What kind of men do you like?

[◊_NeBo[_Na_]LaDoNi_◊]

Marinka asked men what kind of women they liked, and now I want to ask girls what kind of males attract their attention. What qualities should be expressed and demonstrated in them, what appearance, what age?

[Mr.hamsterrr]

*took popcorn, took a seat in the front row*

[The passage]

I would put a sense of humor first in men. Good sense of humour. The second is the responsibility. I will divide the third between kindness and intelligence.
Appearance is not so important, as long as the person is good, but a man must take care of himself.

[◊_NeBo[_Na_]LaDoNi_◊]

I would put a sense of humor first among men. Good sense of humour. The second is the responsibility. I will divide the third between kindness and intelligence.
Appearance is not so important, as long as the person is good, but a man must take care of himself.

what age preferable?
I like younger ones, 20-25 years old.. although men have the same fault with women that after 30 they are all fat, with a saggy figure, but I see the opposite picture.. purely objectively, women are much more careful about they take care of themselves and look much fresher, younger and fitter, but for men it’s the opposite... men 10 years younger than me look 50.

[The passage]

I would put a sense of humor first among men. Good sense of humour. The second is the responsibility. I will divide the third between kindness and intelligence.
Appearance is not so important, as long as the person is good, but a man must take care of himself.

what age preferable?
I like younger ones, 20-25 years old.. although men have the same fault with women that after 30 they are all fat, with a saggy figure, but I see the opposite picture.. purely objectively, women are much more careful about they take care of themselves and look much fresher, younger and fitter, but for men it’s the opposite... men 10 years younger than me look 50.

For me range is large from 20 to 40 years)

[Axler]

As they say: the problem with men when they meet women is that men think that she will always be the same as at the moment of meeting. The problem with women when they meet a man is that they think they can change him.
I once dated a girl who liked my reliability. That I think everything through in advance. Three years later she left me for the reason "I’m bored, there is never spontaneity in your life"

[Wolffr]

A woman always lives by the rules - she creates them, and she also changes them.
Farida Zhandarbek
It’s never easy to understand a woman...
thinking out loud...
Every woman should have four pets in her life. Minks in her closet, a jaguar in her garage, a tiger in her bed, and a donkey who pays for everything.

[Tanya]

Rich and kind.
And I want to swear (good news and mood) man, so that his penis would stand and his balls would be full.

[SeRg !$!]

In short, guys! the answer is now simple: the choice of women now is such a popular stand-up comedian with a working penis))

Sent after 16 minutes 25 seconds:
watch the series "Vikings" I think this is where the ideal man is! strength, courage, charisma, an animal grin ready to tear and throw at his enemies. This is masculine nature, and not all these comedians and satirists, all these feminine natures, all those who expose their woman or their ass...ugh

[The passage]

in short, guys! the answer is now simple: the choice of women now is such a popular stand-up comedian with a working penis))

Sent after 16 minutes 25 seconds:
watch the series "Vikings" I think this is where the ideal man is! strength, courage, charisma, an animal grin ready to tear and throw at his enemies. This is masculine nature and not all these satirical comedians, all these feminine natures, all
those who expose their woman or their ass...ugh

Vikings are murderers and rapists. Animals, but no ideal. And, a man should be kind, caring, and where and what to substitute is everyone’s personal business. By the way, I don’t like stand-up comedians either. They may not be mentally retarded, of course, but they look exactly like that on stage.

[SeRg !$!]

murderers and rapists )))) ooooh yes... not a bad interpretation

[Axler]

Marinka, how much easier it would be if women clarified what exactly they understand by this or that concept. No matter how many women you ask, you’ll hear so many different definitions of care.

[in the]

Marinka asked men what kind of women they like, and now I want to ask girls what kind of males attract their attention. What qualities should be expressed and demonstrated in them, what appearance, what age?

You forgot to write for what purposes a man should like, because for sex, this is probably one option "like" ", for regular sex, this is another option - "like", and for marriage this is the third.

