’t get married, what does she lose? There’s plenty of sex, a pussy will earn more money than a man, and he’ll give birth to children.
A whore has a lot of advantages over a virgin.
But even if she doesn’t get married, what does she lose? There’s plenty of sex, a pussy will earn more money than a man, and he’ll give birth to children.
-
niqk
- I'm in nirvana

- Total posts: 13963
- Joined: 5 years 6 months
- Gender: Male
- Orientation: heterosexual
- Age: 40+
Re: How to get married without being a virgin?
Pragmatic approach...
- These users thanked the author niqk for the post:
- mom made a man
-
georg
- Orgasm!

- Total posts: 796
- Joined: 4 years 1 month
- Location: беларусь
- Orientation: bisexual
- Age: 50+
- Sex dating: yes, I would like to meet you for a possible sexual relationship
Re: How to get married without being a virgin?
I don’t know... Maybe virginity in some village plays a role! But in our area, the people really don’t care!
- These users thanked the author georg for the post (total 2):
- Frankish, Sibiryak89
-
Volk88
- Flirting

- Total posts: 25
- Joined: 4 years
- Gender: Male
- Orientation: heterosexual
Re: How to get married without being a virgin?
It doesn’t matter if she’s a virgin or not. After all, a wife, as written above, is the very person with whom you decided to connect your life.
The advantages of virginity are knowing that the girl has not been touched by anyone, but again we are all adults and we understand that in our time it is pure technical question - screaming and anal has not been canceled, but you will eat the truth that is presented to you.
Disadvantages - you have to teach everything...
The advantages of virginity are knowing that the girl has not been touched by anyone, but again we are all adults and we understand that in our time it is pure technical question - screaming and anal has not been canceled, but you will eat the truth that is presented to you.
Disadvantages - you have to teach everything...
-
Hair shirt
- Potential sex object
Re: How to get married without being a virgin?
There are only problems with this virginity. The fact is that at the age of 18, both the guy and the girl have absolutely no experience of communicating with the opposite sex. School communication doesn’t count. Because this is not the same at all. There in this school, all these teenagers, they do not belong to themselves. They live in a society called class. And outside of it, life is only possible behind the door of your house. In all other respects, you do not belong to yourself and you practically do not have your own opinion on this or that issue. Accordingly, it is absolutely impossible to have any kind of full-fledged relationship with someone you like because all these relationships are public. Because everyone in the class knows about it and you have to adjust your actions all the time so that you don’t get laughed at or made fun of. That is why all the details of this or that relationship become known to friends literally the next day. And all this, of course, is not at all the same.
And more or less serious relationships, more similar to the relationships of adults, appear only after graduation. And so it turns out that these young people of both sexes do not know at all how to behave with the opposite sex. On the one hand, they try to establish relationships based on themselves. But it doesn’t work out well because there is a big difference between guys and girls. Secondly, young people, out of ignorance, begin to idealize relationships and try to build everything on some kind of unearthly love, although they themselves vaguely imagine what this is. And as a result, they invent for themselves some unearthly and naive ideas about how your chosen one should treat you. As a result, they want from each other what they themselves do not fully know.
And of course, this problem with hormones is added here. Both sexes, boys and girls, have hormones coming out of their ears. The guys want to fuck like horses, and the girls also want it just as much, but their parents are constantly telling them that they will kick them out of the house if they bring it in the hem. And they are terribly afraid of everything in the world. And someone comes up with the idea of not giving it to anyone at all before the wedding.
In general, I don’t like this word - GIVE! There is something bestial about this. She gave - she didn’t. Why does a guy care about how a girl feels?! And that she might also want butterflies in her stomach. She, too, might want to be all over the place from sex, like in porn. And so that she experiences multiple orgasms and so that she sometimes loses consciousness from all this and so that she wants to be fucked more and more.
And in return for this, she just has to give to someone. And this simple person will begin to stick his genital organ into her, caring little about the subject into whom he is now sticking this pod of his. And the main thing for him right now is to push it there as quickly as possible while she GIVES, in order to have time to cum before she stops GIVING. Because she knows that he will definitely shit in her even if he promised not to do so. And so she feels that he’s going to cum in her, and she then pushes him out of her, afraid that he’s going to cum in her.
So what? And you call this sex!?
And just like that, after fucking a couple of times, girls who even lost their virginity stop trusting guys and then tell themselves - that’s it! Enough! From now on, no sex until marriage. Get married - and then you will have pussy on a platter every day. Until you get married, go jerk off to porn on your laptop.
