I’m acting like a complete idiot

[ilovebiboys]

Question to our dear men, have you ever felt like a complete idiot in a relationship with a girl? Were there any cases when you stopped, slapped yourself on the forehead with your fingers and thought: “Well, what an asshole I am! And why am I such an asshole?”, and in what cases did this happen?
Share your cringe stories, dear ones

[◊_NeBo[_Na_]LaDoNi_◊]

Question to our dear men, have you ever felt like a complete idiot in a relationship with a girl? Were there any cases when you stopped, slapped yourself on the forehead with your fingers and thought: “Well, what an asshole I am! And why am I such an asshole?”, and in what cases did this happen?
Share your cringe stories, dear ones

I believe... that there are no such people. For men, someone is always to blame, but in no case is he.

[ilovebiboys]

Question to our dear men, have you ever felt like a complete idiot in a relationship with a girl? Were there any cases when you stopped, slapped yourself on the forehead with your fingers and thought: “Well, what an asshole I am! And why am I such an asshole?”, and in what cases did this happen?
Share your cringe stories, dear ones

I believe... that there are no such people. With men, someone is always to blame, but not him.

as God said

[Grave]

I’m always like this

[ilovebiboys]

I’m like this when always

you’re not the only one

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by the way, there is an opinion that the more a guy likes a girl, the more cretinism he puts into his attitude and behavior with her
remember, at least, elementary school students hitting with briefcases and pulling the pigtails of the girls they like.

it was always interesting - well For what??)

[Venus]

ilovebiboys, I had such a man. I didn’t immediately understand that he was manipulating me in this way. He messes up, and then he starts to wonder what he’s all about and of course I immediately feel sorry for him.

[ilovebiboys]

ilovebiboys, I had such a man . I didn’t immediately understand that he was manipulating me in this way. He messes up, and then he starts to wonder how he is all this and that, and of course I immediately feel sorry for him.

an even cooler level is when he screws up himself, but so that admit your mistake and repent, no, no. We would rather lose a person than our own “dignity” in his eyes

[Venus]

ilovebiboys, I was such a man. I didn’t immediately understand that he was manipulating me in this way. He messes up, and then he starts to wonder how he is all this and that, and of course I immediately feel sorry for him.

an even cooler level is when he screws up himself, but so that admit your mistake and repent, no, no. We would rather lose a person than our own "dignity" in his eyes

You know, somehow I never expected repentance or admission of mistakes. The one who does nothing makes no mistakes. I can understand everything.
I am amazed by men who mess up and then blame me for it. Moreover, many people do this and it is, of course, cruel.

[ilovebiboys]

ilovebiboys, I had such a man. I didn’t immediately understand that he was manipulating me in this way. He messes up, and then he starts to wonder how he is all this and that, and of course I immediately feel sorry for him.

an even cooler level is when he screws up himself, but so that admit your mistake and repent, no, no. We would rather lose a person than our own "dignity" in his eyes

I am amazed by men who mess up and then blame me for it. Moreover, many people do this and it is, of course, cruel.

my opinion is that this is a way to assert yourself, to stroke your own vanity

[Fargal94]

Did you create a topic for men to make fun of?) It was, I messed it up, I admitted it, I corrected it)

[ilovebiboys]

A topic for men was created to turn out?)

*you probably meant to learn?)
no, not to learn, but to understand what kind of cockroaches some men have in their heads

[Fargal94]

A topic for men was created to get?)

*you probably meant to learn?)
no, not to learn, but to understand what kind of cockroaches some men have in their heads *x)

corrected, I’m writing from my phone(

[ilovebiboys]

They created a topic for men to mock?) It was, I screwed up, admitted, corrected)

pfft, who is mocking you, offended people
You are making fools of yourself
Worse than the women have become, hysterical manipulators

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you should be ashamed!

[Aspiring]

No matter how you behave, if a woman likes you at the moment or wants you, all actions will be justified. And if a woman doesn’t like you, she will accept a fur coat, an apartment and a Ferrari as a gift, but you will still turn out to be a complete idiot.

[Xenophon]

At a sports camp at the age of 14, I wrote a love letter to a classmate who, by the will of fate, ended up with me in this camp. I tried to write for two days. I personally conveyed it myself... With bated breath I waited for my beloved to sit next to me at an evening film show and, as is customary among ladies who are indifferent to a man, but don’t seem to want to offend, in a linear voice she would say: “What a dear Xenophontic you are.” !" . But she immediately showed the letter to her friends, they distributed it among their boyfriends and I realized what hell was like!
And who am I after this?

