My husband is raping me

[Janna66666666]

My husband and I are over 45 years old. He has always had a high libido, but lately it has become somehow unhealthy. He started demanding sex from me at least once a day. It also happened that he literally spent the whole day having sex. At first I didn’t mind, you never know the hormonal changes, but I quickly got tired of such frequent sex. I started to refuse, he understood me and we didn’t have sex. Later, he stopped asking my permission. I could tolerate it, but he takes me at the wrong time and is very rude. For example, he comes into the shower while I’m washing or sits down while I’m sleeping. Almost every night I wake up from rough sex. I told him that I was not pleased and hurt, but he told me that I was his wife and he had the right to do this to me. I quote"the last time you had the right to say no at the registry office". Friends say that marital sex is the kind of sex where you have to endure it. But I can no longer endure this pain and humiliation. The worst thing is that my husband often rapes me in the ass and now I have terrible pain there. When I ask him to at least not touch my butt, he says that everything in front is already stretched out. I do not know what to do. We have three children, and I don’t have an apartment or a normal job. I feel like I’m at a dead end.

[Sorcerer]

And what do you want to hear on this forum and from whom? From those who ride, everything that moves and what doesn’t move will be stirred up themselves.

[alex56]

My husband and I are over 45 years old. He has always had a high libido, but lately it has become somehow unhealthy. He started demanding sex from me at least once a day. It also happened that he literally spent the whole day having sex. At first I didn’t mind, you never know the hormonal changes, but I quickly got tired of such frequent sex. I started to refuse, he understood me and we didn’t have sex. Later, he stopped asking my permission. I could tolerate it, but he takes me at the wrong time and is very rude. For example, he comes into the shower while I’m washing or sits down while I’m sleeping. Almost every night I wake up from rough sex. I told him that I was not pleased and hurt, but he told me that I was his wife and he had the right to do this to me. I quote"the last time you had the right to say no at the registry office". Friends say that marital sex is the kind of sex where you have to endure it. But I can no longer endure this pain and humiliation. The worst thing is that my husband often rapes me in the ass and now I have terrible pain there. When I ask him to at least not touch my butt, he says that everything in front is already stretched out. I do not know what to do. We have three children, and I don’t have an apartment or a normal job. I feel like I’m at a dead end.

If you can’t stop the mess, lead it!!!

[Sweet pepper]

Go to a monastery or to a madhouse

[Sorcerer]

They don’t give it to the man, and then they howl about the husband cheating.

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He has the right to marital debt, and therefore takes what is due to him and his.

[padshiy]

Find him a mistress, share your responsibilities in bed with her, or better yet, FFM

[Mongoose]

I realized that everything in front was broken, my butt hurt terribly! I don’t understand the connection between sex and the lack of an apartment and a normal job? Please explain!

[Venus]

My husband and I are over 45 years old. He has always had a high libido, but lately it has become somehow unhealthy. He started demanding sex from me at least once a day. It also happened that he literally spent the whole day having sex. At first I didn’t mind, you never know the hormonal changes, but I quickly got tired of such frequent sex. I started to refuse, he understood me and we didn’t have sex. Later, he stopped asking my permission. I could tolerate it, but he takes me at the wrong time and is very rude. For example, he comes into the shower while I’m washing or sits down while I’m sleeping. Almost every night I wake up from rough sex. I told him that I was not pleased and hurt, but he told me that I was his wife and he had the right to do this to me. I quote"the last time you had the right to say no at the registry office". Friends say that marital sex is the kind of sex where you have to endure it. But I can no longer endure this pain and humiliation. The worst thing is that my husband often rapes me in the ass and now I have terrible pain there. When I ask him to at least not touch my butt, he says that everything in front is already stretched out. I do not know what to do. We have three children, and I don’t have an apartment or a normal job. I feel like I’m stuck.

Legal liability for sexual assault does not disappear after marriage. You can write a statement to the police. But, if I understand correctly, you don’t want to apply for it because of financial problems.
You shouldn’t tolerate it.
I would advise you to talk to your husband. Tell him that you don’t like rough sex. If talking doesn’t help, try brewing calming herbs for him. Valerian, motherwort, thyme, oregano, lemon balm. Perhaps then he will become softer.
We can go to a psychotherapist, tell you that you are suffering from panic attacks and mix the medications they prescribe for you with your husband’s food. Then libido will decrease, but while taking these drugs you should not drive a car or engage in activities that require increased concentration. Therefore, the option is effective, but very dangerous.
Personally, I would start giving such a husband a blow job. Every morning until he really woke up. Right after work, as soon as I arrived and, of course, as soon as I got into bed. Suck all his life force out of him so that he starts hiding.