And all this is a very, very big mistake for girls. What for virgins, what for those who have become disillusioned with sex and have now set themselves the goal of not giving it to anyone before marriage.
And as a result, it turns out that completely random people marry each other. That is, they got married simply because someone just got tired of jerking off. And someone else just got tired of giving it to everyone.
Although in fact, youth is precisely given to these young people to try to make contact in every sense with the opposite sex. And in every way. And in terms of sex too.
In order to understand that men are all different. And no two men are alike. But there are still similar problems. And you need to learn to understand this. That is, who is in front of you right now? And is this the young man who is right for you? And with women it’s the same.
Women initially just started having sex yesterday, they actually still have little idea of how to use their genitals other than to pee. And when someone tries to stick his dick into her, it instills fear and horror rather than sweet pleasure and desire. I’m already silent about orgasm.
Yes, girls, of course, long before losing their virginity, they all play with their pussy and many learn to get a full-fledged orgasm from this. And someone is leaking profusely just from fantasies on the topic of sex. But then all these fantasies and fetishes come across a sweaty man with a red dick in his hand and all these crystal dreams are broken and end with a rubbed pussy and painful sensations. Plus, this bastard strives to cum inside...
Well, in general, it’s not very pleasant. Just look at it. And here there is no time for pleasure and multiple orgasms...
I am writing all this to the fact that girls and boys, in my opinion, should not build fairytale castles and dream about something unrealistic, and not wait for a prince on a white horse, or a shy, charming princess in a snow-white dress. But really try to train on your own kind. That is, simply, without these stupid vows of true love, try to build some kind of adult relationship with one or another person of the opposite sex. Well, as if it were your common-law husband. If possible, maybe even live together.
And thus live first with one person, then with another, then with a third. And then compare what was good and what was bad with them. And with whom is it better, and with whom is it worse? And all people are different. To the point that one has a penis of 22 cm, and the other has 14. And it may turn out that you tried to live with someone who has 14 and then with someone who has 22. And it could turn out that you definitely liked 22 more. Or vice versa. But you won’t know all this until you try and compare. And to compare you have to try it. And all this takes time. And when you are 20 years old, that’s exactly what they were given to you for. To try everything and then compare and when the time comes to make a decision that may change your life, then to make a decision consciously, and not just hoping for chance.
Again, any girl needs for herself understand what they themselves want. For example, there are men who are domineering, and there are men who are attentive to women. And that those that others have their pros and cons. That man who is powerful can turn out to be selfish and very authoritarian. But on the other hand, he may turn out to be a potential boss and, due to his authoritarianism, may become a boss and, as a result, earn good money.
Well, the one who is very attentive and helpful can help you everywhere and in everything, but to the detriment of your career and as a result will very limited in funds.
And so think about who suits you best, which of these guys. Of course, it’s good when there is money, but on the other hand, he behaves with you like a boss and does not accept objections. And he’s always right. Will you like this in your upcoming life with him? And on top of all this is sex. For all his authoritarianism, this man can be very mediocre in sex. And some fucking guy can fuck you like the last time. And how can you figure out all this if you don’t try and live, and compare one with the other.
But this is still not the most important thing in all this for women. The fact is that when a woman specifically needs to choose who she will live with in the coming years, she needs to be at the peak of her sensuality. Because marriage is a mutual agreement to the absence of extramarital affairs. And this means that you will only have to gain some experience and train your sensuality with your husband. Which is difficult because experience is always a comparison of one thing with another. And if you compare it with nothing, this is no longer an experience, it’s just a given and it’s difficult to draw any conclusions and learn something.
For example, a girl began a regular sex life. And somehow sex with one partner doesn’t work out for her. And you can waste years and a lot of money on searches and on visits to doctors. Or you can just sleep with someone else who is not disgusted and who is attractive to this girl. And it may turn out that sex will be completely different. Maybe not so fabulous, but different. And perhaps more pleasant than the previous one.
