Relationship dilemma

[Lazarus33]

Greetings! It’s interesting to hear your opinions, or even better, your experience about the following:
I’m 26, I’ve been dating a girl for a year and a half. This is my first serious relationship. Previously, there was only sex/sex with MFM couples and some other perversions. The girl herself is beautiful and sexy, but with a very complex character/psyche. We don’t have many common interests, but over time we’ve already gotten used to it. In general, there is some dissatisfaction with the relationship, but nothing specific, my opinion is that this is the norm and this happens to many. The actual problem, oddly enough, is sex. We are young and we have sex once a month. Well, two maximum. And not only do I want a lot more, I also want it to be more depraved. We say this regularly, but it doesn’t bring anything other than +1 to one session of sex out of pity. She herself says that sex doesn’t particularly interest her and doesn’t bring her any pleasure (mm, yes, I understand that the problem is with me). But at the same time, when you ask her what she would like to try/change, or what’s wrong, the answer is silence. Actually now the question is: how important is sex in life? In your experience, is there any point in enduring a lack of sex in order to build a relationship?

[Gudgeon]

Is there any point in tolerating the lack of sex

No. It will only get worse. It’s a bit of a myth that women over 30 become sex goddesses. In reality, much more often after 35, a huge, thick bolt is placed on sex. Children and everyday life destroy it in the bud. Yes, not always, yes, not for everyone. But often. So if you don’t get enough sex when you’re young, it won’t get any better. If initially the relationship is uncomfortable (and this is evident from the topic), then there is no point in investing in it.

[N@TyPaL]

There are girls who are simply frigid. If problems at that age only get worse, it’s easier to look for another one. At 25-26, to endure this for a year and a half once a month is practically heroism

[Frodo]

You’re young, look for another girl before it’s too late. Sex rules everything in this life, so don’t give up this thrill because of one half-baked bitch

[◊_NeBo[_Na_]LaDoNi_◊]

Greetings! It’s interesting to hear your opinions, or even better, your experience about the following:
I’m 26, I’ve been dating a girl for a year and a half. This is my first serious relationship. Previously, there was only sex/sex with MFM couples and some other perversions. The girl herself is beautiful and sexy, but with a very complex character/psyche. We don’t have many common interests, but over time we’ve already gotten used to it. In general, there is some dissatisfaction with the relationship, but nothing specific, my opinion is that this is the norm and this happens to many. The actual problem, oddly enough, is sex. We are young and we have sex once a month. Well, two maximum. And not only do I want a lot more, I also want it to be more depraved. We say this regularly, but it doesn’t bring anything other than +1 to one session of sex out of pity. She herself says that sex doesn’t particularly interest her and doesn’t bring her any pleasure (mm, yes, I understand that the problem is with me). But at the same time, when you ask her what she would like to try/change, or what’s wrong, the answer is silence. Actually now the question is: how important is sex in life? In your experience, does it make sense to endure the lack of sex for the sake of building a relationship?

If you love her and this love is most precious to you, then think, maybe it’s worth saving this relationship?.. find some kind of compromise, go together to a sexologist, for example.
And if you are with her just for sex, then is it worth torturing yourself like that?.. in general, you need to set priorities, what for you are most important.
It would be hard for me without sex, especially at the beginning of a relationship (and a year and a half is undoubtedly the beginning), I would saw out the guy’s entire brain if that were the case and we would still end up broke up.

[NewDim]

And then you will howl with longing for past connections: mzhm and other perversions)) and sooner or later you will go to the side, which will not add anything to the strength of your union.
No amount of her beauty and sexuality can replace what you tried before. I’m already silent about the fact that her mental characteristics/cockroaches generally don’t know how they will turn out in the future, when there are stamps in the passport, and there will be plenty of other anchors.

[6996]

Greetings! It’s interesting to hear your opinions, or even better, your experience about the following:
I’m 26, I’ve been dating a girl for a year and a half. This is my first serious relationship. Previously, there was only sex/sex with MFM couples and some other perversions. The girl herself is beautiful and sexy, but with a very complex character/psyche. We don’t have many common interests, but over time we’ve already gotten used to it. In general, there is some dissatisfaction with the relationship, but nothing specific, my opinion is that this is the norm and this happens to many. The actual problem, oddly enough, is sex. We are young and we have sex once a month. Well, two maximum. And not only do I want a lot more, I also want it to be more depraved. We say this regularly, but it doesn’t bring anything other than +1 to one session of sex out of pity. She herself says that sex doesn’t particularly interest her and doesn’t bring her any pleasure (mm, yes, I understand that the problem is with me). But at the same time, when you ask her what she would like to try/change, or what’s wrong, the answer is silence. Actually now the question is: how important is sex in life? In your experience, does it make sense to endure the lack of sex for the sake of building a relationship?

If you love her and this love is most precious to you, then think, maybe it’s worth saving this relationship?.. find some kind of compromise, go together to a sexologist, for example.
And if you are with her just for sex, then is it worth torturing yourself like that?.. in general, you need to set priorities, what for you are most important.
It would be hard for me without sex, especially at the beginning of a relationship (and a year and a half is undoubtedly the beginning), I would saw out the guy’s entire brain if that were the case and we would still end up broke up.

Total crap. There is no need to maintain a relationship without normal sex. Sex is a part of life and a relationship without it, or with restrictions it is to deprive yourself of this part. And life, by the way, is not endless. And love won’t help here; it will most likely complicate everything and make you suffer.