[Topchik]

You’re at a dead end, for sure.
But listen. It’s not all bad.
Look, your husband is completely screwed.

[BeachBunny]

Janna66666666, for some reason it seems to me that sex is not is the main reason for your husband’s behavior. If he repeatedly takes you by force, deliberately inflicting pain, and is willing to harm your health in the process, then this is a manifestation of cruelty or sadistic tendencies. You know your husband better than anyone on this forum. Ask yourself what is the main reason for your husband’s behavior. To solve the problem, you need to know exactly the cause. If it’s just about sex, then I agree with Dragonfly, oral sex will help you, suck him off 3 times a day, yourself, take off his pants and suck him, and in a maximum of a week he will begin to avoid you.

[Morpheus]

A woman writes a letter to the editor of a newspaper:
"Dear editors! Help! My husband constantly wants me. He wants me in the morning, he wants me at lunch, he wants me in the evening, he wants me at lunch, he wants me when I go to the toilet and bath.
And now...sorry for the uneven handwriting... ":shamp:

[Venus]

A woman writes a letter to the editor of a newspaper:
"Dear editors! Help! My husband wants me all the time. He wants me in the morning, he wants me at lunch, he wants me in the evening, he wants me during lunch, he wants me when I go to the toilet and bath.
And now...sorry for the uneven handwriting... ":shamp:

Only one message from TS. Perhaps he lives like in your joke.
Probably another wife would be happy with her husband’s libido, but here there are problems. She’s tired of sex, but some people don’t have sex. What injustice.

[Sorcerer]

Baba comes to the doctor and complains that my husband has already fucked me. He comes home from work, demands to eat, he will eat and takes him to bed to fuck and sleep, and fucks until the morning. I’m already tired, I have no strength, and this happens every day. The doctor advises that you go to your boss at work and let him give him the hardest job, so that he passes and goes straight to bed. Well, the woman did just that and made an agreement with the boss. She is waiting for her husband at home, he will come and go to bed now. My husband came home barely able to stand. Wife - Well, what should hubby eat? The husband hit the table with his fist - stop eating, let’s fuck and sleep.

[Greek10]

Well, talking here definitely won’t help. He wants it, but you seem tired of such sexual pressure - 1-2 times a week is enough for you. 45 years old - husbands want something more, new. The front is stretched - well, train your muscles - with the same balls. If you insert a plug into the anus, the front will narrow. If he takes you and knows that you are in pain and sex does not bring satisfaction, there is only one option - to separate before it is too late - he does not love you, at 45 life is just beginning. If you love him - you have already been given the right answers - you cannot prevent him - lead him. But for this you need to want sex and go a little crazy. There are a lot of options:
Jerking - it can be very different; not a single man will refuse to squirt on his wife’s face or in her panties, and even if she asks for it.
The blowjob mentioned here - morning, afternoon, evening, night, while watching TV, at dinner - the main thing is that he sees your desire, and not doom.
Role sex
nInitiate yourself anal sex, you are in pain because anal sexwithout desire and preparation there is always an injury. Get ready, wear a plug, use creams, stimulate yourself to orgasm during sex yourself
The most extravagant smoposb threesome, with another woman, and you have a passive role there, he will mainly fuck another.
Libido it won’t go anywhere on its own; it can only be crushed with psychotropic substances. The desire for sex is a basic instinct, stronger than the feeling of pain or hunger.

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A woman writes a letter to the editor of a newspaper:
"Dear editors! Help! My husband constantly wants me. He wants me in the morning, he wants me at lunch, he wants me in the evening, he wants me during lunch, he wants me when I go to the toilet and bath.
And now...sorry for the uneven handwriting ... ":shamp:

Only one message from TS. Perhaps he lives like in your joke.
Probably another wife would be happy The husband has such a libido, and here there are problems. She’s tired of sex, but someone doesn’t have sex. What an injustice.

