Should you sleep with your partner together or separately?

Unread post by **Bully Carrie** » 29 Jun 2023, 15:10

I like to sleep alone. It took me a lot of work to persuade my husband to sleep separately. No matter how enchanting the sex is, no matter how nice it is to lie down hugging after sex, then we kiss and go to different bedrooms. And it’s cool: get some sleep, even lying across the bed, snoring as much as you want and throwing out the blanket.
When I accidentally said this in a company, a friend stretched out her face: "High-eyed relationship!" And I think this is just the key to a good relationship when we don’t interfere with each other’s sleep as we want.
And it doesn’t affect sex in any way. By the way, they don’t always have sex in bed, and not always before bed.
What do you have to say about the topic?

Unread post by **Cujoi** » 29 Jun 2023, 17:23

Previously, there was always not enough space for me alone

and if in a dream I felt an obstacle, then it flew to the floor *x ) and then I received pistols

and it’s better to sleep diagonally

Unread post by **etc** » 29 Jun 2023, 17:37

We’ve been sleeping in the same bed for twenty years. Convenient, comfortable, but on the condition that everyone has their own pillow and blanket.

Unread post by **TannaT** » 29 Jun 2023, 17:47

Hooligan Carrie, My Wife and I, from day one, We discussed the topic, everyone sleeps under their own blanket. Sekis cool, together, awesome. Then sleep: everyone has their own Blanket. This is cool!

Unread post by **Wool** » 29 Jun 2023, 17:56

One thing is clear - if you sleep separately on a conditional honeymoon, this is alarming.

Unread post by **TannaT** » 29 Jun 2023, 18:02

Bully Carrie, First of all, Hi Carrie. And secondly, buy yourself a big bed. And scatter under different blankets, each to his own side!

Unread post by **Wool** » 29 Jun 2023, 18:34

TannaT: 29 Jun 2023, 18:02 Hooligan Carrie, Firstly Hello Carrie. And secondly, buy yourself a big bed. And scatter under different blankets, each to his own side!

The width of the bed (or rather mattress) should be at least 220 cm, and the length should be the same.
Six pillows, two blankets

Or better yet, an even bigger bed. Only this is already non-standard and more expensive.
I saw a bed 280x240, so it’s already difficult to interfere with each other

Unread post by **Ivan.Kirillov** » 29 Jun 2023, 19:56

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Unread post by **|_rarely_|** » 29 Jun 2023, 20:22

After sex, it would be such a bummer for me to move to another bedroom.
And so I agree with the speaker above, if only the bed were wide, so as not to really kick each other, this is the most convenient option. If the bed is a "one and a half" then I’d better crawl into another bedroom

Unread post by **in Peru** » 29 Jun 2023, 20:59

We always sleep together, I can’t imagine how you can sleep separately

Unread post by **Wool** » 29 Jun 2023, 21:02

But on this one you can call each other) If you lie down from the edges)

Unread post by **Alice** » 29 Jun 2023, 22:05

And we fall asleep in our arms... and sleep like that all night... I like it.

29 Jun 2023, 22:55

Hooligan Carrie: 29 Jun 2023, 15:10 I like to sleep alone. It took me a lot of work to persuade my husband to sleep separately. No matter how enchanting the sex is, no matter how nice it is to lie down hugging after sex, then we kiss and go to different bedrooms. And it’s cool: get some sleep, even lying across the bed, snoring as much as you want and throwing out the blanket.
When I accidentally said this in a company, a friend stretched out her face: "High-eyed relationship!" And I think this is just the key to a good relationship when we don’t interfere with each other’s sleep as we want.
And it doesn’t affect sex in any way. By the way, they don’t always have sex in bed, and not always before bed.
What do you say on the topic?

good topic, thank you, sunshine

I think , if the partners both agree to this arrangement, then they can sleep anywhere and however they want, even on the ceiling and together or separately)) the main thing is that this does not cause discomfort and omissions in the relationship.
I slept together with my boyfriend for about for about 10 years, then she began to leave him for another room, the children periodically slept with me, he was not indignant for the time being, then he blamed me for it, and by sunset I didn’t even want to sleep with him, and I didn’t want him either.
And we rarely meet with our dear one, and when we do meet, on the contrary, we happily sleep together, we really like it, he is very tactile, like me.. And it doesn’t matter what size the bed is))) and we miss each other , if you are apart..