Sent after 48 seconds:

Greetings! It’s interesting to hear your opinions, or even better, your experience about the following:
I’m 26, I’ve been dating a girl for a year and a half. This is my first serious relationship. Previously, there was only sex/sex with MFM couples and some other perversions. The girl herself is beautiful and sexy, but with a very complex character/psyche. We don’t have many common interests, but over time we’ve already gotten used to it. In general, there is some dissatisfaction with the relationship, but nothing specific, my opinion is that this is the norm and this happens to many. The actual problem, oddly enough, is sex. We are young and we have sex once a month. Well, two maximum. And not only do I want a lot more, I also want it to be more depraved. We say this regularly, but it doesn’t bring anything other than +1 to one session of sex out of pity. She herself says that sex doesn’t particularly interest her and doesn’t bring her any pleasure (mm, yes, I understand that the problem is with me). But at the same time, when you ask her what she would like to try/change, or what’s wrong, the answer is silence. Actually now the question is: how important is sex in life? In your experience, does it make sense to endure the lack of sex for the sake of building a relationship?

In short, there is no need to endure it, break up.

[The passage]

When they have been dating for a year and a half, and there are no plans for the future, this is not a relationship. Sex once a month is very rare and the girl most likely gets it by either masturbation or sex with someone else. Men should decide faster. Of course, there is no need to rush in such a serious matter, but even when they have been dating for a year or more, this is not a relationship. It is a habit. I think she gave up on it a long time ago, but just in case she doesn’t vomit at all, hoping that a miracle will happen.

[◊_NeBo[_Na_]LaDoNi_◊]

Greetings! It’s interesting to hear your opinions, or even better, your experience about the following:
I’m 26, I’ve been dating a girl for a year and a half. This is my first serious relationship. Previously, there was only sex/sex with MFM couples and some other perversions. The girl herself is beautiful and sexy, but with a very complex character/psyche. We don’t have many common interests, but over time we’ve already gotten used to it. In general, there is some dissatisfaction with the relationship, but nothing specific, my opinion is that this is the norm and this happens to many. The actual problem, oddly enough, is sex. We are young and we have sex once a month. Well, two maximum. And not only do I want a lot more, I also want it to be more depraved. We say this regularly, but it doesn’t bring anything other than +1 to one session of sex out of pity. She herself says that sex doesn’t particularly interest her and doesn’t bring her any pleasure (mm, yes, I understand that the problem is with me). But at the same time, when you ask her what she would like to try/change, or what’s wrong, the answer is silence. Actually now the question is: how important is sex in life? In your experience, does it make sense to endure the lack of sex for the sake of building a relationship?

If you love her and this love is most precious to you, then think, maybe it’s worth saving this relationship?.. find some kind of compromise, go together to a sexologist, for example.
And if you are with her just for sex, then is it worth torturing yourself like that?.. in general, you need to set priorities, what for you are most important.
It would be hard for me without sex, especially at the beginning of a relationship (and a year and a half is undoubtedly the beginning), I would saw out the guy’s entire brain if that were the case and we would still end up broke up.

Total crap. There is no need to maintain a relationship without normal sex. Sex is a part of life and a relationship without it, or with restrictions it is to deprive yourself of this part. And life, by the way, is not endless. And love won’t help here; it will most likely complicate everything and make you suffer.

Sent after 48 seconds:

Greetings! It’s interesting to hear your opinions, or even better, your experience about the following:
I’m 26, I’ve been dating a girl for a year and a half. This is my first serious relationship. Previously, there was only sex/sex with MFM couples and some other perversions. The girl herself is beautiful and sexy, but with a very complex character/psyche. We don’t have many common interests, but over time we’ve already gotten used to it. In general, there is some dissatisfaction with the relationship, but nothing specific, my opinion is that this is the norm and this happens to many. The actual problem, oddly enough, is sex. We are young and we have sex once a month. Well, two maximum. And not only do I want a lot more, I also want it to be more depraved. We say this regularly, but it doesn’t bring anything other than +1 to one session of sex out of pity. She herself says that sex doesn’t particularly interest her and doesn’t bring her any pleasure (mm, yes, I understand that the problem is with me). But at the same time, when you ask her what she would like to try/change, or what’s wrong, the answer is silence. Actually now the question is: how important is sex in life? In your experience, does it make sense to endure the lack of sex for the sake of building a relationship?

In short, there is no need to endure it, break up.

In any case, it’s not up to you or me to decide, but to the author of this topic, and we, in turn, can chat about whatever we want, it’s unlikely to contribute to solving the problem.

[6996]

If you love her and For you, this love is more valuable than anything, then think, maybe it’s worth maintaining this relationship?.. find some kind of compromise, go to a sexologist together, for example.
And if you are with her just for the sake of sex, then is it worth it? torment?.. in general, you need to prioritize what is most important to you.
It would be hard for me without sex, especially at the beginning of a relationship (and a year and a half is undoubtedly the very beginning), I would have a whole brain I sawed the guy off, if that were the case, we would still have broken up in the end.

Total crap. There is no need to maintain a relationship without normal sex. Sex is a part of life and a relationship without it, or with restrictions it is to deprive yourself of this part. And life, by the way, is not endless. And love won’t help here; it will most likely complicate everything and make you suffer.

Sent after 48 seconds:

Greetings! It’s interesting to hear your opinions, or even better, your experience about the following:
I’m 26, I’ve been dating a girl for a year and a half. This is my first serious relationship. Previously, there was only sex/sex with MFM couples and some other perversions. The girl herself is beautiful and sexy, but with a very complex character/psyche. We don’t have many common interests, but over time we’ve already gotten used to it. In general, there is some dissatisfaction with the relationship, but nothing specific, my opinion is that this is the norm and this happens to many. The actual problem, oddly enough, is sex. We are young and we have sex once a month. Well, two maximum. And not only do I want a lot more, I also want it to be more depraved. We say this regularly, but it doesn’t bring anything other than +1 to one session of sex out of pity. She herself says that sex doesn’t particularly interest her and doesn’t bring her any pleasure (mm, yes, I understand that the problem is with me). But at the same time, when you ask her what she would like to try/change, or what’s wrong, the answer is silence. Actually now the question is: how important is sex in life? In your experience, does it make sense to endure the lack of sex for the sake of building a relationship?

