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I don’t know how to start..I’m a married woman, 37 years old, we have a son, he’s 21. My husband and I have an excellent relationship with our son too, I’ve never seen my child as a sexual object, I could never imagine that he looks at me as a woman .we have a small age difference and because of this, perhaps not only a mother-son relationship has developed, but also just strong friendships, but that’s what I thought until recently. My son has a normal sex life, brings girls home with regularity. Well, in general, the situation itself : it all started when my son returned from the army, at first I didn’t pay attention, I just couldn’t imagine that he was considering me as a woman. He’s tall, developed, I’m small, slender, and so he began to behave strangely. Well, I already understand now that it’s strange, but then I just thought maybe the girls influenced him. Sometimes he takes me in his arms, spins me around and says, “Mommy, why are you still like a girl to me,” or in the morning we’ll meet in the kitchen, he kisses me on the lips, “Good morning, little girl.” I haven’t kissed him on the lips at all before, and I didn’t allow him, I haven’t really touched him since I was 15, I can give him a hug and a peck on the cheek, but I can’t say that he’s deprived, I never get tired of telling him that my dad and I love him the most in the world. Or we’re sitting having dinner, and he says to my father, “Dad, I envy you that you married your mother, if I marry, it’ll only be someone like my mother.” I chalked it all up to the fact that he’s just giving compliments, well, not at all. I focused my attention. And then a few months ago I just happened to notice that he was masturbating on me. In my parents’ bedroom we have our own shower and toilet, I don’t close the door to the shower because my son doesn’t come into the bedroom without knocking and doesn’t use our bathroom never at all. I came home from work in the evening, went to wash, I stand and wash myself and I feel like someone is watching. I have transparent walls in my shower and a mirror on the entire wall, if you look in it you can see the entrance to the bathroom. I cast a sideways glance and my son is standing looking at and he jerks me off. I immediately turned away, but I don’t know what to do.. I stand with my ass towards him and frantically think about what to do. Well, in general, I didn’t jump out like an idiot, I pretended that I didn’t see him, I washed myself, I reached for a towel, it was no longer there. I sat down. I thought and decided not to talk to my husband, not to talk to my son, just to freeze up as if nothing had happened. But I can’t get it out of my head all the time thinking about it.. I decided to observe, I began to notice strange things in behavior, He touches me often, he hugs me by the waist, he strokes my head, he climbs in to kiss me. Recently he yells from the bathroom “maaam, bring a towel.” I carry it, I open the door, and he stands naked facing me and looks me straight in the eye Some kind of challenge. I give him a towel, I say, “Did you forget?” I turn around and there’s a stack of towels on the shelf. And he says, “Yes, I forgot.” Well, actually, I walked around like that, ignoring it all for about a month. with enviable regularity, he continued to sneak into our bedroom when I was washing. And the worst thing is that I began to notice that I liked it. I liked that he was looking, I liked that he masturbated at me, I myself began to get turned on by this. And I must say I can’t say that I want my son. But I get excited because he watches and masturbates.
Lord, I don’t know what to do... I understand that this is not normal, that I need to somehow resolve this situation and I continue to do nothing ..
I don’t know why I’m writing here, apparently it’s difficult to cope alone and I can’t tell anyone yet. Sorry
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Another true story that you can’t keep silent about)
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Yes, I apologize. Apparently this is not new for you, you’ve already read a lot of stories like mine, but I really have no one to tell, and it’s already hard to keep it to myself. Sometimes it’s easier to tell strangers.
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phao, Has it become easier, as you shared?
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no yet)) to be honest.
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My opinion is that you need to talk to your son and dot the i’s. Because now he’s just jerking off, and then he can get down to business and take advantage of it when the opportunity arises. Then there will be two options: either accept it or let your son live separately.
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I understand what needs to be said, but I can’t even imagine how to start. And it scares me that somewhere deep down in my soul I don’t want this. I don’t want to talk, I don’t want it to stop. This situation is driving me crazy. Maybe I’m an exhibitionist?
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Then let everything go as it goes. Time itself will put everything in its place. I know it from myself.
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Solgans1970: 17 Jun 2023, 09:02 ComplaintQuick QuoteThank
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Then let everything go as it goes. Time itself will put everything in its place. I know from myself.
it’s depressing, it’s like I’m lying to everyone.
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If such a situation really happened, then, as for me, the only reasonable way out of the situation is to make sure that he lives independently.
Healthy forehead 21 years old, after the army, and lives with his parents. Let him live separately and provide for himself.
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If such a situation really happened, then, in my opinion, the only reasonable way out of the situation is to do so, to live independently. Healthy forehead 21 years old, after the army, and lives with his parents. Let him live separately and provide for himself.
he still seems small to me. I can’t leave him out and my husband won’t understand, we have a big house. What will I tell him? ?goodbye? for what reason suddenly?
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phao: 17 Jun 2023, 09:17 he still seems small to me. I can’t throw him out and my husband won’t understand, we have a big house. What will I tell him? Let’s say goodbye? For what reason suddenly?
Because at the age of 20 you need to start leading an independent life, learning this very life. It’s like a rite of passage. Only when a man begins to fully provide for his life, take responsibility for himself, and live completely independently, does he begin to mature. Until then, he will continue to reach for his mother’s boobs)
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phao: 17 Jun 2023, 08:29 My son masturbates on me, what should I do?
Rejoice!
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Big Boy: 17 Jun 2023, 09:25 Rejoice!
Exactly!!! But he is not homosexual or impotent, and his mother, apparently, is pretty!!
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RockstarAgency: 17 Jun 2023, 09:19 ComplaintQuick QuoteThank
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phao: ↑11 minutes ago
He still seems small to me. I can’t put him up And my husband won’t understand, we have a big house. What will I tell him? Let’s say goodbye? For what reason suddenly?
Because at the age of 20 you need to start leading an independent life, learning this very life. It’s like a rite of passage. Only when a man begins to fully provide for his life, take responsibility for himself, and live completely independently, does he begin to mature. Until then, he will continue to reach for his mother’s boob)
I’m afraid of offending him and I don’t want to let him go. If he finishes college, let him go then it will be easier
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phao: 17 Jun 2023, 09:34 I’m afraid of offending him and I don’t want to let him go. If he finishes college, let him go then it will be easier
And he will graduate from college unprepared for life, with no experience work and whose only skill is jerking off to his mother)
Mmm... Ideal)

