Abstinence

Unread post by **N@TyPaL** » 01 Jan 2023, 07:27

Have you ever practiced abstinence? Yes, I did, but the maximum was only a month and a half. The result was good and it fell through only because sex turned up with a worthy candidate. After a short relationship, he began to jerk off again, even while still in it. I’ve read a lot of articles and watched videos on this subject, opinions are divided: on the one hand, all this powerful sexual energy given to a man for life is wasted aimlessly, and this also affects vital energy and the quality of life in general. We include here the thoughtless consumption of nutrients at the physiological level, since each ejaculation is essentially stress for the body. On the other hand, some argue that complete refusal is also fraught, since if a man is given genitals, then they need to be used like all other organs, even trivially, so that they can be trained so that they do not atrophy, and also so that there is no embarrassment when they actually will be needed. However, among those who abstain, there is also a popular opinion that the body is not so stupid and will expel the accumulated semen itself during wet dreams or in some other way, and there is absolutely no point in helping it with your hand or any other available methods.

How I approached the issue of abstinence this time - the last month before the New Year I masturbated regularly, sometimes more than twice a day, sometimes to the wildest porn, sometimes without porn at all, in public places, toilets and so on. I deliberately masturbated more than usual, simply psychologically setting myself up to enjoy myself to the fullest before completely removing it from my life for a while (better forever, but I have to be realistic). Ideally, after abstinence, I would like to merge the seed with someone who will aspire to some kind of long-term relationship, because it is already approaching 40, and there is no person on the horizon with whom I would like to remain in a relationship. This is one of the most important factors in abstinence, because jerking off and promiscuous sex corrupts, turning a person into a lazy and uninitiative individual who is too lazy to care about relationships and work on them.

But this time I also decided to give up casual sexual relationships, of which I had more than enough. I am grateful to fate that all this passed without consequences for health, although I often gave in and allowed, for example, some ladies I didn’t know much to give in the mouth without a rubber band and many other crazy gestures, even without having Miramistin at hand in some situations, a banal human shower or even though would be a washstand. But after I stopped using alcohol and other substances, such contacts also became very rare, and now I’m even ashamed to remember some fragments that, now that I’m sober, I can’t imagine again.

In general, so that my abstinence would proceed more or less smoothly and would benefit not only me, but also society, I decided to direct my sexual energy into something useful channel One of the activities I want to keep for myself is this writing, in order to partially sublimate the unspent potential in creativity and in the design of texts and stories from the past. Perhaps I will describe the difficulties I encounter if this is in demand. The most difficult stage, of course, will be a complete cessation of porn, because I have developed an addiction to it over the years, there has always been a lot of it and all sorts of different things. Now all this will remain overboard, at least for a while. I hope that my endeavor will be useful to someone else in the future.

Happy New Year! :shamp:

Unread post by **understand** » 08 Jan 2023, 00:42

why restrain yourself? I don’t understand... what’s the point?

Unread post by **N@TyPaL** » 08 Jan 2023, 01:51

saving energy and vitality. When a live partner appears, sex and ejaculation will be brighter. The time savings are enormous; if you masturbate twice a day, morning and evening, that’s almost an hour a day. Well, concentration on other things in life, apathy and laziness often go hand in hand with masturbation

Unread post by **Dinozzz** » 17 Jan 2023, 09:41

I once also practiced abstinence, it lasted me for three months, and I even tried to excite myself by watching porn and leafing through some magazines. And then a trip to work in Sochi turned up, well, in general, you yourself understand how it all ended).

Unread post by **niqk** » 17 Jan 2023, 09:49

All these myths about abstinence are very stupid! The human body is designed in such a way that for any muscle to work, it needs strength. And strength develops in the process of work. If muscles do not work, they will gradually atrophy
and the longer the muscles are inactive, the more they atrophy. And it’s the same story with the penis. If you don’t use it regularly, it will atrophy. And there may come a time when he will not be able to recover. You will be left with a useless pussy, good only for peeing once...

Unread post by **The passage** » 17 Jan 2023, 09:49

Oh, if I don’t have sex for a long time, I become terribly harmful and nervous. I can probably even kill or maim someone)))

Unread post by **Ogest** » 17 Jan 2023, 09:59

I definitely wouldn’t be able to abstain for long, it’s none of my business.