In short, there is no need to endure it, break up.

In any case, it is not up to you or me to decide, but to the author of this topic, and we, in turn, can chat about whatever we want, it is unlikely to contribute to solving the problem.

Well, what can you do, such is human nature. People don’t listen to advice, even if it’s clearly correct, they prefer to fill their own troubles...

[Finish]

Your temperament is different.
It’s quite difficult to build a relationship without sex, especially if you want it.
You need to either negotiate and look for compromises, for example, that you can have sex on the side (my wife and I have something similar, but in terms of communication, flirting, virtual), or it’s better to find another

[Lazarus33]

If you love her and this love is most precious to you, then think, maybe it’s worth saving this relationship?.. find some kind of compromise, go together to a sexologist, for example.
And if you are with her just for sex, is it worth torturing yourself like that?.. in general, you need to prioritize what is most important to you.
It would be hard for me without sex, especially at the beginning of a relationship (and a year and a half is undoubtedly the very beginning), I would saw out the guy’s entire brain if that were the case and we would still break up in the end.

Mmm, that’s the whole point - decide for yourself whether to maintain the relationship. The first thing I realized in relationships is that love cannot be more valuable than anything. Thanks for the advice!

And then you will howl with longing for past connections: mzhm and other perversions)) and sooner or later you will go to the side, which will not add anything to the strength of your union.

Yes, after reading this and the other answers, I had the thought that I might not have had enough time. I don’t want to go on the side, then there’s definitely no point in a relationship.

When you have been dating for a year and a half, and there are no plans for the future, this is not a relationship. Sex once a month is very rare and the girl most likely gets it by either masturbation or sex with someone else. Men should decide faster. Of course, there is no need to rush in such a serious matter, but even when they have been dating for a year or more, this is not a relationship. It is a habit. I think that she has given up on it a long time ago, but just in case she doesn’t vomit at all, hoping that suddenly a miracle will happen.

Masturbation - yes, there definitely is. Another man is extremely unlikely, but I can’t know everything. We live together and I didn’t promise her anything more (stamp in the passport) in the near future. In general, this is really good advice about the cross, I didn’t think about it. Thank you, there will be something to talk about.

Total crap. There is no need to maintain a relationship without normal sex. Sex is a part of life and a relationship without it, or with restrictions it is to deprive yourself of this part. And life, by the way, is not endless. And love won’t help here; it will most likely complicate everything and make you suffer.

Oh, I would have said that before. Or rather, that’s what I said before.
The point of this topic is to understand your relationships, read more experienced people, and perhaps make the most obvious decision for yourself in this situation. It’s just not that easy for some reason. Thanks to everyone who unsubscribed, I really need your opinionor advice to collect all the pros and cons.

[The passage]

If you love her and this love is most precious to you, then think, maybe it’s worth maintaining this relationship?.. find some compromise, go together to a sexologist, for example.
And if you are with her just for sex, then is it worth torturing yourself like that?.. in general, you need to prioritize what is most important to you.
nIt would be hard for me without sex, especially at the beginning of a relationship (and a year and a half is undoubtedly the very beginning), I would saw out the guy’s entire brain if that were the case and we would still break up in the end.

Mmm, that’s the whole point - decide for yourself whether to maintain the relationship. The first thing I realized in relationships is that love cannot be more valuable than anything. Thanks for the advice!

And then you will howl with longing for past connections: mzhm and other perversions)) and sooner or later you will go to the side, which will not add anything to the strength of your union.

Yes, after reading this and the other answers, I had the thought that I might not have had enough time. I don’t want to go on the side, then there’s definitely no point in a relationship.

When you have been dating for a year and a half, and there are no plans for the future, this is not a relationship. Sex once a month is very rare and the girl most likely gets it by either masturbation or sex with someone else. Men should decide faster. Of course, there is no need to rush in such a serious matter, but even when they have been dating for a year or more, this is not a relationship. It is a habit. I think that she has given up on it a long time ago, but just in case she doesn’t vomit at all, hoping that suddenly a miracle will happen.

Masturbation - yes, there definitely is. Another man is extremely unlikely, but I can’t know everything. We live together and I didn’t promise her anything more (stamp in the passport) in the near future. In general, this is really good advice about the cross, I didn’t think about it. Thank you, there will be something to talk about.

Total crap. There is no need to maintain a relationship without normal sex. Sex is a part of life and a relationship without it, or with restrictions it is to deprive yourself of this part. And life, by the way, is not endless. And love won’t help here; it will most likely complicate everything and make you suffer.

Oh, I would have said that before. Or rather, that’s what I said before.
The point of this topic is to understand your relationships, read more experienced people, and perhaps make the most obvious decision for yourself in this situation. It’s just not that easy for some reason. Thanks to everyone who unsubscribed, I really need your opinion or advice to collect all the pros and cons.

Thanks for such a detailed answer, but dating and living with a person - these are two different things. Completely different. Therefore your answer is questionable.

[Nis]

Many people think that sex in a relationship is not the main thing, but no, it is one of the most important factors in a relationship; if it is not there, then there will be no normal relationship

[Lazarus33]

Thank you for such a detailed answer, but dating and living with a person are two different things. Completely different. Therefore, your answer is questionable.

