When you were a child, your mother found porn on her phone, what would you do if you were a parent?

[Alexey_klinkov]

I remembered one incident from my childhood, it was the first time I had a touchscreen phone, and one of my classmates sent me an adult video (that is, porn) via bluetooth, then we thought it was something new and cool, then I left then for training, and gave the phone to my mother, after class I went out, and my mother called me, and Lesha said, what is this? where did you get this, what am I talking about? She gave me my phone number and said quickly delete it! When I remembered that I had a sex video on my phone, I started to sweat and my eyes darkened with fear, and then for a while I was so ashamed, but if I were a parent, I would have reacted differently, because I like sex, and I understand that this is natural, and in general I would not say what I found in his phone, but it would be better after that to understand that he has developed an interest in sex, which means he is already maturing, and it is time to personally talk about the topic of sex. I wonder if you have ever had similar situations and what you would have done?

[The passage]

IMHO there should be conversations about sex before porn appears on a child’s phone.

[Aion2012Dead]

Conversations about sex can and should be started before such questions arise.
Forbidding a teenager to watch porn is crazy!
And the lack of education of parents in this regard is not entirely understandable..
They are also people, with their own shortcomings.

[Keep the change for yourself]

There was porn on the computer, they fired at me anyway, there were no conversations, especially with reproaches.
Well, the porn I had was not for perverts, but classics and naked women, so everything was fine.

[Alexey_klinkov]

I also had a classic there

[The passage]

I also had classics there

If now parents find classic porn from a boy, we can only be glad that he is not growing up homosexual.

[Let’s]

We always talked openly with our son about this topic. But no details. When he asked where children come from, that’s what they said. That mom and dad fell in love with each other, slept together, and then mom got pregnant and you were born. No storks, cabbage or any nonsense. But this is at 5-6 years old.. Then when he got older and began to clarify, at about 9 years old, they also said it as it is, that children are born and come out of the vagina. And at 10 they bought him a children’s encyclopedia of human structure and everything there, including sex (how it happens) to the birth of a child and where it comes from. I think that when we find porn on him, there will be no tragedy. The main thing is that it’s normal))

[Lust From Beyond]

I’ve never been in this situation, but I remembered that when I was a child, my father kept porn in a hidden folder on his computer. There was no Internet at that time, so his friends were happy to record these videos on disk with us. And over time (of course, in secret from my parents) I recorded porn to my friends. I also remember that among the videos there was one staged (but at that time it seemed realistic) rape of three emo girls. So, now the answer regarding the topic. I believe that negativity from parents in such a situation can only do harm. They should either pretend they don’t know, or have a normal conversation with the teenager, because porn and sex are normal

[Wow]

I don’t know, I don’t have children, but... in principle, if I found it, I would pretend that I didn’t see it.
My father once found porn photos in one of the notebooks, and, holding them in his hands (but without showing me), he began to ask: “Where is this from?”, and I said that I don’t know, someone probably planted it at school... there’s nowhere else. Not only that, I also asked: “What is this?”

[nikolj202]

Told my daughter how to avoid getting burned after watching porn

[niqk]

All this proves the need for sex education for everyone - children, adolescents, and adults...

[loving]

I also had a couple of photos on my phone, my parents, of course, had a conversation and deleted them.