Neither before the wedding

[The passage]

Not before the wedding. How do you like this idea?

[Wolffr]

Neither nor nor before the wedding. How do you like this idea?

in earlier times this was the norm and almost an unwritten law, but as progress began, so did everything. It was probably better, I can’t judge.

[Wool]

Marinka, you create so many topics. You’re already making my head spin
You urgently need to find a permanent lover, otherwise you’ll terrorize the forum

[Tapkin]

Neither nor nor before the wedding. How do you like this idea?

...what did you think of?

Sent after 2 minutes 1 second:

Marinka, you create so many topics. You’re already making my head spin
You urgently need to find a permanent lover, otherwise you’ll terrorize the forum

Let him write..it’s better in every way..than local motherfuckers and pedophiles!)))))

[Wool]

If on topic - there were cases when people got divorced after six months due to size mismatch
Therefore, it is simply necessary to “break in” for at least six months. Well, and live together, then you can test your characters.

[The passage]

Neither nor nor before the wedding. How do you like this idea?

in earlier times this was the norm and almost an unwritten law, but as progress began, so did everything. It was probably better, I don’t dare to judge.

What if you don’t judge, but just speculate? What would you choose?

[Keep the change for yourself]

Marinka, bad idea for the 21st century.
We are a consumer society, and not a society of remnants of the past.
And weddings were once played at the age of 12-13, so it would be strange there that it is no longer "no-no", so it’s quite We live in normal times.

[Wolffr]

Bolbol, watch a very good film "Quiet Don ”, by the way, it’s about the wedding and about ”looks”. An instructive film, but now in our time....oh, such progress...

And what if you don’t judge, but just speculate? What would you choose?

I chose neither nor nor..., most likely, before the wedding. A girl, she will still be a woman later, in the first place she is the mother of your future children, the mistress of the house, this is the cleanliness of the house and the inner purity of the soul. and your ally in everything.
I won’t give a pipe, a horse and a wife to anyone!!!
Maybe I’m a fool and don’t understand anything in life, but this is purely my opinion. Living in Germany, I saw enough of these, excuse me, p@ldoras, for the rest of my life.
At one time we were taught something bright and good, but now here, from the age of 11, they start having intercourse, and in kindergarten they start teaching boys what they are girls, and girls are boys!!!
this is purely my understanding and opinion

[Mr.hamsterrr]

How do you like this idea?

Stupid. I’ve already voiced this idea somewhere, but I’ll repeat it. What if you don’t like each other sexually? And you have already sworn to die one day

[Axler]

Yes, and weddings were once celebrated at the age of 12-13

This is only half the truth. At this age, the nobility got married, while the peasants (both in Rus’ and in the West) got married a little later. Around 16-18 years old. A girl at the age of 21 was considered "too old", but they tried not to marry her off too early - after all, with marriage she left her father’s house, and therefore there were fewer workers.

Before the wedding, neither. How do you like this idea?

Too abstract a question in a vacuum. There are many faiths, teachings and beliefs in the world that relate to sexual life. Somewhere it is worth maintaining chastity until marriage, but if you take the "average temperature in the hospital" - then of course not.

p.s. By the way, Marinka, are you by any chance writing any work? And your topics are somehow very targeted)

[Wolffr]

Axler, she’s quietly writing her dissertation, here are the topics interesting throws up!!!!

[Axler]

Axler, she is quietly writing her dissertation , so he brings up interesting topics!!!!

That’s it, I also thought about something like that. We communicate here, open up, and all our answers become statistics in some article in a journal on psychiatry

[Wolffr]

That’s it, I also thought about something like that. We communicate here, open up, and all our answers become statistics in some article in a journal on psychiatry

а then the ambulance will arrive and take you to ward No. 6

[The passage]

That’s right, I also thought about something like that. We communicate here, open up, and all our answers become statistics in some article in a journal on psychiatry

а then the ambulance will arrive and take you to ward No. 6

))) Ahah, I have no you have more work now) Spring. Seasonal exacerbations.

[Wolffr]

))) Ahah, I have more work now even without you) Spring. Seasonal exacerbations.

that’s good, it means she’s alive!!!

Sonnet 11. Shakespeare.⁠⁠

Nothing lasts forever under the sun. But life
Immortal relay race of generations.
If you value this gift, my friend,
Leave your mark, throwing away the poison of doubt.