So yes, but in this case it was meant that we were meeting - this was "trying to build a relationship" or "at We have a relationship that goes beyond friendship." But you can live with a friend, for example, or just with a roommate. But yes, you are right - this should have been clarified.

Sent after 7 minutes 46 seconds:

You have a different temperament.
It is quite difficult to build a relationship without sex, especially if you want it.
You need to either negotiate and look for compromises, for example, what you can have sex on the side (my wife and I have something similar, but in terms of communication, flirting, virtual), or it’s better to find someone else

Compromise is a good thing, but in any case, he will go with some kind of sediment (for example, she will have sex through "I don’t want"). As for outside relationships, this is a good thing (swinging, for example) when you have an established relationship and losing it is not at all an option, but here the relationship is still at an early stage. So the last option is the most obvious, all that remains is to accept it

[The passage]

Thank you for such a detailed answer, but dating and living with a person are two different things. Completely different. Therefore, your answer is questionable.

So yes, but in this case it was meant that we were meeting - this was "trying to build a relationship" or "at We have a relationship that goes beyond friendship." But you can live with a friend, for example, or just with a roommate. But yes, you are right - this should have been clarified.

When you live with a man, and he pesters you every night before bed, you want it, you don’t want it, but give it to him, well, at least for the sake of getting some sleep for him and yourself. Well, when they meet, it’s for sex, like with me now. Sometimes they can’t, sometimes I can’t. It seems that everyone can, but there was a force majeure, they got sick or just don’t feel well, or just plain tired and sex is very irregular and not because you don’t want to, but because a large number of external factors interfere with regularity.
And, it’s crazy for me to read when people live together, but there is no sex. I know from myself that if a man pesters, he won’t let me fall asleep, he’ll sigh, fidget, try to kiss... and it’s easier to give, but in the process of sex I get turned on myself. I don’t think they bother you. No and no.

[◊_NeBo[_Na_]LaDoNi_◊]

Thank you for such a detailed answer, but dating and living with a person are two different things. Completely different. Therefore, your answer is questionable.

So yes, but in this case it was meant that we were meeting - this was "trying to build a relationship" or "at We have a relationship that goes beyond friendship." But you can live with a friend, for example, or just with a roommate. But yes, you are right - this should have been clarified.

When you live with a man, and he pesters you every night before bed, you want it, you don’t want it, but give it to him, well, at least for the sake of getting some sleep for him and yourself. Well, when they meet, it’s for sex, like with me now. Sometimes they can’t, sometimes I can’t. It seems that everyone can, but there was a force majeure, they got sick or just don’t feel well, or just plain tired and sex is very irregular and not because you don’t want to, but because a large number of external factors interfere with regularity.
And, it’s crazy for me to read when people live together, but there is no sex. I know from myself that if a man pesters, he won’t let me fall asleep, he’ll sigh, fidget, try to kiss... and it’s easier to give, but in the process of sex I get turned on myself. I don’t think they bother you. No and no.

Can she live comfortably with him?.. maybe he fully supports her?.. for me it’s just a mystery why, to live with a man and avoid sex with him?.. for what?.. she has no one to fix the faucet in the bathtub, nail a shelf, or what?.. it’s somehow strange.. I’ll never understand this..

[The passage]

So yes, but in this case it was meant that we were meeting - this was "trying to build a relationship" " or "We have a relationship that goes beyond friendship". But you can live with a friend, for example, or just with a roommate. But yes, you are right - this should have been clarified.

When you live with a man, and he pesters you every night before bed, you want it, you don’t want it, but give it to him, well, at least for the sake of getting some sleep for him and yourself. Well, when they meet, it’s for sex, like with me now. Sometimes they can’t, sometimes I can’t. It seems that everyone can, but there was a force majeure, they got sick or just don’t feel well, or just plain tired and sex is very irregular and not because you don’t want to, but because a large number of external factors interfere with regularity.
And, it’s crazy for me to read when people live together, but there is no sex. I know from myself that if a man pesters, he won’t let me fall asleep, he’ll sigh, fidget, try to kiss... and it’s easier to give, but in the process of sex I get turned on myself. I don’t think they bother you. No and no.

Can she live comfortably with him?.. maybe he fully supports her?.. for me it’s just a mystery why, to live with a man and avoid sex with him?.. for what?.. she has no one to fix the faucet in the bathtub, nail a shelf or something?.. it’s somehow strange.. I’ll never understand this..

By the concept of living, TS meant that they were having sex. They live separately.

[◊_NeBo[_Na_]LaDoNi_◊]

When you live with a man, and he pesters you every evening before sleep, you want it, you don’t want it, but you give it to him, well, at least for the sake of getting enough sleep for him and for yourself. Well, when they meet, it’s for sex, like with me now. Sometimes they can’t, sometimes I can’t. It seems that everyone can, but there was a force majeure, they got sick or just don’t feel well, or just plain tired and sex is very irregular and not because you don’t want to, but because a large number of external factors interfere with regularity.
And, it’s crazy for me to read when people live together, but there is no sex. I know from myself that if a man pesters, he won’t let me fall asleep, he’ll sigh, fidget, try to kiss... and it’s easier to give, but in the process of sex I get turned on myself. I don’t think they bother you. No and no.

Can she live comfortably with him?.. maybe he fully supports her?.. for me it’s just a mystery why, to live with a man and avoid sex with him?.. for what?.. she has no one to fix the faucet in the bathtub, nail a shelf or something?.. it’s somehow strange.. I’ll never understand this..

By the concept of living, TS meant that they were having sex. They live separately.

Oooh.. this is even more interesting
I must admit, I didn’t catch this at first in the text..
Maybe this girl and the author are comrades?)) Maybe they served in the army together?