My wife knows a 40-year-old woman who was looking for her. I was looking and found a 30-year-old. Everything is like in a fairy tale - fountains of sex, fireworks in the eyes, etc... A year later I started complaining - I’m already fucked))) I overestimated my strength.

[Bully Carrie]

If you don’t want to, explain this to him, and he takes you by force - this is rape. As Strecoza writes, file a rape report with the police , and the court will decide whether you can say "no". The examination will determine damage to the anus. And perhaps your husband will sit down for two years.
Unless what is written here is not a standard fantasy in the “harder” style.

[Venus]

My wife knows a 40-year-old ravedenka, she searched and searched and found a 30-year-old. Everything is like in a fairy tale - fountains of sex, fireworks in the eyes, etc...... A year later I started complaining - I’m already fucked))) I overestimated my strength

Yes, you are right. She overestimated her strength and underestimated the strength of her man.
A lot is good, but also bad. In my opinion, the problem lies, in most cases, in initially different temperaments. There are a lot of themes here about how everything is good with people, but sex is not very good or even not very good. And, all because they thought that a miracle would happen, but our temperament is innate and, if it can be adjusted, it is only slightly. You can play a role, but over time it gets boring or the person simply gets tired and as a result of the problem.

[BeachBunny]

Not being fucked and having a strong sexual constitution are completely different concepts. The relationship will close in a month at most, and then, with a serious difference in temperament, disagreements will begin.

[◊_NeBo[_Na_]LaDoNi_◊]

My husband and I are over 45 years old. He has always had a high libido, but lately it has become somehow unhealthy. He started demanding sex from me at least once a day. It also happened that he literally spent the whole day having sex. At first I didn’t mind, you never know the hormonal changes, but I quickly got tired of such frequent sex. I started to refuse, he understood me and we didn’t have sex. Later, he stopped asking my permission. I could tolerate it, but he takes me at the wrong time and is very rude. For example, he comes into the shower while I’m washing or sits down while I’m sleeping. Almost every night I wake up from rough sex. I told him that I was not pleased and hurt, but he told me that I was his wife and he had the right to do this to me. I quote"the last time you had the right to say no at the registry office". Friends say that marital sex is the kind of sex where you have to endure it. But I can no longer endure this pain and humiliation. The worst thing is that my husband often rapes me in the ass and now I have terrible pain there. When I ask him to at least not touch my butt, he says that everything in front is already stretched out. I do not know what to do. We have three children, and I don’t have an apartment or a normal job. I feel like I’m at a dead end.

you wrote to the wrong forum.. they’re unlikely to help you here.
How old are the children?.. Do you have relatives who can help you?.. is there an opportunity, at least temporarily, to leave your husband somewhere, so that later you can calmly resolve this issue with a cool head and a pain-free bottom?

[Venus]

My husband and I are over 45 years old. He has always had a high libido, but lately it has become somehow unhealthy. He started demanding sex from me at least once a day. It also happened that he literally spent the whole day having sex. At first I didn’t mind, you never know the hormonal changes, but I quickly got tired of such frequent sex. I started to refuse, he understood me and we didn’t have sex. Later, he stopped asking my permission. I could tolerate it, but he takes me at the wrong time and is very rude. For example, he comes into the shower while I’m washing or sits down while I’m sleeping. Almost every night I wake up from rough sex. I told him that I was not pleased and hurt, but he told me that I was his wife and he had the right to do this to me. I quote"the last time you had the right to say no at the registry office". Friends say that marital sex is the kind of sex where you have to endure it. But I can no longer endure this pain and humiliation. The worst thing is that my husband often rapes me in the ass and now I have terrible pain there. When I ask him to at least not touch my butt, he says that everything in front is already stretched out. I do not know what to do. We have three children, and I don’t have an apartment or a normal job. I feel like I’m at a dead end.

you wrote to the wrong forum.. they’re unlikely to help you here.
How old are the children?.. Do you have relatives who can help you?.. is there an opportunity, at least temporarily, to leave your husband somewhere, so that later you can calmly resolve this issue with a cool head and a pain-free bottom?

All-Russian free helpline for women subjected to domestic violence: 8-800-7000-600. They will tell you the nearest crisis center, where they provide shelter, provide psychological and legal support, and help you find new housing and work.

