What is sex like in real life? When does it seem so impossible?

Unread post by **Denis Smolkin** » 05 Dec 2023, 19:02

Now before going to bed, I wanted to discuss with you a topic like sex in real life. Perhaps someone asked the same question.
I am now a young guy, I play sports throughout my life and am open in communication, and I have a goal in the future to meet my girlfriend, so I haven’t had a girlfriend or sexual experience yet, It is clear that relationships always lead to sex, and this arouses both interest and some questions for me, how I will do it, and so on.
-- I’ll start the topic in order, That’s when I don’t Having a girlfriend, the only option you can imagine is porn, and when you watch it, there are no questions or embarrassment, but when you imagine what your personal sex will be like, that you will also engage in it, for some reason you feel shy.
A similar example , It’s like watching a movie and seeing great actors and liking everything, but when you put yourself in the same role, you think, how is it even real?
- 1) Embarrassment, how will I see a naked girl . and she me
- 2) Oral sex (blowjob and cunnilingus) I’m now embarrassed to imagine how a girl will take my penis in her mouth, to put it bluntly, what sensations it will feel or will I make the girl feel good (that is, the thought in my head is Well, this is all great and I want it, but what about in reality and there will be a lot of embarrassment)
- 3) The sex itself, just to put it bluntly, is my penis and her vagina. I’m already somehow embarrassed as I write, wondering if this will be real? Perhaps I think so because sex has always seemed very pleasant to me, but inaccessible, and they got used to it,
this is the same as imagine how you fly into space tomorrow, you won’t be able to believe it either, until if you don’t try, well, that’s what I’m talking about.
Well, in general, it’s interesting, of course, what it’s like to be with the girl you love, to discover sex, and that’s all.

Unread post by **alex56** » 05 Dec 2023, 19:11

It’s very nice to read the text without errors. the first time is always shy... the first time is something you remember for the rest of your life!) so act accordingly!!!

Unread post by **0dlb0** » 05 Dec 2023, 20:13

Denis Smolkin,
Too many questions and doubts. Don’t worry about it. In short - "everything happened for the first time and again". A time of discovery - to see, to feel, to sense.
If a girl is experienced (and smart) she will not mock a virgin. And he will teach. If both are virgins, well, I don’t know, It’s probably super, both of them start from 0.

Denis Smolkin: 05 Dec 2023, 19:02 for some reason shy.

Isn’t it embarrassing to masturbate? )

Unread post by **Kalyaev** » 05 Dec 2023, 20:18

Meet girls from the medical field.
I was in relationships with three people (married to the third)
Without complex and shameless personalities)
Although maybe I came across one like that)

05 Dec 2023, 21:40

Denis Smolkin: 05 Dec 2023, 19:02 Now before going to bed, I wanted to discuss with you a topic like sex in real life. Perhaps someone asked the same question.
I am now a young guy, I play sports throughout my life and am open in communication, and I have a goal in the future to meet my girlfriend, so I haven’t had a girlfriend or sexual experience yet, It is clear that relationships always lead to sex, and this arouses both interest and some questions for me, how I will do it, and so on.
-- I’ll start the topic in order, That’s when I don’t Having a girlfriend, the only option you can imagine is porn, and when you watch it, there are no questions or embarrassment, but when you imagine what your personal sex will be like, that you will also engage in it, for some reason you feel shy.
A similar example , It’s like watching a movie and seeing great actors and liking everything, but when you put yourself in the same role, you think, how is it even real?
- 1) Embarrassment, how will I see a naked girl . and she me
- 2) Oral sex (blowjob and cunnilingus) I’m now embarrassed to imagine how a girl will take my penis in her mouth, to put it bluntly, what sensations it will feel or will I make the girl feel good (that is, the thought in my head is Well, this is all great and I want it, but what about in reality and there will be a lot of embarrassment)
- 3) The sex itself, just to put it bluntly, is my penis and her vagina. I’m already somehow embarrassed as I write, wondering if this will be real? Perhaps I think so because sex has always seemed very pleasant to me, but inaccessible, and they got used to it,
this is the same as imagine how you fly into space tomorrow, you won’t be able to believe it either, until if you don’t try, well, that’s what I’m talking about.
Well, in general, it’s interesting, of course, what it’s like to be with the girl you love, to discover sex, and that’s all.

You are 24 and you are just planning to find a girl in the future?.. and at what age are you planning?.. by 50?.. there are a lot of thoughts, doubts, as if you were going to defend your candidate’s thesis. The more you think, the more fear and doubt you have. We need to act. Meet people and have sex, and you’ll think about it until your death.