Lazarus33, what connects you with your girlfriend?.. what makes you date?.. you say that she very beautiful.. i.e. you admire it like in a museum, but you can’t touch it?))
Forgive my pun.. but I just sincerely don’t understand the point..

[The passage]

Maybe she’s comfortable with him live?.. maybe he fully supports her?.. for me it’s just a mystery, why live with a man and avoid sex with him?.. for what?.. she has no one to fix the faucet in the bathtub, nail a shelf or what?.. It’s somehow strange.. I’ll never understand it..

By the concept of living, TS meant that they were having sex. They live separately.

Oooh.. this is even more interesting
I must admit, I didn’t catch this at first in the text..
Maybe this girl and the author are comrades?)) Maybe they served in the army together?

Lazarus33, what connects you with your girlfriend?.. what makes you date?.. you say that she very beautiful.. i.e. you admire it like in a museum, but you can’t touch it?))
Forgive my pun.. but I just sincerely don’t understand the point..

He thinks that sex twice a month for a year and a half is a relationship. He didn’t promise a stamp in the passport; apparently he thinks that he himself is already a gift for his girlfriend, and building a family is too much for her. There are millions of years of life ahead and there is no need to rush.
Why, such a relationship and such a frequency of their sex suited them for a year and a half, and now he suddenly began to think incomprehensibly? Although there are topics here when people think about not having sex after 4 years. The reaction is slow to the point of absurdity.

[rum]

Or maybe the girl had an unsuccessful sexual experience in the past, so unsuccessful that the very thought of sex is disgusting? Or she has such wild fantasies in terms of sex that she is not sure whether her partner will understand, and ordinary sex is not interesting to her. Have you tried to thoroughly understand her past and understand what she really is...? Well, this of course requires great patience and desire.

[6996]

Or maybe the girl had an unsuccessful sexual experience in the past, so unsuccessful that the very thought of sex is disgusting? Or she has such wild fantasies in terms of sex that she is not sure whether her partner will understand, and ordinary sex is not interesting to her. Have you tried to thoroughly understand her past and understand what she really is...? Well, this of course requires great patience and desire.

It’s not worth the candle. Waste a lot of time, energy and nerves, without a clear win in the end. It may turn out that she is getting along with someone else somewhere.
In general, it’s definitely not worth it. It’s better like in the song, albeit cynically, but it’s true: "Why the hell am I without x.. when am I with x.. until.. ya?!"

[niqk]

Very difficult situation at TS. There are few common interests, and you’ve been dating for a year and a half... You’re burning with desire, and the girl
condescends to your attempts... You’re trying to find out what she has to say, but the girl doesn’t care... In a word, complete dead ends! So
you both need to decide. If you have both! - serious feelings, then we need to work together to find a way out. For example, contact a psychotherapist, because the girl may have purely psychological problems regarding sex.
For example, she was raised under the slogan: sex is too dirty for a good girl to do it... What if
You are just spending time with each other, then friendly sex helps to while away it without much stress. Well, when you yourself don’t know why you need all this, then it’s better not to waste your time and look for a more suitable partner!

[Gudgeon]

When they have been dating for a year and a half

Men should decide faster.

they have been dating for a year or more, this is not a relationship

What wonderful nonsense! Before marriage, mine and I “dated” for 3 years (and two of them lived together). Then they got married and have been together for 10 years. There is a child. And everyone is happy. And there are a sea of ​​such families. A strong marriage for those who took a closer look, checked and firmly decided that this is it - the very person with whom it is worth connecting your life. And marriages half a year after meeting, purely based on hormones and first emotions, very often end in divorce.

[Rtrc]

There is no point in being patient. If the sexual constitutions are different (i.e. the frequency needs are different). We need to look for another
partner. If now he gives 2 times a month, then what will happen then? Twice a year?

[The passage]

When they have been dating for a year and a half

Men should make up their minds faster.

they have been dating for a year or more, this is not a relationship

What wonderful nonsense! Before marriage, mine and I “dated” for 3 years (and two of them lived together). Then they got married and have been together for 10 years. There is a child. And everyone is happy. And there are a sea of ​​such families. A strong marriage for those who took a closer look, checked and firmly decided that this is it - the very person with whom it is worth connecting your life. And marriages half a year after meeting, purely on hormones and first emotions, very often end in divorce.

Happy together? Why are you sitting on a porn forum? Are you faking?
If each man looks closely for five years, then there are literally 4 men and it’s too late to give birth. If your wife had not met an onanist, we would not have been together for 10 years. Although life with a wanker cannot be called happiness.
If a man doesn’t propose for six months, then you can give up on him.

[6996]

When they have been dating for a year and a half

Men should make up their minds faster.

Dating for a year or more, this is not a relationship

What wonderful nonsense! Before marriage, mine and I “dated” for 3 years (and two of them lived together). Then they got married and have been together for 10 years. There is a child. And everyone is happy. And there are a sea of ​​such families. A strong marriage for those who took a closer look, checked and firmly decided that this is it - the very person with whom it is worth connecting your life. And marriages half a year after meeting, purely on hormones and first emotions, very often end in divorce.

Happy together? Why are you sitting on a porn forum? Are you faking?
If each man looks closely for five years, then there are literally 4 men and it’s too late to give birth. If your wife had not met an onanist, we would not have been together for 10 years. Although life with a wanker cannot be called happiness.
If a man doesn’t propose for six months, then you can give up on him.

Fuck funny conclusions It seems that before this the messages were quite adequate and here it is...

[rum]

Happy together? Why are you sitting on a porn forum? Are you faking?
If each man looks closely for five years, then there are literally 4 men and it’s too late to give birth. If your wife had not met an onanist, we would not have been together for 10 years. Although life with a wanker cannot be called happiness.
If a man doesn’t propose for six months, then you can give up on him.