[Anonym9]

Probably sit down and talk, maybe show papers from the doctor about problems with the butt. If it doesn’t help, go with your children to a shelter for victims of domestic violence or to a friend’s parents. Yes, and you shouldn’t give it to the butt more than 1-2 times a week, crack, etc. Tested it myself, I just left the man

[Aspiring]

You really should see a doctor, then the police. Violence is a crime.

[Evgenii7519]

My husband and I are over 45 years old. He has always had a high libido, but lately it has become somehow unhealthy. He started demanding sex from me at least once a day. It also happened that he literally spent the whole day having sex. At first I didn’t mind, you never know the hormonal changes, but I quickly got tired of such frequent sex. I started to refuse, he understood me and we didn’t have sex. Later, he stopped asking my permission. I could tolerate it, but he takes me at the wrong time and is very rude. For example, he comes into the shower while I’m washing or sits down while I’m sleeping. Almost every night I wake up from rough sex. I told him that I was not pleased and hurt, but he told me that I was his wife and he had the right to do this to me. I quote"the last time you had the right to say no at the registry office". Friends say that marital sex is the kind of sex where you have to endure it. But I can no longer endure this pain and humiliation. The worst thing is that my husband often rapes me in the ass and now I have terrible pain there. When I ask him to at least not touch my butt, he says that everything in front is already stretched out. I do not know what to do. We have three children, and I don’t have an apartment or a normal job. I feel like I’m at a dead end.

Offer him the oral option. Jerk him off...

Well, or tell him that one day he will wake up, and the cat will finish eating his dick under the window...

And if you have endured this , that you allow everything to be done to you, playing the noble "I have children, where am I...?" then buy lubricant and let him fuck on, there is no point in whining

[Billy Bones]

My husband and I are over 45 years old. He has always had a high libido, but lately it has become somehow unhealthy. He started demanding sex from me at least once a day. It also happened that he literally spent the whole day having sex. At first I didn’t mind, you never know the hormonal changes, but I quickly got tired of such frequent sex. I started to refuse, he understood me and we didn’t have sex. Later, he stopped asking my permission. I could tolerate it, but he takes me at the wrong time and is very rude. For example, he comes into the shower while I’m washing or sits down while I’m sleeping. Almost every night I wake up from rough sex. I told him that I was not pleased and hurt, but he told me that I was his wife and he had the right to do this to me. I quote"the last time you had the right to say no at the registry office". Friends say that marital sex is the kind of sex where you have to endure it. But I can no longer endure this pain and humiliation. The worst thing is that my husband often rapes me in the ass and now I have terrible pain there. When I ask him to at least not touch my butt, he says that everything in front is already stretched out. I do not know what to do. We have three children, and I don’t have an apartment or a normal job. I feel like I’m at a dead end.

For this message by Janna66666666 pob

Good advice from Dragonfly, indeed, herbs can help. But his consent to the deliberate decrease in libido is a question... then think about whether it’s worth talking to him about it or sneaking it in quietly. As far as I understand, he’s not very talkative about it, right?

[Van]

Janna66666666, there is such a disease in men - sexaholia. They say it’s a psychological disorder. When a man has an uncontrolled sex life. He doesn’t understand who he fucks, where he fucks, and how he fucks.
David Duchovny, the star of the TV series “The X-Files and Californication,” suffered from this disorder.
I think you need to see a sexologist

[career]

I am his wife and he has the right to do this with me

yes he has

[career]

And perhaps your husband will sit down for two years

for rape in the Russian Federation, you won’t get off with two years

[Alexssss]

uran, which means he has, he has nothing, it is not private property;

[career]

he has nothing

and what does the husband have the right to?

[Alexssss]

Love, enjoy, in a couple of years this may not happen, there will be something to remember, it’s good when your husband wants you!!!

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uran , as usual, we have no rights, only responsibilities)) a man, MUST, as always, nothing new (

[Xenophon]

The woman is a victim. This is her problem. She will cry and endure until she gets to the hospital. If she refuses, he will beat her and she will end up in the hospital anyway.
A blowjob won’t help. He will stick it right up to her tonsils and she will end up in the hospital again.
But the most unpleasant thing is that the husband considers not only his wife, but also his children to be his property, and this is something we need to think about.

