If your boyfriend doesn't like sex, will you leave him?

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For example, I don’t like sex, sex is like a sport, but I don’t like sports - it’s physically difficult. Secondly, my penis is insensitive, and I move it back and forth in the vagina and feel almost nothing, I tried it with different girls and never experienced an orgasm. It happened that he looked at her from behind and jerked off his penis and was able to get an orgasm, but the orgasm was weak. Rubbing with your fingers, without lubrication, in the right place is much more pleasant than in the tender vagina, masturbation has already been perfected over the years. Thirdly, I have been regularly watching porn and jerking off my penis for many years, so it is difficult to surprise my brain with anything, it is difficult to get aroused by live sex, from live sex my penis rises weakly and soon falls. I get more or less excited from porn videos (I’m just looking for very hot videos or something new and unusual), I regularly jerk off several times a week. and on vacation even a couple of times a day and usually I get a pleasant orgasm from the hand (although sometimes it happens that both from porn and from the hand the orgasm is weak).

And in this regard, a question for the girls.

Suppose you have a boyfriend like me, who is not interested in sex with you, will you leave him? or do you also satisfy yourself on your own and don’t need sex from a guy?

For the sake of fairness, I will say that I like to hug and caress sometimes.
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If sex is not important to a woman, then she will continue to live with you. Hungry for sex and will find sex on the side. An acquaintance went out of town and accidentally saw his wife in a car with a man.
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there are plenty of frigid women who don’t need sex at all, and the statistics of orgasmic women are generally sad. Many people only learn to cum normally after 30 and start training with all sorts of Kegels and so on. You don’t have to worry about this and just look for the same one, for whom it will be enough to cuddle, hug and tactile closeness.
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Yes, there are a lot of frigid people now. Especially among child-free ones. They are content with purely friendly communication without sex...
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romanbon: 19 Feb 2023, 05:51 For example, I don’t like sex, sex is like a sport, but I don’t like sports - it’s physically difficult. Secondly, my penis is insensitive, and I move it back and forth in the vagina and feel almost nothing, I tried it with different girls and never experienced an orgasm. It happened that he looked at her from behind and jerked off his penis and was able to get an orgasm, but the orgasm was weak. Rubbing with your fingers, without lubrication, in the right place is much more pleasant than in the tender vagina, masturbation has already been perfected over the years. Thirdly, I have been regularly watching porn and jerking off my penis for many years, so it is difficult to surprise my brain with anything, it is difficult to get aroused by live sex, from live sex my penis rises weakly and soon falls. I get more or less excited from porn videos (I’m just looking for very hot videos or something new and unusual), I regularly jerk off several times a week. and on vacation even a couple of times a day and usually I get a pleasant orgasm from the hand (although sometimes it happens that both from porn and from the hand the orgasm is weak).

And in this regard, a question for the girls.

Suppose you have a boyfriend like me, who is not interested in sex with you, will you leave him? or do you also satisfy yourself on your own and don’t need sex from a guy?

To be fair, I’ll say that I like to hug and be caressed sometimes.
If you don’t need sex, then why do you need a girl? To pay the rent in half? This is not sarcasm. I seriously don’t understand.
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Marinka, I just need company in life! One person is simply bored: he wants to talk to
someone, share something, drink some tea and generally...
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niqk: 19 Feb 2023, 08:35 Marinka, I just need a company for life! One person is simply bored: he wants to talk to
someone, share something, drink tea and generally...
Maybe be so.
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If it weren’t for this, who the hell would come to the forum...
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Marinka: 19 Feb 2023, 08:21 If you don’t need sex, then why do you need a girl? To pay the rent in half? This is not sarcasm. I seriously don’t understand.
I don’t know. may not be needed. I live alone and rent an apartment alone. Just like that, any girl is definitely not needed. It would probably be good with someone with mutual sympathy and interest. but I have no experience of mutual living. more precisely, it was, but she lived in the next room and we didn’t really communicate, just hello bye. she was not my type and I just rented a room in a two-room apartment. this is different. Why do I need a girl, it’s probably interesting to try, what if I like to live together so that there are close relationships and mutual sympathy. Perhaps I need to have a child, but I’m not financially ready, it will probably be very noisy and difficult, I’m putting off this question.
But why should a girl need me?
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romanbon: 19 Feb 2023, 08:39
Marinka: 19 Feb 2023, 08:21 If you don’t need sex, then why do you need a girl? To pay the rent in half? This is not sarcasm. I seriously don’t understand.
I don’t know. may not be needed. I live alone and rent an apartment alone. Just like that, any girl is definitely not needed. It would probably be good with someone with mutual sympathy and interest. but I have no experience of mutual living. more precisely, it was, but she lived in the next room and we didn’t really communicate, just hello bye. she was not my type and I just rented a room in a two-room apartment. this is different. Why do I need a girl, it’s probably interesting to try, what if I like to live together so that there are close relationships and mutual sympathy. Perhaps I need to make a child, but I’m not financially ready, it will probably be very noisy and difficult, I’m putting off this question.
But why should a girl need me?
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Marinka: 19 Feb 2023, 08:41 Are you not from Nizhny Novgorod?
no, but what?
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romanbon: 19 Feb 2023, 08:51
Marinka: 19 Feb 2023, 08:41 Are you not from Nizhny Novgorod?
no, but what?
You reminded me of a young man.
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romanbon: 19 Feb 2023, 05:51 For example, I don’t like sex, sex is like a sport, but I don’t like sports - it’s physically difficult. Secondly, my penis is insensitive, and I move it back and forth in the vagina and feel almost nothing, I tried it with different girls and never experienced an orgasm. It happened that he looked at her from behind and jerked off his penis and was able to get an orgasm, but the orgasm was weak. Rubbing with your fingers, without lubrication, in the right place is much more pleasant than in the tender vagina, masturbation has already been perfected over the years. Thirdly, I have been regularly watching porn and jerking off my penis for many years, so it is difficult to surprise my brain with anything, it is difficult to get aroused by live sex, from live sex my penis rises weakly and soon falls. I get more or less excited from porn videos (I’m just looking for very hot videos or something new and unusual), I regularly jerk off several times a week. and on vacation even a couple of times a day and usually I get a pleasant orgasm from the hand (although sometimes it happens that both from porn and from the hand the orgasm is weak).

