Why is it so difficult to find a real man for MFM?

[Kayfolov]

My wife and I are from a small town, and for several years now we have been looking for a meeting to organize a meeting of bi men and women. But the wife has a mandatory condition: the first meeting must take place on neutral territory, only for acquaintance, without developing into something more. And only when mutual sympathy arises and a desire to continue is sex possible. We placed advertisements in various chats for bi men, over the years more than a dozen people responded, but!!! Only one came to the first meeting! Alone, Karl! Why does this happen, can anyone give a clear explanation?

[Alexa023]

Maybe because you are looking for a bi man for you and not for her? If we were looking for a heterosexual for her, we would have found it long ago!

[sevener]

I have written a lot on this topic. Reasons in your case.
1. Small town, few men experienced in this.
2. Most are always virtual or afraid of their wife or afraid of STDs or afraid of publicity, some want to, but they don’t dare, some just need to imagine and fantasize.
3. Your offer contains many requirements or does not inspire confidence. The requirement to come with flowers and gifts, but we’ll think about it, turns off many.
4. If you do not provide your photos, this also does not contribute to much interest.
5. Sexual interests and desires must also coincide.

[Kayfolov]

We always provide our photos, people agree to a meeting, then confirm and... don’t come.

[Alex Bars]

Well, maybe something doesn’t suit them, I used to go like this often and there were a lot of couples and the choice was good, but I chose only those who I liked, by the way, they never refused, but there was only one couple and when they got to sex, she started giving a blowjob and he I lay and watched, and so she told me that my penis is ideal only for anal, I was surprised, and when I saw its huge trunk, I understood everything

[Ebitemoyuzhenu]

The problem of small towns...

[Kayfolov]

Well, maybe something doesn’t suit them, I used to go this way often and there were a lot of couples and the choice was good, but I chose only those who I liked, by the way, they were never refused, but there was only one couple and when when we got to sex, she started giving a blowjob and he lay and watched, so she told me that my penis is ideal only for anal, I was surprised, and when I saw his huge trunk, I understood everything

if something doesn’t suit you, then they usually talk about it right away, there are also a lot of them and this is in in the order of things, but why agree to a meeting, confirm your arrival and disappear?

[Alex Bars]

Yes, I can’t answer here, maybe I didn’t dare, maybe I was scared))) I had a topic, I came to an agreement with the couple, exchanged photos, everyone was happy with everything, well, I already took the young lady’s personal phone number, we talked with her, and then I’m on my way and I’m conducting a correspondence, I think it’s good in the back))) and she writes, you come in, your husband is waiting for you, have a drink, talk, he’ll relax you, fuck him well, and then I’ll come, so what, I didn’t turn around, she later admitted that her husband wanted a dick more than she did, she could participate. This is what you will see.

[Seeker]

My wife and I are from a small town, and for several years now we have been looking for a meeting to organize a bi mfm meeting. But the wife has a mandatory condition: the first meeting must take place on neutral territory, only for acquaintance, without developing into something more. And only when mutual sympathy arises and a desire to continue is sex possible. We placed advertisements in various chats for bi men, over the years more than a dozen people responded, but!!! Only one came to the first meeting! Alone, Karl! Why is this happening, can anyone give a clear explanation

There can be many reasons. I suggest changing the text of the ad, adding sparkles to it, or writing something that will inspire confidence... or maybe more specifics.
You need to experiment, everyone has their own audience, and for some it will work earlier, for others Later.

[Venus]

You need to look for partners from your immediate environment. You can be sure of them and they will be permanent partners.

[Van]

Kayfolov, many are afraid
What if it what a setup there are now, there are a lot of scammers on this topic, they are afraid of publicity, who just have a fetish to jerk off.
We also met on the Internet. He’s like a fucking dream bisex, just fucking fucked up.
And when it came to that would like to meet. He He said let it remain a dream.
Perhaps you need to look on forums that hold bi-format meetings

[Henson]

