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Unread post by **AlexTDV** » 21 May 2023, 02:21

Have you cheated on local representatives of the fair sex?
And how did you come to this, if so)

Unread post by **Katerinka** » 20 Oct 2023, 05:41

I cheated, if you can call it that. He got drunk and walked around, couldn’t kick him out of the house, looked for consolation on the side (((

Unread post by **Makcumyc1984** » 20 Oct 2023, 05:49

I have a married mistress, there is no sex at home, so I found her on the side, a completely normal reaction to family problems.

Unread post by **Party** » 20 Oct 2023, 06:20

Many people do. almost everyone I know cheats

Unread post by **Veronica** » 20 Oct 2023, 09:38

Sorry, but I’m a little wrong. I recently got married, a year ago. Changed it once. She also cheated with her husband’s consent.
But when she cheated for the first time, without his knowledge. On the wedding day. Everyone is drunk. They caressed me, I couldn’t resist, I gave in. Alcohol is prohibited for girls.

Unread post by **aryamari** » 20 Oct 2023, 09:40

AlexTDV: ↑21 May 2023, 02:21 have you cheated on local representatives of the fair sex?
And how did you come to this, if so)

yes, cheated, came by accident without change goals

Unread post by **King Bird** » 20 Oct 2023, 20:03

AryaMari: ↑20 Oct 2023, 09:40 yes, she cheated, she came by chance without the goal of changing

Where exactly did she come? If it’s an apartment get-together with drinking and dancing, at the invitation of a friend, then sex at such parties is implied by default.

Unread post by **Veronica** » 21 Oct 2023, 10:01

Stop it, she was joking.

24 Oct 2023, 19:00

Dear ladies. I’m sorry for intruding into your column. I just really understand you. I’m married. That’s how it was with my wife. As it turned out, I spread my legs more than once. I think even though this is not correct. But that’s how it is with 99&. They only talk about this mostly on anonymous forums.

Unread post by **Andrey Lukashov** » 25 Oct 2023, 04:40

My wife had relationships with other men. I know this absolutely for sure. Almost all of my friends and acquaintances have had their wives sin at least once. There are those who sin quite often and seriously, some of them are those whose husbands are absolutely confident in the crystal honesty of their wives. I can’t say that all wives cheat. Of course, there are those who are with no one other than their husband, but they are a negligible percentage of all. I myself believe that in a normal, strong family, everything is possible. All my friends and my wife, neighbors, employees and even relatives consider us an ideal married couple.

Unread post by **Aion2012Dead** » 25 Oct 2023, 04:47

Andrey Lukashov,
Sorry about anxiety. Do you really consider all kinds of relationships to be sins?
And please explain what sin is!

Unread post by **Andrey Lukashov** » 25 Oct 2023, 04:49

I do not think. I just called it that.

Unread post by **Xenophon** » 25 Oct 2023, 04:52

Men usually cheat with women. There are no women specially adapted for this (we don’t take prostitutes into account, we are all against corrupt love here). And you can find a lot of excuses, and even very worthy ones. Almost everyone changes, and those who do not, they simply did not have the opportunity.
No, of course I didn’t cheat. But this exception only confirms the rule.

25 Oct 2023, 04:53

Aion2012Dead: ↑25 Oct 2023, 04:47 what is sin!

Violation of the principles accepted in a certain culture/environment/religion, written and unwritten truths, which entail consequences affecting either a specific person, or on society as a whole.

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Ksenofont: ↑25 Oct 2023, 04:52 Almost everyone cheats, and those who don’t, they simply didn’t have the opportunity.

I never cheated, although there were opportunities , delicately or not so delicately, but stopped such situations. I can flirt and play with words, but I can’t change.

Unread post by **Aion2012Dead** » 25 Oct 2023, 04:56

Ksenofont,
Isn’t this the reason ! -
To broaden your horizons!!!
Just accept a world where there is sex and its options!!

Unread post by **Andrew495** » 25 Oct 2023, 04:58

What is even considered treason?)

Unread post by **Aion2012Dead** » 25 Oct 2023, 05:16

Andrew495,
Betrayal is when everything happens without you.
Supposedly there is some kind of movement and intimacy as well!
But we didn’t introduce you, you seem to be out of touch.
And then you find out, that there was movement, and you were supposedly on the side......
for example, this is roughly how I see it..

Unread post by **Andrew495** » 25 Oct 2023, 05:28

Aion2012Dead: ↑25 Oct 2023, 05:16 Betrayal is when everything happens without you.
Supposedly there is some kind of movement and intimacy as well!
But we haven’t dedicated you to it, you seem to be out of the loop.
And then you find out that there was movement, and you were supposedly on the side......
for example, this is how I see it..

