Please advise me something.

Unread post by **Obedient boy** » 02 Aug 2023, 10:10

Hi all. This topic has arisen, as some know from my messages, I am married. But there is one thing, I really like the girl from work! I just love to communicate with her, to be together in some moments (it doesn’t always work out). I like her face, her eyes, her figure and her simple and sympathetic character. Six months ago, when I saw her for the first time, she somehow sunk into my soul, but at that time, let’s say we talked hi, hi, bye, bye, but over time I looked more for a meeting and communication with her. One day, I noticed that she was right on my heels, making some movements in my direction. Arriving home, I went online and asked how to understand that a girl likes me? (Purely out of curiosity) There I received answers that straightened hair, loose hair and random touches are the fact that the girl likes you. That day I didn’t even lay a finger on her, I was afraid to touch her. Arriving home and reading everything said above, I thought: well, she’s mine now! Not so! The communication ended abruptly, I began to miss her, in my thoughts I wanted her to just write me at least hello. I was so looking forward to her message. And today, she returned from vacation (from the South) and called me herself. True, we were at work. He asks me: what will you do now? Because I wanted to invite you for a walk. Naturally, I immediately put everything aside and went with her. We just walked, talked about nothing, but even without that I felt good with her, just because I was with her, I was close. Then there was another walk and then I left. We agreed to meet on the weekend and promised to call. I really want this meeting, not for the sake of sex, but I just want to be with her! Chat, sit next to each other, maybe hug, just so sincerely! As I wrote earlier, I am married, my wife knows nothing. In addition to all this, I previously had mistresses with whom I was for a long time. I don’t have relationships on the side just once or twice. I don’t know why I’m writing here, maybe I just want to talk it out or get advice, at least some kind of beating from you. Many may not approve, but thanks anyway for taking the time to read!

Unread post by **The passage** » 02 Aug 2023, 10:22

Obedient boy: ↑02 Aug 2023, 10:10 Hello everyone. This topic has arisen, as some know from my messages, I am married. But there is one thing, I really like the girl from work! I just love to communicate with her, to be together in some moments (it doesn’t always work out). I like her face, her eyes, her figure and her simple and sympathetic character. Six months ago, when I saw her for the first time, she somehow sunk into my soul, but at that time, let’s say we talked hi, hi, bye, bye, but over time I looked more for a meeting and communication with her. One day, I noticed that she was right on my heels, making some movements in my direction. Arriving home, I went online and asked how to understand that a girl likes me? (Purely out of curiosity) There I received answers that straightened hair, loose hair and random touches are the fact that the girl likes you. That day I didn’t even lay a finger on her, I was afraid to touch her. Arriving home and reading everything said above, I thought: well, she’s mine now! Not so! The communication ended abruptly, I began to miss her, in my thoughts I wanted her to just write me at least hello. I was so looking forward to her message. And today, she returned from vacation (from the South) and called me herself. True, we were at work. He asks me: what will you do now? Because I wanted to invite you for a walk. Naturally, I immediately put everything aside and went with her. We just walked, talked about nothing, but even without that I felt good with her, just because I was with her, I was close. Then there was another walk and then I left. We agreed to meet on the weekend and promised to call. I really want this meeting, not for the sake of sex, but I just want to be with her! Chat, sit next to each other, maybe hug, just so sincerely! As I wrote earlier, I am married, my wife knows nothing. In addition to all this, I previously had mistresses with whom I was for a long time. I don’t have relationships on the side just once or twice. I don’t know why I’m writing here, maybe I just want to talk it out or get advice, at least some kind of beating from you. Perhaps many will not approve, but thanks anyway for taking the time to read!

))) Ahah, what do I recommend? I will advise.

Unread post by **Obedient boy** » 02 Aug 2023, 10:28

Thank you dear!!! Very valuable.

