What kind of girl should I look for to start a family?

[romance book]

I met girls many times, mostly on the Internet and then met in real life, with some of them several meetings took place on different days, they treat me well, but do not show much interest, do not take the initiative, do not write first, do not ask questions .
Is everyone like this? Are all girls equally uninitiative? or am I somehow not like that? Maybe I’m a sluggish lazy person?
If you think soberly, then I have a good appearance, tall, handsome, not a fool, middle-aged. There is a minus - that there is no apartment. I don’t earn enough money; I have enough to live on: that is, to rent an apartment and eat normally and have a little bit of entertainment. I’m not particularly hard-working, I don’t have enough energy, I like relaxation and a stress-free life. There is no longer enough money for travel, even cheap ones. Could this be the reason that I am not financially ready to start a family?
Then what kind of girl should you look for? Maybe look for someone who has a large apartment, and who is hard-working and earns a lot of money?
But will she be interested in me? Why does she need me?

[Ogest]

If a woman wants you, she will take the initiative and even pay for you.

[niqk]

romanbon, If you want to be interesting to a girl, yes and in general, for other people, you,
first of all, should be interesting to yourself. And if everything comes down to relaxation, who needs you? Not needed
even for yourself! And if you don’t show much initiative, then why do you think that someone should show interest in you? Karoch. Get off the couch! Shake it up! Think about what you really want from life! And take action! Good luck!

[The passage]

I met girls many times, mostly on the Internet and then met in real life, with some of them several meetings took place on different days, they treat me well, but do not show special interest, do not take the initiative, do not write first, don’t ask questions.
Is everyone like this? Are all girls equally uninitiative? or am I somehow not like that? Maybe I’m a sluggish lazy person?
If you think soberly, then I have a good appearance, tall, handsome, not a fool, middle-aged. There is a minus - that there is no apartment. I don’t earn enough money; I have enough to live on: that is, to rent an apartment and eat normally and have a little bit of entertainment. I’m not particularly hard-working, I don’t have enough energy, I like relaxation and a stress-free life. There is no longer enough money for travel, even cheap ones. Could this be the reason that I am not financially ready to start a family?
Then what kind of girl should you look for? Maybe look for someone who has a large apartment, and who is hard-working and earns a lot of money?
But will she be interested in me? Why does she need me?

Girls love attention to themselves. They love to be looked after. Sometimes you want to take the initiative, but I have noticed that some men are intimidated by this, while others simply lose interest. Apparently because you didn’t have to conquer, it came easy and is not valued.
Your reasoning reads infantilism. If you earn little, then you don’t think that you need to retrain and change jobs, but want to do nothing and find a girl with an apartment.

[Nis]

I think a man should defame, write, give, give, just as a girl should see that he is worthy of her attention before she begins to want his attention.

[Tanya]

Or maybe the one you like?

[Loco]

Is your head okay? What the fuck is this family? 90 percent of divorces in the Russian Federation, first place in the world. Or you have a lot of extra resources so that you can then give away property and pay alimony. Don’t ruin your life

Sent after 1 minute 41 seconds:
Nis, that’s it. Alen must run like a clown around his princess, and she sits and chooses from the crowd of the same clowns who to give to, who to give birth to, and who to marry))

Sent after 7 minutes 58 seconds:
Marinka, I don’t understand, a woman is a country to conquer? If a woman has no feelings for a man, no love, then no amount of Alena’s efforts will help. Women generally do not respect wimps who crawl on their knees in front of them. Such aleni are resources that a woman will milk and throw away. Henpecked men do not evoke in women the same feelings that alpha males do. In general, everything in a relationship should be equal: you are for me, I am for you, and in equal quantities, and not when a man spends 10 times more time, nerves and money on a woman than she does on him, because in this case she will not will respect this heel and immediately exchange him for another as soon as this one runs out of resources. Unfortunately, this is the reality. The institution of family has been completely destroyed and now we have a generation of women who consider themselves “goddesses and princesses, for whom men should move mountains and die if necessary,” and a generation of men who have lost self-respect and become spineless wimps and toys in the hands of women. I didn’t want to offend anyone, but you can’t escape the truth

[The passage]

Are you okay with your head? What the fuck is this family? 90 percent of divorces in the Russian Federation, first place in the world. Or you have a lot of extra resources so that you can then give away property and pay alimony. Don’t ruin your life

Sent after 1 minute 41 seconds:
Nis, that’s it. Alen must run like a clown around his princess, and she sits and chooses from the crowd of the same clowns who to give to, who to give birth to, and who to marry))

What about family and children? He is apparently ripe for a family and is already thinking about it, but for you, family is a reliable right hand or left hand. Because you are not a deer, you will not run around the princess. Onanists need to run, the main thing for them is that their hands don’t shake.

