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If you have things to do and suddenly have the opportunity to have sex, then you:
1) Have quick sex and get down to business.
2) Put things aside and have sex.
3) Put aside sex and get busy.

How often do you have quick sex? And how does this happen for you?
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Marinka: 19 Feb 2023, 08:34 If you have things to do and suddenly have the opportunity to have sex, then you:
1) Have quick sex and get down to business.
2) Put things aside and have sex.
3) Put aside sex and get busy.

How often do you have quick sex? And how does this happen for you?
There is also a fourth option - I’ll combine sex with business!
In general, all four options - depending on mood.
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My wife doesn’t like quick sex, I usually have to adapt to my wife
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niqk: 19 Feb 2023, 08:40
Marinka: 19 Feb 2023, 08:34 If you have things to do and suddenly have the opportunity to have sex, then you:
1) Have quick sex and get down to business.
2) Put things aside and have sex.
3) Put aside sex and get busy.

How often do you have quick sex? And how does this happen for you?
There is also a fourth option - I’ll combine sex with business!
In general, all four options - depending on mood.
What a great fellow you are)
And, when they fuck me, I can’t do anything. That’s why I ended up with only three options.
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So, depending on what’s going on...
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niqk: 19 Feb 2023, 08:44 So, depending on what’s going on...
Tell me again, depending on how and in what position they fuck. If you are standing, then you can wash the dishes at this time, right?))))
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Marinka: 19 Feb 2023, 08:46
niqk: 19 Feb 2023, 08:44 So, depending on what’s going on...
Tell me, depending on how and in what position they fuck. If you are standing, then you can wash the dishes at this time, right?))))

You never know!.. And you can cook cabbage soup, and pick out a dress for the theater, and discuss some issues on the phone with a friend, and...
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niqk: 19 Feb 2023, 08:48
Marinka: 19 Feb 2023, 08:46
niqk: 19 Feb 2023, 08:44 So, depending on what’s going on...
Tell me, depending on how and in what position they fuck. If you are standing, then you can wash the dishes at this time, right?))))

You never know!.. And you can cook cabbage soup, and pick out a dress for the theater, and discuss some issues with a friend on the phone, and...
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Marinka, in no way! For example, my wife and I discussed the problem of what gift to buy for my mother-in-law
for her anniversary. I offered to buy her a sex toy! She was stunned at first. And then they started discussing toys. And they got turned on!
And she came up with an idea during an orgasm! It turned out - pleasant with useful!
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Marinka: 19 Feb 2023, 08:34 If you have things to do and suddenly have the opportunity to have sex, then you:
1) Have quick sex and get down to business.
2) Put things aside and have sex.
3) Put aside sex and get busy.

How often do you have quick sex? And how does this happen for you?
It wasn’t quick, we usually plan in a day or two :roll:
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Spontaneous sex... Eh... This happened too... Then sex came first!
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I don’t know, I don’t know... Sex always comes first for me!
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niqk: 19 Feb 2023, 09:27 I don’t know, I don’t know... For me, sex always comes first!
what comes in second place?
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Marinka: 19 Feb 2023, 08:34 there is an opportunity to have sex
It seems to me, after all, not an opportunity, but, first of all, the desire for sex should appear
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Marinka: 19 Feb 2023, 09:35
niqk: 19 Feb 2023, 09:27 I don’t know, I don’t know... For me, sex always comes first!
what comes in second place?
And on the second there is a house... :daypyat:
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Marinka: 19 Feb 2023, 08:34 If you have things to do and suddenly have the opportunity to have sex, then you:
1) Have quick sex and get down to business.
2) Put things aside and have sex.
3) Put aside sex and get busy.