[BeachBunny]

Before I was 30 years old, it was like this, periodically I did some crap in relationships and not only, but I came to the conclusion that, for example, my ex loved me partly for this reason, and not only my ex) And then, I grew up or something.

[Fargal94]

They created a topic for men to mock?) It was, I screwed up, admitted, corrected)

pfft, who is mocking you, offended people
you are making fools of yourself
worse than women have become, hysterical manipulators

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you should be ashamed!

let me go with such conclusions, at least in relation to me) It’s just that the topic was created for men, and only girls wrote it! Why such aggression? It seems to me that you are not offended by men

[Greek10]

Question to our dear men, have you ever felt like a complete idiot in a relationship with a girl? Were there any cases when you stopped, slapped yourself on the forehead with your fingers and thought: “Well, what an asshole I am! And why am I such an asshole?”, and in what cases did this happen?
Share your cringe stories, dear ones

I remember a case - I had a friend who was beautiful and slender and fucking....once during a drinking session, in the smoking room, someone was laughing as the night passed and I foolishly blurted out - Anka Yesterday I was like a log.... A minute of silence.... In general, 5 minutes passed and I never saw Anyuta again. Since then, I realized that a woman can sometimes be a log and she has reasons for this, but you shouldn’t talk about it even as a joke, and especially in the presence of someone.

[ilovebiboys]

A topic for men was created to mock?) It was, I messed up, admitted, corrected)

pfft, who mocks you, offended people
you make fools of yourself
worse than women have become, hysterical manipulators

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you should be ashamed!

let us go with such conclusions, at least in relation to me) It’s just that the topic was created for men, and only girls wrote!

the topic was with the cry of my soul, kill me)

[Fargal94]

pfft, who is mocking you, offended people
you are making fools of yourself
they have become worse than women, hysterical manipulators

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you should be ashamed!

let go with such conclusions, at least in relation to me) It’s just that the topic was created for men, and only girls wrote!

the topic was the cry of my soul, forget it)

I hammered it and forgot.....

[Venus]

At a sports camp at the age of 14, I wrote a love letter to a classmate who, by the will of fate, ended up with me in this camp. I tried to write for two days. I personally conveyed it myself... With bated breath I waited for my beloved to sit next to me at an evening film show and, as is customary among ladies who are indifferent to a man, but don’t seem to want to offend, in a linear voice she would say: “What a dear Xenophontic you are.” !" . But she immediately showed the letter to her friends, they distributed it among their boyfriends and I realized what hell was like!
And who am I after this?

God saved you from a stupid girl and perhaps in the future from a stupid girl, woman, if won’t get any wiser. In any case, at that moment she was stupid.
I wrote a letter to the boy. He was a year older. But I gave him this letter at school and called him out of class. Well, by the end of the lessons it seemed to me that the whole school knew about this letter.

[Serg_A]

Question to our dear men, have you ever felt like a complete idiot in a relationship with a girl? Were there any cases when you stopped, slapped yourself on the forehead with your fingers and thought: “Well, what an asshole I am! And why am I such an asshole?”, and in what cases did this happen?
Share your cringe stories, dear ones

I believe... that there are no such people. With men, someone is always to blame, but in no case is he.

Well, I felt like a complete idiot, I have a couple of stories like that. It’s possible that there should be more of them, and I would like to know where and how else I screwed up)))

[Vert]

This is always the case for me, so I try to say little .

[Pierro]

why am I such an asshole?

no, it wasn’t like that. Why slander yourself?

[Hair shirt]

I appreciate.. that there are no such people. For men, someone is always to blame, but in no case is he

You know, somehow I never expected repentance or admitting mistakes. The one who does nothing makes no mistakes. I can understand everything.
I am amazed by men who mess up and then blame me for it. Moreover, many people do this and of course it’s cruel

It’s sad to read these lines written by women.
Someone is unlucky with men and now Now, having run out of milk, they blow on the water. And now all the men, of course, are complete assholes with whom it is better not to have anything to do with them at all.

I don’t remember who exactly said this first - as a rule, all problems are actually our own fault.
And the longer I live, the more I am convinced of this.
I wonder what awaits an ordinary young man if tomorrow, say, he falls for some stunning beauty with a fucking figure, a huge ass and a wasp waist. She will tell him to fuck off at first, but he will still drag after her, as they used to say in the nineteenth century.