[The passage]

murderers and rapists)))) ooooh yes... not a bad interpretation

What enemies did they have? They were sailing to rob. We found the ideal of men. They should be kept in cages. Away from normal people.

[Tanya]

in short, guys! the answer is now simple: the choice of women now is such a popular stand-up comedian with a working penis))

Sent after 16 minutes 25 seconds:
watch the series "Vikings" I think this is where the ideal man is! strength, courage, charisma, an animal grin ready to tear and throw at his enemies. This is masculine nature and not all these satirical comedians, all these feminine natures, all
those who expose their woman or their ass...ugh

Vikings are murderers and rapists. Animals, but no ideal. And, a man should be kind, caring, and where and what to substitute is everyone’s personal business. By the way, I don’t like stand-up comedians either. Maybe they are not mentally retarded, of course, but on stage they look exactly like that.

In any case, history presents them as such (Vikings). What do comedians have to do with this? how to link them into the topic of men who are needed.

[The passage]

Marinka, how much easier it would be , if women would clarify what exactly they understand by this or that concept. No matter how many women you ask, you will hear so many different definitions of care

For example? Please give examples

Sent after 4 minutes 17 seconds:

in short, guys! the answer is now simple: the choice of women now is such a popular stand-up comedian with a working penis))

Sent after 16 minutes 25 seconds:
watch the series "Vikings" I think this is where the ideal man is! strength, courage, charisma, an animal grin ready to tear and throw at his enemies. This is masculine nature and not all these satirical comedians, all these feminine natures, all
those who expose their woman or their ass...ugh

Vikings are murderers and rapists. Animals, but no ideal. And, a man should be kind, caring, and where and what to substitute is everyone’s personal business. By the way, I don’t like stand-up comedians either. Maybe they are not mentally retarded, of course, but on stage they look exactly like that.

In any case, history presents them as such (Vikings). What do comedians have to do with this? how to link them into the topic of men who are needed.

Possibly SeRg !$!, he likes films about Vikings and Stand-Up, so he decided that these were the ideals of men. In general, I noticed that many men are very mistaken about women’s preferences.

[SeRg !$!]

try to dive a little deeper, even we Slavs were savages for many, so let’s use our heads a little.
sense of humor))) you put first place in choosing a man, that’s what comedians and stand-up comedians are for.

don’t be angry, you expressed your point of view, I mine...

[Axler]

For example? Please give examples

I once sat after my shift in a cafe with two female colleagues, went away for 10 minutes, and when I returned I heard that they had started conversation on the topic "and where to find a normal man." And they went to list what a good guy should have. I didn’t pay much attention, but I was fascinated by the fact that they gave different meanings to “reliability,” and I became interested. After that, I interviewed all the girls I knew and this is how the list varied (it is far from complete, I jotted down what came to mind, there were about 12 points, in my opinion):
1) does not cheat, will not abandon; 2) can provide for a family and give children a ticket to a good life;
3) can protect;
4) self-confident;
5) controls any situation in which he finds himself .
At the same time, if I asked the girl who answered, say, point 2 about the fifth, they told me “what does this have to do with it, it has nothing to do with it.”

p .s. It’s funny that I did the “survey” in approximately the same environment - in one way or another related to police activity, the police themselves, criminologists, experts, lawyers, etc. Accordingly, the age is +/- the same and the salary is also the same. doesn’t vary much.

[Mr.hamsterrr]

Axler, so it’s not about the girls, but about in principle, in the difference in perceptions and judgments among people) how many people, so many opinions)

[The passage]

For example? Please give examples

I once sat after my shift in a cafe with two female colleagues, went away for 10 minutes, and when I returned I heard that they had started conversation on the topic "and where to find a normal man." And they went to list what a good guy should have. I didn’t pay much attention, but I was fascinated by the fact that they gave different meanings to “reliability,” and I became interested. After that, I interviewed all the girls I knew and this is how the list varied (it is far from complete, I jotted down what came to mind, there were about 12 points, in my opinion):
1) does not cheat, will not abandon; 2) can provide for a family and give children a ticket to a good life;
3) can protect;
4) self-confident;
5) controls any situation in which he finds himself .
At the same time, if I asked the girl who answered, say, point 2 about the fifth, they told me “what does this have to do with it, it has nothing to do with it.”

p .s. It’s funny that I did the “survey” in approximately the same environment - in one way or another related to police activity, the police themselves, criminologists, experts, lawyers, etc. Accordingly, the age is +/- the same and the salary is also the same. does not vary much.