How often do you have quick sex? And how does this happen for you?
Well, what can things be like at our honorable age?
As long as they give, we must take... I don’t think the rest is important! :yes:
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roger: 19 Feb 2023, 09:41
Marinka: 19 Feb 2023, 08:34 there is an opportunity to have sex
It seems to me, after all, not an opportunity, but, first of all, the desire for sex should appear n
I wrote specifically about the opportunity. If you have the desire, but no opportunity, then there is nothing to discuss.
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Taking into account the fact that sex has not been frequent lately. Everything will have to wait. Yes, even when I was often, things can still wait. After all, if you need, for example, to wash the dishes, and then suddenly have sex... After all, if you have sex and then return to the dishes, the dishes will 100% not go anywhere. You come back after sex, and the dishes are still there... But if you give up sex and wash the dishes, then there may not be sex anymore...
And then.. Sudden sex is the coolest, the brightest. Than the one you plan in advance, three days later on Friday evening..
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d3nan: 19 Feb 2023, 10:09 Taking into account the fact that sex has not been frequent lately. Everything will have to wait. Yes, even when I was often, things can still wait. After all, if you need, for example, to wash the dishes, and then suddenly have sex... After all, if you have sex and then return to the dishes, the dishes will 100% not go anywhere. You come back after sex, and the dishes are still there... But if you give up sex and wash the dishes, then there may not be sex anymore...
And then.. Sudden sex is the coolest, the brightest. Than the one you plan in advance, three days later on Friday evening..
And what things are you ready to postpone and what are you not ready? We don’t take work into account.
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You cannot put off urgent matters))
For example, if something happened to loved ones and help is needed. The second case is if some important meeting is scheduled.. If agreed in advance, I don’t like to be late. If I promise, I try to do it. Otherwise, sex is not postponed))
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Well, all life options do occur, and most importantly, not rarely.
Well, as an example
- husband. I answered him, well, wait 15 minutes, for example, it will boil on the stove now and then....
- work. colleague, boss (for example) I’ll be fine now. And then, well, it’s time for me to type or write...
- husband. Well, let’s do it quickly, otherwise everything will be on the stove, it will burn, it will run away, etc.

So I think everyone had all the options and which of them probably happens to everyone in life more often... .
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1. If there is an opportunity, then there is no business.
Be it in youth or in retirement.
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I’ll put things aside and have sex! If you enjoy it to the fullest, at work, in the locker room, at home, at a party. And in general spontaneous sex and with a girl I don’t know well (protected, of course) This gives me a real buzz to the point of dizziness. 🤤🤤 🤤They invited me to visit the dacha, brought a friend there, cooked them a meal, barbecue, drank, and since I didn’t know the house , and my friend knew, he asked me to show where the toilet was, she came behind me, then she held me with her hand while I did the job, and then she turned me around and started sucking me with the ending in her mouth. We kissed out of excitement and then went to eat😁& #128513;🤣 The owners understood everything, but didn’t say anything, they just teased me and I sat there with goosebumps🤣 And this happens
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Marinka: 19 Feb 2023, 08:34 If you have things to do and suddenly have the opportunity to have sex, then you:
1) Have quick sex and get down to business.
2) Put things aside and have sex.
3) Put aside sex and get busy.

How often do you have quick sex? And how does this happen for you?
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d3nan: 19 Feb 2023, 10:40 You can’t put off urgent matters))
For example, if something happened to loved ones and you need help
Well, this situation is completely without discussions! Everything and everyone rushes there and runs to help.
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Marinka: 19 Feb 2023, 08:34 If you have things to do and suddenly have the opportunity to have sex, then you:
1) Have quick sex and get down to business.
2) Put things aside and have sex.
3) Put aside sex and get busy.

How often do you have quick sex? And how does this happen for you?
In my youth there was often option 1. As they say, rabbits could, under any circumstances, if they had the urge, and they often had the urge.

Now when it’s 2, and when it’s option 3, depending on what’s going on.
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Marinka: 19 Feb 2023, 08:34 If you have things to do and suddenly have the opportunity to have sex, then you:
1) Have quick sex and get down to business.
2) Put things aside and have sex.
3) Put aside sex and get busy.