Sent after 3 minutes 27 seconds:

Are you okay in your head? What the fuck is this family? 90 percent of divorces in the Russian Federation, first place in the world. Or you have a lot of extra resources so that you can then give away property and pay alimony. Don’t ruin your life

Sent after 1 minute 41 seconds:
Nis, that’s it. Alen must run like a clown around his princess, and she sits and chooses from the crowd of the same clowns who to give to, who to give birth to, and who to marry))

Sent after 7 minutes 58 seconds:
Marinka, I don’t understand, a woman is a country to conquer? If a woman has no feelings for a man, no love, then no amount of Alena’s efforts will help. Women generally do not respect wimps who crawl on their knees in front of them. Such aleni are resources that a woman will milk and throw away. Henpecked men do not evoke in women the same feelings that alpha males do. In general, everything in a relationship should be equal: you are for me, I am for you, and in equal quantities, and not when a man spends 10 times more time, nerves and money on a woman than she does on him, because in this case she will not will respect this heel and immediately exchange him for another as soon as this one runs out of resources. Unfortunately, this is the reality. The institution of family has been completely destroyed and now we have a generation of women who consider themselves “goddesses and princesses, for whom men should move mountains and die if necessary,” and a generation of men who have lost self-respect and become spineless wimps and toys in the hands of women. I didn’t want to offend anyone, but you can’t run away from the truth

As soon as men start bearing and giving birth to children, then we’ll talk about equality.

[Loco]

Marinka, what kind of family? Is it your family that accounts for 90 percent of divorces? More than half of children live without fathers and grow up mentally ill as a result, is this good? Onanists live 20 years longer than married people. In 90 cases out of 100, these are married people who don’t even live to see retirement and die like cockroaches at 50-60 years old from heart attacks and strokes, while wives live 20 years longer. Moreover, let’s not blame masturbators, because 99 percent of men and women in the world masturbate, even in marriage, especially married men, because after a couple of years of family life the wife begins to give once a month, so they have to jerk off, and women jerk off even more often , because with age, unlike men, libido increases. According to statistics, 70 percent of women in the world have dildaki and other toys at home.

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Marinka, 70 percent of men do not want children at all and agree to have them because they are afraid that their wife will leave for someone else. And this is not surprising, because for 99 women out of 100, a man is a sperm donor with the function of an ATM)

[The passage]

Marinka, what kind of family? Is it your family that accounts for 90 percent of divorces? More than half of children live without fathers and grow up mentally ill as a result, is this good? Onanists live 20 years longer than married people. In 90 cases out of 100, these are married people who don’t even live to see retirement and die like cockroaches at 50-60 years old from heart attacks and strokes, while wives live 20 years longer. Moreover, let’s not blame masturbators, because 99 percent of men and women in the world masturbate, even in marriage, especially married men, because after a couple of years of family life the wife begins to give once a month, so they have to jerk off, and women jerk off even more often , because with age, unlike men, libido increases. According to statistics, 70 percent of women in the world have dildacks and other toys at home.

That is, sex and family are, in your opinion, a rudiment in the modern evolutionary round of human development ? Is masturbation the future?

[Loco]

Marinka, the future is freedom. You can have sex with women, but not have children and not drag them to the registry office, plus use protection. Why does a man need a family if in 9 cases out of 10 it will fall apart and that fool will be screwed? There is zero logic. My divorced comrades say that hiring young prostitutes is several times cheaper than maintaining their ex-wives

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Marinka, but don’t worry at all. Still, according to the UN, 40 percent of children in the world are born pregnant. Every year the population increases by 80 million. The planet is already overpopulated by 3 times. Therefore, humanity is still very far from extinction.

[The passage]

Marinka, the future is freedom. You can have sex with women, but not have children and not drag them to the registry office, plus use protection. Why does a man need a family if in 9 cases out of 10 it will fall apart and that fool will be screwed? There is zero logic. My divorced comrades say that hiring young prostitutes is many times cheaper than maintaining their ex-wives

Humanity will die out without children. Your divorced comrades are childish.