Unread post by **Aion2012Dead** » 05 Dec 2023, 22:16

Damn, a lot of similar thoughts.
I think when you meet a girl with whom you feel comfortable and well (and not some image of a stranger), then you will have no time for such thoughts.
But theorizing and winding yourself up like this will not lead to anything good.
If you are really 24, and you have not had relationships with girls, then there are definitely some problems with socialization and communication.
Maybe if you turn to a psychologist, this will somehow help. I’m not saying this to offend you, I’m just expressing my thoughts.
For example, virgin over 30+
Previously, sometimes I regretted that I didn’t look for help and let everything take its course.
Now there’s practically no , I just don’t care, I’m not interested in relationships and that’s not bad.

Unread post by **Oleg Milov** » 12 Dec 2023, 13:59

Well, the first time I think always seems strange and exciting

Unread post by **Gudgeon** » 12 Dec 2023, 15:04

Denis Smolkin: 05 Dec 2023, 19:02 It is clear that relationships always lead to sex

You will be surprised...

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Denis Smolkin: 05 Dec 2023, 19:02 from the views there is only the possibility of porn

This has no more to do with reality than action movies have with war or cheap romances with married life

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Denis Smolkin: Constraint

It will disappear by itself very quickly

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Denis Smolkin: 05 Dec 2023, 19:02 it’s awkward to imagine how a girl will take my dick in her mouth, to put it bluntly, what does that feel

It’s warm and soft there

Just wait for it... It’s only in porn that everyone is ready to take it into their mouth at the first click. In reality, everything is "a little" different.

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Denis Smolkin: 05 Dec 2023, 19:02 always seemed very pleasant, but inaccessible,

Discoveries await you here too :- DNot all sex is very pleasant, and it’s not always unavailable (but that doesn’t mean it’s desirable).

Unread post by **Bully Carrie** » 12 Dec 2023, 15:14

Do not worry! Nature will take its course. Some things will work out instinctively, some things maybe the girl will tell you. The main thing is don’t worry. Everyone was there, everyone had their first time "Oh!", for many the first time was a bit lumpy, and it was also okay.

Unread post by **Denis Smolkin** » 12 Dec 2023, 15:45

Hooligan Carrie, Thanks for the advice, I’m not particularly worried , but I’m mentally preparing myself for it

Unread post by **Bully Carrie** » 12 Dec 2023, 15:50

Denis Smolkin: 12 Dec 2023, 15:45 but I am mentally preparing myself for this

No need, just trust nature))

Unread post by **Ogest** » 12 Dec 2023, 16:00

Find yourself an experienced one. Such a woman will take everything into her own hands.

Unread post by **Denis Smolkin** » 12 Dec 2023, 16:16

Ogest, Well, just to say, real sex I like- then I’m embarrassed

Unread post by **Vert** » 12 Dec 2023, 16:57

I would advise you not to watch porn if you haven’t had real sex yet. Because then, upon contact, problems are possible, to the point where it won’t stand. And this, in turn, can give rise to complexes.

Unread post by **Denis Smolkin** » 12 Dec 2023, 17:07

Vert, Well, if I watch it, it’s already more consciously for study and experience, but it’s not easy to relieve tension and that’s it,

Unread post by **Vert** » 12 Dec 2023, 17:16

Denis Smolkin, theory without practice doesn’t really work, so that it’s not worth studying

for too long. It’s like theoretically learning to swim

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Unread post by **Denis Smolkin** » 12 Dec 2023, 17:26

Vert, Yes, but sex with a girl is only possible in a relationship , so if there is no girl yet, there is no option to practice, only to learn in theory.

Unread post by **Hammer** » 12 Dec 2023, 20:23

Denis Smolkin: 12 Dec 2023, 16:16 Well, just to say, I’m somehow shy about real sex

Keep being shy, you’ll live to be an old man as a masturbator :) and then it will no longer be relevant

pipiska will retire.

Unread post by **Denis Smolkin** » 13 Dec 2023, 07:48

Well, this is not a reason to jump around different girls

Unread post by **Hammer** » 13 Dec 2023, 21:58

Denis Smolkin: 13 Dec 2023, 07:48 Well, this is not a reason to jump around different girls

Seriously!? Different??? Find at least one hole. And don’t bother your head with unnecessary thoughts. With girls everything is much simpler

in terms of sex. Stuck in, twitched, came and pulled out

To do for a few minutes

Unread post by **Denis Smolkin** » 14 Dec 2023, 02:46

Hammer, I’ll find it, the main thing for me is to be ready myself, maybe after the first time I’ll understand that it’s simple, but that’s why it’s the first time

Unread post by **alexey.bro** » 14 Dec 2023, 02:59

Hammer: 13 Dec 2023, 21:58minutes

And the first times maybe even seconds)

Unread post by **March** » 14 Dec 2023, 03:22

Kalyaev: 05 Dec 2023, 20:18 Meet girls from the medical field.
I was in relationships with three (married to the third)
Without complex and shameless personalities)

I have not been in a relationship with anyone in the medical field. But also - everyone is shameless and uncomplicated.

Unread post by **Kalyaev** » 14 Dec 2023, 03:28

March: 14 Dec 2023, 03:22 all shameless and uncomplicated.

Well, maybe it seemed so to me)