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Initiative and sex
Do you like being seduced or being seduced by you? During sex, who takes the initiative, you or your partner? Do you like to take the initiative or do you want to be controlled?
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Re: Initiative and sex
I’m always the initiator. I really like it and really want to be seduced
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Re: Initiative and sex
I suggest my women take the initiative and lead the sex process themselves. So that she voices her desires without hesitation.
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Re: Initiative and sex
Manage yourself, show initiative, buzz and connection: brain-sensations. But this is not the case with every woman. There are women who simply don’t let you do this, they take power into their own hands, don’t even let you make a move, and you’re torn inside...indescribable, but so fucking amazing
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Re: Initiative and sex
..somehow I want it like that
is it not so interesting ....but they showed the initiative that’s a different matter!))
..somehow I want it like that
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Re: Initiative and sex
I don’t have a definite answer, it depends on the woman, the situation and emotional mood
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Re: Initiative and sex
Already in bed, the initiative is almost always mine.
At least attach some kind of voting to such topics.
When it comes to seduction, sometimes I like to see that I am being lured, sometimes I myself like to be lured into this game .
Already in bed, the initiative is almost always mine.
At least attach some kind of voting to such topics.
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Re: Initiative and sex
Almost never, I just gave a colleague a drink and started performing oral and another one unbuttoned my jeans.
It happened that they had a couple of glasses of wine and said that they went to bed, but there were 2-3 of them
It happened that they had a couple of glasses of wine and said that they went to bed, but there were 2-3 of them
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Re: Initiative and sex
Marinka, I love it when my wife controls! She does it so well!
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Re: Initiative and sex
At home with my wife, the initiative is often hers.
The same thing. Depends on the situation and the woman. It happened in different ways.
At home with my wife, the initiative is often hers.
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Re: Initiative and sex
Yes, whatever. Almost always according to the mood: when you take the initiative, when you succumb to seduction, when you react to porn while watching it together, when you give in to friends, etc., etc....
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Re: Initiative and sex
The initiative is considered to be the one who directs the penis into the vagina
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Re: Initiative and sex
Change of pace, change of position. One is always the leader and the other is the follower. Of course you can make a schedule. Let’s say every day from 11 to midnight. Or every other day, or on even days, or on weekends, full moon, in a leap year on February 29. At the same time, create a sex script and strictly follow it. Then there will be no one active or initiative at all. Well, for those who don’t have a schedule or an approved script, for those, only one person takes the initiative.
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Re: Initiative and sex
Marinka, but for me everything is different. It’s just that my wife and I act on the whim of our mood. Since we
feel each other very sensitively, I always feel when she wants to take the initiative, and she knows when I
want to take the initiative. And we give each other this opportunity without hesitation! As a result, we enter
into resonance! And we get such a buzz together!!! Mmmmmmm!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
feel each other very sensitively, I always feel when she wants to take the initiative, and she knows when I
want to take the initiative. And we give each other this opportunity without hesitation! As a result, we enter
into resonance! And we get such a buzz together!!! Mmmmmmm!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Re: Initiative and sex
I like everything. Depends on the mood and the partner. With one you want to dominate, with the other you want to submit. In practice, I am almost always the initiator of everything. And I like it. But if there is a girl in bed with me who will change positions herself and tell me what and how to do, then I will only be glad of such an experience
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Re: Initiative and sex
My husband and I started foreplay via SMS))) When we came home we were already turned on. It really didn’t last longniqk: ↑11 May 2023, 07:27 Marinka, but for me everything is different . It’s just that my wife and I act on the whim of our mood. Since we
feel each other very sensitively, I always feel when she wants to take the initiative, and she knows when I
want to take the initiative. And we give each other this opportunity without hesitation! As a result, we enter
into resonance! And we get such a buzz together!!! Mmmmmmm!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!![]()
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Marinka, The initiative always comes from the wife. She loves sex in all its forms, although this only applies to me and her, she doesn’t accept the option of MFM, FFM, etc.! And sex with her is never boring, she can be a modest girl and a very lustful female, and even very aggressive when my clothes are ruined! And the most interesting thing is that this all happens suddenly! The initiative comes from her and I really like it!
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Re: Initiative and sex
Well done! Preheating is a wonderful thing! Especially when partners are in a long-term relationship...
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Re: Initiative and sex
The Russian language tells us that the leader in most cases is a man, and it sounds like this - woman O-T-D-A-E-T-S-I to man!
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Marinka, I like it when a girl seduces, but when it comes before sex - I usually dominate, not forgetting about the girl’s desires naturally.
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Re: Initiative and sex
Different things happen. I like it anyway.
Why didn’t it last long? Did you get bored quickly?
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All my life I made decisions, managed and led! (I didn’t always make the right mistakes, of course!) But in bed I’m getting old so that she would lead! Enough to lead and make decisions! I try to be a leader in bed! Yes, and women like to command those who lead you in life!
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There was a case when one girl bet on me that she would fuck with me. I came to the park, there was a group of girls there, and one of them started hinting, they went into the bushes and tumbled (mosquitoes bit my entire ass), and then I learned from one of them about their argument. I say, what was the point of arguing for someone that I would refuse? I’m 21, she’s 18, who would refuse dessert. That initiative came from a girl. My work colleagues, 5-7 years older than me, also took the initiative. I’m 20, they’re 25-27, both married and divorced. But of course, in most cases the initiative came from me.
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Re: Initiative and sex
With others I love the initiative, the pressure, the arrogance from them, to be their follower
And with my husband I am the leader and proactive
Somehow, like this
And with my husband I am the leader and proactive
Somehow, like this

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Re: Initiative and sex
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Like all men, I like getting a woman and I don’t mind taking the initiative. But if this is sex in a serious relationship, then the initiative from a woman is also important at times... after all, we men also want to feel that they want us...
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And I had this... but not with my wife... there were times when one of us didn’t want... a couple of SMS. .. and let’s get ahead or I’ll come...Marinka: ↑11 May 2023, 07:32 My husband and I started foreplay via SMS))) When we came home we were already turned on. True, it didn’t last long

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Re: Initiative and sex
I like it when a man takes the initiative and seduces. In sex, I like the man’s initiative, but sometimes I take it into my own hands. It’s very nice to hold a man by the balls and manage the process. See him moan and enjoy sex and bring him to orgasm. But I also like to obey.

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Re: Initiative and sex
In family life, you both need to take the initiative, start flirting, then it gets boring
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Until recently, she did not take the initiative herself. And then how I showed it...))) It turned out to be very cool, and now this is the only way I show initiative)))
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Re: Initiative and sex
Hooligan Carrie: ↑18 Aug 2023, 11:28 Until recently, I didn’t take the initiative myself. And then how you showed it....))) It turned out that it was very cool, and now this is the only way I show initiative)))
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Re: Initiative and sex
I love it when a woman takes the initiative!
At every stage: from dating to bed
At every stage: from dating to bed

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Re: Initiative and sex
Mostly I take the initiative, but sometimes I want the initiative to come from my partner.
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