Unread post by **N@TyPaL** » 17 Jan 2023, 18:49

My abstinence did not go according to plan - I unintentionally experienced nocturnal ejaculation during sleep, on the 16th day of abstinence. I didn’t watch porn, but I went to the forum once a day and read all sorts of stories. The night before the incident, I also read the forum, observing a slight erection, and in a dream I dreamed of a perverted form of sex from the past, overgrown with new details. The most interesting thing is that this is far from the best memory; on the contrary, it is shameful and painful. Apparently something from what I read was inadvertently thrown off. I really wanted to masturbate in the evening and compare the consistency of the ejaculate, but I managed to restrain myself.

I am also inclined to think that muscles should be used, but within reasonable limits, and not every time a crazy one slips in lustful thought. Of course, jerking off to porn with your hand is not very good in terms of training; it’s good if you have a fleshlight, because it is closer to the real conditions of using a dick. Well, there is also a small minus of handjob - the dick quickly gets used to touching and then during sex you also have to jerk it periodically for a better erection, because the sensitivity decreases, especially if the partner is not very good and serves as a kind of attachment for the dick exclusively. And so, with a good break from jerking off and then with a real woman, even a small touch will sparkle with different colors.

Unread post by **Frodo** » 17 Jan 2023, 19:25

Buy a rubber woman and solve the problem with your partner; abstinence is not very good for your health.

Unread post by **N@TyPaL** » 18 Jan 2023, 12:23

Flashlight is more practical in my opinion. The rubber woman is a lot of hassle and needs to be stored somehow. A good one also costs a lot of money, it’s better to have a fleshlight or massage parlors a couple of times a month, for that matter

Unread post by **poxuer** » 18 Jan 2023, 19:28

N@TyPaL: 17 Jan 2023, 18:49 nocturnal ejaculation occurred during sleep, on the 16th day of abstinence

I love orgasms in sleep

Unread post by **electronics** » 19 Jan 2023, 04:14

I definitely don’t recommend giving up masturbation completely. I’ve been through it. He also kept experimenting on himself. Maximum period 5 months. The result is that the erection weakens and the sperm becomes cloudier. The pressure also goes off scale if I don’t drain it for a long time. But when I started masturbating again, everything returned to normal. And then sex also appeared, so the need for masturbation practically disappeared. Once every 7-10 days. Then there will be no apathy and similar conditions from frequent jerking off. And the penis will stand, and there will be practically no harm, in general.

Unread post by **Truwor** » 25 Jun 2023, 15:46

Abstinence is part of masochism, and it is sweet in its torment. There is self-abstinence when a man, showing incredible willpower, brings a woman to her orgasm, and he himself abstains from his own orgasm, enjoying his condition. And sometimes abstinence is forced, at the request of the wife or at the request of the wife’s lover, who enjoy the husband’s torment from the inability to have an orgasm with unbearable arousal, watching the wife’s sex with her lover.

Unread post by **Nipple** » 25 Jun 2023, 15:51

Once at the university, I decided to limit myself to sex for a month in order to prepare adequately for the session and not retake the subjects later, as was the case the previous time. So it’s not enough for me that erotic dreams I began to dream about it, even in the store I began to look at cucumbers and eggplants from a non-gastronomic point of view... and I realized, well, what the hell with these abstinences)

Unread post by **etc** » 25 Jun 2023, 17:27

niqk: 17 Jan 2023, 09:49 All these myths about abstinence are very stupid! The human body is designed in such a way that for any muscle to work, it needs strength. And strength develops in the process of work. If muscles do not work, they will gradually atrophy
and the longer the muscles are inactive, the more they atrophy. And it’s the same story with the penis. If you don’t use it regularly, it will atrophy. And there may come a time when he will not be able to recover. You will be left with a useless pussy, good only for peeping once...

This is speculation)). Should I train my penis?)
These are not the same muscles as those on the arms and legs.)
Jocks would definitely get carried away by swinging the genital organ))).