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Marinka: ↑02 Aug 2023, 10:22 Hello everyone. This topic has arisen, as some know from my messages, I am married. But there is one thing, I really like the girl from work! I just love to communicate with her, to be together in some moments (it doesn’t always work out). I like her face, her eyes, her figure and her simple and sympathetic character. Six months ago, when I saw her for the first time, she somehow sunk into my soul, but at that time, let’s say we talked hi, hi, bye, bye, but over time I looked more for a meeting and communication with her. One day, I noticed that she was right on my heels, making some movements in my direction. Arriving home, I went online and asked how to understand that a girl likes me? (Purely out of curiosity) There I received answers that straightened hair, loose hair and random touches are the fact that the girl likes you. That day I didn’t even lay a finger on her, I was afraid to touch her. Arriving home and reading everything that was said above, I thought: well, she’s mine now! Not so! The communication ended abruptly, I began to miss her, in my thoughts I wanted her to just write me at least hello. I was so looking forward to her message. And today, she returned from vacation (from the South) and called me herself. True, we were at work. He asks me: what will you do now? Because I wanted to invite you for a walk. Naturally, I immediately put everything aside and went with her. We just walked, talked about nothing, but even without that I felt good with her, just because I was with her, I was close. Then there was another walk and then I left. We agreed to meet on the weekend and promised to call. I really want this meeting, not for the sake of sex, but I just want to be with her! Chat, sit next to each other, maybe hug, just so sincerely! As I wrote earlier, I am married, my wife knows nothing. In addition to all this, I previously had mistresses with whom I was for a long time. I don’t have relationships on the side just once or twice. I don’t know why I’m writing here, maybe I just want to talk it out or get advice, at least some kind of beating from you. Perhaps many will not approve, but thanks anyway for taking the time to read!
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))) Ahah, what do I recommend? I will advise

In principle, I don’t even know, but maybe someone else had something like this? How should we feel about this? Maybe I just got all this into my head? Yes, I forgot to add that she also lives in a civil marriage and has 2 children.

Unread post by **Shalun70** » 02 Aug 2023, 10:41

I looked at your other posts. I also can’t understand whether you and your wife divorced or not? It seems you like to fantasize.
As for this case, I would advise you to divorce your wife because you have committed something worse than physical betrayal, you have betrayed her mentally. Your relationship has no future, if you want to be happy, end the bad relationship and start a new one... Or suffer and don’t cry!

Unread post by **Obedient boy** » 02 Aug 2023, 10:56

Shalun70: ↑02 Aug 2023, 10:41 I looked at your other posts. I also can’t understand whether you and your wife divorced or not? It seems you like to fantasize.
As for this case, I would advise you to divorce your wife because you have committed something worse than physical betrayal, you have betrayed her mentally. Your relationship has no future, if you want to be happy, end the bad relationship and start a new one... Or suffer and don’t cry!

. Yes, I divorced my wife, but at the moment we are living in a civil marriage. And it looks like what you are saying. But there is one thing, children. How will they react to this? I love it very much!!!

Unread post by **The passage** » 02 Aug 2023, 11:09

Obedient boy: ↑02 Aug 2023, 10:56
Shalun70: ↑02 Aug 2023, 10:41 I looked at your other posts. I also can’t understand whether you and your wife divorced or not? It seems you like to fantasize.
As for this case, I would advise you to divorce your wife because you have committed something worse than physical betrayal, you have betrayed her mentally. Your relationship has no future, if you want to be happy, end the bad relationship and start a new one... Or suffer and don’t cry!
. Yes, I divorced my wife, but at the moment we are living in a civil marriage. And it looks like what you are saying. But there is one thing, children. How will they react to this? I love it very much!!!

Take your kids to the Zoo this weekend

Unread post by **Shalun70** » 02 Aug 2023, 11:11

Obedient boy: ↑02 Aug 2023, 10:56 . Yes, I divorced my wife, but at the moment we are living in a civil marriage. And it looks like what you are saying. But there is one thing, children. How will they react to this? I love you very much!!!

Ask any psychologist, it is much more important for children to see happy parents than parents forced to live together. This is none of my business, decide for yourself, because this is your life, but I would advise you to still make a decision. With this... You will not harm yourself, nor your wife, nor your children.... On the contrary, you will make everyone happy.

Unread post by **Obedient boy** » 02 Aug 2023, 11:13

Shalun70, Thank you. I will decide something.

Sent after 5 minutes 19 seconds: Shalun70, although this is very, very difficult.

Unread post by **Shalun70** » 02 Aug 2023, 11:28

Obedient boy: ↑02 Aug 2023, 11:19 Shalun70, although it is very, very difficult.

It should be easier for you! Difficult give advice from the outside, if you don’t know the situation in all its nuances, plus you have to take on the moral burden for your advice.

Unread post by **Womanslave** » 02 Aug 2023, 11:32

Obedient boy, if you no longer love the civilian (former ) wife and you don’t even feel any pain at the thought that you’ve broken up - just disperse and that’s it. If you meet a person with whom you feel good and who feels good with you, then don’t waste your chance. And the children, what about the children? If you communicate, explain everything to them. I think they will understand that this happens in life.

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