[Loco]

Marinka, I see how it is "dying out ". It grows so fast that there is nothing to feed it. Now at least 1 billion people live below the poverty line, that is, they die of hunger. Another couple of billion live in moderate poverty and save on everything. There is nothing to eat, but they still breed. What stupid creatures people are, when it should be the other way around

[The passage]

Marinka, I see how it "dying out". It grows so fast that there is nothing to feed it. Now at least 1 billion people live below the poverty line, that is, they die of hunger. Another couple of billion live in moderate poverty and save on everything. There is nothing to eat, but they still breed. What stupid creatures people are, although it should be the other way around

This is because of capitalism. Poverty for some, for the luxury of others.

[Loco]

Marinka, it doesn’t matter. It is important that the world is an ass and having children now is stupid and selfish. There is poverty on half the planet. Plus, how can you be confident in peace for your children when there are dictators with absolute power and nuclear weapons who threaten the world with nuclear war and destruction almost every day. Is this the kind of life you want for your children?

[romance book]

70 percent of men do not want children at all and agree to have them,

With age, everything in life becomes boring, and sometimes thoughts appear that it would be interesting to have child, live his life, help him. The wife will help if the husband is in trouble. As you age, you need a close person whom you can trust in everything. If divorce is not a big deal, you can find another wife, more suitable


As for the fact that there are many people on the planet, this is not important for me specifically. I live in Russia, and here the birth rate is encouraged

[The passage]

Marinka, it doesn’t matter. It is important that the world is an ass and having children now is stupid and selfish. There is poverty on half the planet. Plus, how can you be confident in peace for your children when there are dictators with absolute power and nuclear weapons who threaten the world with nuclear war and destruction almost every day. Do you want this kind of life for your children?

There have always been dictators, there have always been rich and poor. Our parents gave birth to us and we give birth. Personally, I give my children love and affection, and do everything possible so that they grow up to be good people. They are not hungry, they are dressed and shod. There is a roof over your head.
You are exaggerating and your reasoning is selfish. Although you blame everything on selfish and materialistic women. From a sore head to a healthy one.

[Loco]

Marinka, that is, you directly say what needs to be done as they did before us. You have to be part of the herd. If everyone goes to hang themselves, then we should go too. In your philosophy there is no place left for those people who want to be free, live for themselves and do what they want.

[The passage]

Marinka, that is, you say directly , what needs to be done, as they did before us. You have to be part of the herd. If everyone goes to hang themselves, then we should go too. In your philosophy there is no place left for those people who want to be free, live for themselves and do what they want.

No need to exaggerate. Adults have rights and responsibilities.
And what you present is called egocentrism.

[Loco]

Marinka, what’s wrong with not being a slave , and live for yourself? Have you really been so brainwashed that for you, slavery and living for the sake of other people, who for the most part don’t give a damn about you, is the holy of holies?

[The passage]

Marinka, what’s wrong with so as not to be a slave, but to live for yourself? Have you really been so brainwashed that for you slavery and life for the sake of other people, who mostly don’t give a damn about you, is the holy of holies?

This is not slavery is just life. Where does your freedom begin? You are not working? Lying under a palm tree all day?

[Loco]

Marinka, I work, but I spend everything on myself, and not like married people who give their entire salary to their wife, who in a couple of years will jump on a new member and leave, taking the children and part of the property.

[Dinozzz]

What’s wrong with not being a slave, but living for yourself? Have you really been so brainwashed that for you slavery and life for the sake of other people, who mostly don’t give a damn about you, is the holy of holies?

I can tell you with certainty that the planet in general rests on those who live for the sake of others, for the sake of humanity. Life does not stand still, doctors treat, teachers teach, etc. We must respect and appreciate all this and, of course, remain human.

[Loco]

Dinozzz, doctors treat, and teachers teach for money, not a thank you. Nobody does anything for free except cuckolds and alenas who serve their mistresses

[The passage]

Marinka, I work, but I spend everything for themselves, and not like married people who give their entire salary to their wife, who in a couple of years will jump on a new member and leave, taking the children and part of the property.

n Your freedom only applies to women. Otherwise, you have no freedom, you are just as dependent as everyone else. You just have sexism, in some exaggerated form.

[Dinozzz]

Doctors treat, but teachers teach for money, not for thanks. Nobody does anything for free, except cuckolds and alenas, who serve their mistresses

But judging by the salaries that doctors, especially teachers, mostly receive, say thank you too). As for cuckolding, it’s his choice, it suits him. Why should this bother you?

[G.e.org.ii]

romanbon, why do you need a family, live for yourself. You will give happiness to many women, until retirement.