And if without sarcasm, then I think you yourself see why unnecessary care comes. Sometimes you have to be able to let go in time, no matter how difficult it is.
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RockstarAgency: 17 Jun 2023, 09:36 Unread message from RockstarAgency » 4 minutes ago

phao: ↑5 minutes ago
I’m afraid of offending him and I don’t want to let him go. If he finishes college, let him go then it will be easier
And he will graduate from college unprepared for life, with no work experience and the only skill he has is jerking off to his mother)
Mmm... Ideal)

A if without sarcasm, then I think you can see for yourself what excessive care leads to. Sometimes you have to be able to let go in time, no matter how difficult it may be.
well, it’s not all that pessimistic)) he is quite independent and knows how to not only jerk off to his mother)) ossspadi why did I see all this...
there is some wisdom in your words, but I won’t throw my only child out of the house, I’ll find an alternative) let him get a permanent girl as an option)
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phao: 17 Jun 2023, 09:46 but I won’t put my only child out of the house, I’ll find an alternative) let him get a permanent girl as an option)
Your right) But personally, me, as a man , who has been living independently since the age of 17, this is surprising. How can there not be a craving for independence?
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RockstarAgency: 17 Jun 2023, 09:47 Your right) But personally, as a man who has been living independently since I was 17, this surprises me. How can there not be a craving for independence?
well, independence is not only living separately)) my son is not infantile at all))
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phao: 17 Jun 2023, 09:59 my son is not infantile at all))
You know better) I don’t know the whole situation.
And it’s up to you to decide , not me.
I only advised.
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We need to talk, tell him that you saw him masturbating while he was washing. Is it because there was such sympathy or you couldn’t bear it, you wanted a woman? What will answer, then think about what it is and what to do🤔
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Yes, it is very difficult to advise in such a situation. You really need to know all the circumstances. On the one hand, it is good that there is attraction to the opposite sex, and not to one’s own, but on the other hand, it is bad that it is attraction to the mother.
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If it’s even a little bit true, then there’s only one answer: you have to laugh to yourself and have fun. Attraction to mothers - not everyone goes through this, but... every second person can. Normal, ordinary topic.
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Sibiryak89: 17 Jun 2023, 10:04 Unread message Sibiryak89 » 8 minutes ago