How often do you have quick sex? And how does this happen for you?
Only women can have such questions and choices, a man is always looking for sex, and if such an opportunity arises, then definitely sex.
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Marinka: 19 Feb 2023, 08:46 Tell me again, depending on how and in what position they fuck. If you are standing, then you can wash the dishes at this time, right?))
My wife will watch the moment when I am washing dishes or peeling potatoes, pulls down my pants, with the words "I love it when my hands are busy!" tongue almost makes me faint. I never miss an opportunity to return the favor.
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If you suddenly want sex, but you have something to do. And if these tasks can be transferred to the husband, for example, washing, tidying, dishes or cooking, then sex first, and let the husband do the chores.
By the way, he always likes this solution to the problem.
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It depends on who you’re with, if with your wife, then sex, then business, if on the side, then you can put things off)
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Marinka: 19 Feb 2023, 08:34 If you have things to do and suddenly have the opportunity to have sex, then you:
1) Have quick sex and get down to business.
2) Put things aside and have sex.
3) Put off sex and get busy.
All of these points are very selective in fact. Not enough input. What are we talking about?
- if it’s about sex with your wife in a routine setting - either point 1 or 3;
- if it’s about sex with your wife whom you haven’t seen for a long time (for example, after returning from departure) - point 2;
- if about sex with a woman when you are unmarried - either point 1 or 2;
- if about sex with another woman when you are married - any of 3 -x depending on the circumstances.
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Marinka: 19 Feb 2023, 08:34 If you have things to do and suddenly have the opportunity to have sex, then you:
1) Have quick sex and get down to business.
2) Put things aside and have sex.
3) Put aside sex and get busy.

How often do you have quick sex? And how does this happen for you?
We’ve never had “quickie” sex. Therefore, point two.
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Marinka: 19 Feb 2023, 08:34 If you have things to do and suddenly the opportunity
has appeared, you should not miss the opportunity to have sex. And gentle, measured sex is best left for the night. You arrive home, and there are either guests or relatives. His brother has children from his first marriage. It turns out that where you understand, that’s where you have it. By chance, I once fucked my mother-in-law from my first marriage; they had the same dressing gowns. Well, when I started I realized, well, don’t stop. Yes, our neighbor brought her grandchildren, and not mine. Mine are already adults, well, it’s out of old habit. At work, too, sometimes it’s crowded, sometimes it’s empty, sometimes you don’t see a female for months. I remember this from the army for a long time. I served in Czechoslovakia for a year and didn’t see him at all. We went to the event at the headquarters, and there was a greenhouse flower garden. We somehow paid for the girls, they only paid for wine and they also had wine. If you haven’t used it right away, come back in the evening. But the captain turned us down, collapsed with them and fell asleep. It was such a bummer both for us and for the girls. I still remember them, although we saw each other twice, just for a moment. And they were cousins. You end up regretting that you didn’t take advantage of the first opportunity.
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I’ll choose option 7 then 😁 I’ll sleep until my mug cracks))
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It all depends on what is meant by deeds. If it’s going to the store or something like that, then you can have sex and put things off. If it’s something related to work or helping someone, then put off sex and get busy.
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A strange contrast. Isn’t sex a thing?!
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What could happen if both suddenly wanted it, then all matters fade into the background instantly, and it doesn’t matter whether they planned it or not. planning sex as for me is no longer interesting
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My ex loved it when I took her during housework, like when she was doing the dishes or doing laundry in the bathroom. For some reason this excited her the most. Well, yes, I had to be distracted a little by the orgasm and then finish what I started. But it’s not so boring to wash dishes)
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If I didn’t plan it but it worked out, then I won’t worry too much, what can I do since it’s like this :unknown:
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For me, there may be 4 options, in different periods of time.
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For me, everything can wait except sex, maybe I’m very obsessed with it)))))
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Olfar: 03 Jul 2023, 12:40 But it’s not so boring to wash dishes)
I kept wondering why my wife and I never had sex in the kitchen. Now I understand. We have a dishwasher *x)
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First option. I’ll get busy quickly and go finish things up. This has happened.
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The first option anyway.
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