[Seregyn]

I don’t know, I can’t find it, nevermind, we’ve been dating for 4, 6 months and she leaves me

[XiaH]

I’m not particularly hard-working, I don’t have enough energy, I like relaxation, a stress-free life.

as soon as I turned 30, I did the same thing relaxed and noticed that there were women around became less. When you have something you love and are passionate about it, then women themselves stick to it. As according to the law of meanness, most women appear when there are other priorities in life and are not at all up to them. Of course, I don’t take into account any worthless material for fucking, but minimal candidates for a more or less long-term relationship. As soon as I gave up on women in general and directed all my energy into work, they began to show up on their own.

[romance book]

I, of course, do not take into account any worthless material for fucking

Why is fucking this worthless material? I don’t want to fuck with bad material at all. But I just want something suitable...

[Winsly]

romanbon, look for an ordinary, simple, hard-working one that also wants family first. Most likely this will happen to your child, you need to be prepared for it.

[Serge12345]

If you just want to get laid, then rent prostitutes. My wife and I have been together for 35 years. And I can say that it is happiness when there is a person nearby whom you trust as much as yourself.

[XiaH]

romanbon, fucking cannot be the foundation for a relationship good basis. In the future of a strong relationship, everything will fall apart very soon if nothing but sex is involved.

Most likely this will happen to the child, you need to be prepared for it.

the author wrote that he is not particularly hard-working, not energetic, loves relaxation and is not stressed. Just everything you need to be ready for an unforgettable flight and entry into orbit "Deer Light"

[The passage]

I, of course, do not take into account any worthless material for fucking

Why is fucking this worthless material? I don’t want to fuck with bad material at all. But with the right one you just want..

In this case, stigmatization is based on stereotypical ideas. Don’t listen to anyone. Your choices are your choice.

[niqk]

Interesting discussion. I was especially touched by the statements about freedom, that one should live only for oneself, about “alenei”
, etc. Laughed heartily!
Let me just remind you that man is a bio-social being. And he lives according to the clear laws of biology and sociology. And if
attempts to ignore these laws, you will definitely get backlash. A person cannot live outside society - he will die! And
pretty quickly. Therefore, real freedom lies in understanding the laws of life. And adaptation to these
regularities! And the laws of society require that a person in childhood and adolescence master a profession and integrate into
society. Those. received an education, found a job, got married, had children, and was able to secure a decent old age for himself before retirement. And those who did not want to do this can go and hang themselves. No one will regret it. And he won’t even remember.

[romance book]

A cool thought came to mind. When you get a job, at the interview they need to prove that I am a good worker, and in return the employer will pay me money. But ! When you meet girls, on dates you need to prove to them that you will be a good husband, and then these girls will not pay you, but rather you will pay for gifts, cafes, etc. and provide for your family. then why do I need to prove that I will be a good husband? ) ha ha ha . let the girls prove that they are good lovers and good housewives, and then I will provide them financially... how would you comment?

[Leon king]

A girl must be faithful, this is the face of a man.

[Polk]

let the girls prove that they are good lovers and good housewives, and then I will provide them financially... how do you comment?

well, that’s not a bad idea) )) test drive first, then get married)))

[alex503311]

I came across it myself. What a mistake, this topic is about a wife, not a girl.
If it’s a girl, then yes, courtship, etc., but again, in order to persuade, it doesn’t have to be flowers and a movie, etc.
That’s how it was, and then they can tell you, I found someone else.
As Mikhailov said in the film "Men" - "All of you women know about us, but you don’t know why we date some and choose others to marry"

Girl : beautiful, sexy, good in bed, interesting in communication.

Wife: knows how to cook, doesn’t have headaches, wants children, mom likes her, faithful, reliable, parents raised her correctly so that she loves too etc.

You can remember a lot more only if the girl or mistress is one thing, and for example married. there is no housewife, there is a conflict with the son’s mother, etc. This is how wives are raised in the Caucasus.

[Lerunchik]

I came across it myself. What a mistake, this topic is about a wife, not a girl.
If it’s a girl, then yes, courtship, etc., but again, in order to persuade, it doesn’t have to be flowers and a movie, etc.
That’s how it was, and then they can tell you, I found someone else.
As Mikhailov said in the film "Men" - "All of you women know about us, but you don’t know why we date some and choose others to marry"

Girl : beautiful, sexy, good in bed, interesting in communication.

Wife: knows how to cook, doesn’t have headaches, wants children, mom likes her, faithful, reliable, parents raised her correctly so that she loves too etc.