That’s it, I I proposed to mine on the first date, that is, immediately after the first sex, because I understood that she was a person for life, for creating a normal family, she would be a good mother and wife, I was not mistaken. After some time, I began to carefully introduce my missus to my sexual desires, they found a compromise, and I splash out the most perverted fantasies along with sperm in the bathroom on a photograph, again, of my wife or on the forums

[The passage]

Happy together? Why are you sitting on a porn forum? Are you faking?
If each man looks closely for five years, then there are literally 4 men and it’s too late to give birth. If your wife had not met an onanist, we would not have been together for 10 years. Although life with a wanker cannot be called happiness.
If a man doesn’t propose for six months, then you can give up on him.

That’s it, I I proposed to mine on the first date, that is, immediately after the first sex, because I understood that she was a person for life, for creating a normal family, she would be a good mother and wife, I was not mistaken. After some time, I began to carefully introduce my missus to my sexual desires, they found a compromise, and I splash out the most perverted fantasies along with sperm in the bathroom on a photograph, again, of my wife or on the forums

You knew what you wanted and you are a mature man, while childish ones are afraid of responsibility. And, some even stop developing somewhere in the 5th-6th grade. Intelligence at the level of a child and a child’s life. They don’t even need sex, masturbation is enough.
A woman needs to give birth to her first child before the age of 30, because the reproductive system is aging. Men do not bear children, but their age also affects the health and development of the unborn child. What are they waiting for? It’s okay, they feel more comfortable that way. They live for themselves.
Well, the woman doesn’t know that she has come across an infantile man, so she waits and hopes. Don’t wait.

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What wonderful nonsense! Before marriage, mine and I “dated” for 3 years (and two of them lived together). Then they got married and have been together for 10 years. There is a child. And everyone is happy. And there are a sea of ​​such families. A strong marriage for those who took a closer look, checked and firmly decided that this is it - the very person with whom it is worth connecting your life. And marriages half a year after meeting, purely on hormones and first emotions, very often end in divorce.

Happy together? Why are you sitting on a porn forum? Are you faking?
If each man looks closely for five years, then there are literally 4 men and it’s too late to give birth. If your wife had not met an onanist, we would not have been together for 10 years. Although life with a wanker cannot be called happiness.
If a man doesn’t propose for six months, then you can give up on him.

Fuck funny conclusions It seems that before this the messages were quite adequate and here it is...

Don’t be surprised. You would like to live for decades with one, then with another, then with a third. Test period. Convenient, isn’t it?

[Lazarus33]

Happy together? Why are you sitting on a porn forum? Are you faking?
If each man looks closely for five years, then there are literally 4 men and it’s too late to give birth. If your wife had not met an onanist, we would not have been together for 10 years. Although life with a wanker cannot be called happiness.
If a man doesn’t propose for six months, then you can give up on him.

Mademoiselle, but on the porn forum Can only single people sit? What then have couples forgotten about here (following your logic)? It sounds one-sided.
Not all the pitfalls come out in half a year. This, for me personally, of course, looks like a simple necessity for the stamp “simply because others have it.” No, don’t get me wrong - this also happens. However, not all. If, for example, you are not against a prenuptial agreement, and divorce is also in the order of things for you, then yes, it is possible in half a year. People are different.

[The passage]

Happy together? Why are you sitting on a porn forum? Are you faking?
If each man looks closely for five years, then there are literally 4 men and it’s too late to give birth. If your wife had not met an onanist, we would not have been together for 10 years. Although life with a wanker cannot be called happiness.
If a man doesn’t propose for six months, then you can give up on him.

Mademoiselle, but on the porn forum Can only single people sit? What then have couples forgotten about here (following your logic)? It sounds one-sided.
Not all the pitfalls come out in half a year. This, for me personally, of course, looks like a simple necessity for the stamp “simply because others have it.” No, don’t get me wrong - this also happens. However, not all. If, for example, you are not against a prenuptial agreement, and divorce is also in the order of things for you, then yes, it is possible in half a year. People are different.

If couples are not sitting here together, it means there are problems in the marriage and they are missing something. Mostly probably emotions. But such a marriage cannot be called happy.
What are the pitfalls? Give an example?
If the relationship is not legalized, then what plans can be made for the future? Well, a marriage contract in our country is for people with great income. For those who have a mortgage and live from paycheck to paycheck, why do they need a prenuptial agreement?

[Gudgeon]

Happy together?

Very much so!

Why are you sitting on the porn forum?

I have already answered this question, but I can do it again. There are no one hundred percent compatible people. There are things I can’t or don’t want to discuss with her. That’s why I’m interested here. Again masturbation she is not sex, only you feel yourself. Therefore, no matter how much sex you have, sometimes you also need it yourself Again, there are cases when sex is impossible (from menstruation and illness to pregnancy or just "tired"). So, let’s say we’re 95% compatible, and I’d rather get the missing 5% here than hang around with whores, for example. This is how I prioritize myself.

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If a man doesn’t propose for six months, then you can give up on him.

Okay, I laughed, but I won’t convince you otherwise. Everyone has their own cockroaches in their head

they are missing something. Mostly probably emotions. But such a marriage can no longer be called happy

Z.Y. I bet you are single and most likely divorced. Because you have very strange ideas about married life... You don’t have flowers all your life and you always have enough of everything, including emotions. Marriage is a search for compromises and joint problem solving, work that results in positive emotions and spiritual intimacy. And not at all their absence of problems as such. There are illnesses, there is everyday life, there are children, all this imposes restrictions on “I want.” And the only question is how you deal with it.