Unread post by **Bully Carrie** » 30 Jun 2023, 01:15

Cujoi: 29 Jun 2023, 17:23 Yes, it’s better to sleep diagonally

So, I, too, and since childhood, have been sleeping diagonally.

A cat flies to the floor - it’s not scary, but the husband...

Unread post by **Bully Carrie** » 30 Jun 2023, 01:16

◊_NeBo[_Na_]LaDoNi_◊,
Well, when you haven’t seen each other for a long time, it’s different. Then, of course, together, together.

Unread post by **Bully Carrie** » 30 Jun 2023, 01:26

Bolbol: 29 Jun 2023, 21:02 But with this you can call each other out)

And how to have sex?) Only in the bathroom?

Unread post by **Bully Carrie** » 30 Jun 2023, 01:28

TannaT: 29 Jun 2023, 18:02 secondly, buy yourself a big bed

Why? I feel comfortable alone in the whole bedroom) I want to open the window, I want to close it. I want to turn on the air conditioner. This does not affect the quality and regularity of sex in any way IMHO.

Unread post by **Greek10** » 30 Jun 2023, 01:37

And we always go to bed together, for 25 years. But our bed is large, 2.2 m long / 2 m wide, we don’t experience discomfort in space, but we often wake up alone - I’m in the bedroom, my wife is on the sofa in the living room, there are many reasons - my wife is a lark, I snore sometimes, I don’t feel well, it’s hot when I drink - fumes, etc. Most often, the wife is a lark - she wakes up at 4 in the morning, then falls asleep on the sofa at 6 in the morning)))

Unread post by **King Bird** » 30 Jun 2023, 02:09

I usually sleep with my wife, on different pillows under the same blanket. There is no discomfort or problems regarding this. Unless I have to go somewhere in the middle of the night - but this rarely happens. Or when it’s very hot in the summer - but this is also rare in our area.

Unread post by **etc** » 30 Jun 2023, 03:22

Sleeping with your wife is very convenient, you can always ask or ask for something. Of course, we had to make supply ventilation so that there was enough air for two with the windows closed.
Last night I woke up, my thoughts started flowing and suddenly I was thinking about the meaning of the word paradox... I asked my wife and a second later I received a short answer - a combination incompatible.)))

Unread post by **meh1** » 30 Jun 2023, 03:28

If you have a big bed, it’s more interesting to sleep together, you woke up by accident, either hit your butt or your tits, got moral pleasure and continued to sleep)) Then the dream is more exciting or something)

Unread post by **Bully Carrie** » 30 Jun 2023, 04:06

vvm, that is, you woke her up to ask about paradox?)))
Great idea)) Tomorrow I’ll wake up my friend with a question about the Spanish partisans in the Napoleonic wars)))

Unread post by **etc** » 30 Jun 2023, 04:14

Hooligan Carrie: 30 Jun 2023, 04:06 vvm , that is, you woke her up to ask about the paradox?)))
Great idea)) Tomorrow I’ll wake up mine with a question about the Spanish partisans in the Napoleonic wars)))

Is he an expert in Spanish history?))

Unread post by **meh1** » 30 Jun 2023, 04:14

vvm: 30 Jun 2023, 03:22 Sleeping with your wife is very convenient, you can always ask or ask for something. Of course, we had to make supply ventilation so that there was enough air for two with the windows closed.
Last night I woke up, my thoughts started flowing and suddenly I was thinking about the meaning of the word paradox... I asked my wife and a second later I received a short answer - a combination incompatible.)))

It seems to me that many people would answer such a question at night at best by hitting them with a pillow, waking them up for the meaning of the word or discussing life on Mars - such a reason, but Your wife is apparently mega calm if she is ready to answer quiz questions at night

Unread post by **etc** » 30 Jun 2023, 04:17

Hooligan Carrie: 30 Jun 2023, 04:06 , that is, you woke her up,

mih1: 30 Jun 2023, 04:14 It seems to me that many people answered this question at night at best and were shocked would be a pillow, to wake up for the meaning of the word

She was not fast asleep yet.

