Never had a girl

Unread post by **sadman1** » 16 Dec 2023, 06:54

Actually the question is - why is it so difficult to find a girl today? It seems to me that this is completely unrealistic - there are absolutely zero on dating sites (apps), no likes, no replies to messages, complete ignorance. I thought that with a prostitute I would become more relaxed, but nothing has changed radically, it’s difficult to be confident in yourself when you haven’t even kissed once, because... You can’t fool yourself. In general, what advice would you give to someone who has been in a similar situation?

Unread post by **Varian_Rin** » 16 Dec 2023, 07:34

sadman1: 16 Dec 2023, 06:54 Actually the question is - why is it so difficult to find a girl today? It seems to me that this is completely unrealistic - there are absolutely zero on dating sites (apps), no likes, no replies to messages, complete ignorance. I thought that with a prostitute I would become more relaxed, but nothing has changed radically, it’s difficult to be confident in yourself when you haven’t even kissed once, because... You can’t fool yourself. In general, what advice could you give to anyone who has been in a similar situation?

Don’t despair, anything can happen. I got a girlfriend when I was 24, I kissed her for the first time and lost my virginity.

Unread post by **sevener** » 16 Dec 2023, 07:39

I gave a super detailed answer in this thread You need to register to see the link.
It’s hard to find a girl only if you stick your head in into the sand and revel in their helplessness. If you just don’t have enough knowledge, you can get it very quickly, in 1 evening.

Unread post by **Juravl** » 16 Dec 2023, 07:45

It’s a mess in a man’s head, judging by the text he wrote, and it doesn’t add up.

The person’s age is unknown, what he does is not clear, with whom and where he lives - a mystery, what he is interested in in life is behind the scenes.

But the girl is gone, there’s trouble, help!!!

Let me explain.
You may be offended.
There are no miracles in life, in the earthly matrix.
Everything is natural.
No girl means he’s a dumbass who is not interested in the fair
sex.

There are a lot of options - ugly, 160 cm tall, boring and dull in itself, no enthusiasm.
Money is definitely not the main thing here.

Change.

And everything will change.

Unread post by **Shy Baby** » 16 Dec 2023, 07:46

sadman1: 16 Dec 2023, 06:54 Actually the question is - why is it so difficult to find a girl today? It seems to me that this is completely unrealistic - there are absolutely zero on dating sites (apps), no likes, no replies to messages, complete ignorance. I thought that with a prostitute I would become more relaxed, but nothing has changed radically, it’s difficult to be confident in yourself when you haven’t even kissed once, because... You can’t fool yourself. In general, what could you advise, who has been in a similar situation?

...And I will add only one thing: a girl sitting at home, at the computer, It’s extremely difficult to find.
Live communication is a must.

Unread post by **Starik938** » 16 Dec 2023, 07:54

Yes, you’ll understand them) I didn’t like it on dating sites myself) and a year later one wrote to me) there’s a better chance of meeting you live) and don’t be afraid that they might send you) one will send you, the other will agree)

Unread post by **niqk** » 16 Dec 2023, 08:54

Well, if you always walk everywhere with your nose buried in a gadget... Moreover, you cannot put two words together... Moreover, wash once a quarter, and change your shirt even less often... And also...

Unread post by **sadman1** » 16 Dec 2023, 09:28

Shy Baby: 16 Dec 2023, 07:46 ...And I will add only one thing: it is extremely difficult to find a girl sitting at home, at the computer.

I have It’s just a problem that he’s a very shy introvert, and girls also cause fear that thoughts in his head are confused

Unread post by **Bully Carrie** » 16 Dec 2023, 10:26

sadman1: 16 Dec 2023, 06:54 I thought that with a prostitute I would become more relaxed, but nothing has changed radically

So, did you at least manage to end up with a prostitute?

Unread post by **Ogest** » 16 Dec 2023, 11:13

sadman1: 16 Dec 2023, 06:54 I thought that with a prostitute I would become more relaxed, but nothing has changed radically,

How many prostitutes have you had? If there is only one, then this is not enough for change.

Unread post by **sadman1** » 16 Dec 2023, 11:39

Hooligan Carrie: 16 Dec 2023, 10:26 So did you at least manage to end up with a prostitute?

Yes, there were no problems with that, that’s how it seems to me , a natural consequence)

Unread post by **Bully Carrie** » 16 Dec 2023, 12:02

sadman1: 16 Dec 2023, 11:39 Yes, there were no problems with this, it seems to me that this is a natural consequence)

Well, that’s good! Keep training and confidence will come.

Unread post by **sadman1** » 16 Dec 2023, 12:03

Hooligan Carrie: 16 Dec 2023, 12:02 Well, that’s good! Keep training, confidence will come.