After which this girl should think and compare what’s going on here - maybe the size of the penis, or maybe something else. Or maybe it’s just that the girl herself with another partner feels completely different and that’s why the sex was more pleasant.
Now imagine that someone takes care of this virgin of theirs and then just stupidly without any experience marries anyone. In general, I have little idea what kind of person he is. Having no experience of communicating with the opposite sex at all. Again, at a completely zero level of his sensuality. From her, let’s say, the future husband expects hot passions in bed, but what he gets is that it hurts, it’s not good, it hurts here, it stings here. The sight of a penis scares her. He is embarrassed to pick it up and tries to take it almost with a fork. She generally calls any attempts to give her cunnilingus a perversion and she almost feels sick just from the thought that someone will lick the place where she almost poops.
Well, in general, to everything You still need to get used to this and get used to it so that in a couple of years you can somehow shake up your sexuality and finally learn to get aroused normally. To be so excited that the mere thought that there will definitely be sex right now immediately makes your crotch wet, so that your nipples swell. So that the desire appears for someone to touch your breasts, your stomach, get into your panties and feel your clitoris. And so that there would be precisely such thoughts, and not the fear that right now they will shove something into me with something to pee on and that is probably dirty, sweaty and smelly.
And more or less serious relationships, more similar to the relationships of adults, appear only after graduation. And so it turns out that these young people of both sexes do not know at all how to behave with the opposite sex. On the one hand, they try to establish relationships based on themselves. But it doesn’t work out well because there is a big difference between guys and girls. Secondly, young people, out of ignorance, begin to idealize relationships and try to build everything on some kind of unearthly love, although they themselves vaguely imagine what this is. And as a result, they invent for themselves some unearthly and naive ideas about how your chosen one should treat you. As a result, they want from each other what they themselves do not fully know.
And of course, this problem with hormones is added here. Both sexes, boys and girls, have hormones coming out of their ears. The guys want to fuck like horses, and the girls also want it just as much, but their parents are constantly telling them that they will kick them out of the house if they bring it in the hem. And they are terribly afraid of everything in the world. And someone comes up with the idea of not giving it to anyone at all before the wedding.
In general, I don’t like this word - GIVE! There is something bestial about this. She gave - she didn’t. Why does a guy care about how a girl feels?! And that she might also want butterflies in her stomach. She, too, might want to be all over the place from sex, like in porn. And so that she experiences multiple orgasms and so that she sometimes loses consciousness from all this and so that she wants to be fucked more and more.
And in return for this, she just has to give to someone. And this simple person will begin to stick his genital organ into her, caring little about the subject into whom he is now sticking this pod of his. And the main thing for him right now is to push it there as quickly as possible while she GIVES, in order to have time to cum before she stops GIVING. Because she knows that he will definitely shit in her even if he promised not to do so. And so she feels that he’s going to cum in her, and she then pushes him out of her, afraid that he’s going to cum in her.
So what? And you call this sex!?
And just like that, after fucking a couple of times, girls who even lost their virginity stop trusting guys and then tell themselves - that’s it! Enough! From now on, no sex until marriage. Get married - and then you will have pussy on a platter every day. Until you get married, go jerk off to porn on your laptop.
And all this is a very, very big mistake for girls. What for virgins, what for those who have become disillusioned with sex and have now set themselves the goal of not giving it to anyone before marriage.
And as a result, it turns out that completely random people marry each other. That is, they got married simply because someone just got tired of jerking off. And someone else just got tired of giving it to everyone.
Although in fact, youth is precisely given to these young people to try to make contact in every sense with the opposite sex. And in every way. And in terms of sex too.
In order to understand that men are all different. And no two men are alike. But there are still similar problems. And you need to learn to understand this. That is, who is in front of you right now? And is this the young man who is right for you? And with women it’s the same.
Women initially just started having sex yesterday, they actually still have little idea of how to use their genitals other than to pee. And when someone tries to stick his dick into her, it instills fear and horror rather than sweet pleasure and desire. I’m already silent about orgasm.
Yes, girls, of course, long before losing their virginity, they all play with their pussy and many learn to get a full-fledged orgasm from this. And someone is leaking profusely just from fantasies on the topic of sex. But then all these fantasies and fetishes come across a sweaty man with a red dick in his hand and all these crystal dreams are broken and end with a rubbed pussy and painful sensations. Plus, this bastard strives to cum inside...