There are many facets here
Is kissing cheating?
Only emotional attachment?
Petting?
Only oral sex?
One-time casual sex ?
Or is cheating a regular relationship?

Unread post by **Aion2012Dead** » 25 Oct 2023, 05:32

Andrew495,
As you can see - a lot different options.
For me, betrayal is when behind your back and quietly. This is fucked up and carrion.

Unread post by **Venus** » 25 Oct 2023, 05:34

Andrew495: ↑25 Oct 2023, 05:28
Aion2012Dead: ↑25 Oct 2023, 05:16 Betrayal is when everything happens without you.
Supposedly there is some kind of movement and intimacy as well!
But we didn’t initiate you, you seem to be out of the loop .
And then you find out that there was movement, and you were sort of on the side......
for example, this is how I see it..
There are many facets here
Is kissing cheating?
Only emotional attachment?
Petting?
Only oral sex?
One-time casual sex?
Or is cheating a regular affair?

Can you openly tell your wife about everything you wrote here? If not, then it’s treason.

Unread post by **Andrew495** » 25 Oct 2023, 05:40

Strecoza: ↑25 Oct 2023, 05:34 Can you openly tell your wife about everything you wrote here? If not, then it’s cheating.

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There are many things that their spouses do not privy to, but not everything can be considered treason. This seems to me to be a very special and personal facet for everyone. A jealous person can consider anything to be treason.

Unread post by **Venus** » 25 Oct 2023, 05:45

Andrew495: ↑25 Oct 2023, 05:40
Strecoza: ↑25 Oct 2023, 05:34 Can you openly tell your wife about everything you wrote here? If not, then it’s cheating.
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There are many things that their spouses do not privy to, but not everything can be considered treason. This seems to me to be a very special and personal facet for everyone. A jealous person can consider anything to be treason.

Did you pretend that you didn’t understand what I wrote? You tell your wife that you are in a rush at work, while you are with another woman at the same time.
Let’s go from the opposite side. Your wife is dating another man, kissing, not a relative, not on the cheek. Is this treason?

Unread post by **Aion2012Dead** » 25 Oct 2023, 05:47

Strecoza,
No wife. Therefore, only a theory.
Yes, I can.
I don’t know how to lie and tricks, it’s easier to be honest!
I don’t understand people who are owners, it’s a completely different way of thinking...

Unread post by **Venus** » 25 Oct 2023, 05:49

Aion2012Dead: ↑25 Oct 2023, 05:47 Strecoza,
nThere is no wife. Therefore, only a theory.
Yes, I can.
I don’t know how to lie and tricks, it’s easier to be honest!
I don’t understand people who are owners, it’s a completely different way of thinking...

Classical marriage implies fidelity. If fidelity is not acceptable to you, then you either agree on an open relationship or do not enter into a relationship at all.

Unread post by **Aion2012Dead** » 25 Oct 2023, 05:56

Strecoza: ↑25 Oct 2023, 05:49
Aion2012Dead: ↑25 Oct 2023, 05:47 Strecoza,
No wife. Therefore, only a theory.
Yes, I can.
I don’t know how to lie and tricks, it’s easier to be honest!
I don’t understand people who are owners, it’s a completely different way of thinking...
Classical marriage implies fidelity. If fidelity is not acceptable to you, then you either agree on an open relationship or do not enter into a relationship at all.

Naturally, I advocate for free incest relationships, without ageism and other age discrimination!

Unread post by **Andrew495** » 25 Oct 2023, 06:10

Strecoza, the answer to your questions is determined by my threshold of jealousy, but it seems to be not universal for everyone, it is not equal to the threshold of another person’s jealousy, and it changes with age, don’t you think?

Unread post by **Venus** » 25 Oct 2023, 06:22

Andrew495: ↑25 Oct 2023, 06:10 Strecoza, the answer to your questions is determined my threshold of jealousy, but it seems to be not universal for everyone, it is not equal to the threshold of jealousy of another person, and it changes with age, don’t you think?

nNo, I don’t find it. Cheating as a phenomenon does not depend on the threshold of your, mine or anyone else’s jealousy. The reaction to betrayal and nothing more depends on the threshold of jealousy.
Well, that is, if a person calmly reacts to betrayal or perhaps does not react at all, this will not make betrayal not non-cheating.

Unread post by **etc** » 25 Oct 2023, 06:23

Strecoza: ↑25 Oct 2023, 05:45 Your wife is dating another a man, kisses, not with a relative, not on the cheek. Is this cheating?

Recently my wife told me that she doesn’t consider one-time sex with someone else to be cheating).