We need to talk, say that you saw him masturbating while he was washing. Is it because there was such sympathy or you couldn’t bear it, you wanted a woman? What will he answer, then think about what it is and what to do
the fact of the matter is that he has women)) and I’m worried about the situation as a whole, and most of all that I really like what he’s watching
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phao: 17 Jun 2023, 09:59 well, independence is not only living separately))my son is not infantile at all))
Don’t listen to advisers! Poor people write about infantilism, who not only have a separate shower in a big house, but also don’t have a warm toilet at home, they are simply envious in their own way!
And about your situation. You shouldn’t tell your son, you were jerking off and I saw it! This is stupid and unhelpful and can worsen your relationship. I recommend you just stop digging and analyze it. Well, I jerked off and jerked off, as Tema would say.
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Alex_Tash: 17 Jun 2023, 10:09 Message by Alex_Tash » 8 minutes ago

If it’s even a little true, then there is only one answer - you need to laugh to yourself and have fun. Attraction to mothers - not everyone goes through this, but... every second person can. A normal, ordinary topic.
even if he has women, is this normal?
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phao: 17 Jun 2023, 10:23 even if he has women, is this normal?
Yes.
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phao: 17 Jun 2023, 10:18 I myself like that he is watching
Yes, it’s normal that you like the attention. Sexual desire, attention is the energy you receive. Again, relax and enjoy. If he really starts to pester you, then you will take action, say that he needs to live with a girl, etc. But there is no need to invent anything.
In any case, you cannot control the situation, your desires, his desires, nor can you, even if you really want to, desires are born on their own. The main thing is to stop worrying and get down to business, business, creativity, learning, whatever, then you won’t need to ask for advice here and worry. Everything will definitely be as it should, believe me!
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phao: ↑24 minutes ago
well, independence is not only living separately)) my son is not infantile at all))
Don’t listen to advisers! Poor people write about infantilism, who not only have a separate shower in a big house, but also don’t have a warm toilet at home, they are simply envious in their own way!
And about your situation. You shouldn’t tell your son, you were jerking off and I saw it! This is stupid and unhelpful and can worsen your relationship. I recommend you just stop digging and analyze it. Well, he jerked off and jerked off, as Tema would say.
I already thought that I could not talk to him, but let him understand in a different way. As an option, he could start closing the door right away will understand. but the worst thing is that I don’t want to and continue to pretend that nothing is happening

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nI like it that he’s watching
Yes, it’s normal that I like the attention. Sexual desire, attention is the energy you receive. Again, relax and enjoy. If he really starts to pester you, then you will take action, say that he needs to live with a girl, etc. But you don’t need to invent anything, anyhow.
In any case, you cannot control the situation, your desires, his desires, nor can you, even if you really want to, desires are born on their own. The main thing is to stop worrying and get down to business, business, creativity, learning, whatever, then you won’t need to ask for advice here and worry. Everything will definitely be as it should, believe me!
But it won’t work out so that I’ll get too carried away and start to perceive him as a man myself? And I’ll want him. I’m afraid of that
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Subconsciously you like it.
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Solgans1970: 17 Jun 2023, 10:45 Unread message Solgans1970 » 7 minutes ago