Well, in general, it’s not very pleasant. Just look at it. And here there is no time for pleasure and multiple orgasms...
I am writing all this to the fact that girls and boys, in my opinion, should not build fairytale castles and dream about something unrealistic, and not wait for a prince on a white horse, or a shy, charming princess in a snow-white dress. But really try to train on your own kind. That is, simply, without these stupid vows of true love, try to build some kind of adult relationship with one or another person of the opposite sex. Well, as if it were your common-law husband. If possible, maybe even live together.
And thus live first with one person, then with another, then with a third. And then compare what was good and what was bad with them. And with whom is it better, and with whom is it worse? And all people are different. To the point that one has a penis of 22 cm, and the other has 14. And it may turn out that you tried to live with someone who has 14 and then with someone who has 22. And it could turn out that you definitely liked 22 more. Or vice versa. But you won’t know all this until you try and compare. And to compare you have to try it. And all this takes time. And when you are 20 years old, that’s exactly what they were given to you for. To try everything and then compare and when the time comes to make a decision that may change your life, then to make a decision consciously, and not just hoping for chance.
Again, any girl needs for herself understand what they themselves want. For example, there are men who are domineering, and there are men who are attentive to women. And that those that others have their pros and cons. That man who is powerful can turn out to be selfish and very authoritarian. But on the other hand, he may turn out to be a potential boss and, due to his authoritarianism, may become a boss and, as a result, earn good money.
Well, the one who is very attentive and helpful can help you everywhere and in everything, but to the detriment of your career and as a result will very limited in funds.
And so think about who suits you best, which of these guys. Of course, it’s good when there is money, but on the other hand, he behaves with you like a boss and does not accept objections. And he’s always right. Will you like this in your upcoming life with him? And on top of all this is sex. For all his authoritarianism, this man can be very mediocre in sex. And some fucking guy can fuck you like the last time. And how can you figure out all this if you don’t try and live, and compare one with the other.
But this is still not the most important thing in all this for women. The fact is that when a woman specifically needs to choose who she will live with in the coming years, she needs to be at the peak of her sensuality. Because marriage is a mutual agreement to the absence of extramarital affairs. And this means that you will only have to gain some experience and train your sensuality with your husband. Which is difficult because experience is always a comparison of one thing with another. And if you compare it with nothing, this is no longer an experience, it’s just a given and it’s difficult to draw any conclusions and learn something.
For example, a girl began a regular sex life. And somehow sex with one partner doesn’t work out for her. And you can waste years and a lot of money on searches and on visits to doctors. Or you can just sleep with someone else who is not disgusted and who is attractive to this girl. And it may turn out that sex will be completely different. Maybe not so fabulous, but different. And perhaps more pleasant than the previous one.
After which this girl should think and compare what’s going on here - maybe the size of the penis, or maybe something else. Or maybe it’s just that the girl herself with another partner feels completely different and that’s why the sex was more pleasant.
Now imagine that someone takes care of this virgin of theirs and then just stupidly without any experience marries anyone. In general, I have little idea what kind of person he is. Having no experience of communicating with the opposite sex at all. Again, at a completely zero level of his sensuality. From her, let’s say, the future husband expects hot passions in bed, but what he gets is that it hurts, it’s not good, it hurts here, it stings here. The sight of a penis scares her. He is embarrassed to pick it up and tries to take it almost with a fork. She generally calls any attempts to give her cunnilingus a perversion and she almost feels sick just from the thought that someone will lick the place where she almost poops.
Well, in general, to everything You still need to get used to this and get used to it so that in a couple of years you can somehow shake up your sexuality and finally learn to get aroused normally. To be so excited that the mere thought that there will definitely be sex right now immediately makes your crotch wet, so that your nipples swell. So that the desire appears for someone to touch your breasts, your stomach, get into your panties and feel your clitoris. And so that there would be precisely such thoughts, and not the fear that right now they will shove something into me with something to pee on and that is probably dirty, sweaty and smelly.
-
alena
- Penetration