Unread post by **Andrew495** » 25 Oct 2023, 06:28

Strecoza, I disagree with you, I believe that for each person this is a different line, and it is different both in relation to their actions and the actions of their partner

Unread post by **Venus** » 25 Oct 2023, 06:52

vvm: ↑25 Oct 2023, 06:23
Strecoza: ↑25 Oct 2023, 05:45 Your wife is dating another a man, kisses, not with a relative, not on the cheek. Is this cheating?
Recently my wife told me that she doesn’t consider one-time sex with someone else to be cheating).

And, what do you think, is this cheating or not? And if not, how much one-time sex is not considered cheating? Once in a lifetime, once a year, once a month, once a day?

Andrew495: ↑25 Oct 2023, 06:28 Strecoza, I don’t agree with you, I believe that for each person this is a different line, and it is different both in relation to their actions and the actions of their partner/ partner

This is something very interesting. If we follow your logic, then let’s say we’re a couple and the way you write, everyone has their own edge in relation to themselves and their partner. Let’s say I think that if I sleep with someone, it’s not cheating, but if you even give a compliment to another woman, it’s cheating. Is that how it works?
Betrayal is clearly defined - it is a violation of fidelity. Everyone’s reaction to betrayal is different and you can agree as a couple that you are ready to react normally to violation of fidelity in general or in some of its individual manifestations.

Unread post by **Beluga** » 25 Oct 2023, 06:54

vvm: ↑25 Oct 2023, 06:23 Recently my wife told me that she doesn’t consider one-time sex with someone else to be cheating).

does it work both ways? Or is it only she who can do this?

Unread post by **Andrew495** » 25 Oct 2023, 07:09

Strecoza,

violation of fidelity is also not a stable concept. Is going to a restaurant with another woman a violation of fidelity?

Unread post by **Venus** » 25 Oct 2023, 07:15

Andrew495: ↑25 Oct 2023, 07:09 Strecoza,
n
violation of fidelity is also not a stable concept. Is going to a restaurant with another woman a violation of fidelity?

I originally wrote to you. If you hide this fact, then it is a violation of fidelity.

Unread post by **Andrew495** » 25 Oct 2023, 07:20

Strecoza, if he doesn’t hide it, he tells it like it is , went to a restaurant with a pretty woman. Is this ok?)

Unread post by **Venus** » 25 Oct 2023, 07:30

Andrew495: ↑25 Oct 2023, 07:20 Strecoza, if it’s not hiding, He tells it like it is, he went to a restaurant with a pretty woman. Is this ok?)

Ok or not ok depends on your wife’s reaction to your trip. Tell me why you went, being married, with another woman to a restaurant?

Unread post by **Andrew495** » 25 Oct 2023, 07:39

Strecoza, the answer is obvious, for example, because I don’t think so treason, but I enjoy communicating with that woman. I do as I want, because I don’t consider it treason, and I inform them about my actions. So this is not cheating?)

Unread post by **Venus** » 25 Oct 2023, 07:50

Andrew495: ↑25 Oct 2023, 07:39 Strecoza, the answer is obvious, for example because that I don’t consider this cheating, but I enjoy communicating with that woman. I do as I want, because I don’t consider it treason, and I inform them about my actions. So this is not treason?)

No, of course - this is not treason. I’ll tell you even more. While you are in a restaurant with another woman, your wife is in bed with another man. She enjoys communicating with him and does what she wants. This is also not treason. Everything is fine in your family, and you can consider the horns an ornament

Unread post by **Andrew495** » 25 Oct 2023, 07:58

Strecoza, ))), well, here we are, in our discussion, to complete debauchery) and to the horns)

Unread post by **Xenophon** » 25 Oct 2023, 08:29

Any situation can be brought to the point of absurdity. Treason is an exclusively subjective concept. Is jerking off to porn in the absence of your wife cheating? Also on Skype? Also spinning around on this site with text? If you slept with a man? And vice versa. We were walking down the street, saw a beautiful woman and wanted to sleep with her, but when we got home we jerked at her and didn’t tell our wife? You can go on forever.
For me, all this is not treason. But I don’t want to be told about it.

Unread post by **Veronica** » 25 Oct 2023, 08:31

ivan1971: ↑24 Oct 2023, 19:00Dear

.You are putting us in the role of whores. I have not been chaste for a long time, wise and caressed by more than a dozen members.
I got married that September. Never changed. Then with the consent of the husband. If there had been no agreement, I would still be faithful to him. It depends on the woman, and first of all, on the man.
If one of us is a bitch? You can’t change it. And for the most part, we are faithful and devoted friends to you. But your attitude towards us must also be adequate.
So trust us and don’t fuck around, the return will follow.

