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Do you like being seduced or being seduced by you? During sex, who takes the initiative, you or your partner? Do you like to take the initiative or do you want to be controlled?
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I’m always the initiator. I really like it and really want to be seduced
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I suggest my women take the initiative and lead the sex process themselves. So that she voices her desires without hesitation.
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Marinka: 09 May 2023, 23:43 Do you like it when you are seduced or when you seduce? During sex, who takes the initiative, you or your partner? Do you like to take the initiative or do you want to be controlled?
Manage yourself, show initiative, buzz and connection: brain-sensations. But this is not the case with every woman. There are women who simply don’t let you do this, they take power into their own hands, don’t even let you make a move, and you’re torn inside...indescribable, but so fucking amazing😍
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Marinka: 09 May 2023, 23:43 Do you like it when you are seduced or when you seduce? During sex, who takes the initiative, you or your partner? Do you like to take the initiative or do you want to be managed?
is it not so interesting ....but they showed the initiative that’s a different matter!))
..somehow I want it like that:wink:
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Marinka: 09 May 2023, 23:43 Do you like it when you are seduced or when you seduce? During sex, who takes the initiative, you or your partner? Do you like to take the initiative or do you want to be controlled?
I don’t have a definite answer, it depends on the woman, the situation and emotional mood
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Marinka: 09 May 2023, 23:43 Do you like it when you are seduced or when you seduce? During sex, who takes the initiative, you or your partner? Do you like to take the initiative or do you want to be controlled?
When it comes to seduction, sometimes I like to see that I am being lured, sometimes I myself like to be lured into this game .
Already in bed, the initiative is almost always mine.

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Almost never, I just gave a colleague a drink and started performing oral and another one unbuttoned my jeans.
It happened that they had a couple of glasses of wine and said that they went to bed, but there were 2-3 of them
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I won’t be able to refuse a lady if she seduces me
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Marinka, I love it when my wife controls! She does it so well!
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Fargal94: 10 May 2023, 21:45 I don’t have a definite answer, it depends on the woman, the situation and the emotional mood
The same thing. Depends on the situation and the woman. It happened in different ways.
At home with my wife, the initiative is often hers.
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Marinka: 09 May 2023, 23:43 Do you like it when you are seduced or when you seduce? During sex, who takes the initiative, you or your partner? Do you like to take the initiative or do you want to be controlled?
Yes, whatever. Almost always according to the mood: when you take the initiative, when you succumb to seduction, when you react to porn while watching it together, when you give in to friends, etc., etc....
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The initiative is considered to be the one who directs the penis into the vagina
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rynda: 11 May 2023, 06:57 The initiative is considered to be the one who directs the penis into the vagina
Change of pace, change of position. One is always the leader and the other is the follower. Of course you can make a schedule. Let’s say every day from 11 to midnight. Or every other day, or on even days, or on weekends, full moon, in a leap year on February 29. At the same time, create a sex script and strictly follow it. Then there will be no one active or initiative at all. Well, for those who don’t have a schedule or an approved script, for those, only one person takes the initiative.
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Marinka, but for me everything is different. It’s just that my wife and I act on the whim of our mood. Since we
feel each other very sensitively, I always feel when she wants to take the initiative, and she knows when I
want to take the initiative. And we give each other this opportunity without hesitation! As a result, we enter
into resonance! And we get such a buzz together!!! Mmmmmmm!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :shamp:
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I like everything. Depends on the mood and the partner. With one you want to dominate, with the other you want to submit. In practice, I am almost always the initiator of everything. And I like it. But if there is a girl in bed with me who will change positions herself and tell me what and how to do, then I will only be glad of such an experience
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niqk: 11 May 2023, 07:27 Marinka, but for me everything is different . It’s just that my wife and I act on the whim of our mood. Since we
feel each other very sensitively, I always feel when she wants to take the initiative, and she knows when I
want to take the initiative. And we give each other this opportunity without hesitation! As a result, we enter
into resonance! And we get such a buzz together!!! Mmmmmmm!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :shamp:
My husband and I started foreplay via SMS))) When we came home we were already turned on. It really didn’t last long
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Marinka, The initiative always comes from the wife. She loves sex in all its forms, although this only applies to me and her, she doesn’t accept the option of MFM, FFM, etc.! And sex with her is never boring, she can be a modest girl and a very lustful female, and even very aggressive when my clothes are ruined! And the most interesting thing is that this all happens suddenly! The initiative comes from her and I really like it!