- Total posts: 268
- Joined: 4 years 1 month
- Gender: Female
- Orientation: bisexual
- Age: 104
-
Vitalism
- Potential sex object
-
alena
- Penetration

- Total posts: 268
- Joined: 4 years 1 month
- Gender: Female
- Orientation: bisexual
- Age: 104
Re: How to get married without being a virgin?
myself . I’ve always liked guys much older than me
- These users thanked the author alena for the post (total 5):
- mom made a man, Sibiryak89, seriously, low, alex56
-
Vitalism
- Potential sex object
-
Guest_15
- Potential sex object
-
alena
- Penetration

- Total posts: 268
- Joined: 4 years 1 month
- Gender: Female
- Orientation: bisexual
- Age: 104
Re: How to get married without being a virgin?
19 years old
- These users thanked the author alena for the post (total 4):
- Frankish, Sibiryak89, seriously, alex56
-
Frankish
- Penetration

- Total posts: 297
- Joined: 3 years 11 months
- Gender: Male
- Orientation: heterosexual
- Age: 30+
Re: How to get married without being a virgin?
I think it makes absolutely no difference whether your wife is a virgin or not. Moreover, when this is a second marriage, the question is generally stupid.
Yes, and the first marriage too. Simply getting married means sealing your bonds with the person you love. And to love is to accept him as he is with all his advantages and disadvantages.
Yes, and the first marriage too. Simply getting married means sealing your bonds with the person you love. And to love is to accept him as he is with all his advantages and disadvantages.
- These users thanked the author Frankish for the post (total 3):
- Field, mom made a man, INVAR
-
I’m leaving
- Orgasm!

- Total posts: 770
- Joined: 5 years
- Gender: Male
Re: How to get married without being a virgin?
People don’t get married at 12-13 years old, and many are no longer virgins. Later, when they are adults, it doesn’t matter whether Jonah is virgin or not, since they will fuck before the wedding
-
Gandalf the Gray
- I'm getting excited

- Total posts: 90
- Joined: 4 years
- Location: Россия
- Gender: Male
- Orientation: bisexual
- Age: 40+
Re: How to get married without being a virgin?
Mine was no longer virgin at 12, so what?)) I liked it even more that she was a whore...
- These users thanked the author Gandalf the Gray for the post (total 5):
- Frankish, mom made a man, INVAR, seriously, low
-
niqk
- I'm in nirvana

- Total posts: 13963
- Joined: 5 years 6 months
- Gender: Male
- Orientation: heterosexual
- Age: 40+
-
Honeymoon
- Potential sex object
Re: How to get married without being a virgin?
Girls, now you can count the number of virgins getting married on one hand
-
Frankish
- Penetration

- Total posts: 297
- Joined: 3 years 11 months
- Gender: Male
- Orientation: heterosexual
- Age: 30+
Re: How to get married without being a virgin?
Well, of course, from the age of 14-15 they start fucking in the cities, and some even earlier
-
Field
- Flirting

- Total posts: 45
- Joined: 3 years 9 months
- Gender: Male
- Orientation: heterosexual
- Age: 40+
Re: How to get married without being a virgin?
Guys, what is this division into "virgins" and "whores"?
If you read the topic, you get the impression that there is simply no intermediate option:
a girl is born "virgin" , and after the first sexual intercourse she becomes a "whore"...
Well, isn’t this nonsense? Kindergarten, honestly.
Even if you want to label, you can at least look for more euphonious definitions.
In the end we are talking about women.
Or a woman, in principle, does not deserve respect and you can talk about it in any way, without choosing expressions?
You shouldn’t be doing that...
If you read the topic, you get the impression that there is simply no intermediate option:
a girl is born "virgin" , and after the first sexual intercourse she becomes a "whore"...
Well, isn’t this nonsense? Kindergarten, honestly.
Even if you want to label, you can at least look for more euphonious definitions.
In the end we are talking about women.
Or a woman, in principle, does not deserve respect and you can talk about it in any way, without choosing expressions?
You shouldn’t be doing that...
-
HOUSES
- Penetration

