Why are we and our parents embarrassed to be naked or discuss sex topics?

[Alexey_klinkov]

I’ve been thinking for a long time, and you toocan’t talk to your parents, say your mother, and adequately discuss any topic or question? Why am I embarrassed to change my clothes in front of her, or am I ashamed when I accidentally saw her naked in the shower several times?
Now, if I were a parent, I would try to build such a relationship so that my son himself would not be embarrassed to change clothes in front of one of us or would not be embarrassed to see his mother without clothes, and could also come up and ask anyone and even if it’s a question regarding sex.
And the point is not to constantly be naked in front of someone, but in an adequate way, like, yes, I came out of the shower naked in front of my mother, so what? Or if she changes clothes in front of me and I saw her breasts, she asks me to turn away, why? Well, I wonder what you think?

[Kubanoid]

This is simply imposed on us, it was imposed on us that this cannot be done. Because we see people in clothes who will never take off their clothes in front of us, from childhood we have the opinion that this is not possible.

[Viktor(go-go)]

it was imposed on us that this was not allowed

My family was strictly traditional, they believed in God, women did not cut their hair, wore braids, and if you were caught jerking off then hit the ass with a belt! Since then, I’ve only been a pervert on the Internet, but I’m a good boy .

[Kubanoid]

My family was strictly traditional, they believed in God, women didn’t cut their hair, wore braids, and if you were caught jerking off, you got a belt on your ass! Since then, I’ve only been a pervert on the Internet, otherwise I’m a good girl.

Oh, I’m not jealous

[sensitive]

This is an instinct that warns about the unnaturalness of closely related relationships. If it did not exist, people would have sex with close relatives, and this would lead to a huge number of pathologies in children born in such relationships and would be a threat to the normal development of the human population. Therefore, close relatives of the opposite sex avoid sexual relations with each other and any manifestations of sexuality among themselves.

[Alexey_klinkov]

sensitive, Well, I don’t think that an adequate response to natural things, would lead to sex with someone!

[sensitive]

This instinct exists in order to nullify any such relationship between close relatives, otherwise mutual sexual attraction would drive them to bed with all the negative consequences. Instincts generally play a big role in people’s lives, because man is an animal, albeit a more developed one.

[Alexey_klinkov]

sensitive, well, let’s say my mother allows me to she can freely walk past naked, would this push her to have sex with me, that is, with her son? Well, I would be against it
I think such an approach would make us open to each other, and we could adequately discuss any issue

[sensitive]

Well, let’s say my mother allows me and she can freely walk past naked, would this push her to have sex with me, that is, with her son? Well, I would be against it
I think such an approach would make us open to each other, and we could adequately discuss any issue

No I think that this approach can make people open to each other; for this there are other communication options. It’s just that if a son sees his mother naked, his procreation instinct, which is responsible for arousal, is triggered, but this should not happen in relation to his mother. A normal mother would not walk around naked in front of her son, fully understanding his possible reaction, although there are many of them; there is a popular topic on the Internet about mothers with boys in women’s locker rooms. However, this is considered abnormal, although in any society any taboos are broken.

[PrematureCum]

My sister and I undressed in front of our mother, she taught us that this was normal. She didn’t specifically show her nudity, but if we saw it by accident, she didn’t swear.
She talked to us about sex, but categorically forbade having it before 18.

[Pass14]

I had a normal understanding on this matter. No embarrassment :)

[Veronica]

We weren’t shy. We washed ourselves in the room my father bought. But up to 16 years old. I was already 12 years old when I got an apartment, no, 13. Why do I remember? I became a woman at the age of 14, already in a new apartment.
Naked dad, of course, brother. Aoni me. My little brother studied my ass thoroughly, together with my older sister. We saw mom and dad having sex, of course. And in the house. And what? There was one room where there was a stove and a kitchen.
I liked it when dad fucked mom doggy style. You can’t cover yourself with a blanket, you can see everything. Yes, and I’m a vulture, my butt is off, just come from behind. Otherwise there will be an incredible Kama Sutra to get to mine. It’s simpler and easier - I got down on my knees, and everyone felt good. Yes, there’s a drinking hole nearby. Fuck me and enjoy developing a new hole to receive a dick.
I have a comfortable female structure.
I wish you all a restless night, so that the girls fall asleep tormented, but satisfied. And the guys drank sour cream so that by the morning they would be like heroes.
Bye, bye. Yours, Nika.

[Nickname]

Veronica, reply in PM Nick)))

[Anonym9]

Because separation from parents must take place. Therefore, not naked. You are no longer a child. Sex topics could be discussed, but this is a matter of boundaries and age.

I’ve been thinking for a long time, and you too can’t talk to your parents, say your mother, and adequately discuss any topic or question?

[ilia1988]

These are all prejudices, the morality of society, although everyone is quietly perverted from this society as soon as they want and how good it is that there is such a forum where you can calmly talk about such things

[Henson]

I have a peculiar attitude towards this issue.

I don’t want children. Life is already too hard to dedicate to anything other than yourself. I perfectly understand the psychology of people and my empathy is excellent, but I have enough patience with children for 2 attempts to calm them down, and then despotism and indifference. That toad puts pressure on them to feed, clothe, and educate them, but they run off to another city, or even a country, and forget for nothing. But I won’t be able to keep them, they should live their own lives, and not look after an old fart, missing out on the best moments

As for the issue of shame... Well, I’m a nudist and I get rid of myself with great pleasure from all elements of clothing at home, even taught my girlfriend to be modest) So with children, everything would be as open as possible within the framework of the law. If you fantasize that I still have an ideal family with ideal children, then they would be a family of 100% nudists. A family in which the genitals are the same anatomical element as an elbow or an ear. And sex is also not a secret, although it is not demonstrated (a boner is a natural phenomenon and there is no point in hiding it, but poking it at them is also nini). Yes, parents have sex, they love each other, want each other and excite each other, and having sex is good and pleasant. Discuss sex away from us or share experiences - yes, of course. Down to the specifics, in the spirit of "mom, how do you suck dad so that he likes it? Dad laughed and said to ask you, this is what you do" or "dad, does it feel good to caress your butt with your finger? I tried it and somehow didn’t understand if I was doing it right? "

In general, this topic is very close to me in terms of indignation at society. Why be a hypocrite, pretend that nothing like this is happening and blame yourself for the lack of sex and the lack of opportunity to talk normally about sex?

Well, from my signature it is clear that incest is not alien to me, although only in fantasies, but still)

[Aion2012Dead]

Henson,
Absolutely agree!! !
There should be no embarrassment of your body in front of people.
Even though you said that everything should be within the law, but according to the law, if a child sees a naked man, then he is guilty of seduction.
This is nonsense. But also the law.
The state, with its prohibitions, has taken on an exorbitant burden.

[Henson]

I absolutely agree!!!
There should be no embarrassment of your body in front of people.
Even though you said that everything should be within the law - but according to the law, if a child sees a naked man, then he is guilty of seduction.
This is nonsense. But also the law.
The state, with its prohibitions, has taken on an exorbitant burden.

Dura lex sed lex. Laws are not perfect and need to be changed. But until the moment of change it is better to comply with them