In my opinion, this is a normal situation. You ask them what they want, they list their wishes for you.

[Lada R]

I like the type of men who can be briefly described - a boorish proletarian hegemon

[Axler]

Mr.hamsterrr, maybe so. But for the guys it’s somehow more clear. And yes, over time (without global incidents) the concepts do not change. And girls can hop and change. For no apparent reason. Just wanted. It’s just "it’s about time."
No, understand, I’m not saying that this is bad, it just sometimes makes it difficult for men to perceive.

In my opinion this is a normal situation. You ask them what they want, they list their wishes for you.

I agree with you that this is normal. Only now there is some substitution of concepts. Well, they want a man with money and a career - great, so say "I want a wealthy one." No, we need to talk about "reliability."
I understand that humor, for example, is a subjective concept. Who gets what? Or the same solvency - the only question here is the amount of capital. But even if we create a topic on this forum and ask only ladies to define a number of concepts (say, reliability, care, responsibility), we will see very different answers. And how do you understand what each specific lady means? Not everyone can clearly formulate it. Or they don’t want to share. Guess what it’s called.

[◊_NeBo[_Na_]LaDoNi_◊]

murderers and rapists)))) ooooh yes... not a bad interpretation

What were their enemies? They were sailing to rob. We found the ideal of men. They should be kept in cages. Away from normal people.

this was their way of survival.. nothing grew on their cold, barren land and therefore they robbed other nations)) and I like this unbridled power and strength.. she attracts the eye like fire)

[The passage]

murderers and rapists )))) ooooh yes... not bad interpretation

What were their enemies? They were sailing to rob. We found the ideal of men. They should be kept in cages. Away from normal people.

this was their way of survival.. nothing grew on their cold, barren land and therefore they robbed other nations)) and I like this unbridled power and strength.. it attracts the eye like fire)

Not all northern peoples were robbed. Some fished, raised deer, and traded. They were robbed by animals who didn’t want to work.
Unbridled power will knock your teeth out to take your money and jewelry. This is their way of survival. Or do you still mean harnessed power? When a beautiful body comes with a developed brain and kindness.

[◊_NeBo[_Na_]LaDoNi_◊]

What were their enemies? They were sailing to rob. We found the ideal of men. They should be kept in cages. Away from normal people.

this was their way of survival.. nothing grew on their cold, barren land and therefore they robbed other nations)) and I like this unbridled power and strength.. it attracts the eye like fire)

Not all northern peoples were robbed. Some fished, raised deer, and traded. They were robbed by animals who didn’t want to work.
Unbridled power will knock your teeth out to take your money and jewelry. This is their way of survival. Or do you still mean harnessed power? When a beautiful body goes along with a developed brain and kindness.

I have neither money nor jewelry))
Of course, a man is desirable for life with brains. And it’s nice to watch such wild and unbridled people when they fight each other in sports or in fights without rules.

[The passage]

this was their way of survival.. nothing grew on their cold, barren land and therefore they robbed other nations)) and I like this unbridled power and strength.. it attracts the eye like fire)

Not all northern peoples were robbed. Some fished, raised deer, and traded. They were robbed by animals who didn’t want to work.
Unbridled power will knock your teeth out to take your money and jewelry. This is their way of survival. Or do you still mean harnessed power? When a beautiful body goes along with a developed brain and kindness.

I have neither money nor jewelry))
Of course, a man is desirable for life with brains. And it’s nice to look at such wild and unbridled people when they fight each other in sports or in fights without rules.

I understand you. I’m not attracted to stupid fighting, just like the men who do it. It’s disgusting to look at.