You like it subconsciously.
I like it consciously. I immediately I wrote about this and that it scares me. But for now I don’t perceive him as a man. He’s my child, albeit an adult, but a son. What’s next?
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phao: 17 Jun 2023, 10:59what next?
You always follow your interest, that’s how life works and you don’t choose your interest. You can only fantasize about what you may or may not want. Here you just need to relax and not think about it. As for sexual desire, well, you’re aroused, you can caress yourself there in the shower, or later in bed, there are vacuum clitoral vibrators like the womanizer, which make you cum very quickly in a minute. It’s just that if you are very excited, you stress yourself out even more. And when you finish, everything will be simple.
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sevener: 17 Jun 2023, 11:04 You always follow your interest, that’s how life works and you don’t choose your interest. You can only fantasize about what you may or may not want. Here you just need to relax and not think about it. As for sexual desire, well, you’re aroused, you can caress yourself there in the shower, or later in bed, there are vacuum clitoral vibrators like the womanizer, which make you cum very quickly in a minute. It’s just that if you are very excited, you stress yourself out even more. And when you finish, everything will be simple.
why do I feel like a pervert? And I can’t forget
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phao: 17 Jun 2023, 11:14 why do I feel like a pervert
Very simple, I like it, it’s interesting! There are girls who love tenderness in bed, and there are those who get high from hard sex, love when they are called a whore and get even more excited, flow and get high from this. The best advice for this situation and others in life. Just take the time for at least 15 minutes, sit down and look at it, the feeling that it is for you, how it appears in you. No one from the outside will see this and will not shame you. Just look without any inhibitions, nothing bad will happen, on the contrary, you will relax, the tension will go away and you will stop paying attention to these desires and giving them excessive importance. It’s better to have sex in life, not in your head and fantasies;)
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You know, I see two options in this situation. First, speak directly. I saw you, this is not right and don’t do it again, otherwise I’ll tell my father (this is if you want to stop everything), but I understand that you don’t want to stop. Option two, you continue what you were doing and enjoy it. In the end, you are both adults and what happens in your intimate life is your own business.
While I was writing, the third option came to mind. But it is feasible if your husband wants MFM. If, for example, your husband suggests a threesome, then you can say that you are ready for this option, but only with one man in whom you are confident, and not some one from the outside.. Like you have only two relatives and friends... Well, that’s an option. And then you won’t have to deceive anyone and have double the pleasure.
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sevener: 17 Jun 2023, 11:19 Unread message sevener » 12 minutes ago

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why do I feel like a pervert
Very simple, I like it, it’s interesting ! There are girls who love tenderness in bed, and there are those who get high from hard sex, love when they are called a whore and get even more excited, flow and get high from this. The best advice for this situation and others in life. Just take the time for at least 15 minutes, sit down and look at it, the feeling that it is for you, how it appears in you. No one from the outside will see this and will not shame you. Just look without any inhibitions, nothing bad will happen, on the contrary, you will relax, the tension will go away and you will stop paying attention to these desires and giving them excessive importance. It’s better to have sex in life, and not in your head and fantasies;)
I’m scared to stay with my thoughts. They stress me out. It’s not about abstract sex, especially there is no shortage of him. This is his son, and I have all sorts of thoughts and what motivates him? what kind of nonsense is this, I’m his mother
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phao: 17 Jun 2023, 11:48 not in abstract sex
Understand that there is a lot of buzz in these thoughts, even if they scare you. Here are a couple more examples for you. People go on rides in the park, all kinds of spinning and falling rides - it’s scary, but they have a blast. People go to the cinema to watch horror films; it’s scary, but it’s adrenaline and a cocktail of other hormones and feelings. This is fun, this is an adventure, etc.
And the fact that you have a son, etc., is imposed moral standards, the assessment of society, what you were told by your parents, TV, etc. Your body reacts not to artificial imposed images, but to a sexy man. There is no need to blame yourself for this and worry about this, this is normal and all physically healthy people have it, there are just a lot of prudes, arrogant and notorious people who hide it.
Even now, you are not looking for advice on how to relax and solve the situation, but subconsciously savoring this situation. You are pleased that you excite a man, it is pleasant that this excites forum members and they think what a beautiful and sexy woman you are, I appreciate the attention.
I wrote above what to do. Just stop justifying and blaming yourself, accept the situation as it is, without at all assessing from the position of good or bad, but who will think and say what, and then all the tension and excitement and all questions will disappear. But you came to watch a film with an interesting plot)