This won’t help with ordinary girls...

Unread post by **Bully Carrie** » 16 Dec 2023, 12:09

sadman1: 16 Dec 2023, 12:03 This won’t help with ordinary girls...

It will definitely help! Women have a nose for confident men; almost all women like confident and experienced men.
Although... maybe you should try femdom, mm?) Then no one will ask for confidence from you.

Unread post by **sadman1** » 16 Dec 2023, 12:14

Hooligan Carrie: 16 Dec 2023, 12:09 It will definitely help! Women have a nose for confident men; women, almost all of them, like confident and experienced men.

Confidence and girls for money have nothing to do with it. You just pay, that’s all, money is a service. But you never knew how to communicate with a girl so that you develop sympathy and feelings. You don’t seem to quite understand what I mean - I have no communication with girls at all, I don’t refuse any options, I don’t have them at all)

Unread post by **Hammer** » 16 Dec 2023, 21:40

sadman1,
Well, develop your skills communication. Most people meet at school and work. And there are a lot of places where you can meet people in a big city. Don’t waste time, otherwise you will find yourself among the socially phobic virgins. In every country there is a certain percentage of such males. But for nature this is not problem

Unread post by **Bully Carrie** » 16 Dec 2023, 23:09

sadman1: 16 Dec 2023, 12:14 You don’t seem to quite understand what I mean

No, you don’t understand. You are afraid to talk to girls. You lack confidence. This means you need to develop confidence in order to communicate freely.

17 Dec 2023, 00:24

sadman1: 16 Dec 2023, 09:28
Shy Baby: 16 Dec 2023, 07:46 ...And I’ll add just one thing: it’s extremely difficult to find a girl sitting at home, at the computer.
I just have a problem that I am a very shy introvert, and girls also make me afraid that my thoughts are confused in my head

how old are you?
What exactly are you afraid of?.. what can a girl do to you?.. have you tried to see a psychologist?
Do you work?.. what is your job and does it involve working with people?..

Unread post by **Hammer** » 17 Dec 2023, 01:38

And what do you answer to the dreamer? It means he’s not afraid to go to prostitutes and doesn’t mind putting his pussy in his mouth, which has had hundreds of dicks, but meeting an ordinary girl is scary

thoughts are confused, the tongue goes numb and the legs give way

Unread post by **sadman1** » 17 Dec 2023, 02:11

Hammer: 17 Dec 2023, 01:38 And what do you answer to the dreamer? It means he’s not afraid to go to prostitutes and doesn’t mind putting his pussy in his mouth, which has had hundreds of dicks in it, but meeting an ordinary girl makes his thoughts confused, his tongue goes numb and his legs give way

You’re wrong..

Unread post by **Bully Carrie** » 17 Dec 2023, 02:21

Hammer: 17 Dec 2023, 01:38 And what do you answer to the dreamer? It means he’s not afraid to go to prostitutes and doesn’t mind putting his pussy in his mouth, which has had hundreds of dicks, but meeting an ordinary girl is scary thoughts are confused, the tongue goes numb and the legs give way

Yes, even if it’s a fantasy. The case is still good, why not discuss it?

Unread post by **Mud hammer** » 17 Dec 2023, 02:53

I’ve never had, so to speak, a girl. That is, who to go on dates with and plan to marry. And I’m not going to get married. And that’s why there’s no strong desire to get acquainted either. Somehow it happens that for sex it is not necessary to walk with a girl and think about intentions. And if there are problems with appearance, then the girls themselves don’t look. I had several women occasionally and almost all were much older, and, of course, I never thought of marrying any of them. So far everything is fine.

Unread post by **Fargal94** » 17 Dec 2023, 03:16

Surprisingly, you have to be a little rude)
this is from the experience of youth)

Unread post by **Bully Carrie** » 17 Dec 2023, 03:24

Fargal94: 17 Dec 2023, 03:16 Surprisingly, you have to be a little rude)

I would have kicked you off then. The rudeness went around in a big arc, honestly.

Unread post by **Fargal94** » 17 Dec 2023, 03:27

Hooligan Carrie: 17 Dec 2023, 03:24
Fargal94: 17 Dec 2023, 03:16 Surprisingly, you have to be a little rude)
I would have kicked you off then. The rudeness went around in a big arc, honestly.

So the main thing is not to overdo it)

Unread post by **Bully Carrie** » 17 Dec 2023, 03:30

Fargal94: 17 Dec 2023, 03:27 So the main thing is not to overdo it)

I sensed rudeness like a cat smelled freshly cooked chicken, from distant meters)) And I walked around. Well, that is, about rudeness - this is by no means universal advice.