- Total posts: 272
- Joined: 3 years 9 months
- Location: Екатеринбург
- Gender: Other
- Orientation: bisexual
- Age: 18+
- Age: 25
-
Field
- Flirting

- Total posts: 45
- Joined: 3 years 9 months
- Gender: Male
- Orientation: heterosexual
- Age: 40+
Re: How to get married without being a virgin?
This is tantamount to saying that all men are goats, assholes and freaks.
-
Piero
- Orgasm!

- Total posts: 778
- Joined: 3 years 9 months
- Location: Russia
- Gender: Male
- Orientation: heterosexual
- Age: 30+
Re: How to get married without being a virgin?
frenk, Why only in cities? In rural areas, girls fuck no less than city girls! In addition, nature helps - in the summer there is a bed under every
bush... And the rural ones start earlier than the urban ones, because they ripen earlier!
bush... And the rural ones start earlier than the urban ones, because they ripen earlier!
- These users thanked the author Piero for the post (total 4):
- mom made a man, Sibiryak89, Field, Devil
-
November
- Penetration

- Total posts: 267
- Joined: 3 years 11 months
- Location: Санкт-Петербург
- Gender: Male
- Orientation: bisexual
- Age: 30+
Re: How to get married without being a virgin?
Just a minute
Can I take two wives? Wholesale.
One - damn - for everyday use. When it’s completely worn out, you can exchange it via trade-in for a new one, with an additional payment...
And the second one for household needs and raising children.
(Like a joke of humor , because it’s unlikely to be possible to combine everything in one)
Can I take two wives? Wholesale.
One - damn - for everyday use. When it’s completely worn out, you can exchange it via trade-in for a new one, with an additional payment...
And the second one for household needs and raising children.
(Like a joke of humor , because it’s unlikely to be possible to combine everything in one)
-
Sibiryak89
- I'm in nirvana

- Total posts: 4365
- Joined: 4 years 8 months
- Location: Салехард
- Gender: Male
- Orientation: heterosexual
- Age: 50+
Re: How to get married without being a virgin?
I had 4 virgins, it turned out that I was married three times, I didn’t see a virgin there, but all the wives and mothers are good
So answer me, why do I need a virgin that I can’t cook and can’t clean up, a friend had one like that, she was always tired, my mother-in-law came to cook, clean up, or my hostesses and everything with them. Ask why I got divorced, everything was in me, training camps, competitions, etc.)))
- These users thanked the author Sibiryak89 for the post (total 2):
- seriously, Piero
-
Frankish
- Penetration

- Total posts: 297
- Joined: 3 years 11 months
- Gender: Male
- Orientation: heterosexual
- Age: 30+
Re: How to get married without being a virgin?
Maybe in villages too, but I don’t know, I lived in a big city all the time
Globalization , the availability of media and the Internet and the abundance, no matter how moralistic it may sound, of debauchery (although I am not a moralist and I do not like this term).
Maybe in villages too, but I don’t know, I lived in a big city all the time
-
solid
- Oral stimulation

- Total posts: 188
- Joined: 3 years 5 months
- Gender: Male
- Orientation: heterosexual
- Age: 30+
Re: How to get married without being a virgin?
Somewhere, in the subconscious, of course I would like to have a wife untouched by anyone before me
-
For a day
- I'm getting excited

- Total posts: 61
- Joined: 3 years 6 months
- Location: Санкт-Петербург
- Gender: Female
- Orientation: heterosexual
- Age: 18+
Re: How to get married without being a virgin?
You take it and go out. If a man is not satisfied with the past, then these are his personal cockroaches in his head.
- These users thanked the author For a day for the post (total 2):
- Issa_Incubus, low
-
Nastya
- foreplay

