Which man is “not yours”?

[Beluga]

Which man will you not allow beyond friendship?
And which man will you not give, let’s say, your “hand”, but your “heart”?

[Helga]

It goes beyond friendship - stupid, arrogant, cruel, and it won’t even reach friendship with him. Friendship is the first step, which may well develop into love. And such, as said earlier, will not even be allowed close, even into the circle of friends.

About "hand and heart", most likely, the same qualities will be decisive to say , No. Well, and also, greed, drugs, alcoholism, gambling addiction, in general, bad addictions.

[◊_NeBo[_Na_]LaDoNi_◊]

Helga said everything, there’s not even anything to add... well, sometimes, in terms of appearance, men are not suitable at all... I’m not looking for super duper handsome men, but there are still certain guidelines in tastes.
Tobacco is also very repulsive. alcoholic amber and a bottle in hands or a cigarette.

[Beluga]

Further than friendship - stupid, arrogant, cruel, and it won’t even come to friendship with him. Friendship is the first step, which may well develop into love. And such, as said earlier, will not even be allowed close, even into the circle of friends.

About "hand and heart", most likely, the same qualities will be decisive to say , No. Well, and also, greed, drugs, alcoholism, gambling addiction, in general, bad addictions.

Helga said everything, there’s not even anything to add.. well, sometimes men don’t suit their appearance at all.. I’m not looking for super duper handsome men, but there are still certain guidelines in tastes.

and the material question?
and "handedness"?

[◊_NeBo[_Na_]LaDoNi_◊]

Further than friendship - stupid, arrogant, cruel, and it won’t even come to friendship with him. Friendship is the first step, which may well develop into love. And such, as said earlier, will not even be allowed close, even into the circle of friends.

About "hand and heart", most likely, the same qualities will be decisive to say , No. Well, and also, greed, drugs, alcoholism, gambling addiction, in general, bad addictions.

Helga said everything, there’s not even anything to add.. well, sometimes men don’t suit their appearance at all.. I’m not looking for super duper handsome men, but there are still certain guidelines in tastes.

and the material question?
and "handedness"?

they are greeted by their clothes) and the rest comes later .. handiness, of course, is also important, as well as intelligence, a sense of humor, and the ability to set and achieve goals.

[Helga]

Belukha, For me, the material issue is not decisive. If a man works and doesn’t lie on the couch for days, then this is not the main thing. In general, I believe that you have to work to live. The plan is not to earn a lot of money and go to the Maldives. And, so that there is enough for what is necessary and remains to be put aside. That’s why I myself try not to let work take up a large part of my life. So that there is time for life. And I don’t expect a man to work 10 jobs. It is important for me that both have time for relaxation and for the usual joys of life.

And “handedness” is generally not important. Maybe he doesn’t have such talent, so why should he break up? Now you can call any specialist and they will fix what you need.

[Beluga]

they are greeted by their clothes) and the rest comes later... handiness, of course, is also important, and intelligence, a sense of humor, and the ability to set and achieve goals.

Belukha, For me, the material issue is not decisive. If a man works and doesn’t lie on the couch for days, then this is not the main thing. In general, I believe that you have to work to live. The plan is not to earn a lot of money and go to the Maldives. And, so that there is enough for what is necessary and remains to be put aside. That’s why I myself try not to let work take up a large part of my life. So that there is time for life. And I don’t expect a man to work 10 jobs. It is important for me that both have time for relaxation and for the usual joys of life.

And “handedness” is generally not important. Maybe he doesn’t have such talent, so why should he break up? Now you can call any repairman and they will fix what you need.

What about the difference in height and age?

[Helga]

Beluga, well, by age, perhaps I would I couldn’t with a much younger man. For some reason, the maternal instinct awakens in me and I feel close to young people, adult aunts. What I have does not cause sexual desire. I’m more interested in men my age or older. There, everything is burning with a blue flame...

And his height... if he is short, then it is in question. Here is the moment of how eager he is and how persistent and stubborn he will be in his desire. Categorically no, it won’t be. Although, I like average and above average height.

[◊_NeBo[_Na_]LaDoNi_◊]

they are greeted by their clothes) and the rest comes later... handiness, of course, is also important, and intelligence, a sense of humor, and the ability to set and achieve goals .

Belukha, For me, the material issue is not decisive. If a man works and doesn’t lie on the couch for days, then this is not the main thing. In general, I believe that you have to work to live. The plan is not to earn a lot of money and go to the Maldives. And, so that there is enough for what is necessary and remains to be put aside. That’s why I myself try not to let work take up a large part of my life. So that there is time for life. And I don’t expect a man to work 10 jobs. It is important for me that both have time for relaxation and for the usual joys of life.

And “handedness” is generally not important. Maybe he doesn’t have such talent, so why should he break up? Now you can call any repairman and they will fix what you need.

What about the difference in height and age?

I already wrote about appearance)) not shorter than me, but in terms of age it’s all the same, the main thing is that he’s not quite a baby and not quite an old man

[Bully Carrie]

I once met a man - I lived alone at the time - and jokingly complained that feeding the cat took a lot of time and effort. And this man responded, in all seriousness: “Kick him out! And there won’t be any problems.” I never met this man again.
This is not even about cats specifically, but about empathy and emotional intelligence. It’s important to me. If this cat/dog/crocodile is important to me, but he doesn’t see it, he doesn’t understand it, and he’s like, “Why is that?” - if you need to explain, then....there’s no need to explain.

[vox]

Hooligan Carrie, not only does not understand what is important to you this cat (doesn’t mentally put himself in your place), but he doesn’t care what happens to the cat (doesn’t put himself in the cat’s place). It’s better to live alone with a cat than with such a partner.