Sex is like gratitude and reward.

[Truwor]

An older friend of mine and my wife discovered it for us and brought us to a different, higher and more sensual level of perception of sex. He brought to our consciousness that real sex with its greatest perception becomes when for a woman it is her highest gratitude to a man, and for a man the most vivid sex happens when it is perceived as a reward from the woman he loves and her gratitude to the man for his love , expressed in care, in good and useful deeds for her sake or for the sake of both of them. And it works for us, and very effectively and efficiently. It will be interesting to know other opinions. Thank you.