And in this regard, a question for the girls.

Suppose you have a boyfriend like me, who is not interested in sex with you, will you leave him? or do you also satisfy yourself on your own and don’t need sex from a guy?

To be fair, I’ll say that I like to hug and be caressed sometimes.
Sorry, but you have problems. Try giving up porn and masturbating less. Then your brain will rewire itself and you will have a good erection and start getting orgasms from sex. This is not a joke :wink:
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elrotik: 19 Feb 2023, 11:44
romanbon: 19 Feb 2023, 05:51 For example, I don’t like sex, sex is like a sport, but I don’t like sports - it’s physically difficult. Secondly, my penis is insensitive, and I move it back and forth in the vagina and feel almost nothing, I tried it with different girls and never experienced an orgasm. It happened that he looked at her from behind and jerked off his penis and was able to get an orgasm, but the orgasm was weak. Rubbing with your fingers, without lubrication, in the right place is much more pleasant than in the tender vagina, masturbation has already been perfected over the years. Thirdly, I have been regularly watching porn and jerking off my penis for many years, so it is difficult to surprise my brain with anything, it is difficult to get aroused by live sex, from live sex my penis rises weakly and soon falls. I get more or less excited from porn videos (I’m just looking for very hot videos or something new and unusual), I regularly jerk off several times a week. and on vacation even a couple of times a day and usually I get a pleasant orgasm from the hand (although sometimes it happens that both from porn and from the hand the orgasm is weak).

And in this regard, a question for the girls.

Suppose you have a boyfriend like me, who is not interested in sex with you, will you leave him? or do you also satisfy yourself on your own and don’t need sex from a guy?

To be fair, I’ll say that I like to hug and be caressed sometimes.
Sorry, but you have problems. Try giving up porn and masturbating less. Then your brain will rewire itself and you will have a good erection and start getting orgasms from sex. This is not a joke :wink:
If I understand correctly, this is not a problem for the vehicle. Everything suits him.
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Everything is just very neglected there. For him, maybe not a problem, but he clearly has problems, no matter how it sounds..) I jerked off a lot and watched porn that I can no longer want anything
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elrotik: 19 Feb 2023, 11:49 Everything is just very neglected there. For him, maybe not a problem, but he clearly has problems, no matter how it sounds..) He jerked off a lot and watched porn that he can no longer want anything
You’re right, but he physically can’t. This is erectile dysfunction.
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I would not be happy with this and would make every effort to correct the situation :roll:
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If it’s rich, there’s no point in starting. But since everything is as simple as in your situation, then just answer yourself the question: do you love your wife (girlfriend) or who you live there with? There are such people as asexuals, but you are not one of them, because masturbation is your style of intimate life. If you watch porn, there are a lot of videos where women dominate men and do things with their dicks that could give you a powerful flow of pleasure. And it’s not about the sensitivity of the penis, but about your brain and heart. Soul and mind, philosophically speaking. And the brain and impulses, hormones and pheromones, if scientifically speaking. Philosophically speaking, then you have not found your muse, which will give you so much heat and love that you only want her. Scientifically speaking, the type of pheromones that comes from your girlfriend is not suitable for you. Also, the girl doesn’t know how to stimulate you correctly. And perhaps you have hormonal problems (recommendation to get tested for vitamin D)
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Marinka: 19 Feb 2023, 11:53 only he physically cannot. This is erectile dysfunction.
Erections are normal when watching porn and jerking off with your hand. because the friction is stronger with the hand than with the vagina. and porn is also more psychologically arousing than just sex with a girl.
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I don’t understand how you can’t love sex
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romanbon: 22 Feb 2023, 09:37
Marinka: 19 Feb 2023, 11:53 only he physically cannot. This is erectile dysfunction.
Erections are normal when watching porn and jerking off with your hand. because the friction is stronger with the hand than with the vagina. and porn is also psychologically more arousing than just sex with a girl.
Erectile dysfunction is the inability of a man to maintain a sufficient level of erection for full sexual intercourse.
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Can you find out more about the young man from Nizhny Novgorod?! The world is, of course, a big place, but there are amazing coincidences.) Better by personal message. There I can explain why I’m interested. I’ll be very grateful to you. It could turn out to be an interesting plot!!!))

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Marinka: 19 Feb 2023, 08:53 You reminded me of a young man.
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Well, if you can try to build an open relationship (such as polyamory), but if it doesn’t fuck you and forbids it, then no. Although I personally believe that intimacy is one of the important components of a relationship. As they say, "Sex doesn’t matter when you have it"
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MisaMisa!: 06 Mar 2023, 04:13 Well, if you can try to build an open relationship (such as polyamory), but if it doesn’t fuck you and forbids it, then no.
Let’s say a guy doesn’t forbid you to fuck someone else. Why then would you want to be with a guy who doesn’t give a fuck? then you need to dump him and be with the one who fucks him. right?
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romanbon, In general, the question is both complex and easy at the same time.. I’ll put it more simply, if a woman wants to leave, good sex won’t hold her back, similarly, if she wants to stay, absence won’t scare her))) there are a large number of girls who are not very interested in sex at all... alas... :unknown: :unknown:
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