Should you get into a relationship with a lustful man?

Unread post by **hotsea11** » 19 Sep 2023, 06:39

I’m not a prude at all, but the man had very rich sexual experience in the past.
He is attracted to MFM, wants to see how I suck someone else (he even has an acquaintance for these matters); recently said that he wants to give a blowjob to another man, along with me.
I told him more than once that my sexual interests are much more modest, although I am not a log at all and he praises me in sex. But I’m not ready to share such fantasies.
He is family-oriented and overall a good man.
I read here that they are proud of the kind of wife he wants me to become for him. Now he is in love and maybe it still seems to him that all this is not so important. But once you try it, you won’t be able to deny yourself such things. I will be an angry wife who does not share interests.

Is it better to let go and give the opportunity to find a like-minded woman?

What should I do? :question:

Unread post by **Fargal94** » 19 Sep 2023, 06:42

If this is already stressing you out, then it’s better to let it go. And who knows, maybe you yourself will want to play this game)

Unread post by **Let’s** » 19 Sep 2023, 06:43

In my opinion, the last sentence is correct, if you yourself are not ready, then let go.

Unread post by **Van** » 19 Sep 2023, 06:46

If you love this man, then agree
Well, if you think that this is not your thing, then allow him to have a girlfriend for these things.
In general, you need to sit down and talk about it

Unread post by **hotsea11** » 19 Sep 2023, 06:51

Van: ↑19 Sep 2023, 06:46 If you love this man, then agree
Well, if you think that this is not your thing, then allow him to have a girlfriend for these things.
But in general, you need to sit down and talk about it

He gets angry if I say that this can be practiced with a mistress. He wants to be with the woman he loves, supposedly this is the main thrill.
We talked about this more than once, he immediately hears the accusations, although I’m just saying that this is not right for me, I don’t consider him sick or something like that. He hears accusations = starts saying that it doesn’t matter, that he doesn’t need sex at all

and freaks out. Then he begins to raise these topics again)
Well, I understand that he will ultimately be unhappy with me, no matter how painful it may be for him to disagree with me now.

Unread post by **Let’s** » 19 Sep 2023, 07:07

hotsea11: ↑19 Sep 2023, 06:51
Van: ↑19 Sep 2023, 06:46 If you love this man, then agree
Well, if you think that this is not your thing, then allow him to have a girlfriend for these things.
But in general, you need to sit down and talk about it
He starts getting angry if I say that this can be practiced with a mistress. He wants to be with the woman he loves, supposedly this is the main thrill.
We talked about this more than once, he immediately hears the accusations, although I’m just saying that this is not right for me, I don’t consider him sick or something like that. He hears accusations = starts saying that it doesn’t matter, that he doesn’t need sex at all and freaks out. Then he begins to raise these topics again)
Well, I understand that he will ultimately be unhappy with me, no matter how painful it may be for him to disagree with me now.

If you already start fighting over sex at this stage of the relationship, it will only get worse. Well, either you agree and will participate in everything, or if you don’t want to participate, separate. His desires will definitely not go away. He will continue to pester you. Or he will find someone to do this with without you. Well, that is, change.

Unread post by **Seeker** » 19 Sep 2023, 07:25

hotsea11: ↑19 Sep 2023, 06:39What to do?

Listen only to your heart.

Unread post by **Van** » 19 Sep 2023, 07:39

d3nan, do not change, but will find a partner in this sexy direction

Unread post by **Let’s** » 19 Sep 2023, 08:00

Van: ↑19 Sep 2023, 07:39 d3nan, do not change, but will find partner in this sexual direction

Even so, but it doesn’t change the essence)) will be without her

Unread post by **Alexssss** » 19 Sep 2023, 08:05

You answered your own question (

Unread post by **pervert** » 21 Sep 2023, 07:52

I went through this. It’s difficult when your partner has other interests. Sooner or later the paths diverge.

Unread post by **Hair shirt** » 21 Sep 2023, 08:09

hotsea11: ↑19 Sep 2023, 06:39 Is it better to let go and give me the opportunity to find a like-minded woman?

I once came to visit my aunt in another city. She asked me to come and I still didn’t understand why she needed me. Well, I came, well, we talked. Well, we sat in the kitchen and talked about this and that almost until the morning.
I haven’t seen her for a long time and I was interested in asking her about some moments of her life about which she could tell something, but from a different angle and with some other knowledge. Something I couldn’t know. It’s always interesting to talk to such people who know something about you but from a different point of view and from other positions.

Well, I also asked her about her life. Because previously I couldn’t even mention such things. And her husband died five or six years ago. And he would still be that walker. He held some very important position at the federal level. I traveled a lot on business trips. Something related to Russian Railways. And according to my aunt, I fucked everything that moved. And what didn’t move, he moved and then fucked.

And he did it completely without hiding from his aunt, his wife. And he didn’t even hide anything. My aunt was very worried about all this. And she couldn’t come to terms with it. But for some reason she didn’t leave him. But I tactfully did not ask her about this, not really hoping for a sincere answer. And my aunt tells me during this conversation that my husband told me so - that they say, get some kind of man too. I say I won’t mind and I’ll treat it normally while I’m not at home.

And then he says that what I regret now is that I didn’t heed his advice. And that she never did. That is, that the truth did not take some man on the side. To say that I was a little crazy is an understatement. I was surprised because I had known my aunt all my life and couldn’t even think that I would hear something like that from her.

So draw conclusions about what you should do in your situation.

Should you get into a relationship with a lustful man?

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