- Total posts: 119
- Joined: 3 years 5 months
- Gender: Female
- Orientation: bisexual
- Age: 30+
Re: How to get married without being a virgin?
My daughter is a great slut. She is 12. And already pregnant. So men, and respectable, rich adults, are already aiming to be sons-in-law.
Men have long understood that a whore is the best wife.
But if a man’s mother decides for him how and with whom to live, then let him fuck with her.
Men have long understood that a whore is the best wife.
But if a man’s mother decides for him how and with whom to live, then let him fuck with her.
-
MaxMax
- foreplay

- Total posts: 141
- Joined: 3 years 11 months
- Location: Берлин
- Gender: Male
- Orientation: bisexual
- Age: 40+
Re: How to get married without being a virgin?
oh slut daughter who gets pregnant at 12 from a client, that’s a dream!nastya: ↑10 Apr 2022, 19:08 My daughter is a noble slut. She is 12. And already pregnant. So men, and respectable, rich adults, are already aiming to be sons-in-law.
Men have long understood that a whore is the best wife.
But if a man’s mother decides how and with whom to live, then let him fuck with her.
-
lord07
- Flirting

- Total posts: 49
- Joined: 3 years 4 months
- Gender: Male
- Orientation: bisexual
- Age: 40+
- Sex dating: yes, I would like to meet you for a possible sexual relationship
Re: How to get married without being a virgin?
That means he doesn’t love her, that’s it. Secondly, I consider this hypocrisy and prejudice.
-
Frankish
- Penetration

- Total posts: 297
- Joined: 3 years 11 months
- Gender: Male
- Orientation: heterosexual
- Age: 30+
Re: How to get married without being a virgin?
Where are you from, if it’s not a secret?)
I would join with pleasure)nastya: ↑10 Apr 2022, 19:08 My daughter is a noble slut. She is 12. And already pregnant. So men, and respectable, rich adults, are already aiming to be sons-in-law.
Men have long understood that a whore is the best wife.
But if a man’s mother decides how and with whom to live, then let him fuck with her.
Where are you from, if it’s not a secret?)
-
Shy Baby
- Frictions

- Total posts: 399
- Joined: 5 years 9 months
- Location: С Юга
-
Alexander Trofimovich
- foreplay

- Total posts: 146
- Joined: 3 years 1 month
- Location: Белгород
- Orientation: heterosexual
- Age: 50+
- Sex dating: yes, I would like to meet you for a possible sexual relationship
Re: How to get married without being a virgin?
Stupid prejudices. Today no one pays attention to this matter. Once upon a time, the presence of a hymen still had some significance, and not always and not for everyone. In families with children of different sexes, there are many cases where girls, even at school age, lost their virginity to their brother. All because nature demands sex, and only my brother is nearby. We have with my sister that’s exactly what happened. It’s OK. I got married, my husband didn’t even ask.
Anonymous: ↑20 Nov 2019, 08:02 Good day) girls, a question for you: how are you going to get married if you are no longer virgins and even if you are virgins but with a bad past?
I’ll tell you a story: I came to a friend’s wedding, the wedding is in full swing , they were waiting for the groom’s aunt) I went to meet her from the airport, brought her to the wedding) everything seemed to be fine, but at one moment the groom’s aunt took the microphone and the following words were heard: excuse me, but I won’t allow my nephew to fool around, the bride is talking to me in She came to Moscow to get stitches. She told me that she had a lot of men and wanted to be a virgin for her groom. So I burned myself. They lifted the bride from the table and led her out of the hall, she ran away in tears, she felt ashamed) Everything secret becomes clear!!! My personal opinion: even after 5 years of living together and having children, if I found out anything about my wife and her past, regardless of whether she got married as a girl or not), I would kick her out of the house and take the children.
Stupid prejudices. Today no one pays attention to this matter. Once upon a time, the presence of a hymen still had some significance, and not always and not for everyone. In families with children of different sexes, there are many cases where girls, even at school age, lost their virginity to their brother. All because nature demands sex, and only my brother is nearby. We have with my sister that’s exactly what happened. It’s OK. I got married, my husband didn’t even ask.
-
NewDim
- Orgasm!