[Mr.hamsterrr]

And yes, over time (without major incidents) concepts do not change. And girls can hop and change. For no apparent reason. Just wanted. It’s just "it’s about time".

But it seems to me that if a person’s opinion does not change throughout his life, then this is strange) because you are growing, you gain new experience, knowledge, essentially become a different person and look at the same situation differently) in my youth I myself had almost the opposite opinion on some things, especially in relationships with the fair sex))

[SeRg !$!]

the criteria for masculine qualities that are being put forward now with the advent of the era of consumerism and comfort unfortunately lead to degeneration

[Mr.hamsterrr]

Marinka, you have a very sexy mind)

[The passage]

Mr.hamsterrr, maybe So. But for the guys it’s somehow more clear. And yes, over time (without global incidents) the concepts do not change. And girls can hop and change. For no apparent reason. Just wanted. It’s just "it’s about time."
No, understand, I’m not saying that this is bad, it just sometimes makes it difficult for men to perceive.

In my opinion this is a normal situation. You ask them what they want, they list their wishes for you.

I agree with you that this is normal. Only now there is some substitution of concepts. Well, they want a man with money and a career - great, so say "I want a wealthy one." No, we need to talk about "reliability."
I understand that humor, for example, is a subjective concept. Who gets what? Or the same solvency - the only question here is the amount of capital. But even if we create a topic on this forum and ask only ladies to define a number of concepts (say, reliability, care, responsibility), we will see very different answers. And how do you understand what each specific lady means? Not everyone can clearly formulate it. Or they don’t want to share. Guess what it’s called.

And why do you need to guess? You choose what you need and live the way you want. I don’t mean living a selfish life just for yourself. I mean the life you planned to live.
Personally, I am a careerist and I want my own home and my children need to be given a good education. So I spend all my energy on this. I will meet a man who will help me with this, wonderful. Well, if we don’t meet, then it’s not fate.

[◊_NeBo[_Na_]LaDoNi_◊]

Not all northern peoples were robbed. Some fished, raised deer, and traded. They were robbed by animals who didn’t want to work.
Unbridled power will knock your teeth out to take your money and jewelry. This is their way of survival. Or do you still mean harnessed power? When a beautiful body goes along with a developed brain and kindness.

I have neither money nor jewelry))
Of course, a man is desirable for life with brains. And it’s nice to look at such wild and unbridled people when they fight each other in sports or in fights without rules.

I understand you. I’m not attracted to stupid fighting, just like the men who do it. It’s disgusting to look at it.

no, I’m not really talking about a stupid fight)) I also like to watch competitive sports)) right now I’m enjoying the super-ninja! There are such men there.. just wow!.. you just can’t take your eyes off!.. and how the muscles roll on their beautiful powerful bodies)) how much adrenaline.. it’s simply breathtaking!)

[Axler]

Oh, why do you need to guess? You choose what you need and live as you want.

As I wrote before "Not everyone can clearly formulate. Or they don’t want to share. “The reasons why they don’t want to share may be different, but the result is the same.
In my 37 years, I have met only one woman who clearly knew what she wanted and said everything directly. It was easy for me with her.

[Tapkin]

Mr.hamsterrr , may be so. But for the guys it’s somehow more clear. And yes, over time (without global incidents) the concepts do not change. And girls can hop and change. For no apparent reason. Just wanted. It’s just "it’s about time."
No, understand, I’m not saying that this is bad, it just sometimes makes it difficult for men to perceive.

In my opinion this is a normal situation. You ask them what they want, they list their wishes for you.

I agree with you that this is normal. Only now there is some substitution of concepts. Well, they want a man with money and a career - great, so say "I want a wealthy one." No, we need to talk about "reliability."
I understand that humor, for example, is a subjective concept. Who gets what? Or the same solvency - the only question here is the amount of capital. But even if we create a topic on this forum and ask only ladies to define a number of concepts (say, reliability, care, responsibility), we will see very different answers. And how do you understand what each specific lady means? Not everyone can clearly formulate it. Or they don’t want to share. Guess what it’s called.