Let beauty as a life-giving stream
In a successor, like a Phoenix, will be reborn,
And mediocrity will bypass you.
And so that evil is not allowed to happen.

Otherwise humanity will end
and it will only live for six decades.
Praise nature, you are its crown,
You are responsible for the preservation of the race.

May the seal of wisdom never dry up
What you were able to pass on to your descendants!

you can’t say anything more beautiful than what Shakespeare wrote!!!

[Sweden125]

Nothing before the wedding. How do you like this idea?

in earlier times this was the norm and almost an unwritten law, but as progress began, so did everything. It was probably better, I don’t dare to judge.

What if you don’t judge, but just speculate? What would you choose?

Marina, how can you choose the size without testing?

Sent after 3 minutes 59 seconds:

Yes, and weddings were once held at the age of 12-13

This is only half the truth. At this age, the nobility got married, while the peasants (both in Rus’ and in the West) got married a little later. Around 16-18 years old. A girl at the age of 21 was considered "too old", but they tried not to marry her off too early - after all, with marriage she left her father’s house, and therefore there were fewer workers.

Before the wedding, neither. How do you like this idea?

Too abstract a question in a vacuum. There are many faiths, teachings and beliefs in the world that relate to sexual life. Somewhere it is worth maintaining chastity until marriage, but if you take the "average temperature in the hospital" - then of course not.

p.s. By the way, Marinka, are you by any chance writing any work? Because your themes are somehow very focused)

Take for example, Romeo and Juliet, they were 14 and 13

[Beautiful]

Nothing before the wedding. How do you like this idea?

in earlier times this was the norm and almost an unwritten law, but as progress began, so did everything. It was probably better, I don’t dare to judge.

What if you don’t judge, but just speculate? What would you choose?

I would never marry like that again. I’ve already tried it) I think a trial period of cohabitation is necessary in order to get to know your partner as best as possible from all sides, otherwise there will be marriage and divorce. In the best case, someone will simply tolerate someone for the time being, and this is wasted time. We must be pragmatic.

[Wolffr]

Marina, how can you then choose the size without testing?

this used to be called b@atstvo. I don’t want to say that I’m so correct, but I try to adhere to these principles. I won’t even tell a good friend that I was with someone or wait, what I had with someone will die with me! we were taught that way.
sorry if I offended anyone

[Sweden125]

Marina, how can you then choose the size without testing?

this used to be called b@atstvo. I don’t want to say that I’m so correct, but I try to adhere to these principles. I won’t even tell a good friend that I was with someone or wait, what I had with someone will die with me! we were taught that way.
sorry if I offended anyone

Only losers brag about their "victories"! A normal man will not say (Yes, I know this Natasha, she has holes there) he will disgrace both her and himself

[Axler]

Take Romeo and Juliet for example, they were 14 and 13

So. And where is the contradiction in my words? Let’s forget that this is just a work of fiction, and the historicity of the events described in it remains in question, but even so - I wrote that 12-13 years is the standard age for the marriage of daughters of nobles families.
Juliet is just a girl from such a family. And the reader gets to know Juliet during her conversation with the nurse and mother (in the original Lady Capulet) about Count Paris - to your fiance. That naturally the marriage was exclusively political in nature.
It is clear that there are a lot of details and nuances, it is necessary to clarify which country and what historical period we are talking about, but on average the picture had the following outlines:
for the nobility:

- before the onset of puberty (on average 11-12 years), girls were considered... girls, and they were not particularly touched (we do not take into account individual historical figures). Engagement was allowed from the age of 7.
Yes, I am aware that there were exceptions when both ten and eleven year olds were married, and sometimes without prior engagement, but this is still not such a common occurrence, rather typical only for rulers with certain tastes, and not the entire nobility as a whole
- at the age of 11-12 the wedding took place, but often the “wife” remained for another couple of years in her father’s house. If she arrived at the house of her newly-made husband, they often lived separately
- the ideal age for sexual relations and first birth was considered to be the age of 13-15 years. And then depending on your luck
- the boys got married at the age of 14-16

among the common people:

"the rules" were even more vague. But since there was no political need for marriage, and extra labor would not hurt, the girls were married off later. Ideally, they lasted until ~16 years. Naturally, no one was interested in the purity and integrity of a peasant girl, and who “spoilt” it - the local count or the groom of this very count is a second question.