- Total posts: 510
- Joined: 3 years 3 months
- Gender: Male
- Orientation: heterosexual
- Age: 40+
Re: How to get married without being a virgin?
Yes, shove these virgins up the ass of these adamant brutal men (((I’ve only had one virgin in my entire life, and I don’t have the most pleasant memories from her. In general, I think that if a woman reached 20+ in girls, then no one needs her stupidly She was either dumb or frigid.
-
Bead41e
- I'm getting excited

- Total posts: 67
- Joined: 3 years 1 month
- Gender: Male
- Orientation: heterosexual
- Age: 40+
Re: How to get married without being a virgin?
Do you live in the Caucasus? This is a cult of virginity there. Moreover, he is often one-sided and hypocritical.
-
Elf Cat
- Frictions

- Total posts: 325
- Joined: 3 years 2 months
- Gender: Male
- Orientation: heterosexual
- Age: 30+
Re: How to get married without being a virgin?
Businka41e, there this cult ends for men with departure from region, not at home, you can fuck everyone.
But girls are still not allowed either there or anywhere else.
The Middle Ages
But girls are still not allowed either there or anywhere else.
The Middle Ages
-
Cat Matroskin.
- I'm getting excited

- Total posts: 52
- Joined: 2 years 10 months
- Location: УУкраина
- Gender: Male
- Orientation: heterosexual
- Age: 50+
Re: How to get married without being a virgin?
That is, before the wedding, no, no. And after the wedding, go for a walk. Happiness does not lie in virginity.
I know a family where she had half a trust "checked in", and the friendliest family found a guy.
Another episode. I loved one, but I listened to my mother. Now he lives on “two fronts.”
What if I give birth to a child? This is 2 months before and 2 months after no, no! What if after giving birth it’s like going to a cave? Then no one will remember about your virginity.
And envious people at a wedding can defame you. What, are you going to lift up your dress to prove it to everyone?
I know a family where she had half a trust "checked in", and the friendliest family found a guy.
Another episode. I loved one, but I listened to my mother. Now he lives on “two fronts.”
What if I give birth to a child? This is 2 months before and 2 months after no, no! What if after giving birth it’s like going to a cave? Then no one will remember about your virginity.
And envious people at a wedding can defame you. What, are you going to lift up your dress to prove it to everyone?
-
Daria166
- Sending sexy signals

- Total posts: 23
- Joined: 2 years 9 months
- Location: Москва
- Gender: Female
- Age: 18+
- Sex dating: yes, I would like to meet you for a possible sexual relationship
- Age: 21
Re: How to get married without being a virgin?
No matter how you look at it, virginity is worth almost its weight in gold:)
And it has already been tritely exalted into a cult by the clergy, who have oppressed women all their lives anyway. When you finally understand that you can be truly pure (virgin) with your soul or thoughts, but not with your physical body. The family is not based at all on the fact that the girl should be a virgin.
And it has already been tritely exalted into a cult by the clergy, who have oppressed women all their lives anyway. When you finally understand that you can be truly pure (virgin) with your soul or thoughts, but not with your physical body. The family is not based at all on the fact that the girl should be a virgin.
-
Puppetry
- Orgasm!

- Total posts: 527
- Joined: 2 years 11 months
- Location: Оттуда
- Gender: Male
- Orientation: bisexual
- Age: 40+
- Sex dating: yes, I would like to meet you for a possible sexual relationship
-
Ogest
- Orgasm!

- Total posts: 708
- Joined: 2 years 9 months
- Location: Санкт-Петербург
- Gender: Male
- Orientation: heterosexual
- Age: 30+
- Sex dating: yes, I would like to meet you for a possible sexual relationship
- Age: 40
Re: How to get married without being a virgin?
I would prefer to marry an experienced woman with a background. Virgins don’t interest me anymore.
-
- Similar Topics
- Replies
- Views
- Last post
Mobile version