Kayfolov, I can explain their behavior. Such guys get excited by bi porn, look for couples for a threesome, in the process of communication they get even more excited from the “realism of what is happening,” they get their cap off, jerk off, cum, and at that moment the vector of thinking shifts from “I want everything and everyone” to "Well, fuck it. I don’t want to suck a dick, and the chick is kind of not very good."
Everyone has such moments and not necessarily with meetings and acquaintances. Almost everyone experiences a shift to something new and brighter than before. From the occasional transition from light porn to BDSM to going to a gay orgy. And everywhere the same phenomenon occurs. I finished and immediately let go. And this is exactly what those looking for partners face when they seemed to be communicating, and then suddenly merge.
P.S. I only touched on wankers and virtuals. As written above

3. Your offer contains many requirements or does not inspire confidence. Demands to come with flowers and gifts, but we’ll think about it, turns off many.
4. If you do not provide your photos, this also does not contribute to much interest.

you also need to be able to present yourself correctly. That is, fulfill at least the same requirements that you put forward to candidates, but this is often forgotten

[Alexander]

You need to look for partners from your immediate environment. You can be sure of them and they will be permanent partners.

One day my friend and I decided to try MFM and, of course, began to look among our immediate circle. And I remembered about one acquaintance who seemed very reliable to me, especially since they knew each other superficially. And when I started discussing this topic with him, I was surprised that he categorically does not accept cunnilingus, and she only gets orgasm from him. It’s good that I didn’t tell him who exactly I meant. In the end, we decided to choose among strangers and married people, but it also turned out to be a risky topic.

[Denis1991]

My wife and I decided to try MFM, we searched on a dating site, a young man answered on the first day, we met the next day and made our dream come true!!! Everyone was happy!!! We want to repeat it in the near future!

[Fargal94]

My wife and I decided to try MFM, we searched on a dating site, a young man answered on the first day, we met the next day and made our dream come true!!! Everyone was happy!!! We want to repeat it in the near future!

I don’t know about the author of the topic, but I would sign up for your wife too)

[EgorPetrov]

I don’t know about the author of the topic, but I would sign up for your wife too)

What is so remarkable about this young lady?

[Fargal94]

I don’t know about the author of the topic, but I would sign up for your wife too)

Why is it so remarkable this young lady?

everyone has their own preferences

[Alexssss]

Fargal94, Sign me up too)))

[Fargal94]

Fargal94, Sign me up too)) )

let the husband write it down)

[Alexssss]

Fargal94, Write down me too)))

let my husband write it down)

My husband needs a normal notebook with a pen fit))))

[Fargal94]

Fargal94, Sign me up too)))

let the husband sign up)

Husband needs a normal notebook with a pen to fit))))

let anyone write it down on their phone, otherwise the notebook may not be enough)

[Whisperer]

My wife and I are from a small town, and for several years now we have been looking for a meeting to organize a bi mfm meeting. But the wife has a mandatory condition: the first meeting must take place on neutral territory, only for acquaintance, without developing into something more. And only when mutual sympathy arises and a desire to continue is sex possible. We placed advertisements in various chats for bi men, over the years more than a dozen people responded, but!!! Only one came to the first meeting! Alone, Karl! Why is this happening, can anyone give a clear explanation?

Yes, it’s very simple that many people respond to an ad, as a rule, only those who are brave and advanced only in correspondence, but how to things immediately merge, they do not know how to conduct a dialogue, they immediately offer to move on to more delicate issues and put themselves in a position as if they are choosing their partners and everything should be played according to their rules, when you tell them to slow down their horses and be more tactful and polite they begin be offended and say that you have a crown on your head, they don’t want to bear any expenses and organize, but just come to everything ready where everything will be prepared for them and they will be served at the highest level, they want it right away at the meeting, which is purely for getting to know each other, so that to understand how attractive a person is and how well-mannered he is (correspondence still does not give that complete picture about a person) they immediately want to jump into bed.

[mega second]

My wife and I are from a small town, and for several years now we have been looking for a meeting to organize a bi mfm meeting. But the wife has a mandatory condition: the first meeting must take place on neutral territory, only for acquaintance, without developing into something more. And only when mutual sympathy arises and a desire to continue is sex possible. We placed advertisements in various chats for bi men, over the years more than a dozen people responded, but!!! Only one came to the first meeting! Alone, Karl! Why is this happening, can anyone give a clear explanation?

I agree. We also live in a small town in our enclave. Often in response they write such nonsense that you think about the adequacy of the interlocutor. True, I was lucky to find m. But now it’s probably even more difficult, many sites even delete messages from couples.