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Marinka: And, if I don’t have sex for a long time, I become terribly harmful and nervous. I can probably even kill or injure someone)))

Nipple: 25 Jun 2023, 15:51 Once at university I decided to limit myself to sex for a month in order to prepare for the session with dignity and not to retake the subjects later, as was the case the previous time. So it’s not enough for me that erotic dreams I began to dream about it, even in the store I began to look at cucumbers and eggplants from a non-gastronomic point of view... and I realized, what the hell with these abstinences)

Sex is like cigarettes. If you start smoking, you won’t jump off))).
I had a male dog, I wanted to untie him, but the breeder dissuaded me - it’s better not to do this, you’ll suffer with him. I didn’t, the dog wasn’t excited by females at all, he loved to run with a bike and swim))). Lived for 14 years.

Unread post by **niqk** » 26 Jun 2023, 07:41

Nipple: 25 Jun 2023, 15:51 Once upon a time at university, I decided to limit myself to sex for a month in order to prepare adequately for the session and not retake subjects later, as was the case the previous time. So it’s not enough for me that erotic dreams I began to dream about it, even in the store I began to look at cucumbers and eggplants from a non-gastronomic point of view... and I realized, what the hell with these abstinences)

You have successfully proven the obvious: sex is a basic human instinct! You can’t hide it anywhere!

Unread post by **Vik.ruba80** » 26 Jun 2023, 10:55

Abstinence is good not by refusing sex, but by paying attention to your partner so that he gets maximum pleasure. Maybe you don’t need to spray yourself with the largest number of sexual partners, but pay attention to quality. And so I don’t count a day without sex. It may not always work out, given the nature of the work, but you need to strive for this.

Unread post by **|_rarely_|** » 10 Jul 2023, 03:47

vvm: 25 Jun 2023, 17:32 This is speculation)). Train your penis?)
These are not the same muscles as those on the arms and legs.)

Here we are not talking about the muscles of the penis, but about the work of men genitourinary system, prostate. An old urologist, a candidate of medical sciences, told me that if I haven’t had sex for a week, then I need to jerk off. You cannot marinate male potency for more than a week, the damage to the entire reproductive system is irreparable.

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I think so, everything is good in moderation. Both daily irrepressible jerking off and six-month abstinence are harmful. And the planetary energy praised by abstinents and the ability for mega-fucking after a long period of abstinence will pass quickly. I fucked a few times and that’s it. I checked in as a rapid-fire Mr. 2 minutes and be proud, I haven’t fucked for three years. Dubious goal.

Unread post by **etc** » 10 Jul 2023, 04:02

|_retko_|: 10 Jul 2023, 03:47 Here we are not talking about the muscles of the penis, but about the work of the male genitourinary system, the prostate. An old urologist, a candidate of medical sciences, told me that if I haven’t had sex for a week, then I need to jerk off. You can’t marinate male potency for more than a week, the damage to the entire reproductive system is irreversible

and I have heard more than once from urologists that this is all nonsense.
No scientific studies confirm this. I remember that one urologist was asked this question, and he said that this is nonsense, there are a lot of examples, there were “Robinsons” who returned, got married and had children. He even talked about someone in detail.

Unread post by **|_rarely_|** » 10 Jul 2023, 04:03

vvm: 10 Jul 2023, 04:02
|_retko_|: 10 Jul 2023, 03:47 Here we are not talking about the muscles of the penis, but about the work of the male genitourinary system, the prostate. An old urologist, a candidate of medical sciences, told me that if I haven’t had sex for a week, then I need to jerk off. You can’t marinate male potency for more than a week, the damage to the entire reproductive system is irreversible
and I have heard more than once from urologists that this is all nonsense.
No scientific studies confirm this. I remember that one urologist was asked this question, and he said that this is nonsense, there are a lot of examples, there were “Robinsons” who returned, got married and had children. He even talked about someone in detail.

And it is known for certain that they haven’t jerked off for years?

10 Jul 2023, 04:03

I practiced abstinence until I was 17 years old, I’m not going to practice it anymore.

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|_retko_|: 10 Jul 2023, 03:56 You cannot marinate male potency for more than a week, the damage to the entire reproductive system is irreparable.

Plus In addition, abstinence disrupts hormonal balance, and this affects other functions of the body.