[Sweden125]

Take for example, Romeo and Juliet, they were 14 and 13

So. And where is the contradiction in my words? Let’s forget that this is just a work of fiction, and the historicity of the events described in it remains in question, but even so - I wrote that 12-13 years is the standard age for the marriage of daughters of nobles families.
Juliet is just a girl from such a family. And the reader gets to know Juliet during her conversation with the nurse and mother (in the original Lady Capulet) about Count Paris - to your fiance. That naturally the marriage was exclusively political in nature.
It is clear that there are a lot of details and nuances, it is necessary to clarify which country and what historical period we are talking about, but on average the picture had the following outlines:
for the nobility:

- before the onset of puberty (on average 11-12 years), girls were considered... girls, and they were not particularly touched (we do not take into account individual historical figures). Engagement was allowed from the age of 7.
Yes, I am aware that there were exceptions when both ten and eleven year olds were married, and sometimes without prior engagement, but this is still not such a common occurrence, rather typical only for rulers with certain tastes, and not the entire nobility as a whole
- at the age of 11-12 the wedding took place, but often the “wife” remained for another couple of years in her father’s house. If she arrived at the house of her newly-made husband, they often lived separately
- the ideal age for sexual relations and first birth was considered to be the age of 13-15 years. And then depending on your luck
- the boys got married at the age of 14-16

among the common people:

"the rules" were even more vague. But since there was no political need for marriage, and extra labor would not hurt, the girls were married off later. Ideally, they lasted until ~16 years. Naturally, no one was interested in the purity and integrity of a peasant girl, and who “spoilt” it - the local count or the groom of this very count is a second question.

Did I contradict you?

[Axler]

Did I contradict?

Probably it seemed to me) Well, if it seemed, then good)

[Let’s]

Many people write that “how can I try?” I can say from my own experience that I married an experienced woman and tried it before marriage. Both before marriage and about three years after everything was fine, quantity, quality and variety. Then follow the thumbnail down. So the "before" sample does not play any role. Like experienced woman can lose interest in a partner, just as a virgin can flare up, which cannot be stopped)) the main thing is love

[Tamerlane]

Neither nor nor before the wedding. How do you like this idea?

It all depends on what age a girl gets married.
If at 15 years old. It’s completely neither - nor
If at 25 it’s stupid, anyone will want to try.

[Alexander]

In the 80s I went to an international camp in Armenia and met a very pretty Armenian woman there. Emotions, passion and understanding that we won’t see each other later. But she explained to me that they had nothing before the wedding, so she gave it to me in the ass. And judging by the ability to use it, it was clear that this was not the first time.

[Axler]

Alesander, a common practice, but as for me - so complete game. Well, if you want sex, then have it. But no, some are like “I’ll give it to you in the ass, I’ll take it in your mouth, but technically I’m an immaculate virgin.” Idiocy, damn it!
No, I understand that in some very remote auls or villages they can still hang out sheets covered in blood after the first wedding night for everyone to see, but still this is a relative rarity. But the number of "technical virgins" is not decreasing

[Alexander]

Soviet upbringing and foundations still prevailed.

[Axler]

Foundations are foundations, but this does not add logic. You’re either a virgin or you can fuck normally. And then some half measures

[Tamerlane]

In the 80s I went to an international camp in Armenia and met a very pretty Armenian woman there. Emotions, passion and understanding that we won’t see each other later. But she explained to me that they had nothing before the wedding, so she gave it to me in the ass. And judging by the ability to use it, it was clear that this was not the first time.

The conditions were met)))))))
nThe rest is details.

[Mom]

Idiot idea, I can’t even imagine how it’s two people with no experience and their wedding night

[FUCKYAMATERITY]

Neither nor nor before the wedding. How do you like this idea?

Some kind of nightmare.

[Mom]

From that series on how to check whether a girl is a virgin or not. Smear the penis with green paint and if she is surprised ask a question where have you seen others

[niqk]

Neither nor nor before the wedding. How do you like this idea?

The idea may be luxurious. But not life! Since man is a creature subject to passions. And sex is
the most important passion! This is one of the strongest instincts - in general! And it is useless to fight him!!!

[Ulof]

Yes, all this is nonsense. Puritanism and bigotry suck

[The passage]

For some reason they only wrote about virginity, but if you take divorced people, they already have experience and now they are planning a second marriage. What if in such a situation, before the wedding, no, no?)))

