How to arrange all this?

Unread post by **George53** » 21 Feb 2023, 09:16

If anyone can help with this please (without fantasies and giggles). The fact is that we have been married for a long time and everything is generally normal. BUT my wife, who is more than 7 years younger than me, is bisexual by nature, although she hides it. Her bi sexuality doesn’t bother me and in general I would like her to sometimes either date her or bring a friend to us and sometimes the three of us would spend time together.
But I don’t know how to do all this. I can’t tell my wife directly (if only because earlier, for a very long time, I myself laughed and scoffed at this). I don’t know how to sort this all out. It seems like we have a girlfriend (our friends’ family). It seems like signs of attention are slipping by.... but time passes, nothing really happens, and somehow everything is wrong 7.. or maybe I’m worrying in vain and I should just forget all this and live in peace...
What do you say, women ?

Unread post by **The passage** » 21 Feb 2023, 09:18

Georgiy53: 21 Feb 2023, 09:16 If anyone helps, please (without fantasies and giggles). The fact is that we have been married for a long time and everything is generally normal. BUT my wife, who is more than 7 years younger than me, is bisexual by nature, although she hides it. Her bi sexuality doesn’t bother me and in general I would like her to sometimes either date her or bring a friend to us and sometimes the three of us would spend time together.
But I don’t know how to do all this. I can’t tell my wife directly (if only because earlier, for a very long time, I myself laughed and scoffed at this). I don’t know how to sort this all out. It seems like we have a girlfriend (our friends’ family). It seems like signs of attention are slipping by.... but time passes, nothing really happens, and somehow everything is wrong 7.. or maybe I’m worrying in vain and I should just forget all this and live in peace...
What do you say, women ?

Just forget and live in peace.

Unread post by **understand** » 21 Feb 2023, 09:24

Georgiy53, find a beautiful erotic film with bi or lesbian women and look together.. if she’s like you, you’ll see whether she likes it or not.. well, carefully propose to her

Unread post by **George53** » 21 Feb 2023, 09:34

...she likes films with this theme... but not porn, but about real relationships... and what should I tell her? ... well, I don’t know how it doesn’t work out in my mind)) but I’ll think about it, thanks

Unread post by **understand** » 21 Feb 2023, 09:35

Georgy53, just say that you like these films.. sometimes you fantasize that your wife is like this.. and you supposedly watch))

Unread post by **George53** » 21 Feb 2023, 09:41

interesting idea! )) simple) thank you... how would you react?

Unread post by **understand** » 21 Feb 2023, 09:46

Georgiy53, I am with the women I have met and am meeting now I talk about desire openly))) we always find some kind of compromise... why hide your desires. if it doesn’t bother others and concerns only the two of you in your intimate life)) or, say, three)) this needs to be decided individually.. but there’s no point in hiding.. this is where sexual dissatisfaction begins

Unread post by **Timur59** » 21 Feb 2023, 10:08

Or maybe she’s already dating someone?
We just need to talk, without tension or offense

Unread post by **George53** » 23 Feb 2023, 04:42

maybe of course, so what?