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I was bi and passive even before I got married. After the wedding, I decided to confess, especially since my wife, according to conversations, was quite loyal to same-sex relationships. When I told her, she was even curious and asked me to show her how it all happened. I arranged the meeting, already imagining what would happen next. My partner fucked me completely in front of her, first I sucked him, then he fucked me in the ass and came there too. To be honest, I even came at the same time, the presence of my wife made me even more excited. But then everything didn’t go as I imagined - my wife stopped perceiving me as a man, intimacy with her stopped completely. She said that I was not a man for her after she saw me cum under a man. Now I am purely a friend for her, sex with her is a strapon for me.
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aleksey38991: 26 Jun 2023, 02:24 Now I am purely a friend for her, sex with her is a strapon for me.
So you are not a man. What is there to be surprised about? Therefore, be glad that she did not kick you out of the house.
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Get yourself common lovers who will fuck you in all the cracks and inseminate you.
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So both she and I have lovers, that’s not the question, she promised that nothing would change.

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᠌ ᠌ ᠌᠌ ᠌ ᠌ ᠌ ᠌ ᠌: 26 Jun 2023, 02:38 So you are not a man. What is there to be surprised about? Therefore, be glad that she didn’t kick you out of the house.
So you would kick your husband out after something like that?
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aleksey38991, Yes..interesting story. If you need normal heterosexual sex, then you need a mistress, so as not to repeat the mistake, it is better not to open up to her, again, unless the wife changes her beliefs. Or change your wife.
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Not to open up - to hide all the time, to hide?
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aleksey38991: 26 Jun 2023, 03:05 Do not open up - hide all the time, hide?
Well, not all women perceive this, it’s better not to know. Over time, maybe you will come across someone who understands.
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Indeed, why does she need a woman in a male guise and it’s surprising that she didn’t kick her out and tell 🤔, I think this will happen in secret to close friends and these rumors will continue to spread.
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So she herself asked to show it and promised that the attitude would not change.
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aleksey38991: 26 Jun 2023, 02:24 I was bi passive even before the wedding. After the wedding, I decided to confess, especially since my wife, according to conversations, was quite loyal to same-sex relationships. When I told her, she was even curious and asked me to show her how it all happened. I arranged the meeting, already imagining what would happen next. My partner fucked me completely in front of her, first I sucked him, then he fucked me in the ass and came there too. To be honest, I even came at the same time, the presence of my wife made me even more excited. But then everything didn’t go as I imagined - my wife stopped perceiving me as a man, intimacy with her stopped completely. She said that I was not a man for her after she saw me cum under a man. Now I’m purely a friend for her, sex with her is a strapon for me.
And what did you expect after all the performance that you put on for your wife?
There is no time to admit such addictions to your wife. Do you think she’s being completely honest with you? Yes, she may have had a lover for a long time, and in order to somehow justify her betrayal to herself, she asked you to show it.
What stupidity.
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aleksey38991: 26 Jun 2023, 03:05 Do not open up - hide all the time, hide?
Do not hide, just admit that a woman wants to see a man next to her. She couldn’t change her attitude towards you just because she saw you having gay sex. Most likely you are passive not only in bed, but also in life. If she behaves with you like a friend, then that’s who you are in life.
You didn’t write that she behaves with you like a brother or a neighbor. You wrote about your girlfriend.
We got what we wanted. Why aren’t you happy?
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aleksey38991: 26 Jun 2023, 04:22 So she herself asked to show it and promised that the attitude would not change
She deceived me. I think over time everything will settle down and everything will be fine.
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aleksey38991: 26 Jun 2023, 04:22 So she herself asked to show it and promised that the attitude would not change.
Consider that she couldn’t cope with her emotions, life is not a porn film.
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It’s true. Although my partner and I tried)))
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He said that I want to try suck! I asked if I was sucking and I said no to someone. I asked: Are you interested in this topic? He says he’ll even help you find a guy?
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aleksey38991, just fuck some girl hard in front of her and you’ll see her jumping towards you again
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He’ll kill you right away. Or he will leave right away.
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aleksey38991: 26 Jun 2023, 04:22 So she herself asked to show it and promised that the attitude would not change.
Maybe offer her this option that you will look for good fuckers and they will fuck her and if she wants, she can allow her to fuck you too.
In the meantime, meet men secretly from her.
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I think everything is made up.
1 . If she was interested, then she would have perceived everything normally.
" the author is not telling us something.
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Tamerlan: 26 Jun 2023, 06:51 I think everything is made up.
1 . If she was interested, then she would have perceived everything normally.
" the author is not telling us something.
My wife did not believe that I in fact, it’s men who fuck, she thought that I was lying and in fact I go out for fucks with women, as she herself later said, it was a shock for her when a man actually started having sex with me.
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aleksey38991, do you love your wife? Do you want sex with her ?tell her about it?
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aleksey38991, well, I created a problem for myself on the empty place. Now think for yourself how to return
relationships with your wife to normal...
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aleksey38991: 26 Jun 2023, 06:58
Tamerlan: 26 Jun 2023, 06:51 I think everything is made up.
1 . If she was interested, then she would have perceived everything normally.
" the author is not telling us something.
My wife did not believe that I in fact, men fuck, she thought that I was lying and in fact I go for whores with women. As she herself later said, it was a shock for her when a man actually started having sex with me.
They are unlikely to give you any advice.
Look for a psychologist and discuss it with him.
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If a wife refuses sex, then she gives the green light to have sex on the side, with other women.
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vox: 29 Jul 2023, 07:47 If a wife refuses sex, then she gives the green light for sex on the side, with other women.
Well, this is not necessary! She may simply be showing her dissatisfaction with the sex life in the family...
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niqk, as the author says, his wife directly states that doesn’t see him as a man (this sounds very offensive) and refuses him traditional sex, agreeing only to have him with a strap-on. I don’t know how the author can restore his wife’s attitude towards himself as a man.
If she is dissatisfied with her sex life in the family, then it is not clear to me from history why she is dissatisfied
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vox: 29 Jul 2023, 08:33 niqk, as the author says, his the wife directly declares that she does not see him as a man (this sounds very offensive) and refuses him traditional sex, agreeing only to have him with a strap-on. I don’t know how the author can restore his wife’s attitude towards himself as a man.
If she is dissatisfied with her sex life in the family, then it is not clear to me from history why she is dissatisfied
But here only a psychologist or psychotherapist can help , specializing in sex relationships...
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I really feel sorry for the girl in this situation. It is not a very wise thing to talk about such preferences after the wedding.
You put her in a terrible position
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niqk, I agree, a psychologist is the best option, at least it definitely won’t make the situation worse, unlike going to other women
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