[Wolffr]

For some reason they only wrote about virginity, but if you take divorced people, they already have experience and now they are planning a second marriage. What if in such a situation, before the wedding, no, no?)))

this is completely different and a different topic. The card will fall there.

[The passage]

For some reason they only wrote about virginity, but if you take divorced people, they already have experience and now they are planning a second marriage. What if in such a situation, before the wedding, no, no?)))

this is completely different and a different topic. The card will fall there.

Why is the topic different? We formalized the relationship and now we have sex right away)))

[Wolffr]

Marinka, you see, it turns out that the wallpaper has gone through family life , divorced and then caution begins on both sides. It takes time for everyone to heal all the wounds.

[The passage]

Marinka, you see it turns out that The wallpaper went through family life, got divorced, and then caution begins on both sides. it takes time for everything to heal all the wounds.

you can heal without sex, by masturbation)))

[Wolffr]

you can heal without sex, by masturbation)))

it’s better together, so you can get used to it faster and then have sex))

[The passage]

you can heal without sex, by masturbation)))

it’s better together, so you can get used to it faster and then have sex))

))) Ahah, but I don’t rub shoulders with anyone)))

[Wolffr]

Marinka, I was not married, I don’t know these problems , I have enough of my own... especially when I go to bed))) this is my opinion, it’s not like without sex, but if you have children, then you need to weigh the pros and cons. what kind of relationship will there be between the children and the stepfather. And that already means something. It will be great for a woman, but for children, that is the question and the most important one.

[The passage]

Marinka, I was not married, I don’t know these problems, I have enough of my own....especially when I go to bed)))

I was married. There are pros and cons. What more depends on the particular couple. I had many advantages, and for my husband there were even more advantages. In general, even sex is much more pleasant when the man is loved. And it’s easier to live as a couple

[Wolffr]

I was married. There are pros and cons. What more depends on the particular couple. I had many advantages, and for my husband there were even more advantages. In general, even sex is much more pleasant when the man is loved. And it’s easier to live as a couple

that’s how I understand it, but I was deprived of my wife.... it’s always easier for a couple, but it’s more difficult for one. Looks like I messed up in my previous life, it’s good that they didn’t give me my other half in this life!!!

Sent after 5 minutes 36 seconds:
Marinka, Here, help yourself, I baked it myself, put the yeast dough
just with tea!!!
https://i.postimg.cc/BnNdxnC7/20230322-184849.jpg

[The passage]

I was married. There are pros and cons. What more depends on the particular couple. I had many advantages, and for my husband there were even more advantages. In general, even sex is much more pleasant when the man is loved. And it’s easier to live as a couple

that’s how I understand it, but I was deprived of my wife.... it’s always easier for a couple, but it’s more difficult for one. Looks like I messed up in my previous life, it’s good that they didn’t give me my other half in this life!!!

Sent after 5 minutes 36 seconds:
Marinka, Here, help yourself, I baked it myself, put the yeast dough
just with tea!!!
https://i.postimg.cc/BnNdxnC7/20230322-184849.jpg

Спасибки, я хоть и на диете, но вашу ватрушку съем с удовольствием) Спасибо)))

[Wolffr]

thank you, even though I’m on a diet, I’ll eat your cheesecake with pleasure) Thank you)))

To your health!!!

[helicopt9]

In my opinion, this is an outdated belief from a time when contraceptives had not yet been invented.

[5nica]

- Sorry, but we won’t have sex before the wedding.
- Sorry, but we won’t have a wedding for the sake of sex.

[The passage]

I also remembered the joke)))
Girl with her boyfriend:
- Will you marry me?
- I’m hungry.
- So you’ll eat at the wedding !

[Tapkin]

I was married. There are pros and cons. What more depends on the particular couple. I had many advantages, and for my husband there were even more advantages. In general, even sex is much more pleasant when the man is loved. And it’s easier to live as a couple

that’s how I understand it, but I was deprived of my wife.... it’s always easier for a couple, but it’s more difficult for one. Looks like I messed up in my previous life, it’s good that they didn’t give me my other half in this life!!!

Sent after 5 minutes 36 seconds:
Marinka, Here, help yourself, I baked it myself, put the yeast dough
just with tea!!!
https://i.postimg.cc/BnNdxnC7/20230322-184849.jpg

...выходи за меня , А!))))))))

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