And why do you need to guess? You choose what you need and live the way you want. I don’t mean living a selfish life just for yourself. I mean the life you planned to live.
Personally, I am a careerist and I want my own home and my children need to be given a good education. So I spend all my energy on this. I will meet a man who will help me with this, wonderful. Well, if he doesn’t meet, it means it’s not destiny.

..what does it mean not to meet, he simply must meet, at least for our sake!) ))))

[◊_NeBo[_Na_]LaDoNi_◊]

Oh, why do you need to guess? You choose what you need and live as you want.

As I wrote before "Not everyone can clearly formulate. Or they don’t want to share. “The reasons why they don’t want to share may be different, but the result is the same.
In my 37 years, I have met only one woman who clearly knew what she wanted and said everything directly. It was easy for me with her.

and where is she now?

[The passage]

I have neither money nor jewelry))
Of course, for life it is desirable to have a man with brains. And it’s nice to look at such wild and unbridled people when they fight each other in sports or in fights without rules.

I understand you. I’m not attracted to stupid fighting, just like the men who do it. It’s disgusting to look at it.

no, I’m not really talking about a stupid fight)) I also like to watch competitive sports)) right now I’m enjoying the super-ninja! There are such men there.. just wow!.. you just can’t take your eyes off!.. and how the muscles roll on their beautiful powerful bodies)) how much adrenaline.. it’s simply breathtaking!)

I also like athletic men))) I ran and played volleyball. She was even the captain of the team, so that the boys liked them exclusively as athletes. Even now, I wouldn’t be able to stand a man next to me who is slowly becoming fat. I believe that for your own health you can always find time to stay in good physical shape.

[Axler]

Where is she now?

We are both police officers. She died 9 years ago.

[◊_NeBo[_Na_]LaDoNi_◊]

where is she now?

We are both police officers . She died 9 years ago.

I sympathize I understand how you feel..

[Wolffr]

We are both police officers. She died 9 years ago.

it’s unfortunate when people die, and such young ones at that....

[Axler]

◊_NeBo[_Na_]LaDoNi_◊, thank you!

It’s unfortunate when people die, and such young ones at that

In fact, it wasn’t the fact itself that caused me the biggest shock - the work is like this, at any moment everything is possible (especially almost 50% of the population of the country where we live have at least 1 unit of small arms), and the reason. She arrived at the fire first, before the fire brigades, and while saving people she could not get out herself.

[Wolffr]

She arrived at the fire first, before the fire brigades, and while saving people she could not go out herself.

The best always leave first!!!

[Veronica]

In the description of the desired man, I would include all the points of the Axlera survey. But there are no such things.

Sent after 10 minutes 35 seconds: Well, the man from the famous song:"so as not to drink, not to smoke, and to flirt with his mother-in-law" does not suit me. I smoke and drink sometimes, but knowing the harmful effects of alcohol on me, only at home, or under the supervision (at the moment of my husband). When I’m not at work, I communicate on the site naked, skipping the wine. Maybe that’s why it happens and sometimes I write in a way that some people don’t like. But that’s who I am, and I can’t change it.

[Let’s]

My personal, humble opinion is that there needs to be diversity in everything. Both men and women should be versatile. From my life experience and communication with women, I can say that a girl wants a strong, independent, sometimes daring male, who has his own opinion and sometimes can hit the table, show his “strength,” such as a macho man, etc. d. - she found him, after two years she leaves him - why, your ideal? The answer is (and she begins to list all the qualities that she herself wanted) - he doesn’t listen to her regardless, because he has his own opinion, he doesn’t take her into account, he bangs his fist on the table and, as a result, his attitude towards her is in her opinion, Not good. The second case.. Also, a conversation with one, to summarize, should be brave, protective, strong, and everything in that spirit. Here she registers on a dating site, defenders who are either in the Northern Military District zone or have returned begin to write to her.. Her words - what the heck, a person from the war, their psyche can go (no offense to those who were there, I’m just passing on the words ) like he shoots, kills, one way or another, all this is reflected... I say - well, you yourself wanted a strong, defender, a hero. Here they are, the heroes.. No no no.. And these are from real life, these are the stories of those with whom I communicated personally. . All women (well, almost all) want to be wealthy, but in order to be able to provide it, they often have to sacrifice personal time. Then the woman doesn’t like that he doesn’t pay attention to her, but concentrates on his work. And so in many ways. It’s the same about men. I want one, when it appears, at first there is euphoria, then something is definitely wrong... So, the conclusion from this can be made simple. We all want what we don’t have. We draw ideals for ourselves, and when it comes, everything is not as we wanted.