[The passage]

Happy together?

Very much so!

Why are you sitting on the porn forum?

I have already answered this question, but I can do it again. There are no one hundred percent compatible people. There are things I can’t or don’t want to discuss with her. That’s why I’m interested here. Again masturbation she is not sex, only you feel yourself. Therefore, no matter how much sex you have, sometimes you also need it yourself Again, there are cases when sex is impossible (from menstruation and illness to pregnancy or just "tired"). So, let’s say we’re 95% compatible, and I’d rather get the missing 5% here than hang around with whores, for example. This is how I prioritize myself.

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If a man doesn’t propose for six months, then you can give up on him.

Okay, I laughed, but I won’t convince you otherwise. Everyone has their own cockroaches in their head

I completely agree about the sensations and compatibility, and that the relationship Marriage is hard work and priorities are also important. But, there are a few things.
Firstly masturbationmen and women have different things. If a woman masturbated today, then nothing will stop her from having sex. Unless you have your own lubrication, but lubrication is not a problem. In the pharmacy, for every taste and color. But if a man masturbates, then he will no longer have a full erection, or maybe not at all. And not only today, but possibly tomorrow. The habit of using his own hand subsequently gives rise to problems that he cannot cum for a long time or in general the vagina becomes too wide for him. And then women will not excite him, only fantasies, and the cockroaches in his head will breed in huge numbers, as the brain will require more and more sophisticated stimuli, and the emotional component will degrade.
And, regarding the period in which people recognize each other. A man must have objective requirements and evaluation criteria. What he wants. If he wants sex often, but he doesn’t have it. So, you shouldn’t wait a year and a half. Two or three months is enough to understand that temperaments are different. If he is used to order in the house, and chaos is not a hindrance to his wife, then he takes care of order himself or is looking for another life partner. If he loves to eat delicious food, but his wife doesn’t know how to cook and doesn’t learn how to do it, there are also two options. Cook for him himself or look further. Half a year is enough to understand whether you found what you were looking for or not. Only, more often than not, it turns out that we have sex and wash the man and stroke him and feed him, but he’s like a cat. No obligations. He doesn’t want the stamp and he doesn’t want to leave. He’s messing with the girl’s head.
What have you been looking at for 3 years, what did you doubt? Just please write specifically. What cannot be understood in six months and must be waited for years?

[Barmaleykin_47]

As they say, no sex - fucked family!

[The passage]

As they say, no sex - fucked up the family!

Spouses have been caring for years for their companions who have become disabled. Without any sex, material or mercantile interest. Moreover, if the tragedy is not a consequence of trauma, then wives often take care of their husbands. Sex is not the most important thing in life, although it is not the least important.

[6996]

Don’t be surprised. You would like to live for decades with one, then with another, then with a third. Test period. Convenient, isn’t it?

And again some exits. Why are they? I didn’t even express my opinion. Or, as always:"I came up with it myself, I was offended!"?

[Barmaleykin_47]

As they say, no sex - fucked up the family!

Spouses have been caring for years for their companions who have become disabled. Without any sex, material or mercantile interest. Moreover, if the tragedy is not a consequence of trauma, then wives often take care of their husbands. Sex is not the most important thing in life, although it is not the last.

Don’t generalize! We are not talking about such relationships now!

[The passage]

Don’t be surprised. You would like to live for decades with one, then with another, then with a third. Test period. Convenient, isn’t it?

And again some exits. Why are they? I didn’t even express my opinion. Or as always:"I came up with it myself, I was offended!"?

Don’t be surprised. You would like to live for decades with one, then with another, then with a third. Test period. Convenient, isn’t it?

And again some exits. Why are they? I didn’t even express my opinion. Or, as always:"I came up with it myself, I was offended!"?

I was not offended. Tell us, why wait more than six months? What is impossible to understand in six months?

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As they say, no sex - fucked up the family!

Spouses have been caring for years for their companions who have become disabled. Without any sex, material or mercantile interest. Moreover, if the tragedy is not a consequence of trauma, then wives often take care of their husbands. Sex is not the most important thing in life, although it is not the last.

Don’t generalize! We are not talking about such relationships now!

But what kind? About very nerdy men who have sex twice a month for a year and a half and suddenly he wonders what to do? More about very slow men who spend 3 years looking at each other?
Do you have a car? Did you go to a car dealership for three years before buying it? And then they looked at the broken one for a year and a half, hoping that it would fix itself?
What kind of absurdities are they writing here?

[niqk]

Each participant in the discussion has a very one-sided approach. Ladies blame gentlemen for all their problems, and gentlemen blame ladies for theirs. And no one says a word about the main thing - about LOVE!!! Clearly no one understands that
if there are no deep feelings for your partner, then no marriage will work! There will be a more or less long-term partnership
based on mutual satisfaction of needs. And not only sexual ones! If mutual understanding and mutual satisfaction are achieved, then such a partnership can last a lifetime! True, going to the left, scandals and showdowns and other problems cannot be ruled out here. But such problems are possible for any couple. Therefore, you need to be able
to find solutions to all problems together. And without blaming the other side...

[Gudgeon]

Do you have a car? Did you go to a car dealership for three years before buying it?

Yes, three. I chose models for a long time, a couple of months for sure. But a car is a piece of hardware, you can’t live with it. I didn’t like it - I threw it away (I mean, I sold it). I fix them myself right away. But it’s somehow strange to compare marriage with the purchase of hardware.

What kind of absurdities are they writing here

This is right on point! )

[6996]

I wasn’t offended. Tell us, why wait more than six months? What is it impossible to understand in six months?

