What is the right thing to do?

[Arhivarius]

I’m not promoting anything, but I have a question for moms and dads. If a girl at the age of 10-12 became interested in what sex is, wants to see a man’s penis, try to put something in the vagina, and approaches her mom or dad with this question. How would you react if you were them? Would you tell her not to think about it? Would she be punished? Would you send me to a psychologist?
The second question is, who is better to talk about sex in such a situation? Mom or dad?

[Vince]

I would probably try to somehow carefully explain how everything works there, or perhaps I would find a specialist sexologist who could tell her about all this. so that it both enlightens and warns.

[Ufa guy]

The author is burning. Explain everything to her, of course

[niqk]

In the 90s in Russia he published a whole body of books on sexuality education for different ages: from pioneers to pensioners. Google it and you’ll probably find it...

[Arhivarius]

I would probably try to somehow carefully explain how everything works there, or perhaps I would find a specialist sexologist teacher who could tell her about all this. so that it both enlightens and warns.

But how to avoid incest? You can’t show it on yourself since your daughter is underage, and you’re also a dad. A sexologist will also only teach theory. And my daughter wants practice. She wants to look at a real penis, touch it. Wants to know what blowjob is. I look up information on the Internet at what age you can have sex in the vagina. And it also becomes clear that she can get such information and experience on the street from high school students. (Classmates are stupid) so what to do in such a situation?

[Vince]

It seems to me that everything has its time. at some ages, a verbal explanation and drawings from a book are enough, at an older age - a video, and then it will come to a visual explanation)