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Lately I’ve started to notice that during sex, for no reason at all, an erection can disappear. Although before this, during kisses and caresses, the penis is hard as a stone, as soon as you enter the woman and after 5 minutes the erection disappears. This does not happen with masturbation.
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Honey_bunny: 28 Mar 2023, 01:10 Lately I began to notice that during sex, for no apparent reason, an erection may disappear. Although before this, during kisses and caresses, the penis is hard as a stone, as soon as you enter the woman and after 5 minutes the erection disappears. This does not happen during masturbation.
It’s all in the head or there is not enough stimulation of the penis. Just try not to jerk off for a while
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Yes, I wouldn’t say that I abuse jerking off))
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Honey_bunny: 28 Mar 2023, 02:15 Yes, I wouldn’t say that I abuse masturbation))
So I didn’t write this, just abstain a little and see the result)
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I haven’t jerked off before sex for two weeks, the result is the same
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Honey_bunny: 28 Mar 2023, 02:20 I haven’t jerked off before sex for two weeks, the result is the same
Honey_bunny: 28 Mar 2023, 02:20 I haven’t jerked off before sex for two weeks, the result is the same
[ /quoteThen maybe the partner is no longer rushing?? How many are married?
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This is a new partner)
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Don’t be upset, this happens. As already said, the problem is in the head. This happened to me during my first experience. Then the same thing happened. The circle closes when you start to think that he is about to fall down, because of this you get nervous and your fighter withers, then you calm down and he is back in action.
Try to drink NOT a lot of alcohol, it helped me.
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Soun: 28 Mar 2023, 06:25 Don’t be upset, this happens. As already said, the problem is in the head. This happened to me during my first experience. Then the same thing happened. The circle closes when you start to think that he is about to fall down, because of this you get nervous and your fighter withers, then you calm down and he is back in action.
Try to drink NOT a lot of alcohol, it helped me.
no more than a glass of cognac will definitely not hurt in this case)
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Most often the problem is in the head.
Well, this can happen with age and smoking
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And at the moment of the fall of a comrade, passion is still seething in the head, maybe that’s what’s missing?
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Everything is seething) it’s just that during sex there is a thought that he might let you down and that’s what happens right away, then after a while he gets up again
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Honey_bunny: 29 Mar 2023, 06:50 Everything is seething) it’s just that during sex there is a thought that he might let you down and immediately that’s what happens, then after a while he gets up again
This one That thought blocks an erection! You’ll have to do psychotraining to learn to control
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As they wrote, it’s usually in the head. You need to bring something new into sex so that the excitement blows your mind. Then it will stand like a stone. And if you think every time that there’s an embarrassment again, then that’s all there will be.
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Yesterday after a bottle of wine hit my face half the night I felt like a young man)))
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Honey_bunny: 01 Apr 2023, 00:57 Yesterday, after a bottle of wine in the face, I stood for half the night like I was young)))
Just stood there or used the tool for its intended purpose?
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I used it for its intended purpose, of course))
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Honey_bunny: 01 Apr 2023, 07:41 I used it for its intended purpose, of course))
well, I solved the problem, just be more careful with the booze now)
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Yes, I don’t drink alcohol, very rarely, I just apparently got nervous with a new woman, after many years of marriage with my wife, that’s why I got embarrassed
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Honey_bunny: 01 Apr 2023, 13:42 Yes, I don’t drink alcohol, very rarely, I just apparently got nervous with a new woman, after many years of marriage with my wife, so I got embarrassed
:please: It’s good that I understood and understood myself and my head. I had a similar experience myself, but I couldn’t finish)
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