And in the end, in order to finally achieve her, he will offer her marriage. And she, having thought badly and out of emotion, will agree. Well, there are pleasant wedding worries, serious changes in life, a change of surname. Everything is so new and everything is for the first time. It’s all so exciting and unusual.

Well, what do you think is next for this ordinary deer who managed to fuck this beauty through marriage?
I think it will all end in divorce after some time. And God forbid that by that time there would still be no child.

I am writing all this to the fact that many girls categorically do not like ordinary young men. They like athletic, pumped-up handsome men. And if these beauties are still making money, then it’s absolutely great. Well, why the hell should you be surprised that one or another brutal man just kicked you out the door one fine day along with your suitcase. They are these brutal men who are not deer, they are just like those beautiful girls, they know their worth and they act with girls in much the same way as beautiful girls act with those whom they consider deer. Everything is fair.

And then I think there is no need to scold ALL men. Well, yes, you personally fall for handsome men. You don’t like others. Well, what can you do and what can you say?
Well, that means you are contraindicated to live with someone together on a shared territory. Because this macho will sooner or later throw you out the door. This means you just need to be friends with them, have sex, spend time together, relax together. But living separately.
Do you like it? Is this what you wanted?

And then it won’t work out any other way. Because you need to choose a young man on your own and not rush to handsome men and princes. And if you choose for yourself, then you will have hope and support in everything. Here’s the question - how can you love him if you really think he’s a deer!?

[Pierro]

Because you need to choose a young man on your own and not rush to handsome men and princes.

Do you think the point is in the inability of individual women to choose a man? or the inability to start a family?

[◊_NeBo[_Na_]LaDoNi_◊]

Question to our dear men, have you ever felt like a complete idiot in a relationship with a girl? Were there any cases when you stopped, slapped yourself on the forehead with your fingers and thought: “Well, what an asshole I am! And why am I such an asshole?”, and in what cases did this happen?
Share your cringe stories, dear ones

I believe... that there are no such people. With men, someone is always to blame, but in no case is he.

Well, I felt like a complete idiot, I have a couple of stories like that. It’s possible that there should be more of them, and I would like to know where and how else I messed up)))

you are a happy exception to the rule) no, well, of course there are people who are aware of their mistakes.. both m and f, but this is rare.
I have observed the picture one hundred thousand five hundred times in my life too: she left because he beat or drank, or cheated, and he looks with innocent, uncomprehending eyes, flutters his eyelashes and says: it’s your own fault

[Hair shirt]

Do you think it’s a matter of individual women’s inability to choose a man? or the inability to start a family?

You re-read the fairy tale about Cinderella again. This is the dream of all women in the world - to be a Cinderella, that is, to be a nobody and find a prince for a husband. That is, never work a day in this life again, never wash floors, never wash socks, never cook for yourself or others. Never need money again. This is the dream of almost all women.

And it’s even better that it happens as if by itself. Well, like, she seems to be out of business - and then such a prince is on the doorstep - I love him, he says, I can’t live without you!
But seriously, there are simply women who have high self-esteem and for them, a man without a car is not a man at all. He also must be taller than her. And of course, he must not need money. Well, what kind of prince is he if he has no money? Then it’s not a prince, it’s some kind of swindler calling himself a prince. And the prince must have money!

Well, that is, a young man should not count rubles in his pocket when he went to spend time with a girl somewhere.
That is, he should It’s easy to part with money anywhere in an expensive cafe, even if they brought a check for half the salary of an ordinary manager. The woman is of little interest to where he will get this money. Well, he’s a man, he should be able to earn this money. Otherwise, what kind of man is he?

Well, in general, they rush at such majors and handsome men, and of course these majors and handsome men wipe their asses with these girls and then throw them out the door like toilet paper. I agree, it’s unpleasant. Couldn’t you have thought right away that this is how it would all end? What if the prince just gets tired of you and won’t accept you as his queen?

[Pierro]

and you yourself are to blame

well, you chose..
here I walked past the cemetery.. tombstone.. I don’t remember the date of birth - the 30s of the last century.. two dates of death: November 18, 2022 and November 26, 2022..
even how- it’s not that my soul feels good, that’s the wrong word.. but it’s lighter, or something..

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He must definitely be taller than her. He must definitely not need money. Well, that is, he shouldn’t count rubles in his pocket when he goes somewhere to spend time with a girl.

what’s wrong?
That’s how it should be..

