Briefly about me, I’m not handsome, I stutter a little, an introvert, a programmer by build, and after a fight my eye crosses in some positions. I was very modest since childhood; I lost my virginity at 21. In the period from 23 to 26, I had more than 100 girls in bed. What I mean is that you don’t have to be a beefy handsome guy to find a girl.
The main problem in my life was that I was a good guy, and girls preferred to only be friends with me rather than build relationships/sleep .And as you know, there is no way out of the friend zone. But everything changed after watching the films "Scott Pilgrim vs. the World" and "Revolver." I highly recommend watching them. From the film about Pilgrim, I realized that even if Michael Cera could shoot such a beauty, then why can’t I? And after watching the revolver, I understood the main rules of the game (quotes from the film):
1. In any game there is always an opponent and there is always a victim. The whole trick is to realize in time that you have become second and become first.
2. If the opponent is truly good, then he will drive the victim into a situation that he can control. And the closer it is to reality, the easier it is to control. Find the victim’s weak spot and give her a little of what she really wants. Distract the victim while he writhes in the arms of his own greed.
So. I realized that in all my past acquaintances I always played the role of a hunter, I tried to be active, persistent, resisted the friend zone - but in this field I will always be outplayed by a redneck athlete. Therefore, we need to change the rules of the game.
I started meeting girls on VK, Tinder and stopped being persistent, I stopped bringing up the topic of sex and began to strive for the friend zone, or rather, I tried to throw girls into the friend zone myself. During the conversation, of course, I complimented my interlocutor, but I also sent her photos of other girls and talked about my relationships with them. Any girl wants to be desired, any girl (especially a beautiful one) gets used to the fact that everyone wants her, she gets used to it. And when she doesn’t get what she wants, she realizes that they look at her as a friend and don’t see the girl, then she breaks down. She becomes a huntress, in order to increase her self-esteem, SHE needs to seduce you. There will be attacks, nudes with the words “I think I have ugly breasts,” and requests to install Windows. And this is what we want.
At the moment of self-esteem breaking, a girl can be offended and ignored for days, the main thing is not to run after her, we just wait until she gets jealous and comes back. Healthy ignoring of a girl is always beneficial
Methodology:
Step one: Let’s meet on the Internet. VK search single/Active search or Tinder (if you are afraid of a bad reputation, then look for girls in the nearest villages/cities). VK works better (but now everyone has private profiles); It’s better to get acquainted on some abstract topic: You see that she loves rock "Hi, I’m looking through your audio and my respects, you have great taste" and then chat about music. Or you find a post about saving a cat in a city public page, look at the comments, choose a victim and chat with her about how you would execute the flayers and save all the stray cats) You need to get to know a lot, you need to understand that out of 30 applications, God forbid, 10 will respond. From them, communication will work out support at best with 5. It will be easier to get acquainted with experience, and the availability of a person can be determined by ava. Extremely active, sociable girls are best suited.Step two: you need to become a great friend, be able to listen, understand what worries her, gain confidence. Here you need to be a good conversationalist, I advise you to read a couple of books, watch enough films, and consciously study each dialogue. This will make you a more interesting conversationalist. This is the longest step and the most important. Try to be nice, cool and not clingy, don’t be jealous. But most importantly, don’t show any romantic/sexual interest in her. She is a genderless friend
Step three: when the girl begins to trust you, she tells you her secrets. Then it’s time to start breaking it. Tell us that you met an amazing girl, very beautiful, with a nut-shaped ass and very beautiful deep eyes. You have never seen eyes of such beauty. It is desirable that this girl is real, and you really had something with her. I had a conveyor belt. To the girl I am processing I sent photo of the girl which I have already processed; At this stage, it is important to show that you are in demand and you are popular. This will arouse interest in you as a romantic object.
Step 4: Reduce the frequency of communication . You say that you spent the night with a girl and she did something unimaginable to you. Share intimate details and finish off with the phrase “I’m incredibly glad that I have a friend like you. With whom you can discuss everything, just like with a man, without any sexual attraction.” At this step, the girl should get the idea that you are a sought-after man who is walking past her. This thought will not please her, there will be jealousies, hysterics, she will try to make you jealous and so on. Do not pay attention and do not give in
Step 5: the fruit is ripe and needs to be collected. We need to give her the opportunity to be a hunter. A lot depends on the girl here: someone will simply invite you for tea and meet you naked, someone will start hinting at how she misses sex, there can be many options and the main thing is not to agree right away and play the victim until the end, but at the right moment you also need to be careful. For example, I had a case when a girl at step 5 began to tell me that she wanted to give a blowjob in a movie theater, I told her that she was too modest for this and would never dare to do it. In the end, she and I bet on a box of Raffaello, went to the cinema and I was lucky to lose).
There is nothing complicated here; with experience, all these steps are greatly accelerated. Don’t be afraid of refusals, there will be a lot of them, send tons of applications. Even if out of 100 applications 1 sleeps with you, then this is already a success (in real life the statistics are 1k30). Trying costs nothing. It doesn’t take much time to maintain communication and invite friends. With most of the girls, we had sex already at the first meeting, because before the meeting we only chatted, even though we lived in the same city;
Again, this is not an ideal method, but it helped me a lot
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I hope my experience will help someone: Be good friends and fuck more ;