[Couple 33]

A man must have a sense of humor, be charismatic, and a little domineering

[economy]

Yes, these are all nonsense criteria that are inspired by something unknown. In any relationship, nature takes over. For example, if a woman sees a brutal handsome guy, she is ready to spread her legs and fall into his arms and even go to the registry office for a ring, and if six months after the birth of a child, she leaves him, because he only knows how to drink and take off girls’ panties, and not making money, then of course he is to blame! So you get RSP 1, 2, 3 and then exponentially.
The same thing happens on the reverse side. If a guy sees a beautiful chick with big breasts and an ass in a night cafe, then they think that she is the dream of his whole life, and if then it turns out that she doesn’t know how to fry pollock or milk a cow, but only gives a blowjob to the director during lunch break, then it turns out that she is a slut, a whore and other things, oh my God!
All this is perfectly described by Novoselov!

[◊_NeBo[_Na_]LaDoNi_◊]

A man should have a sense of humor, be charismatic, a little domineering

they wrote to the point, yes.. perhaps the most important thing. Well, it’s important that he loves sex, otherwise he then crawls under the bench, and under the sofa, like fucking him... no, that won’t do

[Lerunchik]

Yes, these are all nonsense criteria that are inspired by something unknown. In any relationship, nature takes over. For example, if a woman sees a brutal handsome guy, she is ready to spread her legs and fall into his arms and even go to the registry office for a ring, and if six months after the birth of a child, she leaves him, because he only knows how to drink and take off girls’ panties, and not making money, then of course he is to blame! So you get RSP 1, 2, 3 and then exponentially.
The same thing happens on the reverse side. If a guy sees a beautiful chick with big breasts and an ass in a night cafe, then they think that she is the dream of his whole life, and if then it turns out that she doesn’t know how to fry pollock or milk a cow, but only gives a blowjob to the director during lunch break, then it turns out that she is a slut, a whore and other things, oh my God! New settlers! Founder of the sect "All evil comes from women"?)))

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[Serg_A]

ekonomiya: ↑Yes, these are all nonsense criteria that are inspired by something unclear. In any relationship, nature takes over. For example, if a woman sees a brutal handsome guy, she is ready to spread her legs and fall into his arms and even go to the registry office for a ring, and if six months after the birth of a child, she leaves him, because he only knows how to drink and take off girls’ panties, and not making money, then of course he is to blame! So you get RSP 1, 2, 3 and then exponentially.
The same thing happens on the reverse side. If a guy sees a beautiful chick with big breasts and an ass in a night cafe, then they think that she is the dream of his whole life, and if then it turns out that she doesn’t know how to fry pollock or milk a cow, but only gives a blowjob to the director during lunch break, then it turns out that she is a slut, a whore and other things, oh my God!
All this is perfectly described by Novoselov!
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Oooh! New settlers! The founder of the sect "All evil comes from women"?)))

There is such an MMA fighter Novoselov, he probably meant him

[economy]

Oooh! New settlers! The founder of the sect "All evil comes from women"?)))

Well, a friend has such an excess. But essentially everything is described correctly. Nature needs chemistry and love before the appearance of offspring, and then beat them all with a horse...

[Lerunchik]

There is such an MMA fighter Novoselov, he probably meant him

I went to Google

[economy]

There is such an MMA fighter Novoselov, he probably meant him

If for a moment it’s for me, then definitely not. I don’t watch MMA - I’m sorry for the time! )))