[Bully Carrie]

But the most unpleasant thing is that the husband considers not only his wife, but also his children to be his property, and this is something we need to think about.

I especially feel sorry for the children, yes.

[RedFox]

She is fucked, her husband fucks her, but she is not happy, some wives complain that her husband does not fuck. What do you need? I married my husband, that’s it, the candy-bouquet romance is over, it’s time to expose your holes and enjoy.

[Looking for]

Janna66666666,
He’s got it soon will pass.

[Janna66666666]

buy lubricant and let him fuck further, there is no need to whine

Lubricant really saved the day in this situation. I don’t like doing blowjobs, it’s even worse. For now we have settled on vaginal with lubricant and sometimes in the ass. What to do, I’m patient.

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it’s time to expose your holes and enjoy.

It’s easy for you to talk about pleasure, it’s not very pleasant when you tear your dick from the inside. Sex just doesn’t bring me pleasure, it’s my marital duty and that’s it. Understand

[career]

The worst thing is that my husband often rapes me in the ass and now it hurts terribly there.

but it’s interesting how she holds you, well there in butt or vagina.. it doesn’t matter, because it’s very difficult, almost impossible, to get a woman without fixing her. Tell me how he fixes you on the bed, how does he manage to hold you?

[Andrey-37]

I agree with the posts above: suck the sludge. suggest that he get another woman. Better yet, both

[vlasm]

what does a husband have the right to?

Remain silent

[angrove]

The worst thing is that my husband often rapes me in

You, my dear, are confusing something. A husband cannot rape, that’s why he is both a husband and a wife, so that when..., he doesn’t think where. In general, in cities and villages women howl that they are nobody and nowhere, but here... There are no words.

[Tanya]

.... my husband often rapes me in the ass and now it hurts terribly there. When I ask him to at least not touch my butt, he says that everything in front is already stretched out. I do not know what to do. We have three children, and I don’t have an apartment or a normal job. I feel like I’m at a dead end.

you wrote to the wrong forum... they’re unlikely to help you here.
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All-Russian free helpline for women subjected to domestic violence: 8-800-7000-600. They will tell you the nearest crisis center, where they provide shelter, provide psychological and legal support, help you find new housing and work.

Telephone 101, they will also help you with to give you and your children peace and housing for a few years....

[angrove]

Telephone 101, they will also help give you and your children peace and housing for several years....

Yeah, then he will run around humiliating himself and begging, to give it back.

[Tanya]

Telephone 101, they will also help give you and your children peace and housing for several years...

Yeah, then he’ll run around humiliate yourself and beg to give it back.

Well, in my opinion they don’t give it back anymore...

[angrove]

Well, in my opinion, they don’t give it back anymore....

Well, if they don’t give it back, they give it back. He will negotiate with the campführer for parole, give him money, something else and where he will give it (if they take it).

[Max.71.RUS]

Then why such a husband?

[Janna66666666]

how she holds you

I am short, my husband is tall and strong, if he wrings his hands I cannot resist. This is what creates the feeling of violence.

[slavik.meshalkin]

how she holds you

I am short, my husband is tall and strong, if he wrings his hands I cannot resist. This is what gives rise to the feeling of violence

Probably some other Caucasian

[Janna66666666]

another woman,

I won’t let a chicken fuck her husband

[Alexander]

The story raises a lot of questions. In general, with age, men’s libido decreases, but yours, on the contrary, has increased. Apparently he started taking something to increase his libido. Normal male behavior in family life, for some reason, changed to treating his wife as a sexual slave. Maybe he registered on a similar "concerned" site, but with different specifics, which leads to additional excitement. A classic example is the film "9.5 weeks", where a man could fuck a woman only under extraordinary circumstances and conditions. If you both still have some feelings, then it would be good for both of you to see a good psychologist, although finding a good psychologist is not very easy. And if there are no feelings, then all the other advice has already been given to you here.

[Fargal94]

Guys, go to her page and pay attention to the first posts, maybe I didn’t understand something?

[Sibiryak89]

another woman,

I won’t let a chicken fuck her husband

In what they offered, there are two ways left, either endure it or get a divorce...

[March]

Then why such a husband?

It’s a crap question...
Let her go and rape her husband . And the question will be closed.
And then they planted chamomile here...