[◊_NeBo[_Na_]LaDoNi_◊]

Well, you chose..

Does this mean that you don’t need to take responsibility for your actions?..

[Hair shirt]

what’s wrong?
that’s how it should be..

Yes, but if you take an ordinary single manager who works in the gym some store, then his entire salary is written down to the ruble.
Lunches - 1000 rubles a day. Multiply by 22 days = 22,000 rubles.
Thirty thousand for rent. The total is already fifty thousand.
Pocket expenses, cigarettes, transport - another ten thousand.

Filling the home refrigerator for evening dinners and meals on weekends - another twenty thousand.
Total is already 80,000 rubles.
Some things need to be bought, socks, panties , shirts, washing powder, soap, razor, towels, toilet paper...
Well, in general, it’s a hell of a lot. Under a steward per month.

And how much does a manager earn who works in a hall where refrigerators or laptops are sold?
And where is the money for an expensive restaurant with white tablecloths and expensive wine? for a luxurious dinner for two?
So it turns out that girls don’t need such men who don’t have money for an expensive restaurant?

Although I have no complaints against girls for their commercialism and for the fact that they divide men into beggars and those who have money.
But then I think the girls themselves don’t even need to stutter about some kind of love, about feelings. Because everything is actually very mundane - no money - no love. There is money - there is love.

And maybe all young people just need to finally understand this. The fact that you shouldn’t believe girls when they tell you that they love you. They just love you because you have a car and you have a good salary at your job. But if all this that is attached to you suddenly disappears, then love will disappear too. And this should always be kept in mind.
And maybe then there will be fewer disappointments in this life?

[Pierro]

Does this mean that you don’t need to take responsibility for your actions?..

needed, of course.
It seems to me that before, when there were clear social roles - a man "worker-earner", working exhaustingly, for the sake of seven mouths and old parents, a woman who supported the children, the house, the yard, the chickens, the lambs , washing on the river.. lace napkins on the chest of drawers.. everything was simpler..
that is, physically incredibly difficult.. but it’s easier to live together..
and now.. some kind of experimental transition period .. from family life to something unviable..

[◊_NeBo[_Na_]LaDoNi_◊]

Does this mean that you don’t need to take responsibility for your actions?..

needed, of course.
It seems to me that before, when there were clear social roles - a man "worker-earner", working exhaustingly, for the sake of seven mouths and old parents, a woman who supported the children, the house, the yard, the chickens, the lambs , washing on the river.. lace napkins on the chest of drawers.. everything was simpler..
that is, physically incredibly difficult.. but it’s easier to live together..
and now.. some kind of experimental transition period .. from family life to something unviable..

this is not about that at all and the topic is not about that.

[Serg_A]

I believe.. that there are no such people. With men, someone is always to blame, but in no case is he.

Well, I felt like a complete idiot, I have a couple of stories like that. It’s possible that there should be more of them, and I would like to know where and how else I messed up)))

you are a happy exception to the rule) no, well, of course there are people who are aware of their mistakes.. both m and f, but this is rare.
I have observed the picture one hundred thousand five hundred times in my life too: she left because he beat or drank, or cheated, and he looks with innocent, uncomprehending eyes, flutters his eyelashes and says: it’s your own fault

So what happiness is it when everyone around you are pathetic insignificant individuals, and you are handsome . And of course everyone is to blame except you. Oh, who would have taught me this! Damn, it doesn’t work...

[Pierro]

Yes, but if you take an ordinary single manager who works in the hall of some store, then his entire salary is written down to the ruble.
Lunches - 1000 rubles a day. Multiply by 22 days = 22,000 rubles.
Thirty thousand for rent. Total is already fifty thousand.
Pocket expenses, cigarettes, transport - another ten thousand.

Filling the home refrigerator for evening dinners and meals on weekends - another twenty thousand.
Total is already 80,000 rubles.
Some things need to be bought, socks, panties, shirts, washing powder, soap, razor, towels, toilet paper...
Well, in general, it’s a lot. Under a steward per month.

but this is the life of some kind of hamster..
sitting in greenhouse conditions and lamenting that he doesn’t have enough money. .
not enough - go where there is work and money..
no education - go as a long-haul driver or a construction worker.. or catch fish on a schooner during the fishing season..
you’ll work hard like that - you won’t even want sex anymore, but more offers will be added... you will smell of confidence, women can smell it a kilometer away..)