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Well, if you just want to play, I’m ready to help you play with you. Sex correspondence, fantasies, sex in reality, I’m sure you haven’t had a better lover :) The only thing is that this will be a conscious game;)
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sevener: 17 Jun 2023, 12:17 Even now, you are not looking for advice on how to relax and solve the situation, but subconsciously savoring this situation. You are pleased that you excite a man, it is nice that this excites forum members and they think what a beautiful and sexy woman you are, nice attention .
I wrote above what to do. Just stop justifying and blaming yourself, accept the situation as it is, without at all assessing from the position of good or bad, but who will think and say what, and then all the tension and excitement and all questions will disappear. But you came to watch a film with an interesting plot)
I’m not looking for advice it’s true but I’m not savoring the situation, but I’m saying it so it’s easier for me to think. I don’t need confirmation of my attractiveness Believe me, I’m not looking for lovers. And in a conversation you can pick up something worthwhile, you can find people who have had similar situations. And thank you for your participation, yes
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phao: 17 Jun 2023, 12:24 who had similar situations
There are plenty of similar situations. Most of them jerked off to their mothers, sisters, aunts and various relatives (including myself). But everyone has their own individual case, just like you. Some nuances. The most correct option is probably to listen to yourself. Make a choice about what to do. And you need to talk frankly with your son. Yes, it is not easy, but it is necessary. What he wants, what you want. Don’t scold, don’t reproach, just talk. Nothing better than a friendly dialogue has yet been invented. Yes, you can scold, yes, you can tell dad, but this will not solve absolutely anything. But the dialogue is normal, frank. In my opinion, the best option. Well, based on its results, decide what you want.
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Are you still considering the option of sex with your son? The thought of this stuck.
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She provoked it herself, after the divorce, apparently she wanted to assert herself, now she lives separately, but the fantasies remain) But she definitely didn’t want sex and all that, she was just stroking her vanity that a young man, even if his son, jerked off to me, got excited by me... Eh)
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phao: 17 Jun 2023, 10:41
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well, independence is not only living separately)) my son is not infantile at all))
Don’t listen to advisers! Poor people write about infantilism, who not only have a separate shower in a big house, but also don’t have a warm toilet at home, they are simply envious in their own way!
And about your situation. You shouldn’t tell your son, you were jerking off and I saw it! This is stupid and unhelpful and can worsen your relationship. I recommend you just stop digging and analyze it. Well, he jerked off and jerked off, as Tema would say.
I already thought that I could not talk to him, but let him understand in a different way. As an option, he could start closing the door right away will understand. but the worst thing is that I don’t want to and continue to pretend that nothing is happening

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nI like it that he’s watching
Yes, it’s normal that I like the attention. Sexual desire, attention is the energy you receive. Again, relax and enjoy. If he really starts to pester you, then you will take action, say that he needs to live with a girl, etc. But you don’t need to invent anything, anyhow.
In any case, you cannot control the situation, your desires, his desires, nor can you, even if you really want to, desires are born on their own. The main thing is to stop worrying and get down to business, business, creativity, learning, whatever, then you won’t need to ask for advice here and worry. Everything will definitely be as it should be, believe me!
But it won’t work out so that I get too carried away and start to perceive him as a man myself? And I’ll want him. I’m afraid of that
If you like posing, then what are the problems😊, and time will show where it will lead, but it will lead that he will get married and calm down😊. Play, don’t be shy😊
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Still, you need to talk to him and dot all the i’s, another option is to continue playing this game or finally marry him so that he switches to another woman!
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Are you still considering the option of sex with your son? The thought of this has stuck
no, I’m not considering it.

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Lara: 17 Jun 2023, 15:59 I provoked it myself, after the divorce I apparently wanted to assert myself, now I live separately, but my fantasies remain) But I definitely didn’t want sex and all that, I just stroked my vanity that a young man, even my son, jerks off to me, gets excited by me... Eh)
I have similar feelings, yes. It’s time to see a psychologist)
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It’s too early to see a psychologist. You must first understand yourself and still talk to him. If it doesn’t help, then you can probably see a psychologist. Although I’m sure if he had a permanent girlfriend, the problem would disappear by itself.
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Lost, why am I receiving notifications from this topic? I’m not the author and I just received from you🥴🤷
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I don’t know, maybe you have a checkbox for messages when receiving a response?
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Lost: 19 Jun 2023, 03:18 It’s too early to see a psychologist. You must first understand yourself and still talk to him. If it doesn’t help, then you can probably see a psychologist. Although I’m sure if he had a permanent girlfriend, the problem would disappear by itself.
Well, I can’t force him to have a permanent girlfriend, but I’ll talk, I’ve already decided.
In the meantime, I began to close the door to my bathroom when I was there. He is not a fool, he will understand that I saw him and I didn’t like it. I began to notice that I unconsciously distanced myself from any manifestations of tenderness and affection. I don’t hug him, I don’t touch him. I understand that this is also bad, but as they say, it’s two evils.
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phao, why do I get notifications from here????
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di1111: 19 Jun 2023, 03:58 di1111 » 19 minutes ago

phao, why am I receiving notifications from here????
I can’t know ) I’m new here, I just came in by chance just to talk. I think I’ve talked it out and decided I can leave for myself)
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