How to cancel correspondence with couples (and not only) if you don’t like the photos

[artfelixx]

I want to know your opinion. What do you do in the following situation?
Correspondence with the couple begins: we get to know each other, exchange pleasantries. Next, as a rule, is an exchange of photos. We receive a photo - and, OH HORROR!! Both of us, or one of us, don’t like the photo. What do you do next?

- Silently stop the correspondence;
- Write a caustic comment about the photo you received;
- Write that the couple is not your thing taste / age category / weight category / any other reason;
- Your answer options

In such a situation we write something like this: "We received the photo. Thank you very much" , "We won’t suit you" or "We won’t be able to get to know you." That’s all. Adequate people understand everything correctly, but inadequate people begin to "poke" with various questions, such as "Well, what, did you like us? or "And when will we meet"... "Why won’t our acquaintance work out?"
We try not to answer anything.

[Gudgeon]

Damn... I read the title, wrote such a long answer and only then saw "with couples"... I don’t know whether to answer honestly, Maybe.

[artfelixx]

Gudgeon, corrected the title )))
on correspondence with singles, the opinion is also interesting

[Gudgeon]

Well, this is my opinion. I will write about girls, because... I didn’t have to deal with the couples. What to do with guys, well, it’s about the same, they are people too.
My opinion will not be popular, but honesty is the best remedy. And honesty flavored with a light but sweet lie... even better
Do it as a compliment. Notice something outstanding about her (long gorgeous hair, size 3 breasts, gorgeous ass, blue eyes), and say that this is too much for you. Like, I’m the kind of person who likes girls with... (small tits, short hair, narrow butts, brown eyes)... h.z. you must say something that will give her a reason to think that she is better than you love. Or a universal method (in cases where outwardly there is nothing to be found there): "You are smart and I feel too stupid next to you, I can’t do that" (works almost always, the main thing is not to get caught by someone who is really smart, otherwise this nonsense won’t work), "you’re so successful that it seems to me like I’m a loser, sorry." In short, when refusing, emphasize your merits. not flaws. You won’t lose money, but the person will be pleased.

Now about your options:
1) Silently stop the correspondence - well, so-so, you can offend a person, but you don’t choose your appearance, it /they don’t deserve it.
2) Write a caustic comment about the photo you received - only scumbags do that, alas. Well, girls a la "I am a princess" - a very common phenomenon is arrogance due to the presence of a beautiful appearance (by the way, even more often, this is the female version of scum). Even if a person doesn’t turn you on outwardly, mocking him is the last thing. He/she already knows that if you are not a sex symbol, kicking someone where it hurts is bestiality. Again... For some, it may just be squeaky and chic, but you are ruining the person’s self-esteem.
3) If you write that the couple is not to your taste/age category/weight category/any other reason - you can, but not gracefully. Those. It will work, yes, but there will be a residue. Several similar refusals and hello complexes. So it seems like I don’t care about outsiders, but personally I don’t want to be the one who gives them a start.
4) My version is higher.
5) "We write something like this: "We received the photo. Thank you very much", "We won’t suit you" or "We won’t be able to get to know you." - yes it will do, the main thing is not to develop why.
Z.Y. And there is another option that is not related to the topic. To refuse girls who showed interest. Something like "you’re very attractive, I’d like to spend more time with you, but I’m married/in a relationship, sorry." It won’t offend anyone. Although it’s probably fashionable now to refuse as harshly as possible with humiliation... I don’t understand this fashion

[vrrrummm]

Gudgeon wrote it beautifully, there’s not even anything to add.

[Couple 33]

We write that we’re sorry, it’s not to our taste.

[XiaH]

Gudgeon, well, this is just the approach of an empathic intellectual Many couples should learn, otherwise we came across unceremonious ones. There was also a particularly cynical couple who, after a threesome, which by the way was quite successful as I for my part was able to assess, was simply added to ignore without explanation

[Gudgeon]

Well, I don’t understand such people... Well, write at least something. Ignoring is an escape for cowards.

[The passage]

I want to know your opinion. What do you do in the following situation?
Correspondence with the couple begins: we get to know each other, exchange pleasantries. Next, as a rule, is an exchange of photos. We receive a photo - and, OH HORROR!! Both of us, or one of us, don’t like the photo. What do you do next?

- Silently stop the correspondence;
- Write a caustic comment about the photo you received;
- Write that the couple is not your thing taste / age category / weight category / any other reason;
- Your answer options

In such a situation we write something like this: "We received the photo. Thank you very much" , "We won’t suit you" or "We won’t be able to get to know you." That’s all. Adequate people understand everything correctly, but inadequate people begin to "poke" with various questions, such as "Well, what, did you like us? or "And when will we meet"... "Why won’t our acquaintance work out?"
We try not to answer anything.

Write the truth, in a tactful form, but it’s better to tell the truth The fact that they are not suitable for you will understand.

[Kayfolov]

I myself am fat and it is very difficult for us to find a couple to meet with, I am used to the fact that after exchanging photos they either simply stop communicating or write that they are not their type. Although I warn you about this right away. And I take it quite calmly. But being ignored is more unpleasant, it’s better to answer honestly.

[Shalun70]

Kayfolov,
You’re right.. . it’s much more humiliating when there is no answer... Well, don’t have complexes about weight... people are different... there are fat people out there...

[6996]

After Minnow, there is nothing to add
Oh yes Minnow, oh yes son of a bitch!

[Gudgeon]

Well... you know...

[XiaH]

The gudgeon’s answer can be displayed in a separate pinned topic with the golden fund of forum quotes))) And there you can also add another forum member’s brilliant answer to how to properly go down the drain)))

[Vladtsst]

There was correspondence and exchange of photos. The man’s wife is very attractive. But it was very difficult to communicate. Difference in time. When the person was ready to correspond, it was already late at night and I wanted to sleep. I honestly answered that I could no longer communicate due to the time difference.

[Hat]

It’s better to be honest and explain why they are not suitable for you. A sane person will immediately lag behind