Ghosting Disappearing without explanation is considered...

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Ghosting

Disappearing without explanation is considered a variant of the norm. I will always remember a man who, after a month of romantic meetings, simply faded away. At least by the age of 30, it’s time to take off your childish pants and learn to talk to people honestly. Telling the truth to your face is the highest aerobatics, but can you scribble a message?

This is called ghosting (from the English ghost - ghost). Interns quietly leave their employers, students do not answer calls from annoying relatives, boys and girls end relationships by simply disappearing. Block - and no. There is no need to choose the right words and observe the sour expression of your interlocutor.

I did that too. Ten years ago! I remember doing a university internship at a newspaper. I only worked on one article. They wrote me a good review with the condition that I will make 9 more materials within six months. I solemnly swore and never appeared in that editorial office again. That’s okay. They told me about a girl who went out for lunch and got burned.

But time sets the mind straight. Now I can say no to anyone. And I’ll do it in such a way that it won’t even occur to a person to be offended. But there are still a lot of adults around who visit each other. Even the wretched “it’s not about you” is more decent than a cowardly escape. And it’s best to thank, explain the reasons and say goodbye with dignity.

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Ghosting

Disappearing without explanation is considered a variant of the norm . I will always remember a man who, after a month of romantic meetings, simply faded away. At least by the age of 30, it’s time to take off your childish pants and learn to talk to people frankly. Telling the truth to your face is the highest aerobatics, but can you scribble a message?

This is called ghosting (from the English ghost - ghost). Interns quietly leave their employers, students do not answer calls from annoying relatives, boys and girls end relationships by simply disappearing. Block - and no. There is no need to choose the right words and observe the sour expression of your interlocutor.

I did that too. Ten years ago! I remember doing a university internship at a newspaper. I only worked on one article. They wrote me a good review with the condition that I will make 9 more materials within six months. I solemnly swore and never appeared in that editorial office again. That’s okay. They told me about a girl who went out for lunch and got burned.

But time sets the mind straight. Now I can say no to anyone. And I’ll do it in such a way that it won’t even occur to a person to be offended. But there are still a lot of adults around who visit each other. Even the wretched “it’s not about you” is more decent than a cowardly escape. And it’s best to thank, explain the reasons and say goodbye with dignity.

It’s worse when a person silently disappeared, and then appears some time later, and is even offended that he doesn’t see delight at his appearance.