Unread post by **Fargal94** » 17 Dec 2023, 03:33

Hooligan Carrie: 17 Dec 2023, 03:30
Fargal94: 17 Dec 2023, 03:27 So the main thing is not to overdo it)
I smelled rudeness like a cat smelled freshly cooked chicken, from distant meters)) And walked around . Well, that is, about rudeness - this is by no means universal advice.

So I don’t pretend to have a perfect recipe) It depends in what circle and for what purpose)

Unread post by **Bully Carrie** » 17 Dec 2023, 04:00

Fargal94: 17 Dec 2023, 03:33 So I don’t pretend to have a perfect recipe)

And I don’t pretend to be universal)

Unread post by **Hammer** » 17 Dec 2023, 05:28

Hooligan Carrie: 17 Dec 2023, 02:21
Hammer: 17 Dec 2023, 01:38 And what do you answer to the dreamer? It means he’s not afraid to go to prostitutes and doesn’t mind putting his pussy in his mouth, which has had hundreds of dicks, but meeting an ordinary girl is scary thoughts are confused, the tongue goes numb and the legs give way
Yes, even if it’s a fantasy. The case is still good, so why not discuss it?

But what to discuss? In any country there is some small percentage of such men (not brave

and not confident)
Incels and hiccans .Nothing can be done about it.

Unread post by **sadman1** » 17 Dec 2023, 08:58

Hammer: 17 Dec 2023, 05:28 Incels and hiccans. Nothing can be done about it.

It seems that everything is so...

Unread post by **Bully Carrie** » 17 Dec 2023, 09:01

sadman1: 17 Dec 2023, 08:58 It seems that everything is like this...

why did they start the topic if you are a hiccan?

Unread post by **Pierro** » 17 Dec 2023, 09:43

Hammer: 17 Dec 2023, 05:28 Incels and Hiccans

what is this???

Unread post by **ilovebiboys** » 17 Dec 2023, 09:47

TS, of course, is a strange person

I thought about writing something useful on the subject, but what’s the point?

if you are so contactable and verbose on an anonymous forum, I’m afraid to imagine what’s there in real life..

Unread post by **Kalyaev** » 17 Dec 2023, 09:50

Pierro: 17 Dec 2023, 09:43
Hammer: 17 Dec 2023, 05:28 Incels and Hiccans
what is this???

Incels are male individuals who are limited or deprived of the opportunity to have healthy sexual relationships due to an imbalance of sexual partners in an equal society. extreme degree of social isolation and solitude due to various personal and social factors. Such people often do not have a job and live on the support of relatives.
Suddenly they are banned from Google)

Unread post by **Pierro** » 17 Dec 2023, 09:53

Kalyaev: 17 Dec 2023, 09:50 hikki[2] is a Japanese term

Are you Japanese??

Unread post by **Kalyaev** » 17 Dec 2023, 09:55

Pierro: 17 Dec 2023, 09:53 Are you Japanese??

I ate sushi, held a sword, I know the samurai’s motto, I did shibari)
Shielding?)

Unread post by **Pierro** » 17 Dec 2023, 09:56

Kalyaev: 17 Dec 2023, 09:55 I know the division of the samurai

Did they have divisions??

Unread post by **Kalyaev** » 17 Dec 2023, 10:01

Pierro: 17 Dec 2023, 09:56
Kalyaev: 17 Dec 2023, 09:55 I know the division of the samurai
Did they have divisions??

A samurai has no goal, only a path

Unread post by **Pierro** » 17 Dec 2023, 10:03

Kalyaev: 17 Dec 2023, 10:01 A samurai has no goal, only a path

what is the division?)

Unread post by **Kalyaev** » 17 Dec 2023, 10:20

Pierro: 17 Dec 2023, 10:03
Kalyaev: 17 Dec 2023, 10:01 A samurai has no goal, only a path
what is the division?)

someone special)

Unread post by **niqk** » 17 Dec 2023, 10:38

sadman1, I was even curious - you’re quite like that on the forum self-confident person, but what in
life? Clearly you have some kind of internal tension. Try to remove it. The easiest way is to try to meet a girl
on the street: in transport, in a store, or just on the sidewalk. Moreover, now there is ice everywhere, it’s slippery... Offer
some help to a pretty girl in crossing the street and try to interest her in your special one. Even just for
fun! After a few tries it may be successful...

Unread post by **Crossbow** » 17 Dec 2023, 11:50

sadman1: 16 Dec 2023, 06:54 TS, of course, a strange person thought to write something useful on the subject, but what’s the point? if you are so contactable and verbose on an anonymous forum, I’m afraid to imagine what is there in real life..

In Real life it’s usually the other way around, there is a feeling of safety here, I can imagine, that there is a fear of getting closer.

Unread post by **Truwor** » 17 Dec 2023, 15:09

The girl does not flow under the lying guy.