[◊_NeBo[_Na_]LaDoNi_◊]

Question to our dear men, have you ever felt like a complete idiot in a relationship with a girl? Were there any cases when you stopped, slapped yourself on the forehead with your fingers and thought: “Well, what an asshole I am! And why am I such an asshole?”, and in what cases did this happen?
Share your cringe stories, dear ones

I believe... that there are no such people. With men, someone is always to blame, but in no case is he.

Well, I felt like a complete idiot, I have a couple of stories like that. It’s possible that there should be more of them, and I would like to know where and how I messed up)))

it’s important that it’s not easy to call yourself more offensive, punish, etc. .. it is important to realize what and where you did wrong and correct yourself, at least try to improve, otherwise the same thing will happen in the next relationship.

[Pierro]

this is not about that at all and the topic is not about that.

yes already and so.. I follow you on topics like a tail..)
I forgot what’s in the title..
yes, I have to rush.. to work.. at night I read what the sellers of refrigerators say here.. )

[Serg_A]

I believe.. that there are no such people. With men, someone is always to blame, but in no case is he.

Well, I felt like a complete idiot, I have a couple of stories like that. It’s possible that there should be more of them, and I would like to know where and how I messed up)))

it’s important that it’s not easy to call yourself more offensive, punish, etc. .. it is important to realize what and where you did wrong and correct yourself, at least try to improve, otherwise the same thing will happen in the next relationship.

Well, live forever, study forever, you’ll still die a fool

[Hair shirt]

it’s important not to call yourself offensive names, punish yourself, etc... it’s important to realize what and where you did wrong and correct yourself, at least try to improve , otherwise the next relationship will be the same.

I read somewhere that Experience is actually something that you will never need again.
nAnd if you really honestly deal with yourself and reconsider your acquired experience in one area or another, it will turn out that it has never been useful to you anywhere else. Well, to be honest and if you don’t lie to yourself.
And it is so.

In general, one girl once told me that every new guy with whom you get along very closely it’s a whole new world. It’s like, say, coming from one country to live in another. Alone. Everything is different. New man - new rules of communication. What was impossible with the previous man is possible with this one. And vice versa.
The previous man cooked for himself and washed his own socks and underpants. And this guy won’t even pour himself a glass of water in the kitchen. And so on and so forth.

Therefore, it is not entirely clear where and in what place it is necessary to correct. This was all relevant for the previous man. For the next one, everything will be different and all over again.
Trust me.

[Seeker]

it’s important not to call yourself offensive names, punish yourself, etc... it’s important to realize what and where you did wrong and correct yourself, at least try to improve , otherwise the same thing will happen in the next relationship.

Good girl!
It is to realize that there is no need to punish at all, punishing yourself is essentially the same form of resentment. And this is just an attempt to justify the situation.
But not many people manage to realize and see themselves, if specifically about men, they often console themselves that they say I am king of beasts and my balls are big!) But seriously, that’s all childish, so immature...

[ilovebiboys]

why am I such an asshole?

no, it wasn’t like that. why slander yourself?

pfft, I myself am a rare asshole, I don’t even hide it)

[◊_NeBo[_Na_]LaDoNi_◊]

it’s important not to call yourself more offensive, punish, etc... it’s important to realize what and where you did wrong and correct yourself, at least try to improve, otherwise the same thing will happen in the next relationship.

But seriously, this is all so childish, so immature...

this is called infantilism.. some never grow out of their mother’s pants. They want them to have everything, but they do nothing for it, and of course the women are to blame... the women, as always, are to blame for everything))

[Hair shirt]

this is called infantilism.. some never grow out of their mother’s panties. They want them to have everything, but they do nothing for it, and of course the women are to blame... the women, as always, are to blame for everything))

And then for you who cares what kind of pants he’s wearing? You want equality, right? The real one. So that you won’t be considered a stupid cunt. So that you are taken into account, so that you are not considered a stupid woman. Well, what else can you take from her, she’s a woman! Right!?
Well, imagine that you are not considered such and the guy is being honest with you. On an equal footing.