Unread post by **Morpheus** » 30 Jun 2023, 04:37

I’ve heard and read a lot about this. But my attitude towards sleeping separately is quite negative. Supporters of separate sleeping argue that the sensations are not dulled (?!) by the partner and that they will not get bored of each other. But I think sleeping separately is only possible in one case: when your partner is sick. All! All the other excuses about “it’s convenient to sleep alone,” etc. This suggests that many do not want to simply part with their habits from their single life. For me personally, a partner sleeping (lying) next to me is happiness! And it doesn’t matter what size the bed is. In the evening, you fall asleep hugging your beloved woman, your hand may be on her chest or on her vagina... Or she hugs you and you feel comfort and care from her, so you fall asleep peacefully. And even more so after hot sex, when your body is relaxed and you begin to doze off, your loved one is quietly snoring on your shoulder... How can we talk about sleeping separately??! Even sleeping under different blankets is not very acceptable for me because I lose physical contact with my partner at night. I need to feel her ass and back all night so that I can stroke her and fall asleep peacefully again.

My opinion: when people start sleeping separately (no matter how long they live together), it means there are problems in their relationship, hidden for now, but they are clearly emerging. That’s why people start living together in order to feel physical contact with their partner, direct or indirect, as often as possible.

Unread post by **meh1** » 30 Jun 2023, 05:28

By the way, I have noticed more than once that older people begin to sleep separately and a double bed seems to be of no use, but at age there is no longer that craving for each other and there is no that passion, and this is + - understandable, but while I’m young, it seems to me that I need to keep female body nearby get closer and enjoy.

Unread post by **government38** » 30 Jun 2023, 07:05

As they say, you need to quarrel in the kitchen, but make up in the bedroom, if my lioness said that she would sleep separately, then I would wonder what’s wrong, my character is a charismatic, loud lady, like in Italian families during the day there are screams and the clink of broken dishes at night, the bed creaks and moans. if I tell her that I can’t get enough sleep, she’ll give me a hard time, and if we fall asleep and don’t hug her tits, she immediately suspects something and starts to get jealous.
When we fall asleep, she turns her butt around and the dick must hit the ass hand holding her tit so she falls asleep better and by the morning she pushes that ass onto the edge of the bed, no sleep, but what can you do? A pride is a pride.

Unread post by **Bully Carrie** » 30 Jun 2023, 08:31

Morpheus, Thanks for the detailed answer. As I understand it, mostly men write about THEIR preferences: what is convenient for THEM. And what is convenient for a woman.....

Unread post by **niqk** » 30 Jun 2023, 08:40

How to sleep with a partner is a purely individual thing. It’s a matter of habit. My wife and I sleep together. But not always.
If someone catches some kind of flu, we sleep in different rooms...

Unread post by **Olfar** » 30 Jun 2023, 08:44

In fact, you can live separately and only spend leisure time together. Such marriages also exist.
As for sleeping separately, I had such an experience when I lived with my ex-wife. This was not due to the fact that we did not have enough space on one bed, but due to different work and rest schedules. For example, when one gets up early for work, and the other, on the contrary, comes home late, then it would be better not to wake up the person so that he can rest properly before the shift.

Unread post by **Sibiryak89** » 30 Jun 2023, 08:56

I slept together and with all my wives (3 pieces))) I slept together. Now at the dacha we sleep separately, single beds, it’s a bit cramped

Unread post by **government38** » 30 Jun 2023, 09:14

Olfar: 30 Jun 2023, 08:44 , when one gets up early for work, and the other, on the contrary, comes late

I come home from duty in the morning, after reading the forum and photos of pussies, I have a boner wild, I lie down next to my penis, rest against the labia and say sleep, don’t pay attention, here she twists her butt, and her ass closer, I look and the head of the penis is already visiting the pussy, manages to cum, fall asleep with the dick in the pussy, wake up and ask "and Sho it was", touches the pussy and asks why you fucked me...

Unread post by **Bully Carrie** » 30 Jun 2023, 09:15

niqk: 30 Jun 2023, 08:40 How to sleep with a partner is a purely individual thing. It’s a matter of habit.

No, the majority of votes in this thread agree that this is bullshit, and it’s time to break up if you suddenly liked sleeping alone)) )))

Unread post by **Olfar** » 30 Jun 2023, 09:21

In general, the quality of rest is better if you sleep alone. No one will push you or wake you up with snoring. Another question is that people get used to everything and are comfortable with it. Previously, we generally lived in communal apartments; there wasn’t much choice when there was one room for the whole family. And in ancient Greece, husband and wife lived in different halves of the house. So beliefs also depend on the cultural environment, I guess.