You can remember a lot more only if the girl or mistress is one thing, and for example married. the hostess is no good, there is a conflict with the son’s mother, etc. That’s how wives are raised in the Caucasus.

I agree with you. Regarding women among the Caucasian peoples) They are raised correctly)) Therefore, in public, they and their husbands are affectionate and submissive. And when no one sees them, some of them hold their husbands by the balls so that they cannot make a sound or grunt))))

[AlexTDV]

If you are not a freak, have good income, your own home, a good car, play sports and follow, then women themselves hang on to you)) and no one needs lazy people without goals and aspirations, they just want to work a day and get to the sofa with a beer

[Serg_A]

This is because of capitalism. The poverty of some, for the sake of the luxury of others

And your brains work, unlike most)))

[alex503311]

If you are not a freak, have good income, your own home, a good car, play sports and follow, then women themselves hang on to you)) and no one needs lazy people without goals and aspirations, they just need to work a day and get to the sofa with get there with beer

Well, the bucks are clear. I have a good car, it’s parked at the dacha, we take garbage to the landfill in it

I worked, which had nothing to do with sports, at first I thought about the club, but then work from 9 to 24 almost and here you have at least one meal, of course
the rule of not eating after 18 goes to no avail, just like eating 5 times a day, which is not realistic if you are not sitting in the office.
There was no sofa with beer, but there was coffee to drink, eat and sleep.

It also greatly depends on the character, as they said, they like arrogant or bad people, when I studied, I think likes I would have received thousands for my appearance, plus I was slim, but the crowds didn’t run and somehow I didn’t go to weddings where there were girls, there was a group, only guys, so there were no girls under 20.

Yes, and tastes are different, I met a girl, bless her memory, she died quickly, 4th group, I am 5 years older than her, but I was no longer thin, of course now it’s better to be strong than dead, especially on the street.

In the end, she married a guy who was just slender, they divorced a year later, he drank, by the way, I can drink a glass on holidays, at most, but it’s not a fact that she could to manage a house, many are now raised like queens who need a prince on a horse and with a bank account.

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I agree with you. Regarding women among the Caucasian peoples) They are raised correctly)) Therefore, in public, they and their husbands are affectionate and submissive. And when no one sees them, some hold their husbands by the balls in such a way that they cannot make a sound or grunt))))

Better let them hold her by the penis
But many of them, also as subordinates, will almost get her in the forehead. During all the time, not a single woman was injured, since she was not small, and then if she was hit, it is not a fact that they would survive.

As for the life that I lived with my mother, as is often criticized, but I would put one in his place, or maybe send him, because although he is calm, it does not mean that I will obey, for example, giving my wife’s salary is not for me, it’s better for her to give it.

But still, their plus is that they are in the Caucasus, they are brought up to be able to cook, clean, take care of the house, etc.

For example, in Japan it was also considered, but there they have their own jokes and incest, etc., as I remember, a woman can find a lover there, and for example, large families there are somehow rare, if any.

[Vladtsst]

I married for the second time to a woman from another country and even from another part of the world and 10 years younger than me. I searched using specific criteria and found what I was looking for.

[Mr.hamsterrr]

First of all, I am looking for someone who will be crazy about me) and she should also attract me externally and not repel me in any way. And everything else like occupation, interests, income level, presence of children, location of residence, age - everything is bullshit, if I like it, nothing will stop me except indifference)

[romance book]

I am looking first of all for someone who will be crazy about me) and she should also attract me externally and not repel me in any way.

I really remember this phrase. Maybe it’s true that you should choose a girl based on this principle

[Beluga]

Are all girls the same, lacking initiative?

All girls, like boys, are different, some are lethargic like stale cucumbers, others are as vigorous as lemon juice, and to each their own and to their own time.

Why does she need me

maybe you have a rich inner world and romance, or maybe you are a mountain eagle and a cuniman in sex

[niqk]

Belukha, hmm... if I had kept quiet, I would have gone away for more or less clever...

[romance book]

maybe you have a rich inner world and romance

what are the criteria for a rich inner world? Do you need to be well-read and be able to talk interestingly about a topic that interests a girl?

[Beluga]

maybe you have a rich inner world and romance

what are the criteria for a rich inner world? Do you need to be well-read and be able to talk in an interesting way about a topic that is interesting to a girl?

It’s not always well-read, although this is also not superfluous, but you know there is such a title - “soul” company" , she doesn’t stifle the abstruse, but jokes at the right time and tells something smart and interesting, has her own opinion and can defend it, but can also listen to someone else’s and admit that she’s wrong if that’s the case