Yes, six months is nothing at all. Especially if there is passion and hormones are in full swing. You can look at the statistics on divorces and one of the reasons is unnecessary haste.

[Victor Peter]

It will get worse. I know from my own experience!

[Gudgeon]

What have you been looking at for 3 years, what did you doubt? Just please write specifically.

We are very different. By character, by temperament, by looks, even by tastes in food or music... even by sleep (I’m a night owl, she’s a lark). And we both looked closely at each other to understand whether we would eventually kill each other because of such differences Even in relation to children: I wanted at the time we met, she was not ready then (now both are glad that they have it).
Again, half a year is a candy-bouquet period, at this time all the pitfalls and internal disagreements and irritations are smoothed out by off-scale emotions and hormones. And when it all calms down a little, it all comes out. The first half of the year is not always an indicator of whether you will get along in the future.

[The passage]

Do you have a car? Did you go to a car dealership for three years before buying it?

Yes, three. I chose models for a long time, a couple of months for sure. But a car is a piece of hardware, you can’t live with it. I didn’t like it - I threw it away (I mean, I sold it). I fix them myself right away. But it’s somehow strange to compare marriage with the purchase of hardware.

What kind of absurdities are they writing here

This is right on point! )

Well, why did you choose a couple of months and not a couple of years? Of course my example doesn’t fit here. When you live together, you don’t choose, but already drive a car, but you’re thinking whether to buy or not buy. Why buy? You can continue to travel.
And what to compare with? Well, let’s compare it with shoes. We bought shoes that we liked in appearance, but they were too tight. You took it in the hope that you would spread it. They haven’t taken it out in six months, why wait? This is about a vehicle who has been wearing uncomfortable shoes for a year and a half.
And, of course, your position is beneficial for you. This woman’s years go by quickly. The years in which she can bear and give birth to a child are easier than when she reaches 30. And, at 20, she is more noticeable, more desirable, more in demand by the male sex. Over the years, until you reach 40, you become, on the contrary, more attractive. If you look after yourself.
You are certainly not slow, but rather cunning. This can be compared to an employer who, instead of the usual month or several months of probation, offers you several years. It doesn’t seem to be a big deal, but you always have a doubt that they won’t throw you out onto the street after these years of work. People around you put moral pressure on you, affectionately calling you an intern and asking when will you finally become a specialist. Material reward is symbolic. Of course, you will ask, why so much?, but he will only sincerely smile at you and say. - This is a serious matter. Oh, you tell him that you are working for real... Oh, he is for you, but what are you really like? Why do you need a labor record? Will you work with an indefinite probationary period?

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What have you been looking at for 3 years, what did you doubt? Just please write specifically.

We are very different. By character, by temperament, by looks, even by tastes in food or music... even by sleep (I’m a night owl, she’s a lark). And we both looked closely at each other to understand whether we would eventually kill each other because of such differences Even in relation to children: I wanted at the time we met, she was not ready then (now both are glad that they have it).
Again, half a year is a candy-bouquet period, at this time all the pitfalls and internal disagreements and irritations are smoothed out by off-scale emotions and hormones. And when it all calms down a little, it all comes out. The first half of the year is not always an indicator of whether you will get along in the future.

Whether you got along or not can only be determined by the death of one of the spouses, because People get divorced after 10 years, 20 and 30.

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I was not offended. Tell us, why wait more than six months? What is it impossible to understand in six months?

Yes, six months is nothing at all. Especially if there is passion and hormones are in full swing. You can look at the statistics on divorce and one of the reasons is unnecessary haste.

The reason for divorce is not haste. Cheating on one of the spouses comes first. Alcoholism is second.

[6996]

The reason for divorce is not haste. Cheating on one of the spouses comes first. Alcoholism is in second place.

So this is the essence of almost any person will not fully open up in six months.

[The passage]

The reason for divorce is not haste. Cheating on one of the spouses comes first. Alcoholism is in second place.

So this is the essence of almost any person will not fully open up in six months.

A person may not open up at all, throughout his life, if you are not interested. I saw a program where they give points for knowing your partner’s habits. There were partners who knew more or less well, but were more often mistaken. Moreover, men are more likely than girls.
My husband gave me roses all the time. Well, as a gift, on others. And he was so sincerely surprised that I liked lilies better. I don’t know why, but he was just sure that I loved roses. What do men learn?

[Rtrc]

Don’t waste your time. If there is no sex (or joy from sex), life will not be good. Neither you nor her.
It is better to run away quickly and find a mate according to your temperament.
The sexual constitution is different for everyone, so it would be more logical to find one in the image and likeness.

[FUCKYAMATERITY]

In your experience, is there any point in enduring a lack of sex for the sake of building a relationship?

Why? Even minor differences in temperament can be problematic for a relationship. It has already been correctly noted that there is no reason to hope that things will get better on their own, it will most likely get worse. My “ex” wasn’t always enough for me, although I wasn’t on a starvation diet, I still had to go outside. This was not the reason for the separation, but one of the factors.

[Sibiryak89]

I agree Nick said, you don’t have love, falling in love with a body, beauty is not for the family, it’s for going out to a restaurant, showing it to friends, let them envy them too, think about how he fucks her, but there’s nothing to envy, no sex, no joint life and not your wife My opinion is that she is getting money on the side, Marinka, as a woman did the deal, what are you you hope it’s a big question, but what does her brain do to you is 99.9%.
Either leave her with her cockroaches or find an unloading body, otherwise you’ll get out of the habit, and sex, like a sport, you always need to train, something- to be in shape. I wish you good luck

[FUCKYAMATERITY]

My opinion is that she gets money on the side

Not necessarily, not everyone suffers from the rarity of sex. True, sometimes more interest appears over time.