I'm completely tired of my wife. !! Maybe it’s from me too (! What and how can you light a spark! Or is that all?

[18cmtrue]

Kind people ! Help with practical advice! 12 years together. 3 children. There’s not much intimacy at all. Everything is like at work. How to restore feelings. Or is it already ((!

[Bully Carrie]

Get drunk and watch porn together, and then...how it goes

[18cmtrue]

Thank you) this has already happened. She has a very different attitude towards porn. Not to say that she is not liberated, but something is wrong. Maybe I’m not the one. Although 3 children. And everything else was wound, but now everything

[Bully Carrie]

Toys? New caresses?
Not porn videos, but try porn pictures or gifs.
And outside of bed is everything exactly the same as before?

[Shalun70]

Get drunk and watch porn together, and then...how it goes

I don’t want to argue with you, but I don’t agree here , because women are less likely to watch porn than men. Women are embarrassed to watch porn with their partners. Of course, there are women who do not have such complexes. Your offer not bad, but in 60% of cases it doesn’t hit.
The only thing that is clear is that something needs to be changed in the lives of the partners. Relationships should not be monotonous, yesterday should not be similar to today and tomorrow. There must be variety. In addition, there should be variety not only in bed, but also outside of it.

[mega second]

The two of you need to rest somewhere. In silence from the stage. You and her, reboot

[Bully Carrie]

Women are embarrassed to watch porn with their partners.

It passes, believe me)

[mega second]

You two need to rest somewhere. In silence from the bustle. You and her, reboot

[Shalun70]

It passes, believe me)

Parents cannot always instill very big complexes in young girls. It’s one thing, it’s another thing if she doesn’t want to look, but he insists, a conflict situation will arise that can lead to a scandal. But after the scandal, the woman will not enjoy sex. And if she doesn’t get pleasure, then next time she will want even less...
This topic is very broad and controversial. People write dissertations on this topic. In a nutshell, there is nothing to recommend here. You need to know both her and his temperament, you need to know what they want, you need to know how much the wife is burdened by caring for the family... Sorry, three children require both strength and attention.

[Bully Carrie]

Shalun70, So I don’t argue :bel_flag :
However, a man came to a sex forum, which means an answer is required more about sex than about how to help his wife not get fucked with household chores))

[Shalun70]

Hooligan Carrie,
Sorry for the question , but are you really a woman? As far as I know women, their way of thinking is very different from men’s thinking and speaking style. But okay, it doesn’t matter, be who you want to be. You see, sex for a woman begins long before she gets into bed. A woman wants to be pampered, appreciated, admired and taken care of.

[Bully Carrie]

Sorry for the question, but are you really a woman?

I am the letters on your screen))

As far as I know women, their way of thinking sharply different from male thinking and style of speech

It’s especially funny about the style of speech)

A woman wants to be pampered, appreciated, admired and taken care of .

But the man doesn’t want this? Not at all? To be pampered with delicious food, appreciated for his strength, admired for his intelligence and cared for? No? Doesn’t he want to?)

[Shalun70]

Doesn’t a man want this? Not at all? To be pampered with delicious food, appreciated for his strength, admired for his intelligence and cared for? No? Doesn’t he want to?)

I won’t deny, yes, I want to, but not so often... Men are much tougher than women.

[Bully Carrie]

Men are much tougher than women.

You are probably lucky not to meet really tough women and gentle men.
You are not captured by stereotypes, are you?)

[Shalun70]

You are lucky, probably, not to meet really tough women and gentle men.
You are not captive of stereotypes, are you?)

Okay, let’s say you’re right...

[RazVratnik]

Good people! Help with practical advice! 12 years together. 3 children. There’s not much intimacy at all. Everything is like at work. How to restore feelings. Or is it already ((!

Falling in love is a physiological human need. And ignorance of this fact is probably the main reason why almost all long-term relationships fall apart. After all, the way we are structured, falling in love is not some kind of existential romantic process... These are hormones and neurotransmitters that are produced in us, people, so that we reproduce. when we find a partner whose genes we consider worthy of reproduction, substances begin to enter our blood that stimulate our libido, etc. According to the nature of such cycles, a person should have time to go through at least 3 to 5 in his life) And it begins. This is a cycle that every person always has when they fall in love.
Why is this important to know because if you have found some wonderful person and are determined to grow old with him, you must come to terms with the fact that sooner or later? you both will want to fall in love with someone. If by this point you have not learned to fall in love with each other and do not understand how to do it, then you will fall in love with someone else. And this is where your relationship will end, well, either you will start cheating, which also often happens) Or you will have an honest talk and go your separate ways. Relationships are a job for two)
Or it could happen differently. You will not reach the stage of falling in love, but you will already understand that the person you live with does not evoke romantic feelings in you. Well, that is, yes, a faithful friend (girlfriend), a family member, I love madly, but there is no passion or anything like that. People mistakenly characterize this with the phrase “love is over,” but this is not love over. In this sense, your love will end for any person. Even if you find the most ideal, most suitable partner for you, sooner or later this will also happen to him. With both of you. Because we are designed this way physiologically. This is an evolutionary mechanism that is very difficult to deceive and this is work for both people.
There are no halves, there is no person whom you just need to meet and for the rest of your life you will have love, carrots, perfect sex and everything else)
In order to fall in love with the same person, you both need to work on yourself.

[Rainmaker]

Try fucking in public. It is not necessary that they look at you, but there is a risk that they might see you

[Frodo]

Enter the topic of swing, mzhm, mzhmzh, toys, anal sex, variety will appear. Just first sit down with your wife and find out if you want this. If there is jealousy in a relationship, then either get over yourself or live with eternal malnutrition, as a result you will get divorced and start life from scratch.