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Marinka: 11 May 2023, 07:32 My husband and I started foreplay via SMS))) When we came home we were already turned on. True, it didn’t last long
Well done! Preheating is a wonderful thing! Especially when partners are in a long-term relationship...
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The Russian language tells us that the leader in most cases is a man, and it sounds like this - woman O-T-D-A-E-T-S-I to man!
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Marinka, I like it when a girl seduces, but when it comes before sex - I usually dominate, not forgetting about the girl’s desires naturally.
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Different things happen. I like it anyway.
Marinka: 11 May 2023, 07:32 My husband and I started foreplay via SMS))) When we came home we were already turned on. True, it didn’t last long
Why didn’t it last long? Did you get bored quickly?
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All my life I made decisions, managed and led! (I didn’t always make the right mistakes, of course!) But in bed I’m getting old so that she would lead! Enough to lead and make decisions! I try to be a leader in bed! Yes, and women like to command those who lead you in life!
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There was a case when one girl bet on me that she would fuck with me. I came to the park, there was a group of girls there, and one of them started hinting, they went into the bushes and tumbled (mosquitoes bit my entire ass), and then I learned from one of them about their argument. I say, what was the point of arguing for someone that I would refuse? I’m 21, she’s 18, who would refuse dessert. That initiative came from a girl. My work colleagues, 5-7 years older than me, also took the initiative. I’m 20, they’re 25-27, both married and divorced. But of course, in most cases the initiative came from me.
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With others I love the initiative, the pressure, the arrogance from them, to be their follower
And with my husband I am the leader and proactive
Somehow, like this :unknown:
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Marinka: 09 May 2023, 23:43 Do you like it when you are seduced or when you seduce? During sex, who takes the initiative, you or your partner? Do you like to take the initiative or do you want to be controlled?
Like all men, I like getting a woman and I don’t mind taking the initiative. But if this is sex in a serious relationship, then the initiative from a woman is also important at times... after all, we men also want to feel that they want us...

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Marinka: 11 May 2023, 07:32 My husband and I started foreplay via SMS))) When we came home we were already turned on. True, it didn’t last long
And I had this... but not with my wife... there were times when one of us didn’t want... a couple of SMS. .. and let’s get ahead or I’ll come... :oops:
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I like it when a man takes the initiative and seduces. In sex, I like the man’s initiative, but sometimes I take it into my own hands. It’s very nice to hold a man by the balls and manage the process. See him moan and enjoy sex and bring him to orgasm. But I also like to obey. :oops:
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Helga: 11 Aug 2023, 08:34 It’s very nice to hold a man by the "balls"
Here you go. Then you begin to understand in whose hands your life is)
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Alexsss: 18 Aug 2023, 06:24
Helga: 11 Aug 2023, 08:34 It’s very nice to hold a man by the "balls"
Here you go. Then you begin to understand in whose hands your life is)
yes. It is important to choose the right hands.))
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In family life, you both need to take the initiative, start flirting, then it gets boring
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Until recently, she did not take the initiative herself. And then how I showed it...))) It turned out to be very cool, and now this is the only way I show initiative)))
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Hooligan Carrie: 18 Aug 2023, 11:28 Until recently, I didn’t take the initiative myself. And then how you showed it....))) It turned out that it was very cool, and now this is the only way I show initiative)))
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And how did your cool initiative manifest itself?
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I love it when a woman takes the initiative!
At every stage: from dating to bed ;)
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Mostly I take the initiative, but sometimes I want the initiative to come from my partner.
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I would like my dick to be fucked hard by a girl
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