Unread post by **Venus** » 25 Oct 2023, 08:47

Ksenofont: ↑25 Oct 2023, 08:29 Any situation can be brought to the point of absurdity. Treason is an exclusively subjective concept. Is jerking off to porn in the absence of your wife cheating? Also on Skype? Also spinning around on this site with text? If you slept with a man? And vice versa. We were walking down the street, saw a beautiful woman and wanted to sleep with her, but when we got home we jerked at her and didn’t tell our wife? You can go on forever.
For me, all this is not treason. But I don’t want to be told about this.

There is a completely clear and specific definition of treason, but you confuse your personal attitude towards treason and treason itself - these are different things.

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Andrew495: ↑25 Oct 2023, 07:58 Strecoza, ))), well there you go , we arrived, in our discussion, to complete debauchery) and to the horns)

I don’t understand why a man should live in a marriage if he continues to date others women? You can remain single, date whoever you want, and then there will be no talk of cheating.

Unread post by **Veronica** » 25 Oct 2023, 08:56

Men consider only sexual intercourse to be cheating. The rest is not important.
For us, even helping a colleague try something on is treason. I went, as in your case, to a restaurant, and my wife wiped the children’s snot at home - treason.
Change the flow of a happy family life. They are goats.
And that girl, go to a pub in the evening with a colleague?
Will it start? It’s clear. They are owners. They can do it, but it’s just a little flirtation, but for us it’s the same - all the last words from an obscene dictionary.
Let all the males go away.

Unread post by **Xenophon** » 25 Oct 2023, 09:04

Veronika: ↑25 Oct 2023, 08:56 Men consider only sexual intercourse to be treason. The rest is not important.
For us, even helping a colleague try something on is treason. I went, as in your case, to a restaurant, and my wife wiped the children’s snot at home - treason.
Change the flow of a happy family life. They are goats.
And that girl, go to a pub in the evening with a colleague?
Will it start? It’s clear. They are owners. They can do it, but it’s just a little flirtation, but for us it’s the same - all the last words from an obscene dictionary.
All the males should go away.

nWell, you just wrote everyone down as a male. You personally, I’m sure no one would even have the thought of changing it. You are spreading an absolutely insanely powerful aura of a happy flow of family life.

Unread post by **FUCKYAMATERITY** » 25 Oct 2023, 09:08

Strecoza: ↑25 Oct 2023, 08:52 I don’t understand why a man should live in a marriage if he continues to date other women?

First of all, it’s nice

And it raises self-esteem.

Unread post by **Henson** » 25 Oct 2023, 09:10

FUCKYAMATERITY: ↑25 Oct 2023, 09:08 First of all, it’s nice and it raises self-esteem.

not an attack, but a question. But why then a wife who is not enough?
P.S. It’s not the wife who is bad, but the needs of the couple are different

Unread post by **Veronica** » 25 Oct 2023, 09:12

She smoked and slammed a glass. I remembered what I wanted to say..
I love the smell of diesel fuel and car oils. Why am I writing? My husband is a normal guy, a village guy. A rock in life. He deserves a beautiful, urban, intellectually developed woman. I gave in to his pressure.
But ------I’m like that! What the fuck. Boast of? Easily. And everyone I wrote about fucked under his supervision—drivers from the garage, his former tractor drivers, combine operators. I already wrote about the best and familiar smell.
One thing I like is their hands. Hard, smooth like sandpaper - I like it.
You can’t compare it to a clerk’s pens.
But about what?, I got carried away. And after that loyalty? Of course not. I now have permission to live a free life, of course, within the limits of decency.
Both married and single.

Unread post by **FUCKYAMATERITY** » 25 Oct 2023, 09:20

Henson: ↑25 Oct 2023, 09:10 Why then a wife who is missing?

Without a wife, you will be missing one more.

The needs coincide enough to live together, but sometimes you want something fresh.

Unread post by **Henson** » 25 Oct 2023, 09:24

FUCKYAMATERITY: ↑25 Oct 2023, 09:20 Without a wife, one more will be missing.
The needs coincide enough to live together, but sometimes you want something fresh.

turning on empathy and re-interpreting your words, I would explain as follows. wife - for living together, reliable and stable. mistresses - purely for entertainment, otherwise being with your wife can be boring and uninteresting. Did you understand correctly?

Unread post by **FUCKYAMATERITY** » 25 Oct 2023, 09:32

Henson, why is it so boring to marry someone like that? not worth it. The rest is true, mistresses are entertainment, just like I am for them.

Unread post by **Henson** » 25 Oct 2023, 09:34

FUCKYAMATERITY, I don’t teach morals, but I wouldn’t waste my time for a wife who is not enough. or else, or else!!! look for a supporter of polyamory and/or open relationships

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