Imagine?
And he has the same amount of money as you. Here he is in his mother’s short pants. And you are in them too. He does nothing to ensure that he has everything. But you didn’t do anything for this either!
I imagined?
Well, how do you like it?
Why doesn’t the man who lives with you have the right to be in short pants and be childish and do nothing to make everything happen, but it turns out you have the right to this?

nWhat did you do to have everything? And do you have everything you want? And aren’t you wearing your mother’s short pants right now? Why do you allow this for yourself, but a guy doesn’t have the right to this? You both have equal rights if you decide to connect your lives with each other. Why, when you enter into this union, do you yourself have nothing that you would like, but you think that a man must have it all? He is the same as you.

You don’t have it and he doesn’t have it. You both deserve each other. That’s why we got together. Because the one who has everything got a man who also has everything. And you have that guy who is just like you. No better and no worse.

[Seeker]

and of course the women are to blame.. the women, as always, are to blame for everything))

Wow, these women are bitches!))
That’s right, immaturity, mental laziness, inability to soberly assess the situation and see oneself.
Do you know why this happens? Fear. Fear of being misunderstood, fear of seeming funny or clumsy and the like, I think this is not maturity.
Don’t scold them too much, just have pity

[libertine]

I’ll tell you one story, but I don’t know whether it relates to this topic or not?
It was like this. At that time I was friends with a girl (now she has become my godfather). I then lived with my parents in a two-room apartment, since I didn’t have my own apartment, and my brother and his wife lived in a one-room apartment. And I invited her to my place for a city day, to assemble a Puzzle, drink beer, and watch the fireworks from the roof of another house. She arrived by car and parked in the yard. In general, we walked around, watched the fireworks, and did a Puzzle. It’s getting late at night, time to go to bed. Well, I made her a bed in my room, gave her a second blanket, since she was very cold, and I went to sleep in my parents’ room. So I’m lying like this, and I’m thinking: I need to go into the room, lie down next to her, cuddle up to her and say: “Let me warm you up!” And after 5 minutes, I fell asleep without noticing it. I wake up to the alarm and I’m in shock. I go to the kitchen quietly so as not to wake her, I wanted to make coffee in bed. But she had apparently already woken up and made a sound like a cat: "Meow!" Well, I went into the room where she was sleeping! Well, then we drank coffee, chatted about something, and she left.
I then thought to myself and said: "I’m an asshole!" She didn’t come just to drink beer, but also to have sex, most likely! I still regret that I missed the chance then!

[Hair shirt]

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[◊_NeBo[_Na_]LaDoNi_◊]

and of course the women are to blame.. the women, as always, are to blame for everything))

Wow, these women are bitches!))
That’s right, immaturity, mental laziness, inability to soberly assess the situation and see oneself.
Do you know why this happens? Fear. Fear of being misunderstood, fear of seeming funny or clumsy and the like, I think this is not maturity.
Don’t scold them too much, just have pity

I’m not scolding.. I’ve been sick and burned out for a long time, I just wanted to speak out, thanks for the support

[Katerinka]

I thought to myself and said: "I’m an asshole!" She came not only to drink beer, but also to have sex, most likely! I still regret that I missed the chance then!

and maybe she thought something completely different)

[Seeker]

just wanted to speak out, thanks for the support

Write if anything happens, I will always support)

[◊_NeBo[_Na_]LaDoNi_◊]

I’ll tell you one story, but I don’t know whether it relates to this topic or not?
It was like this. At that time I was friends with a girl (now she has become my godfather). I then lived with my parents in a two-room apartment, since I didn’t have my own apartment, and my brother and his wife lived in a one-room apartment. And I invited her to my place for a city day, to assemble a Puzzle, drink beer, and watch the fireworks from the roof of another house. She arrived by car and parked in the yard. In general, we walked around, watched the fireworks, and did a Puzzle. It’s getting late at night, time to go to bed. Well, I made her a bed in my room, gave her a second blanket, since she was very cold, and I went to sleep in my parents’ room. So I’m lying like this, and I’m thinking: I need to go into the room, lie down next to her, cuddle up to her and say: “Let me warm you up!” And after 5 minutes, I fell asleep without noticing it. I wake up to the alarm and I’m in shock. I go to the kitchen quietly so as not to wake her, I wanted to make coffee in bed. But she had apparently already woken up and made a sound like a cat: "Meow!" Well, I went into the room where she was sleeping! Well, then we drank coffee, chatted about something, and she left.
I then thought to myself and said: "I’m an asshole!" She didn’t come just to drink beer, but also to have sex, most likely! I still regret that I missed the chance then!

oh well.. don’t scold yourself.. maybe she decided that you were a knight in shining armor, didn’t use her drunken state for your own purposes