Unread post by **etc** » 10 Jul 2023, 04:30

|_retko_|: 10 Jul 2023, 04:03 And is it known for certain that they haven’t jerked off for years?

Well, if you look through the eyes of a contemporary, then no. Do you think in the eighteenth and nineteenth centuries they jerked off the same way? Then, if you spend years in the wild, where there is no hint of a woman, then the desire will go away.

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Markul: 10 Jul 2023, 04:05 In addition, abstinence disrupts hormonal levels, and this affects other functions of the body.

Which one is this? Can you describe the process in more detail?

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sexually transmitted infections (STIs);
a sedentary, sedentary lifestyle;
constant stress;
poor diet, excess weight;
abuse of alcohol, tobacco, drug addiction;
anal sexual intercourse.

It seems like they forgot to include abstinence.. ..))

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Markul: 10 Jul 2023, 04:05 I practiced abstinence until I was 17 years old, I’m not going to practice it anymore.

And how, did the function die?
Do you want opioids?)

Unread post by **Tamerlane** » 10 Jul 2023, 04:42

The man will have a discharge at night. Erotic dream and ejaculation of sperm

Unread post by **|_rarely_|** » 10 Jul 2023, 04:45

vvm: 10 Jul 2023, 04:41 The main risk factors in the development of prostatitis are:

sexually transmitted infections (STIs);
a sedentary, sedentary lifestyle;
constant stress;
poor diet, excess weight;
abuse of alcohol, tobacco, drug addiction;
anal sexual intercourse.

It seems like they forgot to include abstinence.. ..))

Okay, I convinced you. You can safely abstain. I do not mind.

Unread post by **etc** » 10 Jul 2023, 04:47

|_retko_|: 10 Jul 2023, 04:45 Okay, I convinced you. You can safely abstain. I don’t mind

What do I have to do with this? The question is truth.

Unread post by **|_rarely_|** » 10 Jul 2023, 04:48

vvm: 10 Jul 2023, 04:47
|_retko_|: 10 Jul 2023, 04:45 Okay, I convinced you. You can safely abstain. I don’t mind
What do I have to do with this? The question is true.

Yes, I just somehow believe a real doctor with a finger in my ass more than a certain user from the pervert forum

Unread post by **natalya.harita** » 10 Jul 2023, 04:50

I went a maximum of 2 weeks without sex - this period showed that sex is necessary for me and, first of all, it calms my nerves.

10 Jul 2023, 04:52

vvm: 10 Jul 2023, 04:41 And how, the function died?
Do you want opioids?)

The function has matured

Opioids? You’re confusing me with someone))
Of the consciousness-altering substances, only C2H5OH, and even then I’ve recently given up that too.

vvm:10 Jul 2023, 04:41 It seems like they forgot to enter abstinence.... ))

I once visited an andrologist-urologist and his words "come at least once every two days" - this is one of the points for a healthy hormonal levels, and in general the normal functioning of the endocrine system, why did he get this interesting?

Unread post by **Lisa24** » 10 Jul 2023, 04:58

no abstinence .nonono
if it’s forced, well, this happens then masturbation our everything

Unread post by **etc** » 10 Jul 2023, 05:08

|_retko_|: 10 Jul 2023, 04:48 Yes, I just somehow believe a real doctor with a finger in my ass more than a certain user from a pervert forum

How do you know that that doctor is not a pervert? And in general, look less at the regalia, I’ve had enough from the doctors. There was an andrologist, a candidate, who squeezed out the juice with his finger, then there was an honored endocrinologist... Both did not understand, they prescribed the wrong treatment. But I figured it out myself, not right away, I had to gain knowledge and spend a lot of time. One friend told me, he worked as a resuscitator, that no one understands your body better than you yourself.
And yes, it’s easier to believe, biologists say that a lot of energy is spent on brain function.

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natalya.harita: 10 Jul 2023, 04:50 I went a maximum of 2 weeks without sex - this period showed that sex is necessary for me and, first of all, it calms my nerves.

first of all, during sex, a decent amount of opioids are released into the blood. This is the main motivator.

Unread post by **niqk** » 10 Jul 2023, 05:40

A person has two main instincts: the instinct of self-preservation and the instinct of procreation, that is, sex!
Ignoring these instincts will definitely backfire, but not necessarily sideways...