Unread post by **Bully Carrie** » 30 Jun 2023, 09:22

vvm: 30 Jun 2023, 04:14 Is he an expert in Spanish history?))

No, a history buff.

Unread post by **niqk** » 30 Jun 2023, 09:23

Hooligan Carrie, that’s what I say: with normal family relationships, sleep as you want. And how
the transition to the stage of separation - a separate bed...

Unread post by **The passage** » 30 Jun 2023, 09:35

My ex-husband and I slept together. And, there was no other room and there were no thoughts of sleeping separately either.
Now, if young people appear, we sleep in different beds, different apartments, different areas of the city and even in different cities. During this time I got used to sleeping alone, and even if they ask me to stay the night, I don’t stay until the morning.
Sleeping alone is more convenient, more comfortable, more enjoyable and you get better sleep.

30 Jun 2023, 09:40

Sibiryak89: 30 Jun 2023, 08:56 Slept together and with all the wives (3 pieces))) slept together. Now at the dacha we sleep separately, single beds, it’s a bit cramped

move the beds so they stand next to each other)

Unread post by **niqk** » 30 Jun 2023, 09:50

◊_NeBo[_Na_]LaDoNi_◊: 30 Jun 2023, 09:40
Sibiryak89: 30 Jun 2023, 08:56 Slept together with all his wives (3 pcs))) slept together. Now at the dacha we sleep separately, single beds, it’s a bit cramped
move the beds so that they stand next to each other)

And if your husband doesn’t have enough patience?..

Unread post by **Lisa24** » 30 Jun 2023, 11:05

only together)) I’m tactile. I don’t like sleeping alone. Besides, I like spontaneous sex when nothing predicted it.

Unread post by **niqk** » 30 Jun 2023, 11:10

Lisa24: 30 Jun 2023, 11:05 only together)) I’m tactile. I don’t like to sleep alone. Besides, I like spontaneous sex when nothing predicted.

Yeah... Spontaneous sex, and even in the most unexpected place - it’s cool!!!

Unread post by **Lisa24** » 30 Jun 2023, 11:25

niqk: 30 Jun 2023, 11:10 Yeah... Spontaneous sex, and even in the most unexpected place - it’s cool!!!

in bed is also good))

Unread post by **niqk** » 30 Jun 2023, 11:31

Lisa24, so no one refuses bed! But spontaneity does not choose places!!!

Unread post by **Lisa24** » 30 Jun 2023, 11:35

niqk: 30 Jun 2023, 11:31 But spontaneity does not choose the place!!!

yes it is

Unread post by **niqk** » 30 Jun 2023, 11:37

Lisa24, I wonder where you were last was there spontaneous sex? And with whom?

Unread post by **Lisa24** » 30 Jun 2023, 11:55

niqk: 30 Jun 2023, 11:37 Lisa24, I wonder where was the last time you had spontaneous sex? And with whom?

I mean with whom? with my knight of course) I was in the hammam. I didn’t like it. It was hot even for me)

Unread post by **niqk** » 30 Jun 2023, 11:58

Lisa24, but the knight may not be one...

Unread post by **Lisa24** » 30 Jun 2023, 12:04

niqk: 30 Jun 2023, 11:58 Lisa24, but there may be more than one knight...

he is the only knight) they know there are no knights lying on the road then) men maybe there are many but there is only one knight)
I have been with my knight since childhood, you can say.permanently together until a spear flies to my head, then I still come back))

Unread post by **Veronica** » 30 Jun 2023, 12:33

You know, I don’t read intermediate ones, very much. Sometimes, if I’m very interested, I look through it.
You have one answer. Mine.
How to treat your husband (partner). Do you want to take a break from him? It’s psychological. With Lekha, at least I don’t love him? Okay, she probably got it. As they said, she’ll fuck you and fall in love. My in, m, presentation. I forgot how to spell the Russian proverb correctly.
I like to sleep in a chair with Leshka.
Sometimes I wake up and squeeze his penis with my legs.
He’s happy!!!I always have it.
Girls know ----if it weren’t for our desire, men would have died out as a class. We, girls, have had Matriarchy for a long time. Just don’t tell the men, they’ll be offended. They are so weak and touchy.
Guys ---- not all of them are like that, I’ll apologize right away. But I came across such people.
For some, my salary was enough to drink and eat, and there were others.
Leshka was different. Country man. Like behind a wall.