[18cmtrue]

where

yes, I also think that we should go somewhere at 2 for a couple of days. But 3 children. No one to leave with ((

[Igor.filimonov]

how familiar this is to me....my family fell apart when I began to feel something similar, as the author of the topic wrote about. I couldn’t do anything, I stopped wanting her. We still communicate, I worry and sympathize with her, but I can’t imagine sex.... she’s like a relative to me, not just as a sister, but as a cousin or something... I hope the author of the topic will be able to solve the problem, well, or we need to separate

[18cmtrue]

I sympathize

it’s hard when there is no sexual desire for a person. While we live, we are pure and like brother and sister. I start to offer her something sexually, the answer is that she doesn’t like it!!!(((I don’t want it, I won’t

[Igor.filimonov]

I think that we personally were ruined by the accumulated problems and complaints, they crossed out all sexual desires.... when you or you are regularly dissatisfied simply with “life”, muttering dissatisfaction, quarrels... well, not many will want to after that intimacy. Here, IMHO, we shouldn’t watch porn together, but talk about relationships in general, maybe work with a psychologist... although this is not very common among us. But this is my opinion, and as I wrote above, my case cannot serve as an advertisement

[18cmtrue]

I agree 100%!! Just everyday everything! We were eaten. And yes, it’s real after removing the brain from both sides. I don’t really want anything

[niqk]

I agree 100%!! Just everyday everything! We were eaten. And yes, it’s real after removing the brain from both sides. I don’t really want anything

The usual story. It all started with hot desire and even hotter sex. Then, little by little, everyday life gets boring and everything becomes boring... So, we should have thought about this in advance...
And now about the problems. Discuss them with your wife together, soberly. Determine if you see them the same way. And
decide clearly whether you will solve them together or scatter. If you want to save your family, you have a direct path to a psychotherapist, a specialist in family relations. He has both the knowledge and experience to help... And
there are no such people on the forum. Here they can only give advice on how to diversify sex. Quite predictable: porn, gangbangs, toys, role-playing games...

[18cmtrue]

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well, for general purposes it is understood. I don’t know the experts and I don’t offend anyone. But in 12 years it won’t run away so quickly. You can’t leave a person. Sex toys were. They are not the point. There’s just no passion. There is sex every day. But he’s like work ()

[sexwithwoman]

Don’t torture yourself and your wife, divorce and move on)

[18cmtrue]

torture

well, this is the simplest and easiest option. If I wanted to get a divorce, I want to improve the relationship

[Womanslave]

18cmtrue, are you cheating on each other? Or one of you?

[18cmtrue]

a

no!! We are together almost all the time.

[The passage]

18cmtrue, go with your wife on a round the world cruise, sea voyage . Without children. Leave them in the care of their grandparents.
It was correctly written above that you need to reboot the relationship. Renew feelings.

[Beluga]

18cmtrue, go with your wife on a trip around the world cruise, sea voyage. Without children. Leave them in the care of their grandparents.
It was correctly written above that you need to reboot the relationship. Renew your feelings.

on two different cruises separately?

[Serg_A]

It passes, believe me)

Parents cannot always instill very big complexes in young girls. It’s one thing, it’s another thing if she doesn’t want to look, but he insists, a conflict situation will arise that can lead to a scandal. But after the scandal, the woman will not enjoy sex. And if she doesn’t get pleasure, then next time she will want even less...
This topic is very broad and controversial. People write dissertations on this topic. In a nutshell, there is nothing to recommend here. You need to know both her and his temperament, you need to know what they want, you need to know how burdened the wife is with caring for the family... Sorry, three children require both strength and attention.

I knew one couple, just after quarrels that almost led to a fight, they just had very passionate sex .

[niqk]

Serg_A, and the end result? Divorce? :question:

[Serg_A]

Good people! Help with practical advice! 12 years together. 3 children. There’s not much intimacy at all. Everything is like at work. How to restore feelings. Or is it already ((!

Have you tried to take care of your health? Go to the gym to improve your figure with your wife, maybe you will be drawn to each other .

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Serg_A, and the end result :voprosy? :

How did you guess ?

[niqk]

Serg_A, and I am like that! Clever! Very!!!

[Fernando]

And remember what you were like before, at the time when you had a passion, what you did for it, what were your approaches to it, manners - behavior, style.
It’s just that the longer we are together, the more we all change, sex is no longer the same as it used to be because it has become an everyday thing, a simple everyday thing, and she has no passion.
To return passion, accordingly, you need to change again, make a surprise, so to speak, pay attention to romance and not "let’s have sex" "
Get yourself in order, look after her as before, give her compliments.
You will see that she herself will want you like in the old days.

[Bully Carrie]

In general, saving a marriage is always work, serious work, with mistakes, when there is a step forward, and then two steps back. Through disappointments, through real work on yourself. Sorry for the pathos.
No illusions on this score. Two people dance tango.

[Bully Carrie]

Sorry, I’ll write more. Somehow today my inner scribe has gone wild))
It’s just that when we start living together with a loved one, we bring with us a lot of different things: complexes, unprocessed traumas, empty expectations and simply simplified ideas about relationships. And all this garbage really clutters up the relationship, and it becomes cramped, it’s annoying, and now there’s just not enough room for love. As a result, she suffocates and burns out.

[Womanslave]

18cmtrue, have you ever delved into yourself? Sometime in your spare time. Do you still love her? Or is it all purely for the sake of the children? If there are no feelings, then do you need such a relationship at all?

[Admin]

In general, it’s time to become a cuckold.