Unread post by **etc** » 10 Jul 2023, 06:07

niqk: 10 Jul 2023, 05:40 A person has two main instincts: the instinct of self-preservation and the instinct of procreation, that is, sex!
Ignoring these instincts will definitely backfire, but not necessarily sideways...

Do we have sex for reproduction or for pleasure?) It won’t work out sideways?
Biologists call three basic instincts: food, reproduction, dominance and all of them are supported by the release of drugs into the blood, so that you really want it.)

Unread post by **niqk** » 10 Jul 2023, 06:25

vvm, food and dominance are consequences of self-preservation...

10 Jul 2023, 06:36

niqk: 10 Jul 2023, 05:40 A person has two main instincts: the instinct of self-preservation and the instinct of procreation, that is, sex!
Ignoring these instincts will definitely backfire, but not necessarily sideways...

what if I have already reproduced?

Unread post by **niqk** » 10 Jul 2023, 06:40

◊_NeBo[_Na_]LaDoNi_◊, WELL DONE! Now you can legally just enjoy
sex! Without consequences...

10 Jul 2023, 06:50

niqk: 10 Jul 2023, 06:40 ◊_NeBo[_Na_]LaDoNi_◊ , WELL DONE! Now you can legally just enjoy
sex! Without consequences...

well, I’ll have someone to enjoy with, I’ll enjoy while I have abstinence

Unread post by **niqk** » 10 Jul 2023, 06:54

◊_NeBo[_Na_]LaDoNi_◊, and here there is enjoying abstinence. Maybe they will share their experience
how to do this?

Unread post by **etc** » 10 Jul 2023, 07:14

niqk: 10 Jul 2023, 06:25 vvm, food and dominance - consequences self-preservation...

Can you figure it out yourself?)
The instinct of self-preservation is a reaction to a threat at the moment of danger. Faced with a bear: you scream, run, throw stones.
Or do we feel threatened that we might die of hunger? Or will it degenerate if we don’t fuck? It seems like minus a million in the country for the second year, but no one’s instinct of self-preservation turns on?
I listened to a lecture by a doctor of biological sciences. The scientist, evolutionist, paleoneurologist speaks about basic instincts, what I repeated above. I didn’t have any questions for him, everything was logical at first glance. Let’s try to refute his version.

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niqk: 10 Jul 2023, 06:54 ◊_NeBo[_Na_]LaDoNi_◊, and here there are those who enjoy abstinence. Maybe they will share their experience
how to do it?

No way. The brain plants drugs to seduce people into reproduction. Once you try, it’s hard to jump off. Enjoy. You can’t jump off opium.

10 Jul 2023, 07:41

niqk: 10 Jul 2023, 06:54 ◊_NeBo[_Na_]LaDoNi_◊ , and here there are those who enjoy abstinence. Maybe they will share their experience
how to do it?

yes, I myself can teach anyone, I have a record of 1 year : lol:

Unread post by **niqk** » 10 Jul 2023, 07:49

vvm, the instinct of self-preservation works not only in times of danger, but it also helps to avoid it.
For example, a person will not push his fingers into an electrical outlet - it can cause death. The problem is that this is not obvious to everyone - that’s why the instinct doesn’t turn on. And many idiots go to the next world every year out of stupidity. It’s the same with the threat of starving to death due to a brainless passion for losing weight. The result is anorexia and a sad outcome.
As you can see, the mind often plays a cruel joke on us. It obscures obvious things - and people do deadly
stupid things...

Unread post by **niqk** » 10 Jul 2023, 07:50

◊_NeBo[_Na_]LaDoNi_◊, a whole year? !! Do you need it?...

Unread post by **etc** » 10 Jul 2023, 08:09

niqk: 10 Jul 2023, 07:49 vvm, the instinct of self-preservation works not only at the moment of danger, but also helps to avoid it.
For example, a person will not push his fingers into an electrical outlet - it can result in death. The problem is that this is not obvious to everyone - that’s why the instinct doesn’t turn on. And many idiots go to the next world every year out of stupidity. It’s the same with the threat of starving to death due to a brainless passion for losing weight. The result is anorexia and a sad outcome.
As you can see, the mind often plays a cruel joke on us. It obscures obvious things - and people do deadly
stupid things...

But what you listed is not the instinct of self-preservation, it is memory about danger, this is anticipation of danger, there is a reasonable component here. Just like the desire to lose weight is a manifestation of reasonable motivation. The instinct of self-preservation is at the level of the limbic system, it is unreasonable. Take the fear of heights, the fear of darkness, these fears are unreasonable.
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Unread post by **niqk** » 10 Jul 2023, 08:16

vvm, actually, we are talking about one thing and same. And the memory of danger, and anticipation of danger, and much more - all this is a manifestation of instinct. Moreover, mediated by the mind. And pain, fear, and various feelings are mechanisms of instinct reinforcement that force the body to seek salvation.
What are we arguing about?

Unread post by **etc** » 10 Jul 2023, 08:33

niqk: 10 Jul 2023, 08:16 vvm, actually, we we are talking about the same thing. And the memory of danger, and anticipation of danger, and much more - all this is a manifestation of instinct. Moreover, mediated by the mind. And pain, fear, and various feelings are mechanisms of instinct reinforcement that force the body to seek salvation.
What are we arguing about?

Three basic instincts governed by nature, which set the vector of life activity. And the instinct of self-preservation is, like immunity, hostile protective behavior.

Unread post by **niqk** » 10 Jul 2023, 08:38

Strange dispute. Neither food nor dominance are instincts. These are only consequences of the instinct of self-preservation.
What makes you think that these are instincts?

10 Jul 2023, 12:07

niqk: 10 Jul 2023, 07:50 ◊_NeBo[_Na_]LaDoNi_◊ , a whole year?!! Do you need it?...

well, it turned out this way.. I can’t throw myself at everyone and sleep with everyone at random either.. that’s how it went year.

Unread post by **Beluga** » 10 Jul 2023, 12:08

I hold on for two or three days, and then my hands or my wife come into play

Unread post by **Womanslave** » 10 Jul 2023, 12:13

I have never abstained, I do not abstain, and I never will. This is very harmful to the body and the MPS in the first place. If the lump smokes, it means you need to satisfy the need for sex. If there is no pussy nearby, it means with your hand.

Unread post by **Bully Carrie** » 10 Jul 2023, 12:13

niqk: 10 Jul 2023, 08:38 dominance is not an instinct.

Are dominance definitely not an instinct? Patriarchy, huh? Classism?

Unread post by **etc** » 10 Jul 2023, 16:43

niqk: 10 Jul 2023, 08:38 Strange dispute. Neither food nor dominance are instincts. These are only consequences of the instinct of self-preservation.
What makes you think that these are instincts?

Consuming food is not a basic instinct?))
Dominance. Now that a group of males or females has formed, will they not compete with each other? Show off in front of each other?
Look how often on this forum people actually speak out not for the sake of truth or entertainment, but simply to state their great opinion.) You stand on your own, repeat the same thing, hold on to is what was said for the sake of the truth that you want to find or is your opinion more correct?) And if it turns out not? Will you feel humiliation?) What kind of mechanism is it that makes you strive for leadership, honor, fame, status, to be a criminal, to look better than others? Not instinct?
Isn’t there a simplification in your version that these three instincts are just a consequence of the instinct of self-preservation? These three are very complex, they are supported not so much by the “stick” as by the “carrots”.
It is possible that you do not want to take a different look at human nature, since previously they only talked about the instinct of self-preservation and deduced a lot from this.
If I am not mistaken, endogenous narcotic substances have become known not so long ago, since the nineties, and that they control our behavior. Are you not at all interested in a new look at the nature of our behavior?

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Womanslave: 10 Jul 2023, 12:13 This is very harmful to the body

Are you sure you are not wishful thinking?))
More than once I heard drinkers talking about the benefits for blood vessels: "We need to clean it!"))

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Markul: 10 Jul 2023, 04:52 Opioids? You’re confusing me with someone))
Of the consciousness-altering substances, only C2H5OH, and recently I’ve given up that too

I’m telling you about endogenous opioids)).
Or did you think that pleasure and good mood come from magic?))
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